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I've had my share of relationships. And quite a few odd ones at that. I love to give advice when I have been in a similar situation and feel I can help out some. I feel my most common advice is to COMMUNICATE. A lot of people write in about a partner they have been with for years and ask how to tell their partner such and such. A relationship needs communication. Be open and honest always.
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Should I cut off a 22 year friendship for my girlfriend?
Q. Hello everyone. I have an ex girlfriend from High School that I am still very good friends with. We live 5 blocks away from each other. Speak to each other 3 or 4 times a week. See each other twice a week. But this is only because we are in the same ...
A. 6 November 2010: Honestly that sounds extremely frequent to see a friend. I would get jealous too. This is a topic I really think depends on a person's point of view. Some believe a friendship with the opposite sex is perfectly fine and normal, others just aren't ... (read in full...)
I think her behavior was very disrespectful and self-centered
Q. Yesterday, I got home from work and drove to go eat dinner with her. During the dinner, she said she had cravings for ice cream afterward. I told her we can go to our usual place and get some. We walked to the car after finishing dinner, and she ...
A. 5 November 2010: Agreed with both posters but must add that you sound like a very sweet boyfriend! To get her ice cream anyway even though she was all pissy... So sweet. She needs to grow up. I can't even understand such behavior. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I are taking a break. But he doesn't stop calling me
Q. So... My boyfriend and I are taking a break. But he doesn't stop calling me. HE decided to take a break to think about things. He needs to thinks about what he wants, and get his head sorted out cause he noticed after nine months that this wa...
A. 5 November 2010: I went through something similar with a boyfriend. HE broke up with ME yet texted and emailed all the time. It drove me insane. Like how do you get over him when he calls all the damn time? And it's like you hope he wants to date again since he is ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend so awkward during sex?
Q. Why is my boyfriend so awkward sexually?? Let me give you a few examples: 1. His idea of dirty talking is girly moaning followed by phrases like "ooh you do it so good" and "f*** my d*** good baby" these aren't exactly the things a girl wants to ...
A. 3 November 2010: I believe in open communication and complete honesty. Any time I had a problem with an ex be it bad kissing or bad sex I would flat out say I had a problem with it. My current boyfriend for example, terrible kisser the first time... Mouth was too ... (read in full...)
Any girls over 18 have a crush on Justin Bieber?
Q. Are there any girls older than 18 who think the teen singer Justin Bieber is very good looking?...
A. 3 November 2010: Nah not at all. His type I see come and go as a preteen's obsession. Like Jesse McCartney (or whoeever he was) and Aaron Carter (he was popular right..?) I was never into the super popular boys or boy bands even 10 years ago. Haha, like Hanson... ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to think of a way to get really good revenge on my ex
Q. I hate my ex girlfriend. And I can't stop thinking about getting revenge on her. First I will give you some background on the situation. My girlfriend and I dated for 3 years. The last year we lived together. When we didn't live together I thought ...
A. 31 October 2010: I don't have much more to add but must agree completely with Irish. Seeking revenge on a girl who is already in another relationship will only make you look extremely crazy and pathetic. She has moved on. Even if you haven't completely, atleast act ... (read in full...)
I would like to see her more often but I don't think she feels the same way...
Q. Hi. I am in a new relationship about 16 days. We met with each other from a social networking website. Our first date was great. Afterwards, the problems began. She was and is talking about freedom, her own personal space etc. and i told that it's ...
A. 31 October 2010: Exactly! I know the feeling, like you hope she will come around to hanging out more often. More than likely not. And there is nothing wrong with you so don't try to change!! Just because she wants to see a boyfriend twice a week does not make her ... (read in full...)
I broke up with my jealous LDR boyfriend. Did I make the right choice?
Q. Well... to cut the story short I was in a LDR for 8 months with an American guy who's in the army. We got to know each other through a music site as we had similar taste in music. We eventually got to know each other better via IM, that's when we ...
A. 31 October 2010: You were crying all the time... A happy and healthy relationship shouldn't be this way. And from they way I read it, it sounded like you got along great but got to know each other better as time went on and stopped getting along. Unfortunately that ... (read in full...)
I would like to see her more often but I don't think she feels the same way...
Q. Hi. I am in a new relationship about 16 days. We met with each other from a social networking website. Our first date was great. Afterwards, the problems began. She was and is talking about freedom, her own personal space etc. and i told that it's ...
A. 31 October 2010: It could also be an issue that she isn't very serious about you or doesn't want anything serious right now and that's why she feels smothered. You obviously are serious about her and she seems to want out. Best to move on.... (read in full...)
I would like to see her more often but I don't think she feels the same way...
Q. Hi. I am in a new relationship about 16 days. We met with each other from a social networking website. Our first date was great. Afterwards, the problems began. She was and is talking about freedom, her own personal space etc. and i told that it's ...
A. 31 October 2010: First of all, just regarding your comment "She was and is talking about freedom, her own personal space etc. and i told that it's ok, i care about these things. I like kind of relationship that couples are seeing each other as much as possible, they ... (read in full...)
I want my cheating girlfriend back!
Q. hi, im 18 years old and i just had my first relationship ever which ended yesterday, it was going on the 6 month mark. in our first month, she kissed/made out with two of her guy friends then told me about it( within 2 weeks of them both happen...
A. 28 October 2010: I agree completely with the previous posters. She is too young to be "settled down", you are too young to be worrying so much about this one girl, and it has only been 6 months. Of course it hurts. And you are over romanticizing the great times ... (read in full...)
My friends always say the teacher is staring at me
Q. hey :) I know I have asked this before, but I got no help :( thank you to the people who did comment though, I just need more help please I don't know what to do im really sorry its so long, but please I need your advice .... I'm a littl...
A. 28 October 2010: I never went through this teacher crush phase I hear about so much on here. Thank god I guess. I've read the comments back and forth and I honestly thought the anon poster was the original poster with how huffy and sensitive they are getting... But ... (read in full...)
How to stay friends with an ex?
Q. How can I stay friends with my ex? I'm still not over him, but he seems to be very much over me. When he mentions other girls, it bothers me. Or when he flirts with other girls. Since we're over, it shouldn't matter that much to me. We go to the ...
A. 27 October 2010: You can't. You haven't moved on yet and it will only crush you everytime you see him. That or you will continuously have false hope that he will change his mind and come back to you. I've tried it. Numerous times. With different exes. Every time ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't kiss, want to hug or have kids..what is up with this?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. Throughout the time we've been together, I've learned several things about him. 1. He won't kiss me until the day we get married, if we do. 2. He hates hugs. He'll hug me when we're ...
A. 26 October 2010: Break up with him. You are 2 totally different people. And he sounds bizzarre to say the least. A person who is interested in sex and physical contact won't work with someone who finds each disgusting. Doesn't even make sense why anyone would want ... (read in full...)
She wants me to cum in her face but I respect her too much to do that...
Q. Ok guys dont give me hell or call me a pansy. My gf asked me to cum in her face while she was giving me a blow job last week, and I totally froze up and couldnt do anything. I have watched it in porn and I dont see it as a turn on at all. Honestly...
A. 26 October 2010: Well I'm going to disagree here. If it truly bothers you then explain that you really don't want to and don't. If a girl came on here saying she was uncomfortable with something sexual and her boyfriend wouldn't let it go then everyone would say he ... (read in full...)
How to handle trust issueswith pornography, boyfriend & lying
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. My previous boyfriend was addicted to porn and lied about it. I'm one of those girls who hate it--it's demoralizing in my eyes, sick, and perverted. So when I asked him about watching it or ...
A. 26 October 2010: You sound like me when I would tell a guy I just want everything open and honest. Well that's good and sweet. A guy who doesn't care about you wouldn't utter a sorry. He would say you are crazy and leave. So with that much caring and love you can ... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with making everything about "us"! How can we get past this?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together a year now. i am his first serious relationship and sexual partner, however i have had a handful of serious relationships before him. we have a great relationship except for his problem dealing with my past. i...
A. 26 October 2010: Oh and if I didn't say it, you can't change his way of thinking anymore than you could change your thinking. Would you suddenly care about a boyfriend's past like this because they told you that you should..? No because it isn't who you are. ... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with making everything about "us"! How can we get past this?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together a year now. i am his first serious relationship and sexual partner, however i have had a handful of serious relationships before him. we have a great relationship except for his problem dealing with my past. i...
A. 26 October 2010: So this is crazy to me because your boyfriend sounds exactly like me! I worry about past relationships way too much. I feel like I have to be the best at everything, best girlfriend he has ever had and the best at sex. I won't go anywhere my ... (read in full...)
Oral sex just for the fun of it
Q. I have been friends with this guy for a little over six months. We have great fun together, and we have at some point admitted we like each other, but he is not sure about getting in to a relationship with me. ( He says he's broken up with h...
A. 26 October 2010: Aw I'm sorry. I live with a roommate who sounds like this guy exactly. Honestly I thought you were one of his girls until I saw the flag. He isn't over his ex and isn't ready for a relationship. He has a new girl in his room every couple weeks. ... (read in full...)
How to handle trust issueswith pornography, boyfriend & lying
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. My previous boyfriend was addicted to porn and lied about it. I'm one of those girls who hate it--it's demoralizing in my eyes, sick, and perverted. So when I asked him about watching it or ...
A. 26 October 2010: I don't have too much to add but I agree with dirtball completely. If he is ashamed he will hide it, most guys will. If he doesn't see it as a problem but knows you are appalled by it, then he will keep it to himself. I know it hurts you but he was ... (read in full...)
I found naughty texts do I confront her?
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for a little over 3 months. My friends don't think she is trustworthy. The other day I was going through her phone and I noticed a text from a guy named John. I clicked on it and it said thing like I want you so b...
A. 26 October 2010: Wow. So checking the phone of the person you are dating, I don't see how it is a big deal at all. I think relationships should be open. I can't even understand how to be in a relationship where your phone would be "off limits" to your partner. I ... (read in full...)
Do I give him the benefit of the doubt?
Q. if you finally start talking with an ex again but he isn't ready to be in a relationship again---is it ALWAYS black and white that they just don't want to be with you? I did ask him very direct questions and made direct comments of how maybe he ...
A. 14 April 2010: I have been in the same exact situation. You need to stop talking to him. As the last poster said, he probably likes you waiting and he is unlikely to change anything. Why would he? He knows you are going to be there. I'm not saying it is black and ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend on a dating site?
Q. I recently found an Adultfriendfinder.com email in my boyfriends yahoo account. I have not asked him about it yet but the user name is his initials and some numbers. It looks like he's had it for a while. The only thing he put on the site was the ...
A. 14 April 2010: Oh and have you actually seen his profile? The emails that my ex got had the password for his profile on the bottom of the email. Which is where I got to see everything... I'm not sure if you have already seen the profile, but you did know what he ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend on a dating site?
Q. I recently found an Adultfriendfinder.com email in my boyfriends yahoo account. I have not asked him about it yet but the user name is his initials and some numbers. It looks like he's had it for a while. The only thing he put on the site was the ...
A. 14 April 2010: They could be sending them from awhile ago. But they definitely aren't just spam, he had a profile on there at one time or another. I know how devastated you are.. I actually had not one ex but TWO do this. Totally out of nowhere, great, nice, ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't give me the same chance she gave her past boyfriends.
Q. So I've been with my girlfriend for a while now. I truly am in love with her and she says she's in love with me. Not too long ago, she told me that she had anal sex with two other guys. she only tried it though, she didn't do it over and over. this ...
A. 1 April 2010: Sorry to leave yet another message but I just saw the anonymous poster's message... Please please please do not listen. She has already told you that if you continue to bring it up that she will leave. Don't "hope" that because she said maybe that ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend gaga for Gaga!
Q. Hi folks. This is a bit of a silly one but how do i get my stupid boyfriend from bringing up Lady Gaga every day? I had no problem with her apart from the idiotic and attention seeking things she does but obviously it doesn't affect me so it was ...
A. 1 April 2010: I don't really have an answer. I just had to state that I loved Not My Name's answer! Not only do you get to have fun with it, he also will be all over you. And love you for it. It is just a silly celeb crush. Laugh it off. And Not My Name, you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't give me the same chance she gave her past boyfriends.
Q. So I've been with my girlfriend for a while now. I truly am in love with her and she says she's in love with me. Not too long ago, she told me that she had anal sex with two other guys. she only tried it though, she didn't do it over and over. this ...
A. 1 April 2010: And I say this because I can see where she is coming from. I actually tried it with an ex, trusted him and all, and hated it. The next guy I dated I loved with all my heart, cared much much more about him than the first guy, and yet I still wouldn't ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't give me the same chance she gave her past boyfriends.
Q. So I've been with my girlfriend for a while now. I truly am in love with her and she says she's in love with me. Not too long ago, she told me that she had anal sex with two other guys. she only tried it though, she didn't do it over and over. this ...
A. 1 April 2010: She doesn't like it!! She has tried it in the past, she doesn't like it. How about you turn the situation around... She doesn't love you because she won't let you try anal you say... Well maybe it seems to her that you don't love her because you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is begging me to give her another chance......
Q. Hey people, Thanks for following and helping me out I really appreciate it. This morning I told her how I felt about everything and how I feel like I'm being slapped in my face etc. etc. The last thing I said to her was "Your breaking my heart. ...
A. 1 April 2010: I still maintain you should do what I suggested, I was the one who said wait a couple of days and see what she is doing. Don't bring her friend into any of it. It's a bit too high school and no one else should have to be in y'alls argument. No good ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is begging to not lose me... I need as much advice as possible!
Q. Recently, I posted an a thread about me and my ex having some issues with other people in our relationship. This is the last post I wrote..Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before t...
A. 1 April 2010: Agreed she is not a good girlfriend and she doesn't seem to care. Just takes some people a bit more to move on. And maybe getting lied to once again he won't believe her fake tears and "I love you sooo much" bs next time around.... (read in full...)
If you got together after a break up, how did you achieve this?
Q. Hi I've recently split up with my boyfriend...and I'm just wondering if any people have gone through a break up and got back together at a later point. If so how did you achieve this. Thanks...
A. 1 April 2010: I have done this with a few of my boyfriends. Most of the time we end up getting back together within a week. But one time I dated a guy for like 8 months, we broke up for 2 months and he randomly texted me. We met up and got right back into the ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is begging to not lose me... I need as much advice as possible!
Q. Recently, I posted an a thread about me and my ex having some issues with other people in our relationship. This is the last post I wrote..Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before t...
A. 31 March 2010: He checks the phone bills to see who she talks to. That's how he found out the other times. I was just saying if he has any doubts he is going to try again... No matter who tells him otherwise. And that should be the absolute last time.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is begging to not lose me... I need as much advice as possible!
Q. Recently, I posted an a thread about me and my ex having some issues with other people in our relationship. This is the last post I wrote..Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before t...
A. 31 March 2010: I would continue to ignore her for a little bit. A couple days. See if she continues to talk to that guy every night. Then maybe if you still really care just text her and say "I wanted to give you a chance, see if you would actually stop talking to ... (read in full...)
Is he just using me?
Q. Hi i have been going out with this guy for around six months. i really like him. we got on really well and never did a day do by without him texting me or us chatting. He had been away for six seven week visiting his family he came back last w...
A. 31 March 2010: Stop talking to him completely. You are coming off desperate and wayy too into him. He doesn't seem into you aside from the sex. Leave him alone, if he contacts you then explain to him that you feel a certain way about him, you won't be comfortable ... (read in full...)
She said she would stop talking to him late at night, but now I have found that she is still taking his calls at 3am! How should I take this?
Q. Okay here I go again... This is the last post I wrote..Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before the split up we been together for like over 3 years. Anyway, when we got back togethe...
A. 31 March 2010: Plain and simple, she doesn't care about you. Whether she is dating this guy, trying to, interested in him, doesn't matter. You told her numerous times that it bothers you and she continued to do it. He comes before you. You are her boyfriend and it ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to be less emotional?
Q. Okay I'm a very, VERY emotional person, I always have been and I'm very sensitive. I've had at least 3 people say I'm the most sensitive person they've met. Anyway.. it's actually really annoying and I have a boyfriend who I love alot. I was alwa...
A. 29 March 2010: Reading over it again I saw that you said you are posessive and hold grudges. I promise you, I am the same exact way. I would constantly have something bother me and then bring it up over and over and won't let it go! Still, these are just more ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to be less emotional?
Q. Okay I'm a very, VERY emotional person, I always have been and I'm very sensitive. I've had at least 3 people say I'm the most sensitive person they've met. Anyway.. it's actually really annoying and I have a boyfriend who I love alot. I was alwa...
A. 29 March 2010: I am an emotional person. You cannot change it. As serenity80 said though, you will mature and you will handle it better. When I was 17 I dated a guy and recall crying when he fell asleep...Cried when I wanted to go to my parents house for dinner ... (read in full...)
Ladies... Fingers in your mouth during "passion". Yes or no?
Q. Lets say you are in the heat of the moment and he is being very passionate during sex..... Do you find it a turn on when your partner puts one or two fingers in your mouth to suck on? Or do you find it a bit weird? Of course, this is all duri...
A. 26 March 2010: I would be disgusted if he stuck his fingers in my mouth... Not speaking for everyone though. I have sucked on a guy's fingers before, but shoving them in my mouth would be a hell no. Just let her know you like it. I'm sure she will be happy to ... (read in full...)
Guys watch porn. Do women?
Q. It seems that one of the most discussed topics on DC is porn and situations related to the watching of and enjoyment of porn by one person in a relationship, and that being resented by the other. To wit: a guy watches porn, as guys are known t...
A. 23 March 2010: I love porn. More than my boyfriends. I watch numerous types. Sometimes lesbian. I am not bi though. I think I have only watched it with a boyfriend once or twice, it is always on my own. I never thought of it as weird or different at all, I thought ... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting or is he a bit odd??
Q. Hi, I met this guy via the local community (he is a community beat policeman) when I was having some problems and he asked me out for a drink so I went. He seems quite nice in some ways if a little 'weak'. However apparently he has quite a temper ...
A. 11 March 2010: From the first time he made the comment that you talk shit you should've run. He is at the very least emotionally abusive. Why in the world are you still talking to him??? It's only been a couple weeks and he is asking you to lose weight? Yet he ... (read in full...)
He puts his ex and son ahead of me.
Q. I have been dating this guy for about 3 months. We really like each other a lot. He has a son with another woman and I know that I can't compete with that, but here's the problem. He says that he is tryin to get along with her so that he doesn't ...
A. 9 March 2010: I agree completely with dorothy. I don't know how it could be taken any other way. This bullcrap about trying to make peace with his ex in hopes she will pay child support for him... it's bullcrap. He is sleeping over at her house and ignoring you. ... (read in full...)
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