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* I'm brutally honest, sometimes to the point of offence, I never hide under the secrecy of anonymous. I'm pro-porn and many people don't like this. I'm also non judgemental of different relationships and lifestyles. I'm pro-men and pro-women, I believe strongly in equality and happiness for both sexes, that's my definition of Feminism. And I'm an atheist, there aint no God in my world.

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He thinks I want a boyfriend, but I just want a FWB!

Q.   Hi there, I really need blunt advise on this, the last thing I want is to appear as an idiot. This year has been very difficult for me and after breaking up with my ex-bf three months ago, i do not feel like dating for a while. He broke my ...

A.   18 December 2011: "I do not expect anything good from anyone" Opps.. this type of thinking changes a lot of things. FWB is one thing, when your not ready for a relationship, but strong enough to make sensible choices not clouded by emotions like love. But a FW... (read in full...)

He thinks I want a boyfriend, but I just want a FWB!

Q.   Hi there, I really need blunt advise on this, the last thing I want is to appear as an idiot. This year has been very difficult for me and after breaking up with my ex-bf three months ago, i do not feel like dating for a while. He broke my ...

A.   17 December 2011: I'm not the moral police, so I'm not here to tell you to fall in love, get married and all that nonsense. I'm always confused by the anger/hate shown to women who act in similar ways to men where sex and love are concerned. Your not an "easy lay", ... (read in full...)

Is too much self pleasure harmful?

Q.   This is probably a really unusual question but...I think I'm addicted to porn/masturbating. I'm not sure, I don't watch it/do it every day but when I'm bored, I can watch it up to two times to get my "fix" of sexual buzz for the day. I guess this ...

A.   17 December 2011: Yep, men and women can have problems with chronic masturbation. Usually it's less to do with sex, and more to do with anxiety and stress, it can also be caused by using sex to get rid of boredom. It's a bad habit that can develop when we avoid ... (read in full...)

Can I ruin his porn videos without visible proof?

Q.   Okay so, my boyfriend has recently stopped watching porn out of respect for me. I just recently found his old porn stash of dvds and he doesn't know that I know about them. I know I'm going to get a lot of responses about how I should talk to him ...

A.   17 December 2011: Nope, don't know how to destroy people's possessions in secret. Since your not interested in having a proper relationship built on honest talking, there isn't much advice I can give to help you out. If you feel so strongly, and he has made a p... (read in full...)

My ex is seeing another girl, is he doing this because I did not trust him? I'm just hurt!

Q.   Ok I really need help. My ex and I were together for three years. We had our ups and downs but at the end of the day we forgave each other and always told each other I love you. We'll we broke recently over something I had done. I had inva...

A.   16 December 2011: Not a good move... not good at all, but we all do upsetting things when the heart is involved. Moving from girlfriend to Friends who have sex, will leave you feeling upset and used in the end. ... (read in full...)

My fiance's ex makes me uncomfortable... should I invite her to the wedding anyway?

Q.   So I can't decide whether I want one of my fiance's best friends to come to our wedding. We are having a very small wedding - basically just family and very few friends due to cost and the fact that it is going to be a very informal wedding...

A.   16 December 2011: Original I would say, invite her and stick her in the back, even though she's badly behaved and rude... (using French to exclude you is so silly and petty) But now you got a perfect excuse, the wedding is much too small for her to come.. Give you... (read in full...)

My ex is seeing another girl, is he doing this because I did not trust him? I'm just hurt!

Q.   Ok I really need help. My ex and I were together for three years. We had our ups and downs but at the end of the day we forgave each other and always told each other I love you. We'll we broke recently over something I had done. I had inva...

A.   16 December 2011: Worse thing you can do is to keep bothering him, he will lose respect for you and you will drive him further away. The girl doesn't matter, he doesn't know her, he hasn't fallen in love, even if she goes away there are other girls out there. ... (read in full...)

I feel hurt and betrayed! She thinks I've had affairs! Does she still love me?

Q.   During the course of an argument during which I questioned her faithfulness for the first time EVER (she was spending a lot of time with a male coworker, even missing my birthday dinner to talk business with him on the phone) my wife mentione...

A.   15 December 2011: I've been thinking about your post for ages, your marriage sounds like it's in crisis. What is going on with your wife is a problem to do with gender, your both acting and reacting in different ways and this often is the case. A good example to ... (read in full...)

We like each other but he has a girlfriend, what should I do?

Q.   i have a guy that i think he likes me around me and i like him too and he has a girlfriend what do i do ...

A.   15 December 2011: Nothing, he has a girlfriend and he probably loves her. So you like him, so what, I like diamonds but can't afford them. Find yourself a single man and date him instead.... (read in full...)

Caught her having sex with 2 of my friends at our housewarming.....I'm so hurt she cheated but turned on at the same time!

Q.   Hi. my girlfriend and i met a year and a half ago and weve just recently moved in together. Its both our first place on our own. A month after we moved in we had a house warming party. after a night of drinking i woke up to find my girlfrie...

A.   15 December 2011: You saw her having sex, and so far after 3months you've said nothing? Why not?... (read in full...)

I have slept with 6 guys, and it is soon to be 7, is this a lot of people to have slept with at my age?

Q.   I am 19 and have had one long-term serious relationship, and a few shorter less intense ones. I have slept with 6 different guys, 3 of them boyfriends, 3 of them flings or one-night-stands. I am sort of considered a slut in the small town in wh...

A.   14 December 2011: I hate the numbers game.. you never can win.. one is too much for some people, in the big city where I live some girls can get through 7 in a couple of months.. for me.. for 20years it was one guy, and now, I still haven't reached your number... so ... (read in full...)

What are your thoughts on single parents, is the child affected?

Q.   okay so... i found out im pregnant, 14 weeks gone, and the dad basicly said, if i didnt get rid, hed never have anything to do with me again.. of course i didnt get rid and he wants nothing more to do with me... we argued and havent spoke at all in ...

A.   14 December 2011: Sorry it's taken time to respond, on some questions I find the words don't come so easily. You were very kind to update your post and thank us aunts, it's nice when people remember to do that. Glad we made you cry.. lol.. yep, tears of joy are ... (read in full...)

We've been friends with benefits for almost 5 years. How do I take this further?

Q.   Ok! Here it goes!!! I have known this guy for almost 5 years. We met at my old apartments and I guess you can say it was always a friends with benifits. For a few years I would try and get a relationship to only fail and it would end up in a fight ...

A.   14 December 2011: What's the problem with you just asking him straight out, if he wants to do the boyfriend/girlfriend thing.. no one else just you two, dating for a while without sex. I can see your sensitive about the whole thing, you think that people will say ... (read in full...)

Vaginal discharge is making me extremely uncomfortable

Q.   WOMEN ONLY PLEASE!! I'm 16 and I discharge a lot. I also sweat around that area quite a bit and it's uncomfortable. I hate sitting on the plastic base chairs at college because it often leaves a sweat mark and I get incredibly anxious and ...

A.   14 December 2011: Could be a yeast infection (thrush) nothing to worry about, even babies and nuns get it. Any problems with your body, you go straight to the doctors, don't mess about on the internet trying to diagnose yourself. Wear cotton knickers and make sure ... (read in full...)

How do I tell her I am not interested?

Q.   This may seem really easy to do but i cant. I was drunk and i was talking to this girl whos my friend. I guess i said i wanted to have sex with her and she wanted to have it with me. I dont remember this conversation ever taking place. I am friends ...

A.   14 December 2011: But Cerberus, he says he doesn't fancy her, that's the problem.... (read in full...)

14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?

Q.   okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...

A.   14 December 2011: Yep, got it now, know what to say... Babes, I want you take take a picture of you and your mum going to the hospital together. I want you to get two copies, you keep one and give one to your mum. Keep this picture with you for all of your life... (read in full...)

14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?

Q.   okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...

A.   14 December 2011: Nope I'm moved as well, I'm just thinking and trying to find the right words to write back...... (read in full...)

Why has he changed again? His excuse is he's afraid of me getting pregnant but I'm not so sure....

Q.   Why has he changed again? I dated this guy 2 years ago now for a year, it eventually ended because i wanted more and told him i loved him and he stated he was 'fond' of me! I missed him terribly and we eventually got back together 5 months ago after ...

A.   14 December 2011: "I am just getting a terrible gut feeling he isnt bothered about me at all and feel sooo gutted" Babes, you know the truth... he not "fond" of you enough to make a commitment to a full time relationship, the pregnancy thing is just an excuse. ... (read in full...)

Someone sent my girlfriend flowers at her office on her birthday.

Q.   So my girlfriends bday was this pat friday and someone had delivered her over to her job a basket of Yellow roses with red tip, purple roses, yellow daisys and other flowers and a plush version of her favorite character. She initially thought that I ...

A.   14 December 2011: So she wants to keep them, some women are like that, they like gifts and flowers, and it doesn't matter who sent them. That's nothing to do with liking someone else, it's to do with liking free gifts and pretty things. I know that's a bother for ... (read in full...)

How do I tell her I am not interested?

Q.   This may seem really easy to do but i cant. I was drunk and i was talking to this girl whos my friend. I guess i said i wanted to have sex with her and she wanted to have it with me. I dont remember this conversation ever taking place. I am friends ...

A.   14 December 2011: Do it like Chalice says, tell her the truth, you was a drunk idiot and you shouldn't have made a pass at your friend. This way is worse, your giving her false hope.. no point avoiding the painful surgery, but leaving this wound to heal alone is ... (read in full...)

Living with my ex after his marriage failed and hoping to get back together but he is still talking to his ex wife....how long is this going to go on for? I feel like piggy in the middle!

Q.   My ex split from his wife a few months ago and has been renting a room from me since. The reason why he chose my place is because I have a son for him and thought that we'd get it back on as he made a mistake marrying her. (He's been out of my life ...

A.   14 December 2011: "How long do I have to watch this game play out for?" You play the game for as long as you want to. He's not holding you, you decided to join this game for your own reasons. "I feel like piggy in the middle" You are piggy in the middle.. fo... (read in full...)

Have any girls on here gone to a bar alone?

Q.   I have been on my own for a long time now. It has been bothering me for a while but it has only become a problem recently. I don't have particularly great coping skills and feelings of loneliness have become overwhelming. I really need to make some ...

A.   14 December 2011: In the UK, we have wine bars and pubs.. I have been to the pub alone, because it attracts an older and more quiet crowd, and is often based around communities and families. Pubs here are used by people who feel lonely, or just want to watch a sport ... (read in full...)

Do women want powerful, wealthy men more than considerate, nice guys?

Q.   I know nobody wants a wimp. But do all women prefer the self-absorbed jerk with power over the nice, middle class guy who is considerate of a woman's feelings? Is the law of the jungle and the law of human love really the same?...

A.   13 December 2011: Wait, does this self-absorbed jerk with power like books?... (read in full...)

I'm off the pill but we are still having trouble in and out of the bedroom. Is there anything I can do?

Q.   I have had a lot of troubles in the bedroom with my boyfriend. It has been going on for a few months. When i decided to go off the pill, because it was affecting me negatively emotionally and healthwise.. and it also took away all urges to eve...

A.   13 December 2011: There is so much going on, that's it's hard to see how you can fix things to create a healthy and loving relationship. 1. He has retroactive jealousy which can lower sex drive, cause resentments, have men withholding orgasm's (power plays) and crea... (read in full...)

Living with my ex after his marriage failed and hoping to get back together but he is still talking to his ex wife....how long is this going to go on for? I feel like piggy in the middle!

Q.   My ex split from his wife a few months ago and has been renting a room from me since. The reason why he chose my place is because I have a son for him and thought that we'd get it back on as he made a mistake marrying her. (He's been out of my life ...

A.   13 December 2011: "How long do I have to watch this game play out for?" You play the game for as long as you want to. He's not holding you, you decided to join this game for your own reasons. "I feel like piggy in the middle" You are piggy in the middle.. f... (read in full...)

He has been divorced 5 years but his ex still calls him to fix things for her! Is this appropriate?

Q.   How appropriate is it for a man who is divorced for 5 years to go round to his ex's house to fix the cooker/replace a fuse/figure out why her car won't start when he is in a new relationship? She isn't seeing anyone and they have 1 child so ...

A.   13 December 2011: Not appropriate.. maybe in the beginning when they were first divorced, she might have not know who else to call because she was used to him doing these things. But after 5years it's time she moved on and sorted out some workmen or took up DIY. Of ... (read in full...)

Do women want powerful, wealthy men more than considerate, nice guys?

Q.   I know nobody wants a wimp. But do all women prefer the self-absorbed jerk with power over the nice, middle class guy who is considerate of a woman's feelings? Is the law of the jungle and the law of human love really the same?...

A.   13 December 2011: Don't do self-absorbed jerks whether he has money or not.... Your not going to get any different answers, so if your looking for reassurance, then all women will say they like nice,considerate guys... don't really prove anything, it's just tha... (read in full...)

My mum might be cheating on my dad with her boss....

Q.   Hi,I'm 14,15 in 3 months. Since I was 10,I got a little suspicious of my mother and her boss. He would buy us ice-cream and my grandmother would tell me not to tell my dad.I never liked her boss. I'm pretty sure he's married.She texts him a lot and ...

A.   13 December 2011: "I don't want divorced parents but I have to do something about it." Oh babes, I'm sorry your in this situation. It's not fair for your mother to involve you like this. I know you love your dad, and you don't want him to get hurt, but the prob... (read in full...)

Link between the amout of sex and his porn use?

Q.   my boyfriend watches porn without me should i be worried? We went fom having sex 2 or 3 times a day to once a week if i am lucky....

A.   13 December 2011: OK, so it's not a porn issue.. it's a man who is busy with his friend and is ignoring you. That's the real problem not the sex. If the guy is a room mate and their is no space maybe your boyfriend is to shy to have sex. Or he's too busy having ... (read in full...)

Too young for sex but cant stop my urges, help!

Q.   I am a 13 year old boy and normally have the urge to have sex, but i dont want to as you can see my age, any advice??...

A.   13 December 2011: Masturbation in private, that's the only thing you can do. This is normal, most people do this, both women and men. Even when your an adult, sometimes you can't have sex and you get frustrated. Masturbation will help with the sex urges, but also ... (read in full...)

Someone sent my girlfriend flowers at her office on her birthday.

Q.   So my girlfriends bday was this pat friday and someone had delivered her over to her job a basket of Yellow roses with red tip, purple roses, yellow daisys and other flowers and a plush version of her favorite character. She initially thought that I ...

A.   13 December 2011: Thanks for the update... If the issue is "should she keep the flowers", then of course not, they could come from some weird psycho creep. She's in a relationship and if she receives strange flowers, she should tell you right away (which she has ... (read in full...)

Is going to a strip club like cheating? Is it worth losing someone you love to go?

Q.   My friends and I were having this debate over the fact my girl and I agreed with each other that neither one of us would be okay if the other went to strip clubs. They happen to believe I am submissive to my gf, when in fact it was a MUTUAL dec...

A.   13 December 2011: No strip club rule agreed by both people is absolutely fair. Women can go see male strippers now as well, and you have every right to feel this is cheating, just like she feels it's cheating for you to go. (A stripper can be a man or woman, ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend won't have sex with me when his kids are visiting at all.

Q.   The newest idea of my live in boyfirend? We can not have sex when his kids are over (every other week) because he is afraid that they can "walk in" on us and get traumatized! They are 5 and 9. He does not want to lock the door because he does not ...

A.   13 December 2011: " adults have sex with children"... nope that doesn't sound right at all.. sorry.. but you know what I mean... this no sex rule is only temporary, the guy is just scared and ashamed at the moment.. he needs your help to calm down and build a proper ... (read in full...)

Someone sent my girlfriend flowers at her office on her birthday.

Q.   So my girlfriends bday was this pat friday and someone had delivered her over to her job a basket of Yellow roses with red tip, purple roses, yellow daisys and other flowers and a plush version of her favorite character. She initially thought that I ...

A.   13 December 2011: "We got into 2 fights already about this because she says I'm being dumb. I honestly feel it might be someone crushing on her and she wont tell me." Sorry but this does sound dumb... If someone loves her, what does it mean, how can this be her ... (read in full...)

Should I hope things will change or give up?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend five years and we've lived together four. The last year things have been odd between us. I feel like our relationship is going down a dead-end. I would like to have kids and get married someday. I have told ...

A.   13 December 2011: This is more about you and what you want, your the one who wants the marriage and kids. Do you love him enough to stay if he won't give you this? Will you miss him and hurt if you walk away and find somebody else. He's not ready now, are you ... (read in full...)

I've lost my libido!

Q.   I am Gay Guy, in a Civil partnership. I have appeared to lost my libido, and my partner has turned to using phone lines for his sexual release. I get very frustrated with him, and at a loss as how to handle this....

A.   13 December 2011: Doctor first to make sure you don't have any physical problems like low Testosterone... Then you got to do a check list of all the things that could lower your sex drive.. These include... Drinking too much alcohol, staying up late, being ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend won't have sex with me when his kids are visiting at all.

Q.   The newest idea of my live in boyfirend? We can not have sex when his kids are over (every other week) because he is afraid that they can "walk in" on us and get traumatized! They are 5 and 9. He does not want to lock the door because he does not ...

A.   13 December 2011: "but logically it seems to me like total bullshit...." " I have to admit that it started after the 8 year old had a nightmare once and walked into our bedroom in the middle of the night crying." These statements don't match up.. one child has a... (read in full...)

How can I please him sexually without sex?

Q.   Ok another question for the guys..girls feel free to answer How do you sexually please a guy without having sex? And yes you will all say hand job and blowjob...but can I have more detail please...see this guy he doesn't show any emotion or pleas...

A.   12 December 2011: You don't need tips on sex.. you need help with communication.. Best thing is to ask the guy what he likes. We could tell you to do tons of stuff, but that won't mean he'll face will change or he'll act any different. Good sex needs communic... (read in full...)

Link between the amout of sex and his porn use?

Q.   my boyfriend watches porn without me should i be worried? We went fom having sex 2 or 3 times a day to once a week if i am lucky....

A.   12 December 2011: No problem with him watching porn without you, many people who like porn do that, it's often a private activity. Just like masturbation, many women and men can't masturbate in front of their partner. Abuse of porn, or problems with porn often ... (read in full...)

How can I get past abuse and enjoy sex more fully?

Q.   I'm twenty three and in my first sexual relationship :) which am really pleased about. I love my bf and we took things slow. I sometimes find it hard to enjoy sex totally because I was sexually abused when I was younger. And sometimes I just can't ...

A.   12 December 2011: Counselling is the best path to take. It may be painful at first and stir up emotions and cause great pain, but it will give you answers deep in your heart that removes the blockage and helps you relax. Sigh... it's too hard here to explain how t... (read in full...)

Been together 10 years, married for 6 1/2 yrs, we have sex 5 times a week, but I'm still a virgin because there's been no vaginal sex!!

Q.   I am very in love with my husband, we have been married 6 1/2 years. There is a big age difference between him and I, I am 28, he is 48. His son is older than me, he is 30. My husband was married to his 1st wife, this might sound bad but w...

A.   12 December 2011: Oh yes anonymous, thanks, I do remember you, (blames poor memory) and yes the aunts were very concerned about your situation. If I remember rightly, no penetration occurred and it was distressing you at the time... Thanks for coming back and ... (read in full...)

Link between the amout of sex and his porn use?

Q.   my boyfriend watches porn without me should i be worried? We went fom having sex 2 or 3 times a day to once a week if i am lucky....

A.   12 December 2011: More information would help. How old is he? How long have you been together? When did sex start to decline? How often is he watching pornography? (take a guess) Is he having other problems, at work, with family, with you? Does sound like ... (read in full...)

What are your thoughts on single parents, is the child affected?

Q.   okay so... i found out im pregnant, 14 weeks gone, and the dad basicly said, if i didnt get rid, hed never have anything to do with me again.. of course i didnt get rid and he wants nothing more to do with me... we argued and havent spoke at all in ...

A.   11 December 2011: Sorry forgot the link to the government site to see what pregnant women and children are entitled to.. http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/Parents/index.htm (if you continue working some of the money you claim will be paid back eventually through your ... (read in full...)

What are your thoughts on single parents, is the child affected?

Q.   okay so... i found out im pregnant, 14 weeks gone, and the dad basicly said, if i didnt get rid, hed never have anything to do with me again.. of course i didnt get rid and he wants nothing more to do with me... we argued and havent spoke at all in ...

A.   11 December 2011: No, children in single parent households know no different and they do fine if you arrange things properly. Children of single parents can be the most kind, responsible and loving kids in the world. Your UK, here's a charity which campaigns ... (read in full...)

We've been friends with benefits for almost 5 years. How do I take this further?

Q.   Ok! Here it goes!!! I have known this guy for almost 5 years. We met at my old apartments and I guess you can say it was always a friends with benifits. For a few years I would try and get a relationship to only fail and it would end up in a fight ...

A.   11 December 2011:  "....for almost 5 years you dont just stay around for booty and still put up with each other" Of course you do... your staying around for 5years for a piece of his booty aren't you? Your asking about what he is thinking and why he does this... (read in full...)

Been together 10 years, married for 6 1/2 yrs, we have sex 5 times a week, but I'm still a virgin because there's been no vaginal sex!!

Q.   I am very in love with my husband, we have been married 6 1/2 years. There is a big age difference between him and I, I am 28, he is 48. His son is older than me, he is 30. My husband was married to his 1st wife, this might sound bad but w...

A.   11 December 2011: Kids aint the issue, you can get yourself and your husband sterilized and that's the end of that problem. DoubleM and FishDish have asked you some very important questions. Does your husband do oral to you, do you get orgasms through him touc... (read in full...)

14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?

Q.   okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...

A.   11 December 2011: * one last tip.. try to stay close to your mother and your boyfriends mother.. in years to come you will find that they are your greatest friends and your best support.... (read in full...)

14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?

Q.   okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...

A.   10 December 2011: Mum: "If you get pregnant I'll kick you out" Daughter gets pregnant Mum: "Wow, my baby's having a baby.. I'm gonna be a grandma" See... wasn't so bad after all.. Well done you for being brave and strong.... (read in full...)

Been together 10 years, married for 6 1/2 yrs, we have sex 5 times a week, but I'm still a virgin because there's been no vaginal sex!!

Q.   I am very in love with my husband, we have been married 6 1/2 years. There is a big age difference between him and I, I am 28, he is 48. His son is older than me, he is 30. My husband was married to his 1st wife, this might sound bad but w...

A.   10 December 2011: Very, very strange..... I've never heard anything like this before. And very unfair, to you, does he want you to die a virgin? Are you sure your husband isn't gay or homosexual, that's the only reason I can think of to behave like this. He... (read in full...)

14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?

Q.   okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...

A.   7 December 2011: Babes, if your pregnant, eventually your mum will notice when your belly gets bigger and the baby comes out. It will be worst if you leave it until then. If she's going to kick you out, she's going to kick you out, hiding your pregnancy isn't ... (read in full...)

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