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I feel like he totally missed the boat on the whole chivarly thing.
Q. We had a big snow storm today. After work my car was frozen shut. I called my husband who drives a 4WHD truck to come pick me up. While waiting my boss poured some rubbing alcohol on the door jam and viola it opened. I called my husband but he had ...
A. 19 December 2011: "Personally, if you have too little time in the morning to get your things together, you need to wake up earlier" (chigirl) Yep, totally agree... why are you cooking him breakfast if your late and you resent it so much, why not just get somethi... (read in full...)
What are your thoughts on single parents, is the child affected?
Q. okay so... i found out im pregnant, 14 weeks gone, and the dad basicly said, if i didnt get rid, hed never have anything to do with me again.. of course i didnt get rid and he wants nothing more to do with me... we argued and havent spoke at all in ...
A. 14 December 2011: Sorry it's taken time to respond, on some questions I find the words don't come so easily. You were very kind to update your post and thank us aunts, it's nice when people remember to do that.
Glad we made you cry.. lol.. yep, tears of joy are ... (read in full...)
We've been friends with benefits for almost 5 years. How do I take this further?
Q. Ok! Here it goes!!! I have known this guy for almost 5 years. We met at my old apartments and I guess you can say it was always a friends with benifits. For a few years I would try and get a relationship to only fail and it would end up in a fight ...
A. 14 December 2011: What's the problem with you just asking him straight out, if he wants to do the boyfriend/girlfriend thing.. no one else just you two, dating for a while without sex. I can see your sensitive about the whole thing, you think that people will say ... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 14 December 2011: Yep, got it now, know what to say...
Babes, I want you take take a picture of you and your mum going to the hospital together. I want you to get two copies, you keep one and give one to your mum. Keep this picture with you for all of your life... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 14 December 2011: Nope I'm moved as well, I'm just thinking and trying to find the right words to write back...... (read in full...)
Link between the amout of sex and his porn use?
Q. my boyfriend watches porn without me should i be worried? We went fom having sex 2 or 3 times a day to once a week if i am lucky....
A. 13 December 2011: OK, so it's not a porn issue.. it's a man who is busy with his friend and is ignoring you. That's the real problem not the sex. If the guy is a room mate and their is no space maybe your boyfriend is to shy to have sex. Or he's too busy having ... (read in full...)
Link between the amout of sex and his porn use?
Q. my boyfriend watches porn without me should i be worried? We went fom having sex 2 or 3 times a day to once a week if i am lucky....
A. 12 December 2011: No problem with him watching porn without you, many people who like porn do that, it's often a private activity. Just like masturbation, many women and men can't masturbate in front of their partner. Abuse of porn, or problems with porn often ... (read in full...)
Been together 10 years, married for 6 1/2 yrs, we have sex 5 times a week, but I'm still a virgin because there's been no vaginal sex!!
Q. I am very in love with my husband, we have been married 6 1/2 years. There is a big age difference between him and I, I am 28, he is 48. His son is older than me, he is 30. My husband was married to his 1st wife, this might sound bad but w...
A. 12 December 2011: Oh yes anonymous, thanks, I do remember you, (blames poor memory) and yes the aunts were very concerned about your situation. If I remember rightly, no penetration occurred and it was distressing you at the time... Thanks for coming back and ... (read in full...)
Link between the amout of sex and his porn use?
Q. my boyfriend watches porn without me should i be worried? We went fom having sex 2 or 3 times a day to once a week if i am lucky....
A. 12 December 2011: More information would help.
How old is he?
How long have you been together?
When did sex start to decline?
How often is he watching pornography? (take a guess)
Is he having other problems, at work, with family, with you?
Does sound like ... (read in full...)
How can I be less jealous?
Q. I've tried explaining to my boyfriend that there's just one girl he used to be with that i get really jelous over, and when it has to do with her i get jelous if he is even texting her. I don't wanna source.d over controling so i don't. Wanna talk ...
A. 11 December 2011: lol.. thanks for the update.. I love a happy ending.... (read in full...)
What are your thoughts on single parents, is the child affected?
Q. okay so... i found out im pregnant, 14 weeks gone, and the dad basicly said, if i didnt get rid, hed never have anything to do with me again.. of course i didnt get rid and he wants nothing more to do with me... we argued and havent spoke at all in ...
A. 11 December 2011: Sorry forgot the link to the government site to see what pregnant women and children are entitled to.. http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/Parents/index.htm (if you continue working some of the money you claim will be paid back eventually through your ... (read in full...)
What are your thoughts on single parents, is the child affected?
Q. okay so... i found out im pregnant, 14 weeks gone, and the dad basicly said, if i didnt get rid, hed never have anything to do with me again.. of course i didnt get rid and he wants nothing more to do with me... we argued and havent spoke at all in ...
A. 11 December 2011: No, children in single parent households know no different and they do fine if you arrange things properly. Children of single parents can be the most kind, responsible and loving kids in the world. Your UK, here's a charity which campaigns ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is too shy when it comes to sex
Q. Hey guys. I've been with my girlfriend for a while now. It's nearly been two years and she's way tooooo innocent. Like i dont mind it but it halts us from advancing from anything. Like if i try initiate dirty talk, she would immediately reply with ...
A. 11 December 2011: I'm an old woman, and dirty talk embarrasses me.. some people are like that... maybe she doesn't want to be like you, maybe she doesn't think dirty talk is "cool".
Talking dirty isn't advancing... for me and for your girlfriend it isn't a turn on,... (read in full...)
We've been friends with benefits for almost 5 years. How do I take this further?
Q. Ok! Here it goes!!! I have known this guy for almost 5 years. We met at my old apartments and I guess you can say it was always a friends with benifits. For a few years I would try and get a relationship to only fail and it would end up in a fight ...
A. 11 December 2011: "....for almost 5 years you dont just stay around for booty and still put up with each other"
Of course you do... your staying around for 5years for a piece of his booty aren't you?
Your asking about what he is thinking and why he does this... (read in full...)
My professor is hitting on me. What am I supposed to do? Is this normal in college today?
Q. So I'm 18 years old and a freshman in college. One of my professors is always hitting on me. I'm not saying this to sound conceited, I'm saying it 'cause I know. The other day he told me I looked gorgeous. Also, in my college we have our teacher's ...
A. 11 December 2011: There should be no personal relations between student and teacher, what he is doing is abusive, he's trying to get you into bed. You risk being thrown out of school, you risk having your marks downgraded, you need to put a stop to this ... (read in full...)
Been together 10 years, married for 6 1/2 yrs, we have sex 5 times a week, but I'm still a virgin because there's been no vaginal sex!!
Q. I am very in love with my husband, we have been married 6 1/2 years. There is a big age difference between him and I, I am 28, he is 48. His son is older than me, he is 30. My husband was married to his 1st wife, this might sound bad but w...
A. 11 December 2011: Kids aint the issue, you can get yourself and your husband sterilized and that's the end of that problem.
DoubleM and FishDish have asked you some very important questions. Does your husband do oral to you, do you get orgasms through him touc... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 11 December 2011: * one last tip.. try to stay close to your mother and your boyfriends mother.. in years to come you will find that they are your greatest friends and your best support.... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 10 December 2011: Mum: "If you get pregnant I'll kick you out"
Daughter gets pregnant
Mum: "Wow, my baby's having a baby.. I'm gonna be a grandma"
See... wasn't so bad after all.. Well done you for being brave and strong.... (read in full...)
Did he kiss me on the forehead because he's feeling more of an attraction for me?
Q. This guy and I have sexual chemistry towards each other. We hooked up a few times but it hasn't really gone anywhere because we both havent really wanted anything or really talked about it. He always watches me whenever we go out or else stays near...
A. 10 December 2011: He sounds like he's looking for a girlfriend.. but your just giving him sex and it's a FWB.
Thing with a girl doing a FWB (sex only no-commitment) the guy doesn't really see her as the type of woman to make into a girlfriend. So he's lonely, ... (read in full...)
Just broke up. Still have feelings for him. But now I'm crushing for another. Am I heading for heartbreak again?
Q. Last week my boyfriend and I broke up. It was sad.. Anyway I still have feelings for him :( And I think about him ALL the time.. So I'm not over him. And now I'm crushing on my best friend's older brother!!! I am freaking out, because I think he l...
A. 10 December 2011: In one week you finish with your boyfriend and now your crushing on some other guy... that's fast work. You don't sound very sad to be honest. Leave the older guy alone. First, you'll embarrass your friend, second, you'll embarrass yourse... (read in full...)
How can I be less jealous?
Q. I've tried explaining to my boyfriend that there's just one girl he used to be with that i get really jelous over, and when it has to do with her i get jelous if he is even texting her. I don't wanna source.d over controling so i don't. Wanna talk ...
A. 10 December 2011: Say exactly what you told us here, it sounded really good. You don't want to sound controlling, and you accept that he has friends and some of them are women, but just this one girl bothers you, and it's making you nervous and insecure. Tell him ... (read in full...)
I push away the guys I'm interested in.
Q. Hi, I'm 15, never had a boyfriend (and believe me, in my school and in this day and age, its a big deal) or even been kissed. Not trying to be conceited, but I'm fairly nice, smart, funny, and i've been called pretty and cute before by a lot of ...
A. 10 December 2011: At your age all of this is normal. I'm a lot older, but I'm kind of the same. When I really like a guy I get shy and can't look at him...
You got to use your eyes more. The eyes are a good tool for telling a guy you like him. You stare at... (read in full...)
Ex is avoiding me after sex
Q. My ex appears to be avoiding me after we had sex. We've been broke up for 5 months now because he didn't feel enough for me to be in a relationship and saw me as a friend. But we carried on having sex until about 3 months ago. Then it stopped ...
A. 10 December 2011: "I get a big strong feeling that I'm being avoided, and I don't get why" He did explain, he doesn't feel enough for you in a romantic way, but he likes you as a friend. After sex he feels guilty about using you, because you love him, but he does... (read in full...)
Broken hearted after break up with married ex boyfriend..
Q. I met a wonderful man online and we became friends on an online game. I know some people are going to judge and thats ok. We all make mistakes, I never in my life had any interest in a married man and he never cheated on his wife until he met me and ...
A. 10 December 2011: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/in-love-w-a-married-man-how-do-i-cope-w-break-up.html... (read in full...)
What happened? one minute I don't text enough, now he refuses to answer. Is he a player?
Q. Hi everyone here goes I met a man 9 month ago we ended up becoming fwb. Don't know how it just happened, my feelings for him started getting stronger last week. I told him I liked him and wanted to be his girlfriend. I thought he felt the same as ...
A. 10 December 2011: FWB - Sex only, no commitments, you both use each others body, that's all it is. If you have feelings, yes you can tell him. You told him, and now he won't answer the phone.
That's your answer, he isn't interested in feelings or a relation... (read in full...)
Any stories of casual sex turning into something more?
Q. Does anyone have any stories of casual things turning into something more? I've been seeing this guy casually and it's been great. Neither of us want relationships at the moment so we're both very happy with the way things are. Thing is, we talk ...
A. 10 December 2011: Enjoy yourself.. why worry... (read in full...)
Been together 10 years, married for 6 1/2 yrs, we have sex 5 times a week, but I'm still a virgin because there's been no vaginal sex!!
Q. I am very in love with my husband, we have been married 6 1/2 years. There is a big age difference between him and I, I am 28, he is 48. His son is older than me, he is 30. My husband was married to his 1st wife, this might sound bad but w...
A. 10 December 2011: Very, very strange..... I've never heard anything like this before.
And very unfair, to you, does he want you to die a virgin?
Are you sure your husband isn't gay or homosexual, that's the only reason I can think of to behave like this.
He... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is becoming too whimsy for me to bear!
Q. My girlfriend is whimsy. She goes to great length of persecution to have things done her way, for no visible reason... She does not answer without a reason, she throws tantrums about me not loving her out of nowhere, and if I get mad after taking i...
A. 10 December 2011: Whimsy.... very old fashioned word, not sure I understand it. Sounds like she is under stress, she finds life hard and doesn't know how to handle it. Maybe talk to her, find out what is bothering her, what's on her mind, she may have secrets that ... (read in full...)
Should I go through his phone? Or is he even worth another chance?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and it's been a little rocky. The first year or so, although he never cheated on me, he was always texting and calling women he had been with in the past and it always caused problems. He didn't see the ...
A. 10 December 2011: If you have to check his phone, you haven't got a relationship worth saving. Relationship are built on trust and love, or they are built on nothing at all. Either you trust him and believe she's a friend, or you let him go and save yourself he... (read in full...)
What does an orgasm feel like?
Q. What does an orgasim feel like? My legs will shake and I'll feel like I'm about to pee but I'm not sure if that's what it is....
A. 9 December 2011: That's it, that's the start...
It's like a mountain, you've got as far as the top, now you got to let go and let yourself drop down to the bottom, the ride down is the orgasm.... (read in full...)
Monogamy: How do I get there with the guy I've been with for 2 months.
Q. I've been dating this guy for 2 months now and I want to know when is it appropriate to ask if he wants to be exclusive at some point. Or at 34 years old - is it just assumed at some point? We are now spending two days/nights a week together. It s...
A. 9 December 2011: I always think it's best to be honest from the start about what you are expecting from a relationship. Sometimes it's a friend you need (with sex as a bonus), sometimes it's a boyfriend you want with a view to a long term commitment and maybe ... (read in full...)
My gf cheated on me. Should I spoil things with her new guy or just let her go?
Q. ok i'm in a dilema should I be a total git and ruin things for her or should I let it go tell her I dont want to hear from her again and explain how much she's hurt me. my gf and i split about a week ago. The relationship had been hard for ab...
A. 9 December 2011: "So should I phone the guy and tell him whats been going on and basically spoil whats happening with him as i'm sure he doesn't know about me"
Waste of time.. there is no you and her, you've split up remember. If you phone the guy, he'll laugh hi... (read in full...)
Can you use ordinary lube with non-latex condoms?
Q. Quick question: can you use ordinary lube with polyurethane condoms? As in non-latex ones? Because all the lubes I've seen have "suitable for use with latex condoms" (or words to that effect) written on the back. Does that mean there different lubes ...
A. 9 December 2011: Contact the family planning department at your nearest NHS clinic. They are the experts on all questions to do with contraception, and you may be able to get condoms and lubricants there for free. You will be able to speak to a nurse or doctor ... (read in full...)
I feel like he totally missed the boat on the whole chivarly thing.
Q. We had a big snow storm today. After work my car was frozen shut. I called my husband who drives a 4WHD truck to come pick me up. While waiting my boss poured some rubbing alcohol on the door jam and viola it opened. I called my husband but he had ...
A. 9 December 2011: I'm just confused about why you posted here. You already asked your women friends and they all agreed with your position. (or you ignored the ones who had a different opinion) The aunts on DC have been kind enough to share their views with you, ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant but don't want to tell date I've met online
Q. ive been speaking to this guy who i meet on plent of fish for over a year now and never meet untill 2 weeks ago and have met twice now we get on really well over txt phone and in person, but the thing is he told me he wants to be with me and ...
A. 9 December 2011: OK, so if you don't tell him, what happens then. How are you gonna hide your belly and then the baby. Somehow I think he might find out if you keep seeing him.
Tell the guy, maybe he'll understand, maybe he won't. Or just dump him, and worry ab... (read in full...)
I think I love my FWB but he doesn't care
Q. ok, so this friend and i have been doin this friends with benifits thing since the break up the first time! but hes tarted to get close with an ex of his but he said it most likly wont work. well shortly after that we got back together and it only ...
A. 9 December 2011: He's not using you, your doing the sex without any commitment thing. He's not your boyfriend, he's a guy you have sex with when you feel the need. You have no right to go through his telephone, you have no ties on him at all. He can do what he ... (read in full...)
Vulgar bulgur
Q. Okay I know this is a rather silly question, but the other night my gf cooked this dish that I hated. She is a tender woman and so I haven't told her yet. The next day she said she was quite pleased with the flavor. Any tips on gently telling h...
A. 9 December 2011: Thanks for the tip.. gonna stick this one in me recipe book.... (read in full...)
My husband left me for a younger woman. Is this Karma?
Q. How do I repent for all the hearts and minds that I toyed with and crushed? I never knew what it felt like to be crushed because I was always the one doing the crushing and not giving crap about how I left my victims broken and damaged. I left ...
A. 8 December 2011: Ummm.. you are who you are, and it doesn't sound like you have any intention of changing. That's fine, as I say you are who you are. But other people are the way they are, and as you find out, they might get fed up with you one day and run away. ... (read in full...)
He wants a baby but not marriage?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. (He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's.) We recently got pregnant, but I had a miscarriage. Though this pregnancy was unexpected, we had discussed wanting to have kids together in ...
A. 8 December 2011: I can hear the anger, upset, pain and sarcasm in your voice. Your hurt about how he feels and you think it's either some type of bad reflection on you, or there is something wrong with him, or how he feels or the relationship itself.
Sigh.... (read in full...)
Girls, especially, do you think a guy being able to dance well is important to you?
Q. I hate dancing. I mean REALLY HATE IT lol. Its embarrassing and boring. And everyone else loves it, which makes me feel awful for dissappointing my friends, and i just end up hating dancing even more. Thing is, i keep hearing about how impo...
A. 8 December 2011: I LOVE dancing, so I couldn't date you.. but of course not EVERYBODY likes it. People are all different, I know loads of people who can't dance and avoid it. Yep, girls who dance want to dance close with a guy, but if you can't dance, you can f... (read in full...)
My guys is still affectionate, but no sex! Is it because of 2 kids and our busy life?
Q. Hello, A little background information, My boyfriend and I have been together for just about 4 years and have 2 young children. Our sex life has never been crazy, I got pregnant pretty quick when we first started dating (3 months)so I think tha...
A. 8 December 2011: Think I remember you posting before. You need to sort out some regular babysitting before you can tackle the sex issue. It looks like it's got to be the sister, 1 hour away. Have you tried to talk to him and get his opinion about who to dum... (read in full...)
How Important Is Money And Career In Choosing A Partner?
Q. If you were, let's say, making 60k a year, would you date someone who is making 15k? If you had a college education, would you date someone without one? What about you, women? How would you feel if your man was 'inferior' to you in both money and ...
A. 8 December 2011: Don't understand the term inferior when it comes to money. I reckon all the guys I've dated earned less than me. But then life changed for them and they ended up making more than me. Didn't matter one bit, I like to share and I like guys who ... (read in full...)
He wants a baby but not marriage?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. (He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's.) We recently got pregnant, but I had a miscarriage. Though this pregnancy was unexpected, we had discussed wanting to have kids together in ...
A. 8 December 2011: "He does realize that marriage is important to me and said that he would get married if it would make me happy, but he also explained that it's going to take some time for him to warm up to the idea again." Translation... man wants to keep yo... (read in full...)
He wants a baby but not marriage?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. (He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's.) We recently got pregnant, but I had a miscarriage. Though this pregnancy was unexpected, we had discussed wanting to have kids together in ...
A. 8 December 2011: "He does realize that marriage is important to me and said that he would get married if it would make me happy, but he also explained that it's going to take some time for him to warm up to the idea again." Translation... man wants to keep yo... (read in full...)
Raging hormones are making me want to have sex just to relieve the feelings
Q. Hi everyone. Well this is something I dont really have anyone to talk to about, normally id speak to my mum but she isnt very open to sex talks, and makes it very uncomfortable. Well Im almost 21 and Im still a virgin not because Im religious ...
A. 8 December 2011: I know your not religious, but you can take the example of religious teens. They find lots of outside activities, groups, clubs and hobbies. Anything that keeps them in public and keeps them out of the house. Exercise will also help, it will ... (read in full...)
Fling I had at work is now totally ignoring me. I'm married but feel uncomfortable with things this way!
Q. I had a fling with a guy at my job for 2 years. He wasn't what I expected so we ended the relationship. It took awhile for him to go away because he was still calling and texting for six more months after. I have moved on and now pregnant and ...
A. 7 December 2011: When you had a fling and then went back to your husband and got pregnant, then the friendship ended. If he was hanging around and texting for 6months, his heart got involved and he was hurt when you and him finished.
Leave him alone. He doesn't ... (read in full...)
How much do you mind a partner's human side (bodily functions?)
Q. This might sound like a ridiculous question, but in all seriousness, when you're with a new boyfriend/girlfriend (one you've been with for some time but have never lived with, that is), how much do you mind being aware of their... umm... more human ...
A. 7 December 2011: Is your brother 7years old and still living at home?
What are you going to do, leave the house to use the toilet? How do married people survive the first week? How come the world has 6billion people if men are so very sensitive. You got to g... (read in full...)
Can you teach someone how to love?
Q. We are all damaged in some way or another. My boyfriend has suffered some tragedy in his life. He lost his father early on. His mother has abandoned him on several occasions. He has some social awkwardness issues and has very few close friends ...
A. 7 December 2011: He will take forever to heal, and I'm talking 10, 20years if not longer... He will only be able to do this with loving people around, people who will never leave, people he can always trust.
Counselling is needed desperately. But it can be done,... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's and my plans for life do not mesh!
Q. All right, here's the deal. My girlfriend and I have been together for just over three years. And good god we love each other like nothing else. We just moved in together and, minor issues aside and one or two larger ones that we have talked about ...
A. 7 December 2011: First you both are young, and you may change your plans many times before you settle down.
If you love each other now, that's what matters, not what you will be doing in 10 or 15years. When you get to the point when she wants to go one way, and... (read in full...)
Vulgar bulgur
Q. Okay I know this is a rather silly question, but the other night my gf cooked this dish that I hated. She is a tender woman and so I haven't told her yet. The next day she said she was quite pleased with the flavor. Any tips on gently telling h...
A. 7 December 2011: You report as over 40 and presently living in the USA.... good your not a kid, so you I can be truthful.
ALL MEN MUST LIKE WOMEN'S COOKING, NO MATTER IF IT'S CRAP.. it's the thing you must do to be called a gentleman. (smile)
You could pre... (read in full...)
He wants a baby but not marriage?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. (He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's.) We recently got pregnant, but I had a miscarriage. Though this pregnancy was unexpected, we had discussed wanting to have kids together in ...
A. 7 December 2011: Hey, OP, you could show him this post.. as you see, the aunts and uncles have done the arguing for you both and highlighted the most important points.
Maybe, somehow, with a lot of love and determination, you both could sort things out in a way to... (read in full...)
He wants a baby but not marriage?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. (He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's.) We recently got pregnant, but I had a miscarriage. Though this pregnancy was unexpected, we had discussed wanting to have kids together in ...
A. 7 December 2011: Many men don't want to get married nowadays, especially if they have been divorced. But then they feel hurt when the woman refuses to put them on the birth certificate or refuse to give the baby their surname. That's just the way it is. And who ... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 7 December 2011: Babes, if your pregnant, eventually your mum will notice when your belly gets bigger and the baby comes out. It will be worst if you leave it until then. If she's going to kick you out, she's going to kick you out, hiding your pregnancy isn't ... (read in full...)
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