Why do men cheat? I am so disgusted with my boyfriend!
Q. why do men cheat? my boyfriend of 5 years has cheated on me... I have tried to forgive him and move forward but its hard... instead of talking about my feelings to him I just bottle them up... it is so difficult... I kiss him and I think of her ...
A. 16 November 2008: I would like to answer your question.. ' WHY DO MEN CHEAT ' and the answer is 'BECAUSE WOMEN DO THE SAME'
Did you like what i said.? Obviously not.. So, never generalize..... (read in full...)
How posessive is normal?
Q. How possessive do guys feel over their girls?Does anyone feel possessive when a 8 year old kid hugs your girl?...
A. 20 October 2008: Are you in the "First" year of your Relationship...?
I know 99.99% of the people here would say it is NOT Normal, by being an Indian i understand what you're saying.. !! It's quite NORMAL.. !!
And to people who r saying that "Being possesive... (read in full...)
How can I get my boyfriend to let go of my sexual past?
Q. Hey all! Right im 16 and ive been with my boyfriend for around 8 months, ive nown him since i was around 7. When i was 15 years old i did some bad things, i went on holiday and got in with the wrong crowd, it was 4 weeks of alcohol and boys,...
A. 25 August 2008: It's NORMAL and let me tell you, He LOVES YOU... !! It hurts a Guy's EGO when he imagines someone touching his girl sexually.. Hez actually thinking too much into it and probably thinking that you did much more... Then he feels that someone has... (read in full...)
If you have sex once, and your hymen is not completely torn, will it heal with time?
Q. Hi, I was wondering if it's possible for like, if you have sex once, and maybe don't tear the hymen completely...after time and time goes by, can the hymen heal??...
A. 25 August 2008: It Hurt....? Did it bleed....? HURT hasn't got much to do with your hymen.. The questions you need to ask yourself are, Were you ready for sex..? Were you completely wet...? As far as the Hymen goes, that is not an issue, coz a torn hymen cannot ... (read in full...)
If you have sex once, and your hymen is not completely torn, will it heal with time?
Q. Hi, I was wondering if it's possible for like, if you have sex once, and maybe don't tear the hymen completely...after time and time goes by, can the hymen heal??...
A. 24 August 2008: No, and that won't make a difference... If you're concerned about Bleeding, then you'll bleed again and nobody would know if your heymen is completely torn or partially...... (read in full...)
My friend saw me kissing my boyfriend at the bus stop last night ... but I was at my sister's house all night. Could he be cheating?
Q. Hey Well..!! basicly! im mega mega pissed off with my so called boyfriend and really dont know what to do! right so last night i was stayin at my sisters and my boyfriend phoned me askin if i wanted to go n meet him so i said i couldnt cos i wa...
A. 24 August 2008: WEll, Id beg to differ...
I'd first like to know if you have DIRECTLY asked your BF.. Maybe ur friend has a crush on you and wants to create differences between you and your BF... ;)... (read in full...)
I just got my period, and for three nights prior to that, I had intense sexual dreams, I get turned on during the day by anything, is this a part of PMS, and will this continue, it is embarrassing?
Q. Okay kind of an embarrassing question but... I just got my first-ever period yesterday and for three nights beforehand, I was having intense sex dreams and I'd get turned on during the day by just about anything. Lol is that like part of PMS? Is ...
A. 24 August 2008: That's Okay honey...
Thats bcoz of you harmones, you'll be at your sexual peak for quite a period.. Just accept it but be careful. You don't wanna commit any mistake...
Don't go for sex or any such activity before you're 18.. ;)
G'day... (read in full...)
Now he wants to take photos of us during sex. I think it will be fun and sexy. How can we do this?
Q. My boyfriend and I find each other attractive. He has taken photos of me in the nude and I have taken photos of him naked as well. Now he wants to take photos of us during sex. I think it will be fun and sexy. How can we do this? What advic...
A. 24 August 2008: My Advice...?
Don't go for it.. You don't want your photos and videos on the internet.. Do you..?
But, if you decide to do it, Buy yourself a Video cam and just shoot through your entire play... As simple as that... But, I would guide you to... (read in full...)
How can I tell when a woman is sexually aroused?
Q. I have a question about arousal. How can I tell when a woman is sexually aroused? Is this something that you can tell when a woman is fully clothed or is this only noted when she is in the nude? At this point is she ready for intercourse or i...
A. 24 August 2008: Well,
I did not actually understand your question... You wanna know if the girl is ready for Intercouse or just sexually aroused... I'll explain both
While having sex, if the girl is Dripping wet from her vagina, shez ready for intercouse. ... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm pregnant and don't know anyone old enough to buy the morning after pill.
Q. I'm Stephanie, I'm 13 and I've had sex about 2 days ago and that was my first time ever. I'm afraid I might be pregnant and I don't know anyone legal age besides family to buy me the morning after pill!!!! help please!...
A. 15 August 2008: There nothing as AGE to buy the morning pill.. So, don't worry.. Just go and buy it before it is too late.. You have to take one within 72 hours.. The sooner, the better..
A pill taken before 24 hours gives 98% results.. From 24 to 48 hours gi... (read in full...)
I'm a 12 year old girl and I'm obsessed with boobs and sex and having sex, what should I do?
Q. im a 12 year old girl and im obsessed with boobs and sex and having sex, what should i do?...
A. 15 August 2008: Don't indulge in sex for the next 6 years is what i would advice you.. DON'T WATCH PORN, it will ruin your life..
At your age, it is pretty normal to feel that way.. So don't be upset.. You just need to keep calm and keep yourself busy in other... (read in full...)
If a guy had cum on his fingers and he fingers a girl, could she become pregnant?
Q. hi i just wondernding if you could help me when a boy fingeres a girl and he had cum on his fingers would the girl feel this? im so worried im pregnant even tho i aint due till next week please help x...
A. 15 August 2008: YES.. There are as many chances to get pregnant as in a normal intercourse.. Sperm entered in your vagina in any manner could lead to pregnancy..
I would request you to Please not indulge in any sexual activity at such a tender age without ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed the first couple of times you have sex?
Q. Ive had sex with my boyfriend twice.I've bled here and there both times and my vagina seems to be really tight.We both decided to lose our virginity to each other and we trust one another. What should I do about my vagina being so tight and is ...
A. 15 August 2008: I agree.. Your tightness is something that he would probably LOVE.. We guys are Suckers for tight vaginas .. So just take it off your mind and lubricate it properly.. Good luck. ... (read in full...)
My period is a week late and now I can't get the feeling out of my mind that I'm pregnant. HELP!
Q. i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few weeks ago and i was due for my period a week ago btu havn't yet came on,, i can be irregular but what should i do?,, we did use protection but i can't get the feeling out of my head that i could ...
A. 15 August 2008: Calm down girl.. A late period does not surely mean a pregnancy.. It could be late just because you were under stress..
Look for the other signs like breast soreness, urge to pee whole day.. Feeling of vomit, frequent headaches, gain of weight, ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed the first couple of times you have sex?
Q. Ive had sex with my boyfriend twice.I've bled here and there both times and my vagina seems to be really tight.We both decided to lose our virginity to each other and we trust one another. What should I do about my vagina being so tight and is ...
A. 13 August 2008: Try the KY jelly.. It's a good lubricant.. But i sincerely don't fancy using lubricants.. Just have a lot of foreplay and get yourself very wet.. That's the BEST lubricant..
As far as bleeding.. It's normal for virgins, so don't worry.. But it s... (read in full...)
I think I'm pregnant but I'm not sure I need advice??
Q. I have a problem. Recently I had sex with my lover and we were stupid enough not to use a condom but he managed to ejaculate away from me and not inside my vagina. Now ive missed my period and im showing some early signs of pregnancy. Im worried and ...
A. 13 August 2008: Well, don't worry about the signs.. Whenever you FEAR getting pregnant, all these signs would appear out of nowhere.. They are actually the sign of STRESS..
First calm down and as we keep no repeating, THE ONLY WAY TO FIND OUT YOU'RE PREGNANT... (read in full...)
Is this normal for a man to be so strict with his girl sometimes but so loving and caring other times?
Q. My boyfriend tends to be kinda strict in our relarionship. If I do something immature or say something that is immature and dont act my age which is 21 he kinda gets upset with me and asks me why I said that or why I did that. The thing is he is 21 ...
A. 11 August 2008: I would keep that short..
YES ... Trust me it's very normal... At this age Guys more often then not are like that..
He would one day ask you Not to go out with friends, the other day he would ask you to go out and freshn us.. That's how w... (read in full...)
I am very curious, not my problem, but, does the size of ones' penis matter?
Q. this aint something from me personally but its something im curious about because all men worry about it and its something everyones spoken about but i want your opinion so can you please let me know does penis size matter? ...
A. 11 August 2008: Well 'yes' and 'no' ...
Actually it's Not the size of the Penis, it's what you do with it. A woman's vagina is sensitive only upto 2 inches deep. So, practically she does not feel anything beyond it.. But, sometimes the FEELING of having a big pe... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get pregnant, after having sex on the first day of my period?
Q. can i become pregnant after havin sex on the first day of my period,...
A. 11 August 2008: Well, There are less than 1 percent chances of you getting pregnant.. The only way you can get pregnant is if the sperm keeps hiding somewhere in your vagina and fertilizes you later.. It it VERY UNLIKLY.. ... (read in full...)
What signs should I look for that would tell me I'm pregnant?
Q. ok im 15 and i had un protectedsex about 4 times and i dont know if im pregant i wanna know how do u know if ur pregant when u have sex like every day what sign should i look for right now im so stupid i just need help and with my mom moving out of ...
A. 9 August 2008: You know what.? You would never really know without a pregnancy test. That is because most of the sex After effects feel like pregnancy. Like, breast gets sour in pregnancy but it might also be a reason of rough sex. You will feel a lot of fatigue ... (read in full...)
What can I do to please my BF also during my period? We're getting bored of foreplay.
Q. basically, ive been on my period for 2 (nearly 3) months and i've not been able to please my partner the way id like to. we're getting bored of foreplay and the doctor said he cant do anything about it....anyone got any advice? [Moderator's note...
A. 7 August 2008: A PERIOD THAT LONG? Well, in any case sex in periods can be a discomfort. Especially the bad odour and strains the girl has to go through. You can try switching places of sex from bedroom to bathroom or study room. Other than that, there ain't much ... (read in full...)
Will masturbating stunt my growth?
Q. Hi i am 13 and i am starting to hit puberty and i always find my self getting really horny and it turns to a result of masturbating. after masturbating for quite a while i now have veins i can see really clear in my penis that i didnt see before, ...
A. 6 August 2008: Naah... It's very Normal my friend.. Actually Masturbating does more Good than Harm.. Masturbating can relieve you at times and give you relaxation...
As far as the veins are concerned, masturbate or don't masturbate, they Would grow at this age.... (read in full...)
He wants to know my fantasies... but they are SO dirty, I don't think he could handle it.
Q. My boyfriend wants me to tell him my fantasies, but I'm so nervous. Some of them are really DIRTY. For example, I have rape fantasies, one of the most common I know, but kind of hard to explain. Especially since I want it rough. Not just him taking ...
A. 6 August 2008: Our fantasies are our Very Personal desires. I don't think you need to share them. Just a tip, if you ever tell him, CHOOSE YOUR WORDS PROPERLY. Don't say 'RAPE FANTASY' rather say 'FORCED SEX FANTASY' ... You understand.?
Basically you just wan... (read in full...)
I'm engaged but I find one of my male friends very sexy, Is this okay?
Q. I'm 19 and I am in a very loving relationship that has lasted about 4 years almost, I'm engaged and very much in love with my fiancee. The problem is I find one of my male friends very attractive, and I dont know if is normal to find anyone else but ...
A. 6 August 2008: Yes honey. You WILL find guys around you sexy and hot. That's because you're really Normal. Not finding them sexy would be actually abnormal.
To put it simply, you will find guys around you sexy and hot, more so at this age.. What matters is your... (read in full...)
We've been married for 18 months and she's still a virgin! What can I do?
Q. Hi, I have been married since March '07 (nearly 18 months ago), I love my wife to pieces but am extremely stuck on this. She was a virgin when we started going out, but the problem is she is still a virgin now. We've been together since '03, and...
A. 6 August 2008: Look buddy.... That's NOT NORMAL... I am sorry to say but it seems as if she has a disorder. Or, she might just be a homosexual. It's actually quite weird that you're married her for so long and not had sex. That's next to impossible actually...
... (read in full...)
This guy is pressuring me to take my clothes off....what do I do??
Q. Ive been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks now and he keeps trying to pressure me into taking my clothes off. I keep saying no because Im not comfortable with that yet as its too soon. But I do like him. Anyway, today he said something to me ...
A. 3 August 2008: A REAL MAN would never force sex or any such activity. No guy with a good MOral character would ask you to take your clothes off in the first place. And definitely not if you've refused once. DUMP HIM... There are guys who want girlfriends.. An... (read in full...)
Men, how exactly are masturbation and 'the real thing' different?
Q. Just wondering how different does masturbating feel comparing to real sex for men. I am not talking about the emotional but strictly the physical aspect of it. Such as the difference in sensation between using a hand and thrusting in a vagina and if ...
A. 3 August 2008: Masturbation is actually 'nothing' in comparison to the REAL THING. The warmth and wetness inside the vagina cannot be matched by anything. Even i blow job does'nt rank near the intercourse. The feeling of entering inside a woman's vagina cannot b... (read in full...)
I'm not having sex, but I've missed a period and have cramping pains and white gunk. What should I do?
Q. i am 14 and i first had my period in Feb. this year. This last month in May i missed my peroid. I have been having this white gunk coming out i have also been having pains that feel like cramps but their not. I have never had sex. my mom is very ...
A. 27 May 2008: What you are going through is juat a "Part of Life" ... !! Every girl goes through the same Period once in her life.. !! You are Changing, your body is changing and it would take it's toll on you.. !!
Skipping a period in the first few Months i... (read in full...)
Am I bipolar? I've been saying mean and hurtful things to my boyfriend.
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I am truely in love with him. I have recently for the past 3 months been really mean to him. I will say mean and hurtful things like call him fat and ugly. I tell him that I don't want to be with ...
A. 27 May 2008: We "speak" what we "think" .. !!
Control your thoughts.. !! Are you worried about your BF being Ugly or Fat...? Did someone call him that and you felt bad..? Does your Best Friend have a much handsome Guy...? There can be numorous reasons.... (read in full...)
Is it so bad to cheat on my boyfriend with my ex? My bf has not been able to satisfy me sexually...
Q. i cheated on my boyfriend.. w my ex................. i dnt want to be back with him but i have been dating my current bf for 5 months. He was a vifgin and has not been able to satisfy me sexually. He tries and has gotten somewhat better ... he cant ...
A. 27 May 2008: Hey,
SEX is just a Part of life.. !! You must take it as it comes.. !! "Cheating" for any reason is "Not allowed" .. I wouldn't be too Harsh with you but at this age you must know what you are doing.. !!
Come on, I can very well understand ... (read in full...)
3 days after losing my virginity I am sore, is this normal?
Q. i lost my virginity the other day, the guy i did it with didn't use a condom. now 3 days after sex my vagina has an odour and is sore. i also bled straighy after sex. is this normal? ...
A. 27 May 2008: It is normal to Bleed and be Sore for a Few days.. !! The oduor may be of the Sprem your guy left inside... Or it can even be a Sexually Transmitted Infection.. !! If the smell lasts for over a week, you would need to see your doctor.. !!
Next,... (read in full...)
Please help! Could I be pregnant??
Q. right im 15 years old and female, and last night i lost my virginity. stupidly i was drunk and he didnt use a condom, but before he was about to cum he took his penis out. i am not on the pill, nor did i take the morning after pill. i am scared that ...
A. 27 May 2008: The pill taken within 12 hours gives 98% Successful result.. !! 12-24 gives 75% , 24-48 gives 60% and 48-72 hrs is 52% successful.. !! The pill is available for Rs.75 in India.. Which is approx close to US $2 ..
Plz take a pregnancy test if you g... (read in full...)
Please help! Could I be pregnant??
Q. right im 15 years old and female, and last night i lost my virginity. stupidly i was drunk and he didnt use a condom, but before he was about to cum he took his penis out. i am not on the pill, nor did i take the morning after pill. i am scared that ...
A. 26 May 2008: You can STILL take the morning Pill... Take it within 72 hrz after having sex.. !!
Coming to the Point of getting Pregnant.. !! Yes, you can get pregnent..!! This is the MOST UNSAFE TIME of having sex.. 14 days from your period you are meant to... (read in full...)
Will he ever come back and if so could I trust him?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I are 20 and were together for 2 years, we were at school togther and i met him when i was 16. I was so happy with him and i thought he was with me, we were serious, had been on holiday with each others families, met all each ...
A. 26 May 2008: Hey laurenzee,
Look, you need to understand that it's a Very common story with the people who fall in love at 16. At that age, we don't really know what we want.. Since u r 20 now, you would understand what i mean.. In almost every other relation... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend reject my suggestions on where and when to go out and how can we resolve this issue?
Q. My boyfriend rejects my suggestions on where/when to go out. We’re in a long distance relationship which I feel insecure about as I’m unsure when I’m going to see him again. At first, my boyfriend was an attentive, loving and caring man (I think ...
A. 25 May 2008: Lack of interest.. !! Lack of Fear to lose.. !! Dear, What happens is that We guys start a relation with so much Passion that therez almost nothing left after a few months.. !! When we are insecure about our girl, we'll meet her whenever we get... (read in full...)
Just wanted a third party's opinion to see if I was overreacting or not. Thanks!
Q. Ok, my boyfriend of 9 months is friends with his ex girlfriends, mostly from another state, but I'm insecure about that and he knows this. I've been trying to be more understanding, but I'm beginning to think that my jealousy isn't that strange. One ...
A. 24 May 2008: I can understaind your Reaction... !!
(1) You are not into talking too much to anyone other than him
(2) He talks to his Ex.
It always bothers us more when our partner does something that we won't do. You just need to tell him that you're ... (read in full...)
For the past few months my periods have been pretty light-why?
Q. hello, for the past few months my periods have been pretty light, like the first day or 2 its normal, but after that its really light and seems like its going to end but keeps going for the rest of the week just really light. I haven't reall...
A. 24 May 2008: That's pretty normal.. !! You're still Growing and your periods depends a lot on your surroundings, stress, food, exercise etc etc.. !! The fact that you're compleating your cycle is just enough for you to Chill.. !! Periods can be Thick and Lig... (read in full...)
Can a gynacologist tell if you are a virgin?
Q. Hi, I was wondering if a GYN could guess whether or not you are a virgin by looking at your hymen ? I'm 22 and a virgin BTW....
A. 24 May 2008: NO .. Only you can tell... !! We need to understand one thing here.. "virginty has noithing to do with hymen" ... A person loses virginity after having sex.. !! Would you consider a Girl whose hymen broke through exercise a non-virgin..? ... (read in full...)
More than half a year and she won't tell me how she feeels. Should I wait?
Q. I am in need of desperate help, I've been with my girlfriend for more than half a year and she has yet to tell me how she feels, she keeps telling me she'll tell me soon and needs more time to think. She doesn't seem to talk much to me and isn't ...
A. 24 May 2008: Hey Mate..
Look, You can't wait for her to "develop" feeling for you.. !! She either has feelings for you or Not... !! As simple as that.. !!
You know what, sometimes these girlz like to keep the guy hanging, That is to increase their V... (read in full...)
There was no cheating in our relationship. We had problems just like any other couple has. I was with him for a year. Why is he so afraid of me?
Q. Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. When I see him, he act like he's holding something back that he trully wants to say to me. When I say him again, I approached him and we had a good conversation. I told him that I still had feelings for him, he ...
A. 24 May 2008: Sometimes we forget that if "Both" the partners take one step each towards each other, the distance between them reduces much faster...
Do you have reasons to WAIT and not take a Step further...? The guy did, he kept staring at you and gave you... (read in full...)
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