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... Send *tayc63088 a private message | | | *tayc63088's profile:My name is Stacey. I've been on this site for years. I come and go at times depending on how busy life is.
I've had my share of relationships. And quite a few odd ones at that. I love to give advice when I have been in a similar situation and feel I can help out some. I feel my most common advice is to COMMUNICATE. A lot of people write in about a partner they have been with for years and ask how to tell their partner such and such. A relationship needs communication. Be open and honest always.
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How do I get him back without calling him?
Q. my ex boyfriend and i were dating for over a year. we broke up often but got back together within 1 day max. but this time its different. my ex has been having trouble with his step mother and school. hes been charged for plagiarism and has been ...
A. 12 March 2009: The only way you can get him back is by not calling him. Like you said, he chose this. And he is being weird. My boyfriend has done this same thing. Your ex seems to be going through some stuff and is taking it out on you. That or he may have met ... (read in full...)
I love my b/f but I don't want his family. What to do??
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for just over a year now, his parents dont like me, end of, case closed. I stayed over his house one evening and we were talking on the stairs the next day and all his dad said to me was 'move im trying to get upstairs'. ...
A. 11 March 2009: I totally understand and I am going through something similar, minus the kid. My somewhat boyfriend's family hates me. We have fought a lot recently and they attribute it all to me, because they are stupid, and today his dad even said to my ... (read in full...)
21 months after we finished, she's still on my mind. Help me!
Q. Hi there, It's been a year and 8 months since the best relationship of my life ended. It was a long distance relationship, and it lasted 2 years. She's been on my mind a lot today. I've heard her first name said a lot, and heard songs that were ...
A. 7 March 2009: You sound exactly like me. My first love... I still wasn't over him going on close to 2 years afterward. He had a new girlfriend and was doing great. My longest relationship since him was 3 months (no kidding, it really was the same as yours). It ... (read in full...)
Having a very hard time getting over this broken relationship. any tips for healing?
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up and we had a pretty good relationship, but a pretty bad break up.. its been a month and some any tips or stories of how anybody else got over there break ups.. and moved on would be appreciated im hurting really ba...
A. 5 March 2009: I am going through a break up right now as well so I know how you are feeling. Unfortunately mine just happened about a day ago so it's still fresh and very painful. What helps me is to keep busy. It sounds cliche but it really is helping me now. ... (read in full...)
Break up...I'm really not feeling much
Q. i just went through a breakup last night, i didn't cry until this morning and i didnt cry for long, its not like i didnt care i really love this person, but now alls i feel is hate. is this normal?...
A. 5 March 2009: Yes I think it is normal. You are in the angry stage right now. I don't know how long the both of you dated but I have felt this way before. It's like too mad to cry about it, just a lot of anger. But to hate someone you obviously love them still... ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I could ever trust her again...
Q. I recently broke up with my girlfriend of a year. I caught her in several lies involving an ex boyfriend. She felt the need to hang out with him behind my back and tell me she was going elsewhere. Each time she told me she lied to me because she ...
A. 5 March 2009: And I just read the other posters advice and I agree 100%. I was focusing more on why you still want to be with her and how it would go if you tried to make up, but the fact is there, she wants both of you and hasn't decided exactly who she wants to ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I could ever trust her again...
Q. I recently broke up with my girlfriend of a year. I caught her in several lies involving an ex boyfriend. She felt the need to hang out with him behind my back and tell me she was going elsewhere. Each time she told me she lied to me because she ...
A. 5 March 2009: I am going through a break up right now as well. The one thing we all do when breaking up is we think about the good things about the other person and feel like maybe it is fixable out of fear of being alone again. The trust is gone. I lost trust ... (read in full...)
Having change of heart about having abortion
Q. I am going to try to make this quick...I am writing because I need advice very soon. My situation is down to the eleventh hour so to speak. I am pregnant and have had a change of heart,I think??? I really think I want to have this baby and know it ...
A. 18 February 2009: I have never had an abortion nor been in this type of situation, but I do have a sister who lost a baby and know how devastating it is. You can't have an abortion just because of your family. You know in your heart what is right. And btw I am not ... (read in full...)
15 and wanting a baby!
Q. I'm 15 years old, and my boyfriend and I have been trying to have a baby for three months. My boyfriend is 18, and we both have agreed we're ready. We already live together. I don't have to worry about dropping out because I do online schoolin...
A. 18 February 2009: So your boyfriend and father will be supporting this child, not you. You and your boyfriend can't even afford to be on your own, why should you have a child. God this is moronic. You are in a hurry to have a child in your father's basement. And you ... (read in full...)
15 and wanting a baby!
Q. I'm 15 years old, and my boyfriend and I have been trying to have a baby for three months. My boyfriend is 18, and we both have agreed we're ready. We already live together. I don't have to worry about dropping out because I do online schoolin...
A. 18 February 2009: Like I knew you aren't going to listen to any of us. But your decision is a selfish one. Why not wait until you are old enough to have a decent job wth good pay to be able to buy him/her everything she/he needs? If you are so mature then you should ... (read in full...)
15 and wanting a baby!
Q. I'm 15 years old, and my boyfriend and I have been trying to have a baby for three months. My boyfriend is 18, and we both have agreed we're ready. We already live together. I don't have to worry about dropping out because I do online schoolin...
A. 18 February 2009: It'll be the biggest mistake of your life. I feel like what mirrorimg said is exactly right, it's not like you are going to listen to any of us. But you are only 15. I can't tell you how different I am now from when I was 15 and it has only been 5 ... (read in full...)
I am having a baby boy and I need help with names!
Q. HELLO!! I am very excited, and I know this is a relationship site but I would very much appreciate your opinion? I am havinga baby boy in a like two weeks and me and my husband can't agree on the name. We want something powerful and I was think...
A. 17 February 2009: Andrew makes me think of a guy I used to know and basically just a bland name. It means "man, warrior". Edward makes me think of a sophisticated or older wealthy gentlemen. John I always thought was a cute name. I always go online and look for baby ... (read in full...)
The guilt is eating me alive.
Q. I just cheated on my girl friend of one year. I knew it was wrong and once things started to progress from just kissing I had to stop because I just knew that what I was doing was a terrible thing. I told the girl I had to stop and I just went ...
A. 11 February 2009: If you really care a lot and feel you should be punished for what you did then why are you asking us if you should tell her? You should by the way. You can't possibly never tell her. Believe me, things have a way of getting out even if she doesn't ... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to get over the ex when she is my best friend?
Q. Every single website i've seen so far on how to get over a break up says NO COMMUNICATION. But I can't do that. My ex is my best friend, one of my only friends...i dont have many. I want to still be best friends with her, and hang out with her just ...
A. 11 February 2009: A lot of people who break up lose their best friends. My ex and I were best friends, I told him everything and he was THE only person I talked to, I literally had no friends except him. When we broke up I felt completely alone. But talking to him ... (read in full...)
Will this Leo-Virgo woman be compatible with a Capricorn male?
Q. Hello, I'm a 37 year old blue Capricorn tooth brush. She's a 31 year old Leo-Virgo-cusp tooth brush. I am very attracted to her. Do you girlies out there think we are likely to hit it off based on star-sign compatibility alone? Thanking you in ...
A. 5 February 2009: I follow astrological signs but am seriously confused. What in the world does that mean? You are a blue toothbrush..??... (read in full...)
Lose my v-card to him?
Q. So i really need advice because i dont kno if i should lose my virginity right now to this guy..he gets his license in 2 days. only 2 DAYS! and thats how much time i have left to decide because that is when he gets his license. and when he does, he ...
A. 3 February 2009: Yes everyone will tell you not to. The best advice why is because you will remember your first person you had sex with forever. Do you want to lose it to a guy who would have sex with any decent girl? And clearly you care about him so it will only ... (read in full...)
Does Pineapple Juice Make it Taste Better?
Q. Ladies, does drinking pineapple juice and eating fruits really make a man's semen taste better?...
A. 30 January 2009: Yes cranberry juice. Citrus fruits and cranberry juice are recommended, possibly because they make the body's pH more acidic, counteracting the alkalinity of semen that contributes to its "bleachy" quality. I also found this recipe online which will ... (read in full...)
Sensual massage oils...?
Q. I want to surprise my boyfriend on valentine's day with some sensual massage oil and was wondering if anyone had any recommendations? We have used some standard Body Shop and Boots stuff before but I want to splash out a little but am not sure which ...
A. 30 January 2009: Just read the directions and warnings on anything you buy. It will tell you what not to do and what is safe for you.... (read in full...)
Is this relationship normal or really screwed up?
Q. On different occasions in the last 7 months I have posted questions regarding my relationship with my boyfriend. Just yesterday I realized how many different problems, big problems, we have that I have posted and asked for advice on. And now I'm ...
A. 30 January 2009: Thank you both for the advice. For the anonymous poster, I am not scared of him. I meant fear of being with him in a totally different way. Like scared to get married, cold feet type of way, do you know what I mean? Not that we are getting married ... (read in full...)
Sensual massage oils...?
Q. I want to surprise my boyfriend on valentine's day with some sensual massage oil and was wondering if anyone had any recommendations? We have used some standard Body Shop and Boots stuff before but I want to splash out a little but am not sure which ...
A. 29 January 2009: My boyfriend and I use KY massage 2-in-1 warming lubricant. Like it says it is 2-in-1 so you can use it as lubricant as well as massage oil. Since it is warming it feels amazing as massage oil. Also on the website www.ky.com you can go into the ... (read in full...)
Does Pineapple Juice Make it Taste Better?
Q. Ladies, does drinking pineapple juice and eating fruits really make a man's semen taste better?...
A. 29 January 2009: Yepp, pineapple and pineapple juice makes it taste better. Another good one is cranberry juice. Any fruit or fruit juice high in sugar content will make cum taste better. Of course since sweet things make you taste better, there are things that can ... (read in full...)
They just started going out and she flips because he didn't propose!
Q. My buddy's dating a new girl. He's looking to settle down and he thinks she great but I think he's tolerating too much. Am I way off on this? I think the fact he's looking for get married soon is affecting his perception. They've been g...
A. 28 January 2009: I don't think there is a problem with you letting him know you are worried for him. Girls tell their friends all the time when the girl's boyfriend is a jerk etc, what's the difference? The only thing I would say is don't insult her to him. Why not ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to become infatuated with someone on TV?
Q. This is weird, but is it possible to become infatuated with like someone on TV? I wouldn't really say it about myself, but I was just curious as to whether it can really happen. Thanks....
A. 28 January 2009: Oh certainly. I have gone through a few phases myself, usually not lasting any longer than a month or so. There are some crazies out there who stalk celebrities so it definitely exists. But normal people can become infatuated with celebrities ... (read in full...)
Help me choose between two men!
Q. Please help me chose between these 2 men, I feel like I love both of them. Please dont judge me, I really need some perspective on this. Man A Healthy Own House Car Car License Great Job Rather Anti-Social Independent Stubborn Funny W...
A. 28 January 2009: I know it may not be what you want to hear but neither. If one of them was the right one for you then there would be no problem choosing. It seems like more superficial things you are deciding between, and I'm not judging you since I have been in a ... (read in full...)
I created a fake ID and now I don't know how to tell everyone...
Q. I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this problem.. but here goes anyway. I created a fake myspace profile around a year ago. At the time, I'd lost most of my friends, social life and honestly, I was so depressed and the fake seemed a ...
A. 28 January 2009: Wow, 13 answers and very few has anything to do with the question. I am disappointed that it could go so far between two aunts meant to help. Anyway the best advice is to let it go and erase the account. Why not have an account for yourself? You had ... (read in full...)
What can I wear that will make him just say, "Damn she's Hot!"
Q. Going out on a third date with this guy I'm dating. Not sure what to wear to a club. What will make him just say, "Damn she's Hot!" And make him want to take me back to his apartment, rip my clothes right off, and have his way with me...Ummm not ...
A. 23 January 2009: Anything tight, showing a little cleavage and tummy. Either a skirt or tight jeans/pants. A nice low cut shirt that might also show a little tummy. But the previous poster is right, don't show too much. You want to look sexy, not like a tramp. You ... (read in full...)
Unsure if we're compatible...
Q. Unsure if we're compatible?!? He's a Gemini and I'm a Virgo. Both born 1981. ...
A. 23 January 2009: Wow I've been answering a lot of zodiac questions these days! Ok well I have a book called "The Only Astrology Book You'll Ever Need". By Joanna Martine Woolfolk.
VIRGO AND GEMINI: They are attracted to each other because of a mutual interest... (read in full...)
My BF's parents hate me, should I stick it out and fight for him?
Q. Thank you for reading... Well I've been with my boyfriend for four months now and things were going amazingly well. We're happy together and truly love each other more than anything... But there's one major problem... Recently my boyfriend's p...
A. 22 January 2009: It's easy to say to fight but you are both young. And it's easy to tell you to fight for him when they haven't been through it. Could you deal with this until he has the money and means to move out on his own? And is he willing to cut off his ... (read in full...)
Lost and Confused...Aries and Aquarius!
Q. Here is the gist of the story. I met this guy in Cali I don't live there but visit often for the past 10 years. He is a friend of a relative for six years and we've never formally met each other but had to have passed by each other countless times. ...
A. 22 January 2009: Are you still currently with your husband? If so, then you shouldn't do anything. If you are divorced then my advice is to go for this man. Unless of course you can't handle the family "drama". Personally I wouldn't care what drama I caused with my ... (read in full...)
Creative thoughts on where to hold the wedding??
Q. Hi Creative Cupiders, My fella and I are planning on getting married sometime in the next year (hooray!)... here's the issue: we met when I made an impromptu move to the West coast (without the intention of staying, but love happens where/wh...
A. 21 January 2009: Where does your fiance want to have the wedding? Would he mind going to the east coast since your family doesn't have much money and you have A LOT of members that would need to travel? I don't think it would be like you winning, just coming ... (read in full...)
I need some insight on Virgo men... any Zodiac experts?
Q. I have recently gone on a date with a Virgo man and was wondering if anyone can give me some insight on them. We had a wonderful time and a lot of fun and he has called a few times since the date. (It's only been a week since the date). I am an ...
A. 21 January 2009: Oh and again the book is called "The Only Astrology Book You'll Ever Need" by Joanna Martine Woolfolk. It has so much information on everything about his sign and yours and you both together, how to attract a virgo or any other sign, etc. It also ... (read in full...)
I need some insight on Virgo men... any Zodiac experts?
Q. I have recently gone on a date with a Virgo man and was wondering if anyone can give me some insight on them. We had a wonderful time and a lot of fun and he has called a few times since the date. (It's only been a week since the date). I am an ...
A. 21 January 2009: I dated a virgo once and he was completely honest. Wanted a committed relationship. Wasn't too affectionate, like he didn't use the cutesy nick names. He was very clean too. I have a whole book on astrology and I can look up what it says for your ... (read in full...)
Her ex has porno of her/him on the internet!
Q. This one is very complicated I could use some advice on how to proceed. I found pictures on an internet site of my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years having sex with her ex and this has created a tonne of problems. First off we haven't ever really discu...
A. 21 January 2009: You need to tell her. She needs to know pictures of her are on the internet. I would want to know. Both of you need to go to her ex together and she needs to tell him the pictures are going to be taken off the site or she will seek legal action. If ... (read in full...)
Would a man get offended if a woman told him his penis was beautiful?
Q. Lol just wondering, would a man be offended if a woman told him that his penis was beautiful? Or would he be flattered??...
A. 21 January 2009: Hell I think he would be beyond flattered. It's like you thought up the best word possible for how much you love his penis. There would be no reason to get offended. If anything he might laugh his ass off but then it would be funny. I'll say it to ... (read in full...)
Why won't he have sex with me until I express my feeelings to him?
Q. I was supposed to be friends with benefits with this guy but the guy doesn't wanna do anything until I tell him how I feel about him. He says he's sensitive and that he's not like other guys. Why won't he have sex with me until I express my ...
A. 21 January 2009: Sounds like he cares about you and he doesn't think of sex as just sex. I've watched a special on friends with benefits and it proves it just won't work. One of the people ends up falling for the other everytime. It sounds like he already ... (read in full...)
He just likes to look at porn ALL NIGHT, and jerk off..
Q. OKay so, I talked to him last night about the asian porn and everything he lusts after.. I told him. When I stress it's not good for the baby.. And he told me porn is fine.. And I said "every day" He was just well, there's the door if you don't like ...
A. 21 January 2009: Who cares what he says? You aren't going to whore around. For god's sake you are pregnant. I'm not going to lie, I don't have a clue what is wrong with this man. He would rather watch porn than have sex. Has it only been like this since you are ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance? I like a guy with a g/f!
Q. Dear Cupid, There is this guy I see around school. He's really cute. However, he's two years older than me and has a girlfriend. I'm never been attracted to a boy more then I do now. He's always looking at me. Even when he's with his girlfriend. ...
A. 21 January 2009: Possibly. But wait until they break up to make any moves. If you were to end up dating by him cheating on her with you or him dumping her for you then you will wonder later on if he is going to do that to you too. So be patient. Be his friend now. ... (read in full...)
Is this a date?
Q. My friend and I have never been to the movies alone. This will be our first time going. I like him, but I'm not sure how he feels ... Is this a date?...
A. 21 January 2009: You can always ask. Or if you aren't too forward or don't want to risk embarrasment if it is not a date, then a good way to tell is if he pays. But then again I have been out with guy friends who will pay just because. Try to feel him out. If he is ... (read in full...)
I really like him but he's such a manwhore! Lose it? Or not?
Q. Ok i REALLY need to hear some advice and decide something. because my friend is gettin his license in a week and a half and he plans on fucking. we met over a year ago and our relationship is purely sexual even tho im a virgin. from sending ...
A. 21 January 2009: I personally don't feel you should have sex with him. By how you are talking it sounds like lust, not love. Losing your virginity to someone you love is soo much better. Although I know not many girls do it. And if he only wants sex and you do fall ... (read in full...)
Are we closely related? or not?
Q. I have something i would like to talk about and ask questions about. Okay I am in a relationship now for 6 1/2 months. The thing is that I found out that we were cousins!! But here is how it is. His Great great grandmother is my dads sister! So ...
A. 21 January 2009: It sounds confusing to me. You are cousins but I'm not good with this type of stuff. All I can say is you seem far apart and if it doesn't bother both of you and you love him then who the hell cares? You are both old enough to make your own decision ... (read in full...)
Difference between gut feeling & being paranoid
Q. Hi, After a partner has cheated how to you differenciate between "am I just been paranoid" or is this "my gut feeling". My b/f cheated last year. We're trying to work things out and it seems to be fine. We live apart which dosent help me at all e...
A. 21 January 2009: The difference for me is when I can tell myself "oh I'm just being paranoid" and when I honestly believe/know it is what he is doing. Of course even gut feelings can be wrong, although I can't remember a time when mine was. My specific example would ... (read in full...)
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