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Should I press charges because she uploaded a photo of us on facebook?

Q.   Hi. I'm new, here. Last week, I have had a photograph of me with a female friend. I thought she would NOT post the photograph on the internet. However, just yesterday, I check her Facebook, just to see her photo album, as she mentionned a nea...

A.   12 April 2012: i dont think you should. it just seems like a stupid idea/reason too. just talk to her about it. your a man...no ones going to hurt you. dont worry about your picture being on the internet. ... (read in full...)

I am thinking of breaking up with my BF so I can chase after my rock star crush! Is this crazy?

Q.   I am inlove with Bret Michaels and I honestly think we are ment to be together. He is a rock star and I feel like I should be with him. I am engaged to my fiance Elvin and i love him but love bret michaels more....should I tel my fiance? should I ...

A.   11 July 2011: no thats a bad idea. sorry, but chances are he'd say no. and your fiance wouldnt like it very much. youd be all over brett and your fiance would be pissed. you shouldnt even be with your fiance if your thinking about leaving him for a rockstar.... i ... (read in full...)

I am thinking of breaking up with my BF so I can chase after my rock star crush! Is this crazy?

Q.   I am inlove with Bret Michaels and I honestly think we are ment to be together. He is a rock star and I feel like I should be with him. I am engaged to my fiance Elvin and i love him but love bret michaels more....should I tel my fiance? should I ...

A.   7 July 2011: I know its how you feel, but to be honest it wont be worth it. Once you try and fail, you'll realize how stupid you were and your fiance wont want you back anymore and you'll lose everything. Anyways, why would you want Brett Michaels? He's got a ... (read in full...)

Who do you prefer, a good boy or a bad boy, both girls and guys opinions matters

Q.   Hey this is just a short question. I've been curious, is it true that girls only go for bad boys? I'm usually considered as the good boy which a lot of my female friends told me. So it has always been on my mind for awhile. Girls and guys ...

A.   10 December 2010: honestly, i would like a "bad boy" but a good one is fine too. it doesnt matter to me. ... (read in full...)

I think I might be a lesbian and in love with my best friend!

Q.   I think I'm in love with my best friend! What do I do? When I was at one of my friends parties we were playing the usial spin the bottle, 5 minutes in heaven, that sort of games. But with a difference, we decided that gay was OK to make it more i...

A.   2 December 2010: i would say, keep trying things with her and if you still have feelings for her. tell her. ... (read in full...)

I want him back but he's got a girlfriend

Q.   all comments welcome ;) .. x a couple of months ago i split with my partner because of peer preasure.. which i told him, then we got back together but told no one, but then someone found out but they were cool with it, the next day i was in school a...

A.   26 November 2010: your welcome :D ... (read in full...)

Yikes!!! I can't stop masturbating!

Q.   ill start off by saying that im 16, and im a girl. im also a virgin, but not by choice. if it was up to me, id be having sex all the time. with girls and guys. im bisexual. i go to school online, so im always at home on the computer, and my parents ...

A.   14 November 2010: honestly, i think its normal. im 15 and am a virgin but want sex. i masturbate a lot too, even when my family is home. but i do it secretly of course. and using your showerhead is fine too cuz i used to do it also. your fine (: ... (read in full...)

For the girls: Would you dump your boyfriend if you found out he was a 25 year old virgin?

Q.   This question mainly applies to women but I was wondering if you would dump your boyfriend if he told you one day that he was a virgin and that he was over the age of 25 (I'm 23 but considering the worst case scenario for me). I could have lost it ...

A.   14 November 2010: not at all. im only 15, but wouldnt you want a guy that you no you would be his first or knowing he doesnt have any std. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has been a major ass to me recently and I want to break up with him, but I'm scared I might be pregnant!

Q.   Hey!So I'm a 14 year old girl that just recently lost her virginity. Since then I have had sex with my boyfriend quite a few times. But now I'm starting to become scared. All the times we have had sex we have never used a condom. I've researched a ...

A.   14 November 2010: first things first. THATS DUMB! why would you have unprotected sex at 14?! he shouldve been more mature and known to use protection. secondly, dont stay with him if you are pregnant. have you ever seen teen mom on mtv? most of their bfs were jerks ... (read in full...)

I lied about my age and have found out he is a copper!

Q.   Hi Aunts. I am 15 and hang around with a large group of girls. I wear nice clothes and make myself up to look older I suppose. I went to a party recently and met this really nice guy. He said he was 26, I really liked him so I said I was...

A.   14 November 2010: yes he could lose his job. thats really sick. you said you were 17 and had sex. you have to be 18 for him not to get in trouble. basically its classified as rape. im sorry but you should tell him your age and stay away from him. ... (read in full...)

Ladies, would you give me a shot?

Q.   Ok. I Have a question out there for all the Ladies. I am 26 and still have not had sex. Yes I am still a virgin. Is this normal. Do you ladies still find this attractive? I feel weird when all my friends talk about sex. They expect me to have had ...

A.   14 November 2010: honestly, i find it attractive. im only 15, but id rather no that the guy isnt a whore and not have to think of him having sex with other girls. it would be nice knowing that your his first. ... (read in full...)

I'm crushing on my pregnant friend's boyfriend

Q.   I liked this guy but I'm not exactly pretty but I have this really pretty popular friend who liked him also and of course he said yes to her. I accepted that and moved on since she's my friend. But recently she told me she was pregnant. I asked her ...

A.   14 November 2010: im not gonna tell you to stop liking him because i hate when people tell me to do that. basically, see what happens between your friend and her bf and if things turn out okay between them dont tell him or her. its best to just keep your feelings to ... (read in full...)

What kind of guy do girls want?

Q.   Girls, Would you rather a man who would fight for you or would you rather a skinny twig or a man with muscles (not overboard but enough you can feel them when he hugs you)?...

A.   14 November 2010: honestly, all of those appeal to me. personality is also key in a relationship too, not just looks, etc. ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and my girlfriend wants to have sex, if we don't she'll dump me!

Q.   I'm 13 and my girlfriend really wants to have sex. My best friend did it once and said it was a great experience. I'm breaking under peer pressure and need help. We've been going out for 10 months and I really like her. She said if I don't have sex ...

A.   14 November 2010: i cant really tell you what to do. but its weird that shes saying if you dont shell dump you. thats pretty low and dumb. 13? if shes that age too, shes pretty young and dumb to be thinking about that right now. all i can say is do what you think is ... (read in full...)

How to make your breasts sprout?

Q.   i have a problem i didnt get my period and i and i am 14 years old and my weight is 37 and i am not tall and i dont have boobs i dont know how make them grow?...

A.   11 November 2010: they grow on their own. give it time. theyll get there. 37 pounds? yeah if your like a 1 year old kid maybe. haha. 137? ... (read in full...)

Pregnant again!

Q.   How do I tell my parents that I am pregnant AGAIN!!..Im only 21 and I have a 18mth old son..I just found out that I am 6 weeks preggo...My oarents helped me so much with the first one and still help me a little..I live with my sister but my parents ...

A.   11 November 2010: your 21. it doesnt matter if their mad. your lucky your not under 18 otherwise you should care if they were. your an adult and dont need their opinion on how they feel about you being pregnant again. just say it like its a good thing. be like "im ... (read in full...)

B cup size, will they get any bigger?

Q.   Well, thisnis kinda embarrassing but I'm 13 years old and I want to know if my breasts will get bigger. Cause they are like a B now but I would like them to be a little bigger. What do you think???...

A.   11 November 2010: dude your 13. haha thats what my size was when i was your age. they will get bigger. dont worry. ... (read in full...)

Row because his friend gave me his number, but he calls other girls gorgeous!

Q.   me and my boyfriend had a row all because i was talking to one of his mates and he said that i was stunning and gave me his number just in case i wanted some one to talk to when i felt alone. When i was messing about with my boyfriend and i read one ...

A.   29 May 2010: sorry, but i dont think you can do much. its not bad to call other people gorgeous becuz us girls call guys hot and even if we do have a bf, we still think it. they can too. its not like we can just be like omg i have a gf now i cant think anyone in ... (read in full...)

I am almost 15 and may be pregnant, what advice can you give me, totally confused??

Q.   hello im 14 years old about to be 15 next week, and i think im pregnant i havent told anyone but my boyfriend and if i tell my parents they'd kill me,im just so scared and dont know what to do, i havent took a test yet but when i do and it comes out ...

A.   26 May 2010: im 15 right now. i know if i got pregnant i would definitley keep the baby. so if you are, please keep it. abortion isnt right. secondly, if it comes out positive your gonna have to face the fact that your bf might leave you, it happens to a lot of ... (read in full...)

I like my dad's cousin who is 10 years older than me

Q.   ok i have a huge problem and i cant keep it bottled up anymore i think i like (actually i dont think i like him i no that i like him) my dads cousin he is 10 years older then me im turning 20 and he is turning 30 i dont see him much maybe once ...

A.   18 April 2010: i would tell him. just see what happens. and if he doesnt and you think it will be awkward well its happened to me to except i liked my sisters ex bf, told him, and later they got back together. it was weird seeing him we were both kinda embarassed ... (read in full...)

Would you let your just-turned-16 year old daughter date a 19 year old guy?

Q.   Answers from parents are especially appreciated! would you let your newly turned 16 year old daughter date a guy who turned 19 a few months ago? im scared to tell my mom because i havent even mentioned a word about him and we`ve been talking on ...

A.   17 April 2010: i wanted to date a 19 year old and im only 14 and my mom wouldnt even let me hang out with him! maybe its different iwth your mom. good luck. ... (read in full...)

What can I do to help me get the boy I like?

Q.   is there something wrong with me? im fat and ugly and i will never get a boyfriend what can i do to help me get the boy i like??...

A.   16 April 2010: well you need more self confidence for one thing. a guy finds that attractive and its a good thing to have. ... (read in full...)

What would happen if we were caught running away?

Q.   okay, so i had to break up with my boyfriend, because my mother doesnt like the fact that he doesn't live near me, he lives about 30 minutes or so away from me, and i get to see him every weekend. and we've been dating for almost a year, and th...

A.   15 April 2010: try to wait till your 18 because then you cant be told by your mom that you HAVE to come back home because when your 18 they cant tell you what to do anymore... (read in full...)

Hair removal creams at Walmart?

Q.   anyone know any good hair removeal creams that's at wal-mart? And also any shaving tips would be greatly appreatated....

A.   13 April 2010: nair. it works amazingly. it might sting a little in the beginning but it works great. ... (read in full...)

Can skipping pills leave me at risk of pregnancy?

Q.   Ive recently started the pill and have been really good untill this week, Ive missed 3 days of the pill, and today i had sex where he cum inside me, yeah i have taken the pill 2day as i remembered, but is there still a chance that i could get preg...

A.   10 April 2010: yeah it can. once you start taking them, your body is use to it, and if you miss one day or a few it leaves you at higher risk to get pregnant. like very high. ... (read in full...)

Problems with prom

Q.   As many people may know, prom season is now in full swing, with everyone picking out dresses, finding dates, buying tickets and everything. For me, it's more complicated. I'm a senior, seventeen, and I went to the prom last year with my friend ...

A.   10 April 2010: i would say ask tyler first and then if that doesnt work beg sierra ... (read in full...)

Should I let my boyfriend go out for drinks with his clingy ex booty call?

Q.   So here's my issue ... my boyfriend has this girl Wendy who still keeps in contact with him. The very first night we went out, she was blowing up his cell phone with phone calls and texts like "please come over" "make love to me" "i need you" "i ...

A.   8 April 2010: i wouldnt let him go out with her for drinks. things probably would get really bad. chances are he might cheat or he might not. if he really wants to go with him. ... (read in full...)

Dreams... or premonitions?

Q.   Since i have been going out with my boyfriend i seem to have dreams about him that keep coming true. he had the string to my prom dress cause he was trying to get a tie the same color and i had a dream one night that he lost it , and he called me ...

A.   8 April 2010: i would talk to him about it. it seems like u have a phycic ability which is cool haha and helpful :D ... (read in full...)

Is he like all others, does he actually like me and that's why he was nervous?

Q.   Whenever I ask questions on here, i only get 1 or 2 answers and sometimes they dont help. So im going to do my best to tell you everything. 2010, fresh start.. This year I decided to be a different and better person. And oh my god, its worked ...

A.   10 March 2010: tell him that you like him, but tell him u dont wanna be used or anything. he does seem to like you which is good. :D good luck. ... (read in full...)

What if she spreads a disease to someone and I date them?

Q.   So, this girl that im not really too good of friends with but talk to her, she keeps having sex with all these guys in my school. i honestly dont doubt she will get some type of disease from doing it so many times with so many diff. guys! i tell her...

A.   4 March 2010: thanks guys... she passed away tho... :[ ... (read in full...)

Kissing with tongues is gross! Will I get used to it and like it eventually?

Q.   Okay, so I made out with my best guy friend. He's 19 and I was wondering, is it normal for me not to like it so much right now? I mean I liked kissing but when we used tongue I thought the texture was kinda gross. Will it change once I do it more ...

A.   26 February 2010: thanks. :] and how do i relax? because he said i was shaking really bad and i dont wanna keep doing that lol. ... (read in full...)

He wants a naked picture, I am so nervous I feel I am going to puke!

Q.   Okay, So this guy i have known for a couple of years, me and him have started talking... just today. and he said i had a nice body and wants a pic of me naked. i told him he probably wouldnt get it but he says that it would make him happy. should i...

A.   22 February 2010: thank you everyone who commented. especially the last person whos ananomous cuz thats the answer i was looking for. i dont wanna just leave him cuz i honestly love him. u would understand if u were in my position. i told him i wouldnt and he said ... (read in full...)

I want him back but he's got a girlfriend

Q.   all comments welcome ;) .. x a couple of months ago i split with my partner because of peer preasure.. which i told him, then we got back together but told no one, but then someone found out but they were cool with it, the next day i was in school a...

A.   21 February 2010: its okay the guys in my school never tell me im good looking but this one does :] i dont thikn im pretty either but someone sees it. haha. and ive got rejected so many times before i couldnt handle it but i got through it. its up to u. do wat u want... (read in full...)

I want him back but he's got a girlfriend

Q.   all comments welcome ;) .. x a couple of months ago i split with my partner because of peer preasure.. which i told him, then we got back together but told no one, but then someone found out but they were cool with it, the next day i was in school a...

A.   21 February 2010: omg im haaving sort of the same problem. i havent gone out with this guy but hes got a gf, and hes flirting with me and i like him so much ugh it sucks. i think u shouldtell him how u feel. thatas the best thing to do... (read in full...)

Would he be turned off me if iI told him the truth?

Q.   ive been single for 14months i get alot of guys cos guys think am cute and sexy.. but they just want me for sex.. and obviously i didn't give in and they've all disappeared.. i like sex when am in a relationship and in love. and ive ...

A.   18 February 2010: no, honesty is key. he'll like that u havent had a bf in a while or sex becuz he wants u to be only his. but fyi ur a little full of urself saying ur soooo gorgeous. just saying. ... (read in full...)

I have 126 days to ruin his wedding!!!

Q.   okay, ive had the guy as my best friend since we were 10 and 11.. we are now 24.. he is getting married in june to his uncle's step child... and he and i have been through everything together... he has always called me to tell me that he loved me ...

A.   13 February 2010: im only 14 but i say go for it!! other wise ur gona regret it later. hell realize that he wants u and not that one chick. i mean who gets engaged 2 months after dating??? go for it dont be afraid. go to lunch, dinner or something tell him u dont ... (read in full...)

What are some comfortable positions for a "quickie"?

Q.   ok so i need a little help me and my husband have busy schedules and does anyone know any comfortable sex positions for a "quickie" as some might say he says i pick the sex position and idk what position to do it in can anyone please help me...

A.   12 February 2010: go to yahoo or google and type in sex positions 101 and click on the first link and it should have a webstie with animate avatars showing millions of sex positions!!!!1 hope this helpss... (read in full...)

Should I kiss him at the party?

Q.   im 15 and there is a boy that i like, he is 17, we are both going to the same party soon i really like him but im not shore if he likes me. when im around him i want to kiss him so bad but i don't want to because he might not like me. what...

A.   8 February 2010: i suggest start talking to him. and if he doesnt act like hes not interested and is nice, tel him u have a lil crush on him and then whatever he says (if its bad) dont kiss him, if its good just kiss him on the cheek. and if he wants to go further ... (read in full...)

Girls..do you like it when a guy licks you all over?

Q.   I'm simply wondering, do women enjoy being licked all around their bodies passionately and tenderly, or is it a disgusting act for you? please comment thanks...

A.   7 February 2010: even tho i havent had it happened to me, i most likley would. just dont have a lot of spit on her body or trust me ittl be a turn off. ... (read in full...)

Could this be my first period, at 14?

Q.   Okay so my mom didint start her period till she was 16. so today I started bleeding like dark brown and it was In my underwear? I'm only 14 never had sex what's going on? PlZ help? ...

A.   17 January 2010: yeah its ur periodd... (read in full...)

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