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I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?

Q.   ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...

A.   11 February 2012: Hoping Maverick would come back on this one, cause she knows a lot more than me... she says it's not possible, I don't think it's possible.. I'm gonna stop feeding any hope and agree that your decision to walk away is right. You've consider... (read in full...)

I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?

Q.   ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...

A.   10 February 2012: Stuff and bother, more complicated. So he wasn't hacked, he just opened an email which then took you to a link which says he's registered. Not sure what pof is, that needs explaining. I had a virus which decided to send every friend in my contac... (read in full...)

I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?

Q.   ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...

A.   10 February 2012: Yes, maverick is right... it's unlikely to be an ex, even if she remembered all his passwords and he didn't change them... she couldn't be sure if he or you, or anyone he knows would ever see any sex sites. She more likely hack into his social ... (read in full...)

Au naturale...

Q.   I read in a newspaper recently that a lot of women are beginning to stay 'natural' i.e no shaving their arm pits, etc, I am wondering what readers of 'dearcupid.org think about that suggestion....

A.   9 February 2012: And about what men think... mmmmmm... they might mention it for a second or so.... but they don't seem to mind a lot after we get closer... But I'd really like one day to do the double shaving thing. A guy who dumps me because of me hair.. not... (read in full...)

Au naturale...

Q.   I read in a newspaper recently that a lot of women are beginning to stay 'natural' i.e no shaving their arm pits, etc, I am wondering what readers of 'dearcupid.org think about that suggestion....

A.   9 February 2012: Yippie!!! I'm in fashion again.... I can't be bothered to shave because I'm lazy. Sometimes shave in the summer if I fancy getting dressed up, and this is only because the summer clothes show more of the body. Also might shave if I'm feeling ... (read in full...)

My male partner wants to dress as a woman. Can this result in a happy future for us, as a couple, considering his preference?

Q.   I feel so confused at the moment and i really do not want to make a mistake, but i just dont have the answers myself nor do i know what the best thing is to do. I will try and make it as brief as possible as there could be lots i could say. Ba...

A.   9 February 2012: Sorry for the delay, I know your very pressed for time because of the mortgage problem. But the thing is, you do need time, your situation is difficult and unusual and you are being forced to make decisions that lock you into this relationship ... (read in full...)

Should I tell him how I feel or should we stay as FWB?

Q.   I have a problem with this guy who i used to cam sex with, and he doesn't know that i still like him. Whenever i see him i always feel a certain feeling in my stomach. i don't know if it is butterflies or a stomach. should i tell him how i feel or ...

A.   9 February 2012: Sigh, yes SoVeryConfused.... I missed the Cam thing... and now these young people are confusing me, because they all seem to be doing FWB..... because they don't understand what the term means, they are getting bad advice and insults when the ... (read in full...)

I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?

Q.   ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...

A.   9 February 2012: OK, so it's out of character, it's not like him to do this. But no strange hacker could do something like this. No strange hacker would want to do this. The fact that he has gone and told his mum this isn't a relief, guys who are lying go and l... (read in full...)

I can't believe anything he says anymore!

Q.   Ok i need honest objective advice. I'm 24 years old and been with my boyfriend for just over a year. It's a fairly good relationship - aside for some trust issues. Over the past year my boyfriend has lied to me - about big things and little...

A.   8 February 2012: It's really a pity that you told all our anti-porn aunts to stay away, they do have suggestions and advice that might help... you don't like the advice to leave, your not happy about my working with porn stance and you don't want anti-porn ... (read in full...)

I can't believe anything he says anymore!

Q.   Ok i need honest objective advice. I'm 24 years old and been with my boyfriend for just over a year. It's a fairly good relationship - aside for some trust issues. Over the past year my boyfriend has lied to me - about big things and little...

A.   8 February 2012: Thanks for your follow up. I'm going to choose my words more carefully, because you seem like a woman who needs that. He lies about drugs, but you don't worry much about that, porn to you is more important. He manages to go without porn for... (read in full...)

Should I tell him how I feel or should we stay as FWB?

Q.   I have a problem with this guy who i used to cam sex with, and he doesn't know that i still like him. Whenever i see him i always feel a certain feeling in my stomach. i don't know if it is butterflies or a stomach. should i tell him how i feel or ...

A.   8 February 2012: Tell him, and if he can't give you a proper relationship, then get out as fast as possible. There is no place for love or strong feelings in a relationship based only on sex. You are very silly to sleep with a guy you have strong feelings... (read in full...)

Why did my FWB lose his erection?

Q.   my new fwb eventually lost his erection yesterday when I gave him oral and then when we had sex the first time. he was fine when he was dominate but as soon as I got on top or gave him oral for a while, he loses it. I asked him why this happened and ...

A.   8 February 2012: Sometimes guys just have erection problems, something on his mind, he's not in the mood, he is tired. But it's more likely because he's in bed with a girl that he doesn't love and sex without love isn't that appealing to him. Sure you are pret... (read in full...)

He's eager to get me pregnant, but not walk me down the aisle?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We're both divorced. I'm in my early 30's and he's in his early 40's. At the top of our relationship, I thought we were both on the same page of finding someone again to commit to and get ...

A.   8 February 2012: Where it comes to rights upon marriage and over children, as opposed to rights of single parents or people who just live together, I must apologise because I'm UK based and our laws are different.... (read in full...)

He's eager to get me pregnant, but not walk me down the aisle?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We're both divorced. I'm in my early 30's and he's in his early 40's. At the top of our relationship, I thought we were both on the same page of finding someone again to commit to and get ...

A.   8 February 2012: Cindy cares is right.. problem is the OP did ask for reason about why a guy avoids marriage, so that explains the answers. Bottom line is... do you love him, do you want marriage, do you want kids, will you stay and have kids without marriage... (read in full...)

I've completely ruined the most amazing thing I ever had just because I freaked out!

Q.   I met this amazing guy and we seemed to hit it off from the start. We spent every day together, having fun just doing anything..we just enjoyed each other's company no matter what we were doing. He told me all the time how much he loved me, how am...

A.   8 February 2012: Everything will be alright as long as you concentrate on just being happy and making him happy. From what you say, you've not much experience of nice guys... that's why you worry so much, but there is no need, these little upset do happen and with ... (read in full...)

I've completely ruined the most amazing thing I ever had just because I freaked out!

Q.   I met this amazing guy and we seemed to hit it off from the start. We spent every day together, having fun just doing anything..we just enjoyed each other's company no matter what we were doing. He told me all the time how much he loved me, how am...

A.   8 February 2012: Leave it alone for a couple of months, or better still a year, and then very casually ask "Do you love me", and if he says yes, then ask him to tell you in words.... (read in full...)

I've completely ruined the most amazing thing I ever had just because I freaked out!

Q.   I met this amazing guy and we seemed to hit it off from the start. We spent every day together, having fun just doing anything..we just enjoyed each other's company no matter what we were doing. He told me all the time how much he loved me, how am...

A.   8 February 2012: I know from experience that when a guy pulls away like this, it's very hard to drag them back. It's not that they don't love you, it's just that you told them to change, to stop saying things that upset you, and once they have changed it's very ... (read in full...)

Affair with husband's brother, and husband is okay with it.

Q.   My brother-in-law (husband's brother) and I have started to engage in an affair. It started about a month ago. Initially after we first had sex, he was feeling so guilty that he said he never wanted it to happen again. I also felt guilty for what ...

A.   8 February 2012: This story is strange... but all types of strange things happen in the bedroom and between humans. Your husband thinks it's fine, his brother thinks it's fine, you must like it or else you wouldn't be doing it. Consensual sex and everybody is ... (read in full...)

Surprise 50th birthday party and his wife didn't invite his Mother, how to deal with her!

Q.   Hi Guys I have a situation which isn't about a relationship, it's more a family situation and I was just hoping you guys might be able to help me. My brother just turned 50 years old, and his wife put on a surprise birthday party for him, and she...

A.   8 February 2012: Sister in law is a strange lady, to want to punish old ladies.... anyway, you've dealt with it in the correct way. Nothing has been hidden and you've made her aware that you know what she did. It's now your brothers problem to deal with. Comf... (read in full...)

I'm very insecure about fiance's porn useage!

Q.   I have become very insecure about my fiance's porn usage. We have been together for over a year and are very much in love. I am pretty much always up for sex because I have a very high sex drive. I am always trying new things with him, try to ...

A.   8 February 2012: Sorry missed the part about him avoiding sex... Yes, that's not normal porn usage, that's a problem. This you can bring up and say, porn is spoiling our sex life and you need to give it up. It could be however that your sex drive is too hig... (read in full...)

I'm very insecure about fiance's porn useage!

Q.   I have become very insecure about my fiance's porn usage. We have been together for over a year and are very much in love. I am pretty much always up for sex because I have a very high sex drive. I am always trying new things with him, try to ...

A.   8 February 2012: You don't seem to have a total dislike of porn. Instead what you seem to be saying is it makes you feel insecure and you believe that porn usage has something to do with bad relationships. This is what you and him have decided but now ... (read in full...)

He's eager to get me pregnant, but not walk me down the aisle?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We're both divorced. I'm in my early 30's and he's in his early 40's. At the top of our relationship, I thought we were both on the same page of finding someone again to commit to and get ...

A.   8 February 2012: I really don't understand why guys don't marry either. From the reasons I've heard, it's all to do with money. They don't want to lose money if they get divorced. Pity really, as they are in a much stronger position legally in regards to their... (read in full...)

How can my FWB partner accuse me of cheating when we aren't together?

Q.   Ok so I went out at the weekend a man that I have been having sex with for 11 months was working on the doors as a doorman this is some background so you know the full story you might understand why I did what I did we met nearly a year ago I really ...

A.   8 February 2012: Not understanding this much. This guy aint your boyfriend, he's just some guy who comes over and you and him have sex. He's shown he's not interested in dating, he never takes you anywhere. He comes over for sex, and he isn't even concerned i... (read in full...)

I'm a sponsor my niece but don't really want to be. How do I tell my sister?

Q.   Hey, I'm seeking advice on something. When my sister had her baby she asked me to be one of my niece's sponsors, which is a God Mother but since we are Lutheran we call them sponsors. I really didn't want to be her sponsor but how do you tell your ...

A.   8 February 2012: I'm an atheist, but was asked to be godmother to my baby cousin years ago. This was very important to me, as her mother had abandoned her and she was dumped on my family when she was very little. I had to think deeply... I can't make promises th... (read in full...)

B/f used to take me to Las Vegas with him for work but now he goes alone. Is he cheating?

Q.   IS HE CHEATING? My boyfriend used to take me to Las vegas everytime he travels for work.. wERE supposed to stay again last month but then he cancelled and just dicided to come home every weekend.(we live together) Its been going on like th...

A.   8 February 2012: I agree with the other aunts. I'm not a jealous woman, and I expect to trust my partner with no questions asked. But dramatic changes in behaviour, defensiveness for no reason, lack of explanation.... that's enough for me to know that something is ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to like foreplay

Q.   How can I get my bf to have more foreplay with me before sex? The way he normally has sex and even goes down on me is kind of "straight to the point" with very little kissing or teasing. Its very hard for me to actually climax during oral because ...

A.   7 February 2012: Nothing wrong with you, the guy is crap at sex and he's either lying about his partners or a lot of women have been lying to him. How do we know, because good lovers like lots of foreplay, and most women won't get wet if you approach them and treat ... (read in full...)

My male partner wants to dress as a woman. Can this result in a happy future for us, as a couple, considering his preference?

Q.   I feel so confused at the moment and i really do not want to make a mistake, but i just dont have the answers myself nor do i know what the best thing is to do. I will try and make it as brief as possible as there could be lots i could say. Ba...

A.   7 February 2012: The more you say, the more confused I am about his sexuality and his idea of gender.... Just don't sign nothing yet. There is no hurry, don't rush anything. You need time to make the right decision.... (read in full...)

I feel like I owe it to my husband to have a threesome.

Q.   My husband has been wanting a threesome with another women, i was for it at first but after his pushing and searching I started to have my insecruities. I feel tho, it needs to happen. I was unfaithful to him. I kissed a guy. (it might not see...

A.   7 February 2012: Thanks for the update, that's an ending that I like very much.. lol... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has no hygiene and no self esteem! What do I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. One of the problems I have with our relationship is that over the past couple of years he has turned into an epic slob. He doesn't just leave a disaster wherever he goes-- He does not brush his ...

A.   7 February 2012: Sounds like depression, but things won't change if he won't go and see a doctor. You can't stay in such a situation. I think you need to explain that you think he is sick and he needs to get some help or you can't stay. Depression is a terrible... (read in full...)

I want more from my FWB so I tried to make him jealous by flirting with other men, should I feel guilty?

Q.   Hi I was just wondering am I wrong to be feeling guilty? I have been in a casual relationship for 11 months now, I have wanted more since we met and I have told him that. he recently told me he still loved his ex even though they split up two years ...

A.   6 February 2012: I don't think the guy is bothered by you flirting with other men. He's not in a relationship with you, he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, he is still in love with his ex. He's explained this all to you but your not listening. The ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend kept all photos/numbers of his ex girlfriends but lied to me about it

Q.   hi im in a new relationship but had problems already my boyfriend kept all hes exes letters photos and numnbers after telling me he had got rid of them .its only been over a month and i dont want to lose trust ....

A.   6 February 2012: Wow.. he's only known you a month, and already you demanded he destroy all the photo's and things he's had for decades, long before he met you. He'd be an idiot to do this. He's spent a lifetime collecting them memories, and after a couple of ... (read in full...)

My male partner wants to dress as a woman. Can this result in a happy future for us, as a couple, considering his preference?

Q.   I feel so confused at the moment and i really do not want to make a mistake, but i just dont have the answers myself nor do i know what the best thing is to do. I will try and make it as brief as possible as there could be lots i could say. Ba...

A.   6 February 2012: Yep, thanks to the aunts, I double checked... you like to talk a lot about money, but no word of love anywhere. I don't think the relationship will be successful, because it lacks love.... (read in full...)

My male partner wants to dress as a woman. Can this result in a happy future for us, as a couple, considering his preference?

Q.   I feel so confused at the moment and i really do not want to make a mistake, but i just dont have the answers myself nor do i know what the best thing is to do. I will try and make it as brief as possible as there could be lots i could say. Ba...

A.   6 February 2012: I'm ignoring the money stuff... money doesn't really have no place in love. You need to concentrate on the romantic situation, once you've made a decision about then you can sort out money and housing. At first I was going to say, no problem,... (read in full...)

How do I convince my wife to have sex with another man??

Q.   Please offer suggestions as to how to convince my late-50s wife to have sex with another man for our mutual pleasure. Although she has not always been faithful to me (she had an affair many years ago early in our marriage), she simply refuses to do ...

A.   6 February 2012: Since this old post has come up again.. I wonder where Kenny went. Surely if him and wife were happy in their threesome, he'd be here telling everyone how wonderful it went. I wonder if she divorced him for emotional cruelty, or she told him to s... (read in full...)

Urgent! I snooped through my boyfriend's phone and now his mother says I have to tell him right away

Q.   Hello, I really need some advice/help fast my as boyfriends mom tells me Im running out of time..JOY! Ok heres what happenned, I live with my boyfriend and his mom for the last 6months. We've had our ups and downs..Im having some stuggles due to f...

A.   6 February 2012: mntrstina30 got to tell you, damn girl you is brave and you got balls. That's a good thing in a woman. I know your housing situation aint good, and you need to spend some time concentrating on that. I know you wished you didn't ask, but ... (read in full...)

Surprise 50th birthday party and his wife didn't invite his Mother, how to deal with her!

Q.   Hi Guys I have a situation which isn't about a relationship, it's more a family situation and I was just hoping you guys might be able to help me. My brother just turned 50 years old, and his wife put on a surprise birthday party for him, and she...

A.   6 February 2012: Talk to the brother.. again, not in an angry way, but to inform him that his mother is hurt and devastated. She held him in her belly for 9months, she fed him and watered him until he was old enough to leave home. She could have aborted him, he ... (read in full...)

Why does he think going on dating sites is "nothing"?

Q.   I have officially broke up with my bf of 4 years a few months ago but the feelings are still there and we still love each other a lot. We broke up because the future for us would be very tough together. I also found out that he's been on dating w...

A.   6 February 2012: Thanks for the follow up.. I do understand you know, I've felt just exactly like you before. That's why it's good to have clarity about these things. A boyfriend is a boyfriend, a friend is a friend, and an ex is an ex.... don't mix them up toget... (read in full...)

Surprise 50th birthday party and his wife didn't invite his Mother, how to deal with her!

Q.   Hi Guys I have a situation which isn't about a relationship, it's more a family situation and I was just hoping you guys might be able to help me. My brother just turned 50 years old, and his wife put on a surprise birthday party for him, and she...

A.   6 February 2012: Such things happen time to time in my family and create great drama and noise. An uncle died and his wife and my aunt (sisters) had a fight, and later my aunt didn't get an invitation to their daughters wedding. Every other member of the family ... (read in full...)

I lied to my boyfriend but now that I have come clean and am telling the truth he doesn't trust me

Q.   I lied to my boyfriend about my online- activities prior to us moving in together. When he found out, I denied it, then I changed my story and told him what I was doing (emblishing the facts as I thought it was what he wanted to hear), I then took ...

A.   6 February 2012: I wouldn't believe you either. You present as aged 36-40 and currently living in Australia. Is that the truth or another lie.. you sure your not a 15year old living in America? You say you lied about your online activities. Now like your boy... (read in full...)

Why aren't men ever content with just one woman, on dating sites?

Q.   Dating sites are very adventurous but I think once you have dated a guy and he wants to see you again, its only manners to wait until the next time.In meeting someone old fashioned style, if you meet someone and wanted to meet them again, would it ...

A.   5 February 2012: "if you dated a woman that you really really liked and fell for, would you like her dating other men" (female anon) That's the thing that code warrior and some of the aunts are trying to tell you in a polite way. If the guy really likes you... (read in full...)

I want to better this world, not date. what's the best way to react to prying personal questions on dating?

Q.   Okay so here it goes, ever since I was very young I always knew what I wanted in life and that desire was to better this world in some way before I died. At a young age I could comprehend what death was and that eventually every living thing has to ...

A.   5 February 2012: I have nothing to add, you've been given the words to say to people who ask you questions. Your young, and you've got very fixed ideas about the world. Unfortunately because you are young you lack a lot of knowledge and talk with ignoranc... (read in full...)

I really want to give him head. Is this normal?

Q.   Dear cupid, I'm 19, I've been seeing this guy for 5 months, he's 23. I've known him for a year now, but only started taking it further in Sept 2011. We've been through our ups and downs, and we do communicate a lot, he's very straight up with ...

A.   5 February 2012: Very normal... lol.. although some women don't really like giving their guy oral sex, other women love it. That's the thing with sex, people like or hate all kinds of things. When the bedroom door closes, who knows what people are doing, p... (read in full...)

A married millionaire spending time and money on a young beautiful model: Is it possible this relationship is NOT cheating?

Q.   Hello, I am writing on behalf of a friend with who came to me with her concerns the other day. I tried to respond best as I could, but I wanted to tap into the wisdom pool here to see what I could tell her further or better. Basically, my fri...

A.   5 February 2012: Yes it's very possible that he has no sexual interest, but thinks that she is talented and views her like a daughter. But it's also possible that he's head over heals in love, because he feels old in years, he wants her because she represents a... (read in full...)

If a married man and a woman have an affair, can the woman be blamed as well?

Q.   If a woman and a married man have an affair, is it the woman's fault as well? Obviously, it is the man's fault, but is the woman to blame as well as a home-wrecker? I have heard the defense of the woman saying "It was his choice to go after m...

A.   5 February 2012: Woman's single, she didn't make no promises to anyone. She can do what she likes. She isn't the friend of the wife and owes her no consideration. But the other woman is stupid, because she's being used and will end up getting very hurt.... (read in full...)

Why does he think going on dating sites is "nothing"?

Q.   I have officially broke up with my bf of 4 years a few months ago but the feelings are still there and we still love each other a lot. We broke up because the future for us would be very tough together. I also found out that he's been on dating w...

A.   5 February 2012: But you two was breaking up, there was no future. You can't tell a guy your breaking up and then get upset by what he is doing. Break up means over, he's single, he doesn't have to ask your permission to go on dating sites. Break ups and ... (read in full...)

I can't believe anything he says anymore!

Q.   Ok i need honest objective advice. I'm 24 years old and been with my boyfriend for just over a year. It's a fairly good relationship - aside for some trust issues. Over the past year my boyfriend has lied to me - about big things and little...

A.   5 February 2012: Honest and Objective is me middle name... but a lot of people don't actually want honesty, they want confirmation for their own beliefs. Your boyfriend lies.. about "little things", over 10 times you said. Nope he's lied more, he lies when he ... (read in full...)

I feel like I owe it to my husband to have a threesome.

Q.   My husband has been wanting a threesome with another women, i was for it at first but after his pushing and searching I started to have my insecruities. I feel tho, it needs to happen. I was unfaithful to him. I kissed a guy. (it might not see...

A.   5 February 2012: He's either young like you, and full of stupid ideas which he got from porn and he's not thinking about the reality and the difficulties that may come up. Or he's a lot older, wiser and knows exactly what he's doing and married a young woman so h... (read in full...)

I want to better this world, not date. what's the best way to react to prying personal questions on dating?

Q.   Okay so here it goes, ever since I was very young I always knew what I wanted in life and that desire was to better this world in some way before I died. At a young age I could comprehend what death was and that eventually every living thing has to ...

A.   5 February 2012: Sorry I don't answer questions about my personal life. I've got more important things to do than go dating Sorry, but that's none of your business I'm too busy to date right now I'm ambitious about my future, a relationship would slow me down ... (read in full...)

Why aren't men ever content with just one woman, on dating sites?

Q.   Dating sites are very adventurous but I think once you have dated a guy and he wants to see you again, its only manners to wait until the next time.In meeting someone old fashioned style, if you meet someone and wanted to meet them again, would it ...

A.   5 February 2012: Seems to me that dating sites are about meeting new people, they don't promise marriage, love or relationships. Dates are about people going out and getting to know each other. Nothing is promised and nothing should be expected, except maybe an a... (read in full...)

I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?

Q.   ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...

A.   4 February 2012: Don't think hackers know your dick size or your car? If he's telling people about his dick, the girls aint the skank, he is. The guy is a liar and he is a cheat, first chance he gets he'll be doing sex with someone else, if he's not already.... (read in full...)

Urgent! I snooped through my boyfriend's phone and now his mother says I have to tell him right away

Q.   Hello, I really need some advice/help fast my as boyfriends mom tells me Im running out of time..JOY! Ok heres what happenned, I live with my boyfriend and his mom for the last 6months. We've had our ups and downs..Im having some stuggles due to f...

A.   4 February 2012: *Big Hugs*... sorry babes I know it's hard, but I want you to try again. The way your trying to attract his attention is good, he'd have to be a blind man not to see that you want to get sexual. One more time, but this time make sure it's ear... (read in full...)

I feel like I owe it to my husband to have a threesome.

Q.   My husband has been wanting a threesome with another women, i was for it at first but after his pushing and searching I started to have my insecruities. I feel tho, it needs to happen. I was unfaithful to him. I kissed a guy. (it might not see...

A.   3 February 2012: You kissed a guy and for that you want punishment.... but the punishment seems a bit extreme to me... why can't you sentence yourself to do the dishes or be his love slave for a week.. that seems more balanced. Have you really considered what ... (read in full...)

Urgent! I snooped through my boyfriend's phone and now his mother says I have to tell him right away

Q.   Hello, I really need some advice/help fast my as boyfriends mom tells me Im running out of time..JOY! Ok heres what happenned, I live with my boyfriend and his mom for the last 6months. We've had our ups and downs..Im having some stuggles due to f...

A.   2 February 2012: Ah.. so your problem is he likes playing computer games and you get no sex... Yep, that's enough to make any woman feel insecure.. but the snooping thing, as everyone has said is just not right. Can't work out why your not having sex, or w... (read in full...)

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