During sex I decided it wasnt right..was that rape?
Q. I met up with this guy and concented to sex...then during sex I decided this wasnt right and asked him repeatedly to stop....he didnt, I even tried moving but I wasnt strong enough, when it was all over I just let it go and stayed the night....I ...
A. 9 October 2009: Pinktopaz- So, if you were in the middle of sex with a guy and you decided you didn't want to do it anymore for whatever reason, and he refused to let you get out from under him, and kept going and going, even though you were yelling at him to stop ... (read in full...)
During sex I decided it wasnt right..was that rape?
Q. I met up with this guy and concented to sex...then during sex I decided this wasnt right and asked him repeatedly to stop....he didnt, I even tried moving but I wasnt strong enough, when it was all over I just let it go and stayed the night....I ...
A. 9 October 2009: Yes, this is rape, do not let anyone tell you otherwise.
I have been involved with a woman who changed her mind halfway through (once) and I immediately stopped. Men can stop during sex. I for one would find it incredibly UNAROUSING to have sex with... (read in full...)
Small penis confusion... need guidance asap
Q. okay, so im embarassed to tell my friend so im trusting this website will help me out, im gonna get straight to the question. ive had sex with 2 guys, im guessing both of them were 2-3 inches long erect. after about 5 min of having sex i lite...
A. 20 March 2009: That's small. Most men are at least 2-3 inches bigger, so you're not the problem. If you can't feel anything during sex... well that's a problem. Sounds like you just had a bit of bad luck. Some women make do with small penises, but if you literally ... (read in full...)
Can a man have sex and not feel anything for the woman?
Q. Can a man have sex with a woman if he feels nothing for her or will he always have some sort of attraction? When men have affairs they tend to say its "just sex" - but surely it must be "just sex" with some sort of attraction?...
A. 19 March 2009: From a guy's perspective, I think the bar pretzel theory is very accurate. Of course some guys never take the free pretzels cuz they just won't settle for anything less than filet mignon, but for a lot of guys, especially young ones... yeah we ... (read in full...)
He likes porn because "they look better than you"
Q. i am with a lovely man who is kind and gentle. He likes his porn and one day i asked him why. His response was that "they are better looking than me". Well, I was devastated. Since then I have forgiven him but I find intimacy with him very di...
A. 18 March 2009: What an idiot. Has pretty much just sabotaged any chance at a fulfilling (real) sex life and opted instead for the cheap thrill of porn. He may be "kind and gentle" in your eyes, but he's a moron in mine.
I'm not sure if there is a fix for this... (read in full...)
Can a man have sex and not feel anything for the woman?
Q. Can a man have sex with a woman if he feels nothing for her or will he always have some sort of attraction? When men have affairs they tend to say its "just sex" - but surely it must be "just sex" with some sort of attraction?...
A. 17 March 2009: Some men can. Some men can't. I have some male friends that are serial monogamists and can't sleep with girls until they know it's right, that they have real feelings for each other.
I used to sleep around with girls who weren't that attr... (read in full...)
After a year of sex, I've never had an orgasm..how do I tell my b/f?
Q. I think all of us girls (and most of the guys out there) are perfectly aware that it is not only normal but common for a woman to only orgasm with clitoral stimulation. But, I think my boyfriend doesn't know that this is the case. Because I am lou...
A. 17 March 2009: 1. Why don't you just trim your pubic hair if this is such a worry for you?
2. Don't tell him that you've never come, it's not a good way to start the conversation. Instead say something like, "I'd like to try something new in bed, and see if it m... (read in full...)
I like my daughter's coach!
Q. I am a single mum who has a nine year old daughter. my daughter has recently started tennis lessons and her male coach is very nice very good looking..and single!! Is it wrong to ask him out as he is my daughters coach and how are some ways i can ...
A. 17 March 2009: I agree with CandyCakes. There is nothing inappropriate about trying to have a relationship with this man. Just take it slow, if you want a relationship with him and not a one night stand it's best to have a foundation of friendship first. ... (read in full...)
If he knew it was wrong, why did he cheat twice?
Q. My husband cheated on me he says he is sorry and it will never happen again.When i asked him if you had never got caught would you still be going behind my back his reply was can,t really answer that but proberly.This is not the first time he has ...
A. 17 March 2009: "When i asked him if you had never got caught would you still be going behind my back his reply was can,t really answer that but proberly."
So he basically admitted that he would/will cheat so long as he doesn't get caught.
He has no respect f... (read in full...)
My sister wanted me to spy on her fiance..do I tell her what I found?
Q. my sister sent ne on a mission to spy on her fiance. their wedding wud take place in three weeks. well, i got to find out he has an affair wt his coleague at work and when i caught him red handed in an eatery, hugging her, saying bye see u later , ...
A. 17 March 2009: I would tell her. Her being 35 and eager to get married is no reason not to tell her- marriage is supposed to be for life so she should marry someone she can see herself being happy with for life, not just any man who will have her. She deserves to ... (read in full...)
He cheated 8 years ago and has only just told me
Q. Hi Aunts , Last week my partner and I of 20 years together went to his works reunion party. We mingled with lots of people we both knew well. This particular woman kept hanging on to my husband and I overheard her say to him she wouldnt forget t...
A. 15 March 2009: You have a very good husband (if what he says is true)- he made one mistake 8 years ago, and has promised that it never went so far as sex. Given your situation, married, with a kid, I think it's best to try to forgive him and move on. Maybe couples ... (read in full...)
My 21 year old sister is doing sexual things that I know she will regret
Q. Im 26 years old and have a 21 yr old sister she was baby sitting for me and when she used our computer she didnt log off. I happened to come across a very distrubing email from her boyfriend of 6 months. Before I satrt I should say that se was been...
A. 15 March 2009: Why the hell would you mention it to yout parents? It's none of your or their business what your sister is doing.
Some people like kinky sex, some people like dirty talking, some people like group sex. Just because you don't understand it does... (read in full...)
What are the signs of a true female orgasm?
Q. I want to know what the signs of a "true female orgasm" are. I know that there are some people who say that you can't tell but I don't believe that. So someone please help me by making this clear to me....
A. 15 March 2009: You can feel her vagina tightening/loosening around you. The contractions (at least for me) are really easy to feel. That's the easiest way to know she's not faking it, coupled with her heavy breathing/moaning/sometimes screaming. ... (read in full...)
Is abortion the right thing to do?
Q. The president signed to increase funds for abortion practices, and signed a policy for stem cell research. My question is: Is abortion the right thing to do? Consciously thinking, is discontinuing the cycle of life of an unborn child correct? ...
A. 15 March 2009: I can't help myself.
"Abortion is for the cold hearted, for those who doesn't really care or who does not reason. "
If you really believe that then why would you want people like this raising babies anyway?
It seems that if people who have ... (read in full...)
Is abortion the right thing to do?
Q. The president signed to increase funds for abortion practices, and signed a policy for stem cell research. My question is: Is abortion the right thing to do? Consciously thinking, is discontinuing the cycle of life of an unborn child correct? ...
A. 14 March 2009: I'm always amazed that some people find the "possibility" of life more important than the actuality of life (the woman's life, not to mention the prospective father). Amazing. Just amazing.
As to the female anon who mentioned the downside... (read in full...)
Is abortion the right thing to do?
Q. The president signed to increase funds for abortion practices, and signed a policy for stem cell research. My question is: Is abortion the right thing to do? Consciously thinking, is discontinuing the cycle of life of an unborn child correct? ...
A. 13 March 2009: Birth control isn't foolproof. You can do everything right and still, somehow, those little sperm guys will wiggle their way to that egg.
You're an incredibly judgemental person. I'm just glad you're not in a position to make these choices ... (read in full...)
Please help. I am dying to talk to to my b/f's friends
Q. my boyfriend has friends that goes to my school........... i never talked to them before but now i want to make friends with them , how can i approach them.? and what if they reject me or maybe ask me out ? i want to tell my boyfriend about it but ...
A. 12 March 2009: Have your boyfriend introduce them to you, then you can get to know them. If they are decent friends they won't ask you out. ... (read in full...)
Seductive day on the boat with my wife & her boss
Q. I'll start off by saying my wife is very sexy and knows it she always tells me that she catches her boss checking her out all the time. She makes about twice the money I do so I really don't say a whole lot about the outfits she wears to work.Well ...
A. 12 March 2009: I'm guessing this is fake, it reads like a crappy porno.
I'll give you "advice" anyway. Do whatever makes you happy. ... (read in full...)
Is abortion the right thing to do?
Q. The president signed to increase funds for abortion practices, and signed a policy for stem cell research. My question is: Is abortion the right thing to do? Consciously thinking, is discontinuing the cycle of life of an unborn child correct? ...
A. 12 March 2009: The health, feelings and interests of the woman with the fetus in her uterus are always more interesting and pertinent to me than those of the unborn fetus. Abortion isn't akin to child abuse. Though I'd say there's an argument to be made that it's ... (read in full...)
Curious: how long do guys in LT committed relationship hang out with their best friends?
Q. how often do guys in long-term committed relationships hang out with their best friends? and for how long in a single time?...
A. 10 March 2009: I see my best friends about once a week, and talk to them through phone calls, texts or IM throughout the week.
My girlfriend and I mostly share friends, so we hang out as a big group mostly. I only have a few friends that are "mine" alone, thou... (read in full...)
Why can't men understand how women feel about porn?
Q. Why cant men understand how many women feel about porn? Especially after we marry and have babies.Like it or not guys, we mothers often give up a lot when we marry and have kids, Its pretty heartbreaking when we lose our pre baby bodies and end up ...
A. 10 March 2009: I get it. I don't watch porn when I'm in a relationship at all. I haven't watched it in years, don't miss it. And surprise, surprise, anonymous poster- I have no "natural urge" to cheat on my girlfriend.
Porn isn't that big of a deal. Not for me a... (read in full...)
He thinks my body BELONGS to him!!!!
Q. My boyfriend of 4 months says I'm his... therefore so is my body, supposedly we love each other. He says he does, his hands are always all over me, alone or not! Once we are in a private place and he wouldn't stop! I don't mind that but I do mind ...
A. 7 March 2009: He is behaving unacceptably. If you say no, it is his responsibility to stop. Simple as that. Going further without your consent is assault. He does not own you, and no man should EVER expect their girlfriend to let him touch her wherever he likes, ... (read in full...)
Cheating sucks!
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me with a girl he works with. She kept offering him to fool around even though she knew he had a girlfriend and a family. He caved in but has never cheated before. We've always had a great loving relationship! He cheated ...
A. 7 March 2009: I think he's a loser.
I also think he's potentially dangerous to your children, at the very least in terms of setting a DISASTROUS example of good behavior/how to treat your partner.
I also think he will definitely cheat on you again eventual... (read in full...)
Can a man tell if a woman has orgasmed?
Q. I'm not talking about the physical stuff that women do when they orgasm (like shaking, moaning, etc.); more like the internal. If they're having intercourse, can a man tell that a woman has orgasmed by the change in her vagina (it contracts)?...
A. 5 March 2009: Yes, it feels amazing.
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Daughters friend was raped and I'm wondering if thats the real story
Q. I have a 13 1/2 year old daughter. She comes to me and tells me that her best friend was raped the other day. i din't know what to say to her but in my head i was thinking with the way some and i mean some girls are now a days i thought maybe she ...
A. 5 March 2009: In matters of rape it is always (repeat: ALWAYS) better to give the benefit of the doubt to the rape victim. You do not want to leave a woman (or a little girl in this case) alone without any resources and support, you do not want her to feel like ... (read in full...)
Abuse and infidelity...
Q. Confused been with my boyfriend of 4 years through abuse, infidility.. I went through his phone and noticed a naked picture of himself who he sent as a message to a girl.. I've been feeling funny ever since he cheated 2x's with the same girl 2 ...
A. 5 March 2009: Break up with him. He's cheated on you before, and is doing it again. And you also mentioned abuse- I assume that you mean he abused you. If so, break up with him in a public place, bring friends for support (to meet you afterwards for instance).
... (read in full...)
I feel as if I'm deceiving my boyfriend by not telling him about my friend.
Q. I am in a very loving relationship with my boyfriend of six years. We live together and have a six month old son. Our relationship got off to a terrible start but we've worked through it all. A few months ago a guy I met while doing a business...
A. 5 March 2009: Sounds like it could be an "emotional affair". You are definitely bushing the boundaries of acceptable behavior right now, I'd say verging on cheating behavior. There is nothing wrong with having male friends, but having really close, secret male ... (read in full...)
Is it cheating if I want to experiment sexually with a woman?
Q. Is it cheating if I want to experiment sexually with a woman? My boyfriend said it's cheating even if it's just for experimentation. I on the other hand have no problem with him experimenting with a man if he so chooses. What do you think? ...
A. 5 March 2009: Of course it's cheating, what she's got between her legs doesn't negate the fact that it's cheating. You know why? Because it's cheating to your boyfriend, and he's the one that you want to be in a relationship with. If you want to experiment, it ... (read in full...)
A question strictly for the men aunts!!!
Q. Okay guys, would you want a straight girl that would have sex with you or a bi girl that would let you have sex with her and her girlfriend?...
A. 5 March 2009: Definitely the straight girl, no contest. I'm not into threesomes. ... (read in full...)
Do drunken mistakes really exist?
Q. My boyfriend and I have had a rocky relationship, in which we just went through a period of saving it. We came clean about everything we had done, and he told me he had slept with one of his best friends, who was also living in the room next to him ...
A. 27 February 2009: Hmm... yes and no. I've never slept with a girl I wasn't attracted to in some way, but then when I'm drunk my standards tend to get... lower.
In the case of a best friend, that's tricky territory as there is also a huge emotional and personal... (read in full...)
I don't understand his behavior
Q. Hello, I would like to have your opinions on this matter. Even if I always condemned it, it happened that I became interested in a man at my workplace who is married, really I did not want this to happen, it just happened. It's hard sometime...
A. 25 February 2009: I doubt he understands your behavior either- coming on to him one second, then changing your mind, then insulting him.
You're both playing dumb games and it's probably best if you stop communicating with one another altogether except in a stri... (read in full...)
Will 0.5 alcohol beer affect my baby?
Q. I found out that non-alcoholic beer still contains some alcohol. I've been drinking that since I got pregnant (about one a night) is there a large chance that my baby has birth defects? ...
A. 25 February 2009: Well I remember reading a while ago that some doctors in the UK were rethinking the ban on alcohol for pregnant women because they weren't convinced that small amounts of alcohol actually harmed the baby. One nonalcoholic beer a night probably ... (read in full...)
I might be bi, but I'm already with my guy
Q. I have never been with a girl and I don't want to be in a relationship with a girl, but lately I've been having major fantasies about being with a woman. I have a boyfriend, so this cant really happen, but I am almost really wanting it to be able to ...
A. 25 February 2009: Invite him to watch.
Problem solved!... (read in full...)
Force myself to stop or keep doing it?
Q. Lately every time I see a cute boy I think sexual thoughts about them and I could easily get most my guy friends to do it with me If I really wanted to... Not to sound conceted. It's really hard to not think about it. What do I do. Let these ...
A. 25 February 2009: Ah, hormones. Just about every person your age is struggling with the same/similar feelings. I'd be surprised if you could control the feelings, since they are coming from a pretty animalistic place within you. But you can definitely control your ... (read in full...)
She has commitment issues. How can I proceed?
Q. About 10 years ago I met this girl in my 7th grade English class. And we became really good friends. We're still great friends to this day. A few months ago I got back from a 2 year trip to a foreign country. When I came home I reunited with this ...
A. 25 February 2009: My advice is to start casual. Don't be exclusive, just go out together alone (maybe even under the pretense of friends, and then building up to official dates). See how the chemistry works and let things develop at a natural and comfortable speed. ... (read in full...)
Can a woman do as good as a male in a male job?
Q. Can a female be as good as male in a male job, can women be as tough as men in male jobs?...
A. 25 February 2009: Yes.
:)... (read in full...)
Should I let my wife wear spandex to work?
Q. is it okay for me to let my wife out the house wearing tight spandex to work?...
A. 24 February 2009: I'm pretty sure it's up to her what she wears...... (read in full...)
What would you do if your partner and his relatives did something against your own values?
Q. If a few of your partner's close relatives were casual pot smokers, who held down jobs and were otherwise responsible, loving people, would you feel comfortable letting your kids visit these relatives, if you are morally opposed to any casual drug ...
A. 24 February 2009: Well there is a bit of a difference there, since guns have the ability to injure and kill... the worst pot does is make you want to have a nap/eat the kitchen.
Look at the history of pot, look at the reason why it is illegal. Mostly tied up with ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate.
Q. Okay, This is a pretty weird question, I'm going crazy though. My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate. I know this is possible because of all the crap I've read on the internet. It's not that big of a problem right now ...
A. 24 February 2009: I've never heard of this in my life.
The best solution I can think is to take him to a doctor to discuss it and maybe run tests to see if he is physically capable of ejaculating.
Poor guy, he's missin' out...... (read in full...)
10 -15 masturbating..quicker with sex?
Q. I usually last around 10 to 15 seconds while masturbating. Is it going to go quicker with sex? and how can i get myself to last longer? ...
A. 24 February 2009: You won't know how long it'll take with sex until you try it.
To make it last longer for sex, try masturbating before you do it. Which luckily won't take you long. ... (read in full...)
What would you do if your partner and his relatives did something against your own values?
Q. If a few of your partner's close relatives were casual pot smokers, who held down jobs and were otherwise responsible, loving people, would you feel comfortable letting your kids visit these relatives, if you are morally opposed to any casual drug ...
A. 24 February 2009: Pot is pot, most people have tried it at some point, it's pretty harmless as long as they don't smoke it around the kids or try to force the kids to smoke it.
If your relatives are such great people, even though they smoke pot, doesn't that make... (read in full...)
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