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* I'm brutally honest, sometimes to the point of offence, I never hide under the secrecy of anonymous. I'm pro-porn and many people don't like this. I'm also non judgemental of different relationships and lifestyles. I'm pro-men and pro-women, I believe strongly in equality and happiness for both sexes, that's my definition of Feminism. And I'm an atheist, there aint no God in my world.

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I feel like I owe it to my husband to have a threesome.

Q.   My husband has been wanting a threesome with another women, i was for it at first but after his pushing and searching I started to have my insecruities. I feel tho, it needs to happen. I was unfaithful to him. I kissed a guy. (it might not see...

A.   7 February 2012: Thanks for the update, that's an ending that I like very much.. lol... (read in full...)

Urgent! I snooped through my boyfriend's phone and now his mother says I have to tell him right away

Q.   Hello, I really need some advice/help fast my as boyfriends mom tells me Im running out of time..JOY! Ok heres what happenned, I live with my boyfriend and his mom for the last 6months. We've had our ups and downs..Im having some stuggles due to f...

A.   6 February 2012: mntrstina30 got to tell you, damn girl you is brave and you got balls. That's a good thing in a woman. I know your housing situation aint good, and you need to spend some time concentrating on that. I know you wished you didn't ask, but ... (read in full...)

I feel like I owe it to my husband to have a threesome.

Q.   My husband has been wanting a threesome with another women, i was for it at first but after his pushing and searching I started to have my insecruities. I feel tho, it needs to happen. I was unfaithful to him. I kissed a guy. (it might not see...

A.   5 February 2012: He's either young like you, and full of stupid ideas which he got from porn and he's not thinking about the reality and the difficulties that may come up. Or he's a lot older, wiser and knows exactly what he's doing and married a young woman so h... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is so overbearing I cant even pick up a newspaper with an attractive woman in it! Now she has started commenting on my friend's Facebook too, how do I deal with her?

Q.   Hi guys and gals, My gf is getting a little overbearing and insecure... She accuses me of constantly hurting her when i pick up a magazine or newspaper and theres an image of a beautiful woman in a suggestive or sexy pose. She snatches the maga...

A.   4 February 2012: Well done you. I'm never crazy about a person losing his friends, but if they is trying to destroy the relationship then certainly you got to step back. Again, she is the one that must change, she is the one that is destroying the relationship... (read in full...)

Great love life but sneaky boyfriend. What do you think?

Q.   My bf and I have been together for 9 yrs. We are both late 20's and he is good to me and loves me. However I say he is "sneaky" because pretty much every 3-4 months like clockwork I will discover something that makes me really question my ...

A.   4 February 2012: Exactly babes, that's it for the porn thing. But taking pictures of girls and going on sex sites, that's creepy. Tons of guys watch porn, but very few do these other creepy things. Pretty girls aint that interesting. Take time and work ou... (read in full...)

Urgent! I snooped through my boyfriend's phone and now his mother says I have to tell him right away

Q.   Hello, I really need some advice/help fast my as boyfriends mom tells me Im running out of time..JOY! Ok heres what happenned, I live with my boyfriend and his mom for the last 6months. We've had our ups and downs..Im having some stuggles due to f...

A.   4 February 2012: *Big Hugs*... sorry babes I know it's hard, but I want you to try again. The way your trying to attract his attention is good, he'd have to be a blind man not to see that you want to get sexual. One more time, but this time make sure it's ear... (read in full...)

Does he want to see me with another woman for my pleasure or his?

Q.   Hello everyone , i would like to have your opinion about a relationship-sex issue that is troubling me for some time .Iam a woman 36 yrs,I was married 7 years and had 2 small chidren when i met my current fiancee, who is 36 yrs old also .I had a ...

A.   4 February 2012: Got to admit, I was being provocative, just wanted to make sure if you find women attractive or not. So it's threesomes that are the problem, now you are sure that your clear on that, you don't want you and him to invite another person to bed. You ... (read in full...)

My husband supports everyone else but me. Why does he do this to me?

Q.   My husband of three years will not take my feelings into consideration. Whenever there is a disagreement he will always take the others persons side against me. He will never defend me or stand up for me in any way. His sister and I do not get alon...

A.   3 February 2012: He can't support you on this, because your behaviour is immature and selfish. It's only children who don't know how to pretend, put on a brave face and do things they don't want to do. Adults are able to eat the nasty medicine because the doctor ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is so overbearing I cant even pick up a newspaper with an attractive woman in it! Now she has started commenting on my friend's Facebook too, how do I deal with her?

Q.   Hi guys and gals, My gf is getting a little overbearing and insecure... She accuses me of constantly hurting her when i pick up a magazine or newspaper and theres an image of a beautiful woman in a suggestive or sexy pose. She snatches the maga...

A.   3 February 2012: She's very young and insecure, a lot of women are like this. Show her in actions and words how beautiful you think she is, and how special ahe makes you feel. Then block her on facebook, and tell her it's because she acts childish and embarras... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to be more adventurous with sex, is he bored already?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I come to you with a bit of a dilemma, that's been bothering me since last night. I been dating my boyfriend for almost two months. We've been starting to have sex for about three weeks now and it's awesome. But yesterday he send me ...

A.   3 February 2012: The thing with sex and boredom, is people are always tempted to try more and more extreme things, as if weirder and stranger sensations will help things. Nope, after a while that becomes boring. What is best is always to keep things varied a... (read in full...)

My boyfriend got a lapdance at a strip club and now I am struggling to deal with this, am I just being silly?

Q.   My boyfriend went to see strippers and has got a private lapdance on a number of occasions. Im finding it hard to deal with, I feel inadequate and dont feel comfortable having sex at the moment. I just feel he'l compare the way I look to the ...

A.   3 February 2012: He goes to a stripping club with his mates for entertainment.. got no problems with that, we got male strippers here and I've seen them when out with my girlfriends. He's watching a naked person dance, equivalent to me as porn. He gets a lap danc... (read in full...)

How can I cope and continue living with him, broken hearted but apart?

Q.   Hi all. I have recently broken up with my bf. We have a joint mortgage together. After much soul searching and advice from a mortgage advisor, we have both been advised to stay in the property together for as long as we can. This is because ...

A.   3 February 2012: Just seen your follow up... Leave as soon as possible, even if it leaves you broke and poor. Done myself for a couple of weeks, and it's hell.. You spend all your time trying not to touch him, not to kiss him, not to get down on your knees an... (read in full...)

I had an affair with a neighbour. Should I tell my husband?

Q.   Very Sad Hello, this is long so bear with me, I have been married for 12 years with my husband for 13 years, we have two small kids, I have been happy for most of my marriage and my husband is basicaly a good man, however in our marriage he gamb...

A.   3 February 2012: Indeed Dorothy has give a great answer about what you should do if you decide not to tell. And I somehow I think your going to follow her suggestion.. but be aware, with secrets, they can come out at any time, especially since there are 4 of you i... (read in full...)

My mind is set to leave him, but I have a suspicion that I'm pregnant

Q.   Hello everyone... I'm in a stressful situation and I don't think I'm thinking clearly at all. I need some insight please...You see, I have been with a 35yr old man for two years, (I am 20) and he was the first and all that...I regret that so much ...

A.   3 February 2012: Calm down and take test... think about the other stuff later.... (read in full...)

G/f dumped me after she lost weight saying we aren't equals!

Q.   I really need help. my girlfriend of 4 years dumped me about a week back. this girl meant everything to me, I thought she was my soulmate. I've travelled around the country for this girl because of her job, disregarding my ambitions for hers. when ...

A.   3 February 2012: This often happens after dramatic weight loss... She fitted her personality to her body size, and became this person. Her weight limited her in what she thought she could do, and therefore she built a life around that. After losing weight s... (read in full...)

I have trouble with listening and comprehension...what should I do about this?

Q.   Hi everyone. I have a question. I've always struggled with hearing and paying attention to people. When strangers talk to me, I freeze and have trouble understanding what they're saying when I feel nervous. I have to ask people to repeat themselve...

A.   3 February 2012: Don't forget to come back and update your post, we'd all love to see what the doctor has to say. Chart down anything you notice, anything that triggers, or times of stress when concentration may be worse. Record sleeping patterns and anything... (read in full...)

I feel like I owe it to my husband to have a threesome.

Q.   My husband has been wanting a threesome with another women, i was for it at first but after his pushing and searching I started to have my insecruities. I feel tho, it needs to happen. I was unfaithful to him. I kissed a guy. (it might not see...

A.   3 February 2012: You kissed a guy and for that you want punishment.... but the punishment seems a bit extreme to me... why can't you sentence yourself to do the dishes or be his love slave for a week.. that seems more balanced. Have you really considered what ... (read in full...)

More porn = less sex. What's not to get?

Q.   Just wanted to put an opinion out there... I have posted questions and answers about porn, spoken to girlfriends and read endless articles about men and womens views on porn. One thing seems glaringly obvious yet so often overlooked by me...

A.   3 February 2012: Thank you for your update, if your husband and you have managed to have a positive talk, and as a result have become closer and more romantic, then that is wonderful and we are happy for you. No matter if you hate it or he likes it, porn should ... (read in full...)

Does he want to see me with another woman for my pleasure or his?

Q.   Hello everyone , i would like to have your opinion about a relationship-sex issue that is troubling me for some time .Iam a woman 36 yrs,I was married 7 years and had 2 small chidren when i met my current fiancee, who is 36 yrs old also .I had a ...

A.   2 February 2012: Sorry two other things... "I can say about myelf i have nothing to be jealous from the gorgeous women in lesbian porn he makes me watch to get use to it, " (camomile) MAKE'S YOU WATCH... TO GET USE TO IT!!!!!!!! What kind of love is that... s... (read in full...)

Does he want to see me with another woman for my pleasure or his?

Q.   Hello everyone , i would like to have your opinion about a relationship-sex issue that is troubling me for some time .Iam a woman 36 yrs,I was married 7 years and had 2 small chidren when i met my current fiancee, who is 36 yrs old also .I had a ...

A.   2 February 2012: Guy is telling you a whole pile of bullcrap and nonsense. He wants to see two woman having sex, and he is pressuring you into accepting it, even though your not a lesbian and you have no sexual feelings for another woman. He's not showing ... (read in full...)

Urgent! I snooped through my boyfriend's phone and now his mother says I have to tell him right away

Q.   Hello, I really need some advice/help fast my as boyfriends mom tells me Im running out of time..JOY! Ok heres what happenned, I live with my boyfriend and his mom for the last 6months. We've had our ups and downs..Im having some stuggles due to f...

A.   2 February 2012: Ah.. so your problem is he likes playing computer games and you get no sex... Yep, that's enough to make any woman feel insecure.. but the snooping thing, as everyone has said is just not right. Can't work out why your not having sex, or w... (read in full...)

Supplementing your relationship with cyber and virtual contact?

Q.   Here's the dilemma with a double-standard. For some reason, I'm ok with porn. I've watched it. It turns me on. I don't fantasize about the actors. I think about myself and my (at the time) boyfriend. I'm sure what everyone gets out of it is ...

A.   2 February 2012: Porn is one thing, like you I've used it solo and with a partner and found it enjoyable. It's a form of entertainment that is produced and sold for the purposes of sexual enjoyment. Sextexting, chatlines, cybercam, sex dating sites... that fo... (read in full...)

Why am I always the friend... with benefits? I want marriage, kids, to start a new family!

Q.   met him on vacation. a year and a half ago. he lives in the united states and i live in canada. immediately we had passion, fire and the relationship was heated. i didnt want to think so much about it, or even care to see him again. but we did. ...

A.   2 February 2012: Yep, the average thing bothers me, also talking and talking about your girlfriend... that's very bad manners, hurtful and rude. So what if he's single now... he's still got very manners, is hurtful and rude. Women who get hit always say it's not... (read in full...)

My ex husband's fiancée posted a picture of our LEGAL divorce decree ON FACEBOOK

Q.   Gang, I am MORTIFIED. I am not thrilled or happy about my divorce... it's a failure on my part and it is what it is. I don't need or WANT to shout from the rooftops I'm divorced (yet again). I just got a text from a friend of mine congratulat...

A.   2 February 2012: I don't think the legal thing will work... he's allowed to give somebody permission to post HIS copy of the divorce. It belongs to you both.... (read in full...)

My ex husband's fiancée posted a picture of our LEGAL divorce decree ON FACEBOOK

Q.   Gang, I am MORTIFIED. I am not thrilled or happy about my divorce... it's a failure on my part and it is what it is. I don't need or WANT to shout from the rooftops I'm divorced (yet again). I just got a text from a friend of mine congratulat...

A.   2 February 2012: Sorry babes, but there is nothing you can do Your pride in this situation is very important, so that's why I want you to do nothing, nothing at all. Correct response is, "I'm to happy and busy to care... oh how desperate she is that she wastes ... (read in full...)

My wife wants me to be more of an alpha!

Q.   I'm not a tough guy type. I always tried to be nice and gentle. When we have sex, I always ask my wife if she is comfortable, or if there is anything she wants, during sex. She used to love me like this, but not anymore! She says I care too ...

A.   2 February 2012: Just seen your follow up.. the things I wrote before are low level, for men who are gentle and may be uncomfortable with rough play. The aunts have given you good advice about going a bit rougher (or alpha) Alpha means a dominant guy who has the ... (read in full...)

My wife wants me to be more of an alpha!

Q.   I'm not a tough guy type. I always tried to be nice and gentle. When we have sex, I always ask my wife if she is comfortable, or if there is anything she wants, during sex. She used to love me like this, but not anymore! She says I care too ...

A.   2 February 2012: Always asking for permission, always seeing if she's enjoying herself, can spoil the mood and make it seem planned and calculated instead of spontanous. This is difficult, because sex is never simple, if you don't consider her feelings then you... (read in full...)

More porn = less sex. What's not to get?

Q.   Just wanted to put an opinion out there... I have posted questions and answers about porn, spoken to girlfriends and read endless articles about men and womens views on porn. One thing seems glaringly obvious yet so often overlooked by me...

A.   2 February 2012: The big problem is dear lady... many women hate pornography and want their partner to stop... but what if the man won't stop.. what happens then. Many women who hate porn can share experiences, I can provide a link on dear cupid with hundreds... (read in full...)

Great love life but sneaky boyfriend. What do you think?

Q.   My bf and I have been together for 9 yrs. We are both late 20's and he is good to me and loves me. However I say he is "sneaky" because pretty much every 3-4 months like clockwork I will discover something that makes me really question my ...

A.   2 February 2012: "I have repeatedly over 9 yrs. said, "If you do this again.." If you make threats, but never back them up with action, he's not going to take you seriously. For 9years you say, "if you do this again"... what... I'll forgive you, ignore it, and t... (read in full...)

I think I may have a porn problem!

Q.   I think I may have a porn problem. Basically I have always watched porn for the last 6/7 years while being a teenager but I have recently noticed that I have been watching a lot of hardcore porn. I've had performance problems in the past...

A.   1 February 2012: If you have no regular partner, then masturbation is important, it's not good for you to go around sexually frustrated. Again, like everything else in sex, not too much and not too often. Also like you have been doing, keep a close watch on the ... (read in full...)

Am I unreasonable in thinking a marriage should be more?

Q.   I need some advice on my current marital situation... My wife and I have been married for six years. She's very religious and, as such, there was a very strict "no sex before marriage" policy - which I agreed to. The problems began after the ...

A.   1 February 2012: You know what.. if she's sick or traumatised and she doesn't know it, you should still leave.. marriage is about wanting your partner to find happiness, not keep him and make him unhappy because you have problems you don't know about or cannot fix, ... (read in full...)

Am I unreasonable in thinking a marriage should be more?

Q.   I need some advice on my current marital situation... My wife and I have been married for six years. She's very religious and, as such, there was a very strict "no sex before marriage" policy - which I agreed to. The problems began after the ...

A.   1 February 2012: "Am I wrong to thing marriage should be more than this?" (male anon) Use your brains.. if people only have sex 3 times in 6 years, then where do all the children come from. That's not enough sex for procreation, which the bible says is the purp... (read in full...)

I think I may have a porn problem!

Q.   I think I may have a porn problem. Basically I have always watched porn for the last 6/7 years while being a teenager but I have recently noticed that I have been watching a lot of hardcore porn. I've had performance problems in the past...

A.   1 February 2012: Feeling uncomfortable or disgusted by the type of porn you watch, having issues with sexual performance, yep, that seems as if there's a problem. So give it up, no problems, why continue with something that's not giving you pleasure and making y... (read in full...)

I have trouble with listening and comprehension...what should I do about this?

Q.   Hi everyone. I have a question. I've always struggled with hearing and paying attention to people. When strangers talk to me, I freeze and have trouble understanding what they're saying when I feel nervous. I have to ask people to repeat themselve...

A.   1 February 2012: Just seen your follow up... Again, you must see a doctor. Your doctors have suggested depression, and I thought about this as well.. That's because depression can be atypical and hidden.. you don't cry all the time with this type of depressi... (read in full...)

I have trouble with listening and comprehension...what should I do about this?

Q.   Hi everyone. I have a question. I've always struggled with hearing and paying attention to people. When strangers talk to me, I freeze and have trouble understanding what they're saying when I feel nervous. I have to ask people to repeat themselve...

A.   1 February 2012: Think you should go and speak to your doctor.. low attention span could be anything. My first thought was some type of anxiety or social disorder.. but I'm not a doctor and you need to see one if your having problems.. It really could be anything... (read in full...)

We are friends, but now..he wants to have sex! What should I do?

Q.   Hi everyone, So my friend and I have known each other for about 2 years now and we hang out a lot. Our relationship kinda swerves from being platonic to romantic(in a silly way)frequently but I never really thought much of it. Until last week whe...

A.   1 February 2012: Sorry didn't see the age.. Of course if you are below the age of consent.. then the answer must be NO!... (read in full...)

We are friends, but now..he wants to have sex! What should I do?

Q.   Hi everyone, So my friend and I have known each other for about 2 years now and we hang out a lot. Our relationship kinda swerves from being platonic to romantic(in a silly way)frequently but I never really thought much of it. Until last week whe...

A.   1 February 2012: No pressure.. you've been friends for 2years but he finds you attractive. I notice he didn't mention a relationship, so this isn't about love, dating and being your boyfriend, this is a friend saying he finds you sexy and wants to get intimate... (read in full...)

In love with a married man, but how do I cope with our break up?

Q.   Hi, i hope you can help me out of this absurd situation. i fell in love with a guy i work with in the same office, he is married, with two kids. out of guilt we both called it a very close friendship, then he called me his soul mate and then his...

A.   1 February 2012: Again, if you manage to actually walk away and break the destructive relationship, please come back and share your experiences with the other ladies still living in torment. Thank you for sharing your experiences so that others may learn.... (read in full...)

More porn = less sex. What's not to get?

Q.   Just wanted to put an opinion out there... I have posted questions and answers about porn, spoken to girlfriends and read endless articles about men and womens views on porn. One thing seems glaringly obvious yet so often overlooked by me...

A.   31 January 2012: And then we always end.. with an attack on men... Problem is... women watch porn, men watch porn, lesbians watch porn and homosexuals watch porn... There is gay porn, there is straight porn, men act in porn and so do women... So how did it b... (read in full...)

Eight months pregnant with twins, but should I break up or make up?

Q.   I am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background: My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her C cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnapped him etc and ...

A.   31 January 2012: Why she texting you, what is there to talk about, you and him is finished and he's decided to be with her.. He knows that your aware he cheated, you fought over the ultrasound. You probably made it clear that you were finished, and since she was ... (read in full...)

More porn = less sex. What's not to get?

Q.   Just wanted to put an opinion out there... I have posted questions and answers about porn, spoken to girlfriends and read endless articles about men and womens views on porn. One thing seems glaringly obvious yet so often overlooked by me...

A.   31 January 2012: "There is fairly little debate among researchers and psychologists that porn is basically like any other addictive drug: often terrible for relationships and often terrible for the user. " Funny that.. if there is no debate, how come the psychol... (read in full...)

More porn = less sex. What's not to get?

Q.   Just wanted to put an opinion out there... I have posted questions and answers about porn, spoken to girlfriends and read endless articles about men and womens views on porn. One thing seems glaringly obvious yet so often overlooked by me...

A.   31 January 2012: Some of the statistics quoted here are unscientific... The quote that porn contributes to 50% of divorces was based on a general (not scientific or academic piece of research) survey of opinions amongst lawyers meeting for a convention. L... (read in full...)

Eight months pregnant with twins, but should I break up or make up?

Q.   I am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background: My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her C cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnapped him etc and ...

A.   31 January 2012: If the girl was bothering him, why did he text you, when he knew you was in grief because grandpa was hospital and dying.. why didn't he just tell the nurses to ban her or send her away? And if he was fighting her off, why did he suddenly change h... (read in full...)

My boyfriend says he is still in love with his ex

Q.   Hi I have been with my boyfriend 1 year in march we were talking last night and he mentioned his ex which he does quite often so I asked him if he was still in love with her and he said yes he is now I'm so confused but my question is will he be ...

A.   31 January 2012: You asked him, and he answered, he is still in love with this ex, but what type of love this is, only he knows. Does he think about her when he is having sex... that's something you need to ask him. If he talks about her all the time, then h... (read in full...)

More porn = less sex. What's not to get?

Q.   Just wanted to put an opinion out there... I have posted questions and answers about porn, spoken to girlfriends and read endless articles about men and womens views on porn. One thing seems glaringly obvious yet so often overlooked by me...

A.   31 January 2012: mmm... This to me is always the problem Woman says "I don't like porn, so your never, ever, allowed to look at it, even if I can't see you, even if I'm far away and in another country for a couple of years or months" Man says "I don't like yo... (read in full...)

My B/f just expects me to invite myself over to his house to befriend his Mother and I find that totally rude and inconsiderate, especially given how my last visit there was

Q.   Hello! Any advice on how my boyfriend is handling his family getting to interact with me and, thus, get to know me is very helpful and I appreciate it all! Thanks in advance. Background: My boyfriend (22 yrs old) comes from a low income family. H...

A.   31 January 2012: You're young, and you and him have different lifestyles... Just go pop in next time, no apologies, just be the way you are with no pretending. It's obvious you worry about acting right and doing the right thing and not hurting peoples feelings... (read in full...)

My B/f just expects me to invite myself over to his house to befriend his Mother and I find that totally rude and inconsiderate, especially given how my last visit there was

Q.   Hello! Any advice on how my boyfriend is handling his family getting to interact with me and, thus, get to know me is very helpful and I appreciate it all! Thanks in advance. Background: My boyfriend (22 yrs old) comes from a low income family. H...

A.   31 January 2012: One other thing.. I know the mum and sisters have TV's in their bedroom.. but poor people usually don't go and hide when visitors come.. they think that it is rude. Bit naughty of you to expect the mother not to use her own living room, even if ... (read in full...)

My B/f just expects me to invite myself over to his house to befriend his Mother and I find that totally rude and inconsiderate, especially given how my last visit there was

Q.   Hello! Any advice on how my boyfriend is handling his family getting to interact with me and, thus, get to know me is very helpful and I appreciate it all! Thanks in advance. Background: My boyfriend (22 yrs old) comes from a low income family. H...

A.   31 January 2012: The family don't sound "dysfunctional or odd", but you do sound very judgemental because they are not what you are used to. Your boyfriend is picking up on your feelings of superiority, and that's why he's embarrassed of his family. I think he... (read in full...)

Eight months pregnant with twins, but should I break up or make up?

Q.   I am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background: My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her C cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnapped him etc and ...

A.   30 January 2012: Also.. I'm a bit confused.. if he knew you were in the house cleaning.. why did kiss some other woman, where you might see or hear him?... (read in full...)

Eight months pregnant with twins, but should I break up or make up?

Q.   I am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background: My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her C cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnapped him etc and ...

A.   30 January 2012: You should listen to what he has to say.... (read in full...)

In love with a married man, but how do I cope with our break up?

Q.   Hi, i hope you can help me out of this absurd situation. i fell in love with a guy i work with in the same office, he is married, with two kids. out of guilt we both called it a very close friendship, then he called me his soul mate and then his...

A.   7 July 2010: If loving you is right, I don't want to by wrong (By Millie Jackson) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OUTDdq1m67Q http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cZ13jHp7_P4 Life is short, very short, and your wasting it........ (read in full...)

In love with a married man, but how do I cope with our break up?

Q.   Hi, i hope you can help me out of this absurd situation. i fell in love with a guy i work with in the same office, he is married, with two kids. out of guilt we both called it a very close friendship, then he called me his soul mate and then his...

A.   7 July 2010: If loving you is wrong... I don't want to be right If being right means living without you I'd rather live wrong than right My Mama and Daddy say "It's a shame..." "It's a downright disgrace" But as long as I've got you by my side I don't care... (read in full...)

In love with a married man, but how do I cope with our break up?

Q.   Hi, i hope you can help me out of this absurd situation. i fell in love with a guy i work with in the same office, he is married, with two kids. out of guilt we both called it a very close friendship, then he called me his soul mate and then his...

A.   8 June 2010: Ah... Hi Ladies, I see many more have joined the group... just to remind any of you who want to change your life, summer is here, you have time to loose weight, get a new swimsuit, get the married waste of space out of your life, and go catch other ... (read in full...)

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