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My name is Stacey. I've been on this site for years. I come and go at times depending on how busy life is.

I've had my share of relationships. And quite a few odd ones at that. I love to give advice when I have been in a similar situation and feel I can help out some. I feel my most common advice is to COMMUNICATE. A lot of people write in about a partner they have been with for years and ask how to tell their partner such and such. A relationship needs communication. Be open and honest always.

I am a newlywed. No children yet. But anyhow, feel free to email me anytime if you need someone to talk to :)

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What am I? Bi, straight, something else?

Q.   I'm unsure about my sexuality. I'm an 18 year old guy, and have always been attracted to girls, I get turned on by girls, and date and have sex with girls. But here's the thing, having sex with another guy where I penetrate them, kiss them, or le...

A.   12 September 2012: I'm a little confused. You first say that letting a man penetrate you or suck you off doesn't bother you. Then you say in the next paragraph it's revolting and you wouldn't be able to go through with it. Have you ever done anything with a man ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is clingy, obsessive and he's driving me mad

Q.   Iv'e been going out with a guy i met at uni since april now and weve been on holiday together,hes met my parents and stayed with us and ive stayed with his parents. im 21 and hes 20 but sometimes i feel like we are soo different in how we view ...

A.   12 September 2012: I don't think you are being hard hearted. And to anonymous, girls want to hear nice things, they don't want to hear their future being planned and how in love the guy is every minute of the day. We would like an inbetween ignoring and overly clingy, ... (read in full...)

I deliberately cheated, but now regret it!

Q.   I recently made the biggest mistake of my life. A girl I've known since forever (seriously, our mothers are best friends and our grandmothers knew each other). Pretty much by default, it was expected we would eventually get together. Well, we did. ...

A.   12 September 2012: The fact that you feel such guilt and care so much for her will probably save you. Telling her will also help the situation. It shows you are honest and upfront and respect her, you didn't necessarily need to tell her you cheated yet you did because ... (read in full...)

What would you think of an otherwise decent woman having a one night stand in the distant past?

Q.   If you were dating a woman of good standing, moral fibre and integrity.... what would you think of her if you found out she made one big mistake several years ago in the form of a one night stand found from the internet? Would who she is today be ...

A.   12 September 2012: I just don't see why you would need to disclose this to anyone. You can share the amount of sexual partners you have had but I don't see why you need to go into detail about each encounter and why. I didn't use to think this way until my current ... (read in full...)

I can't help feeling he's playing games with me

Q.   I used to be friends with this girl and her boyfriend. He seemed really nice. Then she broke up with him very cold heartedly and I refuse to speak to her. He started talking to me on facebook message basically crying over his relationship. Then I ...

A.   11 September 2012: Agreed with honeypie. His flirting and the way he talks to you can very well just be how he acts. A lot of people are very flirtatious by nature, unfortunately it doesn't mean they are into you that way. I think asking you for dating advice sealed ... (read in full...)

Why is it that a guy can have a girlfriend but when his female friend starts dating, he suddenly becomes jealous and possessive?

Q.   Hey all. Tell me, why is it that a guy can have a girlfriend but when his female friend starts dating, he suddenly becomes jealous and possessive? I see this happen all the time! I told my male friend I liked him more than friends. He to...

A.   11 September 2012: He doesn't want to lose the attention he is getting from you. If you move on then he loses someone who is very into him and feeding his ego. Of course he doesn't want that to happen. But you are making the right choice. If he wanted to be with you ... (read in full...)

Should I tell him I'm a virgin? I want the first time to be special.

Q.   Hey everyone I am 23 years old and I am a virgin..I have never really had any serious real relationship,I have just french kissed 2 men that's it..I was just waiting for the right man..now i'm finally in a real relationship but my boyfriend doesn't ...

A.   11 September 2012: If you are in a committed and serious relationship where you are ready to have sex then you should be able to communicate. You definitely need to tell him you are a virgin. This is what relationships are about, talking and feeling close. I'm ... (read in full...)

Can she really be faithful to me?

Q.   I am currently living with my girlfriend whom I've been dating for nearly a year now and she is pregnant with our first child. We fell in love while she was married to another man. I've always been slightly worried if she cheated on him she is ...

A.   11 September 2012: I am always weary of women who cheat and say they are physically abused. My mom has been in an abusive relationship almost her whole life. She couldn't have ever cheated because he didn't allow her out of his site. She is completely controlled and ... (read in full...)

I found my boyfriend has been masturbating on webcam to four other girls

Q.   Hi everyone. So, I've been dating this guy for 6 months - but I found out he had been masturbating on webcam to four other girls, including two girls who I know personally, one of whom used to be one of my best friends a few years back. He also ha...

A.   11 September 2012: I went through a similar situation. I had an ex that I caught he had masturbated to a webcam chick. I had also asked if he did such things. He said he does not. I believed him then later found out I was lied to. The trust was gone completely. He ... (read in full...)

I'm 16 and my 25 year old friend hints that he wants to date me. Is there anything wrong with this?

Q.   Hy. I dont know if this is a bad idea or not. Lately ive been friends with an awesome, kind ,funny an intelligent guy for 8 months. I like him so much. He s been telling me the past whole week that one day 'when the time is right' he would ...

A.   11 September 2012: If you are 20+ then it is okay and up to you, at that point you are an adult and free to make decisions, also you are far more mature. You may feel mature now but you grow a lot between 16 and 20. My husband is 8 years older than I am which is no ... (read in full...)

I'm 16 and my 25 year old friend hints that he wants to date me. Is there anything wrong with this?

Q.   Hy. I dont know if this is a bad idea or not. Lately ive been friends with an awesome, kind ,funny an intelligent guy for 8 months. I like him so much. He s been telling me the past whole week that one day 'when the time is right' he would ...

A.   11 September 2012: I think so. A guy his age should not be wanting to date a 16 year old girl. It is wrong, usually illegal, and not acceptable for most parents or people. It says a lot about his maturity level to go after girls so young and still in high school. If ... (read in full...)

My fiance isn't telling people that we're getting married. Is something up?

Q.   Back in August, my boyfriend and I decided that we will get married this October. We're both have been divorced in the past (no kids), so we're keeping it small and simple (family only). I'm not the type that fusses over engagement rings, big ...

A.   11 September 2012: Maybe because it is a small wedding he doesn't want to tell people he is getting married then have it be awkward when he has to explain they can't come? He's probably trying to avoid it and then just tell them after the wedding that it was a small ... (read in full...)

LDR break up because of my neediness

Q.   It's a typical story. Of a needy girl. I shall begin with 2010. Back then I was with a guy for almost two years, we lived together and bought a new apartment which was not yet ready. I saw it as a very stable relationship so I basically let my...

A.   6 September 2012: That makes sense. He didn't really want to do the LDR to begin with because it's so hard and he was essentially proven right, it is very hard. Don't worry that you won't find another love, you will. Things like this have to happen to teach us about ... (read in full...)

What can I say to get him to stop?

Q.   I split up with my boyfriend last week, we had the stupidest argument he ignored me for a day and told me he didn't want to see me again. He rang me the next day and I ignored him, I set up my facebook account again because he asked me to delete it ...

A.   5 September 2012: I'm shocked he is 40. I was thinking the whole time you were both in teens or early 20's. The first thing you do is block him from calling you and delete his number. Call your phone company or get an app to block the number. If nothing else, change ... (read in full...)

LDR break up because of my neediness

Q.   It's a typical story. Of a needy girl. I shall begin with 2010. Back then I was with a guy for almost two years, we lived together and bought a new apartment which was not yet ready. I saw it as a very stable relationship so I basically let my...

A.   5 September 2012: I read your update just now. I am the same way. I want to be with my significant other every second of the day. I want to know what he is doing at all times. What has happened though is over time I am getting more independent. When I first met my ... (read in full...)

LDR break up because of my neediness

Q.   It's a typical story. Of a needy girl. I shall begin with 2010. Back then I was with a guy for almost two years, we lived together and bought a new apartment which was not yet ready. I saw it as a very stable relationship so I basically let my...

A.   5 September 2012: I am a very clingy person myself. It seems you can't be alone, which I am the same way. I think you moving to Canada was the first mistake. I understand to a degree getting out of this place that reminded you of him, but you left EVERYONE behind. ... (read in full...)

B/f cheated, got her pregnant but says he loves me more. What do I do?

Q.   my boyfriend of 3years cheated on me for 3monthes with a girl much younger than me and even got her pregnant. i found out recently from the girl her self. i asked him but at first he was denying later on he told me the truth but he says he loves me ...

A.   5 September 2012: It isn't a mistake anymore when it lasted for 3 months. One time, possibly. 3 months of lying? No way in hell. He doesn't love you. He says he does to keep you around. If he loved you he wouldn't have lied to you for 3 months. He wouldn't have ... (read in full...)

I unfortunatley set up a pattern where I do the majority of the calling to my BF and am now trying to undo it and it not working!

Q.   Dear all, Please advise. I unfortunatley set up a pattern where I do the majority of the calling to my BF and am now trying to undo it and it not working!! For instance - I saw him last week - all was ok, then I did not hear from him so called hi...

A.   5 September 2012: He could've met someone else, he could be trying to move on, he could just not like making effort. No one knows. What you do is talk to him. Tell him you are sick of calling all the time and want him to call now. If he still doesn't then he doesn't ... (read in full...)

I'm feel very insecure thinking that my girlfriend enjoys masturbating more than sex with me.

Q.   I have been going out happily with my gf for 9 months. I'm 21. Recently however I have been getting very insecure about our sex and whether it is actually good for her. Sure we do it a lot and sometimes she orgasms, some she doesn't. The problem is ...

A.   5 September 2012: Well she is obviously a very sexual person. If you have sex every night and she still masturbates then she just enjoys getting off. I don't think feeling needed is really something to feel. No one really NEEDS someone else to get off, we can all do ... (read in full...)

How can I deal with my sister-in-law's rude comments?

Q.   How can I deal with my sister-in-law's rude comments? I'm still in my second month of marriage and my husband's mother and brother are living with us currently, because they are repairing their home... It's only a matter of a few weeks until they...

A.   5 September 2012: She is obviously a very unhappy person. If you don't feel comfortable speaking with her then do as the other aunts said and ignore her completely. Personally I would say something to the effect of this in response to her insulting my clothes. "Are ... (read in full...)

How do I help my mother and stepdad?

Q.   my stepdad left my mother to be with a girl 25 years younger than him. hes not rich by no means you know not a millionair, but he does makes huge bucks. he met this girl at work she worked in the office and he works as a car sales manager. they have ...

A.   5 September 2012: I agree that your mom should have the alimony mailed to her or given some other way. I don't think she should need to meet him, she probably wants to and secretly hopes he will come around when they meet up. Then is depressed when it doesn't happen. ... (read in full...)

I need advice on how to get over him.

Q.   Ahhh, Where do I start. My boyfriend of a year and a half, and I just recently broke up. I called it quits after I found out that he has been lying about smoking weed. He would smoke after I left his house. And ever since I broke up with him, shits ...

A.   4 September 2012: I've been there. Just out of a relationship where I literally saw him every day and he was pretty much my everything, no outside friends or hobbies really, just us. It's hard and I feel your pain. What I did was keep myself as busy as possible. I ... (read in full...)

If someone is ready to be pleasured how can they not be ready to give pleasure?

Q.   Is something wrong with me? My boyfriend and I (I am a gay man) have been together almost 3 years, we are getting married in November. We live together and have a very open and public relationship. The problem I am having is in the bedroom. Our...

A.   4 September 2012: You are going to marry someone who has never touched you in any sexual way before? That doesn't make sense. He wants to get pleasure from you but won't do a thing himself. Why would you want to marry a man like this? And he freaks out when your ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend used my phone to send himself a picture of my sister's fake boobs

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 8yrs and last year when I was getting ready really early for work I noticed my boyfriends phone receiving a message and I glanced at his phone and noticed the message was from me. I was confused because I had not ...

A.   4 September 2012: I'm sorry but I feel the need to discount what anon just said. First of all, if he wanted to really see the job and how it would affect you then he would've talked to you or asked to see the picture. He sent it to his phone without a word to you. He ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend on an unexpected break what can I do?

Q.   I have posted several times over the past 3 years during my relationship. The last post was regarding an engagement timeline. We did end up setting up a timeline with the goal of living together by the end of July and engagement around the end of ...

A.   4 September 2012: Well he can certainly come back with the ring but then postpone marriage still. People can be engaged for years, I wouldn't be surprised in the slightest if that's what he did so don't be too excited if he does end up coming back, if your end goal ... (read in full...)

Do I leave my wife over breast implants?

Q.   my wife lies to me she had a breast implants done without my permission i dont like it what will i do. leave her?...

A.   4 September 2012: I'm actually surprised at so many answers that it is her body and she can do whatever she wants. I would NEVER EVER even think to go through a major surgery without discussing this with my husband. Sure it is my body, but we are married, we should ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend on an unexpected break what can I do?

Q.   I have posted several times over the past 3 years during my relationship. The last post was regarding an engagement timeline. We did end up setting up a timeline with the goal of living together by the end of July and engagement around the end of ...

A.   3 September 2012: I just read some of your other questions and responses. I'm sorry for all that you have dealt with in this relationship. 3.5 years is such a long time to be content with only seeing someone a few days a week. I don't think he would want it any other ... (read in full...)

Why do women from dating sites lose interest in me so quickly?

Q.   I started using a dating site about two months ago now without very much success. This is mainly because everyone I begin talking to would eventually lose complete interest in me. It never starts out this way however, I'd first hit it off very well ...

A.   3 September 2012: It's a couple of things I think. Texting and email is very different from instant messaging chats and the phone. When talking through IM or phone it is a continuous conversation and you tend to click more. Texting and email doesn't feel like really ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend used my phone to send himself a picture of my sister's fake boobs

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 8yrs and last year when I was getting ready really early for work I noticed my boyfriends phone receiving a message and I glanced at his phone and noticed the message was from me. I was confused because I had not ...

A.   3 September 2012: Ciar and Grymsoul said it perfectly so I wont rehash that. What I will say is that I couldn't forgive it. The only way to live with it is to convince yourself of this lie. Easier said than done. The fact is that he wanted to keep a picture of your ... (read in full...)

My mother forbids me to date my boyfriend even though I'm 18

Q.   This is kinda a long story, although I will try to keep this as short as possible. So here's the deal, my ex and I are trying to get back together but my mother absolutely HATES him and won't let me be with him although I am 18. I have previou...

A.   3 September 2012: Yepp you should sit with her and ask her why. There has got to be reasons and have her tell them to you. Other than that you need to save to get out on your own. I was surprised how many people said it is her house, her rules. That's how my house ... (read in full...)

Should I come right out and ask if she's on her period?

Q.   Okay so normally I know it's not a good idea. But the problem is I've noticed this trend in my girlfriend. At around the beginning of every month (usually around the 5th), She completly ignores me I'm talking she doesn't have any contact with me and ...

A.   3 September 2012: I wouldn't mention it while she is on her period but when it has passed and she is back to her normal self. I wouldn't mind being asked at all, apparently the only female who wouldn't. But since she is so distant that would be a bad time to ask ... (read in full...)

Is it ok that I tell this guy I'm dating (I'm not) just so he won't try to ask me out?

Q.   Hi! I just started my freshman year of college a week ago. It has been a pretty difficult adjustment for me and I'm just trying to hang in there and hope it sorts itself out. Well, one of the problems I had during my first week was this guy in my Fr...

A.   3 September 2012: Lying to say you are in a relationship isnt so much to spare his feelings, but to spare you both the awkwardness. And you wouldn't need to worry about keeping up this lie and getting tangled in a web of lies, you don't even know him so who cares? If ... (read in full...)

Is it ok that I tell this guy I'm dating (I'm not) just so he won't try to ask me out?

Q.   Hi! I just started my freshman year of college a week ago. It has been a pretty difficult adjustment for me and I'm just trying to hang in there and hope it sorts itself out. Well, one of the problems I had during my first week was this guy in my Fr...

A.   3 September 2012: I think it's ok to lie too. That's the most common way women turn men down, to say you have a boyfriend. I think it's easier more than anything else. I don't want to have an awkward mean conversation with someone I don't know and describe the ... (read in full...)

I feel like people show me that being a virgin at my age is like being cursed and it's seriously getting on my nerves.

Q.   Hey. I'm going to turn 20 in two weeks and I'm still a female virgin. Most of my friends had already sex which make me feel a little bit left out. Besides, some of them are really annoying about it. Generally, people don't know about it and They are ...

A.   3 September 2012: Certainly not. I waited until I was in love to have sex the first time too. My sisters had all had sex in their teens, 15 or 16, all 3 of them. I was always very proud of myself for waiting. Just as you should be. I even remember one my friends ... (read in full...)

He broke up and just wants to be friends, I really want him back. What do I do?

Q.   I broke up with my bf 1 month ago there wasnt cheating involved though. I had need dating my bf Chad for 2 years he told me we fighted too much and he just wanted to be my friend. Sometimes I miss him a lot so I texted him begging him to come back ...

A.   3 September 2012: There's nothing you can do unfortunately. He doesn't want to be with you anymore and you need to move on from him. One should never beg for a person, you should want someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them. And begging ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's lack of attraction to other women makes me feel insecure? Why?

Q.   I know this may sound dumb. I think it does, but I just can't figure it out myself. I have been having low self esteem issues ever since my boyfriend and I started dating. We have known each other for a year and have been dating for 8 months. The ...

A.   3 September 2012: Excuse my typos and other issues... Typing answers on my phone isn't a great idea when it spell checks and creates random words I didn't mean to use, lol. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's lack of attraction to other women makes me feel insecure? Why?

Q.   I know this may sound dumb. I think it does, but I just can't figure it out myself. I have been having low self esteem issues ever since my boyfriend and I started dating. We have known each other for a year and have been dating for 8 months. The ...

A.   3 September 2012: I can relate to a lot of what you are saying hear. Starting with never being to you are pretty. Some people just don't give out compliments a lot. Your boyfriend sounds similar to my husband, he doesn't do a lot of compliments either. When I dress ... (read in full...)

What are the best casual dating sites out there?

Q.   I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...

A.   2 September 2012: Again I agree with SVC. I know a man who is red headed, almost obese, long greasy hair and has glasses. Been married for years with 3 kids. I've seen quite a few disgusting customers come into my store, married. You won't listen which I figured ... (read in full...)

I'm a straight A student and he is a skater boy. Should I take the chance with him?

Q.   So all my life, I have been pretty tamed(: I do my school work and get straight-A's (I'm planning on being a doctor). I am a senior this year, 17, and school starts in a couple of days. However, I am so not prepared because my mind is completely ...

A.   1 September 2012: You need to definitely go for it. You like him quite a bit, you have posted 3 different questions about him. Go for it! What's the worst that could happen? If he turns out to be a "partier" or something that doesn't fit you then don't date him. But ... (read in full...)

My online affair is becoming too real

Q.   I am a married man who has been having an online romance with a married woman I have never met for over a year now. This is problem enough, I suppose. However, what makes it worse is that the relationship is becoming more and more real. My lover ta...

A.   1 September 2012: I think it's important to know why you feel the need to talk with this other woman. What is lacking in your marriage that you do not want to speak with your wife? Do you still want to be with your wife but just like the excitement of talking to this ... (read in full...)

What are the best casual dating sites out there?

Q.   I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...

A.   1 September 2012: Again the free sites are garbage. They are free for a reason. I was on plentyoffish for a total of 1 hour before seeing it was nothing serious or what I should be doing. Every man I saw was looking to just hook up and almost every woman was of the ... (read in full...)

What are the best casual dating sites out there?

Q.   I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...

A.   25 August 2012: Ah, I apologize I have no idea where I saw Canada, lol. i was always positive in outlook and sent interesting messages about my interests etc. Maybe you thought they were interesting messages and they didn't come off that way. It's a very real... (read in full...)

What are the best casual dating sites out there?

Q.   I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...

A.   24 August 2012: Well I met my husband on a dating site and have pretty good experience with the different sites. I would first say you need a picture, regardless of how you look. I wouldn't even check out a profile of someone without a picture, for all I know you ... (read in full...)

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