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* I'm brutally honest, sometimes to the point of offence, I never hide under the secrecy of anonymous. I'm pro-porn and many people don't like this. I'm also non judgemental of different relationships and lifestyles. I'm pro-men and pro-women, I believe strongly in equality and happiness for both sexes, that's my definition of Feminism. And I'm an atheist, there aint no God in my world.

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He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?

Q.   I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...

A.   4 December 2012: You've done so well honeypie, you've done better than I thought you would. You sound stronger, you sound calm, you sound much happier. "I dont want to cause anyone hurt" Again, that's always the big problem.... again I'll translate... "I ... (read in full...)

Sleeping with an EX who is with someone else... Do I go for it or no

Q.   Okay so here is my problem. Ive been sleeping with my ex boyfriend (we will call him Chad) but chad is kind of still with his Baby mama. I am 19 years old and we havnt dated since I was around 15. When we was in jail we wrote n we decided we would ...

A.   5 December 2011: Yes it's silly - you told us he didn't want her and he was breaking up and on his own. Sounded like he was moving on as a free man. So maybe there was a possibility. Woman is pregnant, that means they have sex, that's not a man moving on at all. ... (read in full...)

I prefer masturbation to girls!

Q.   Is that normal? I've been on SSRIs for about a year and stopped a few weeks ago as i'd had enougn of feeling like a zombie and not being able to sleep at night and just being tired all the time and understanding nothing in my lectures. I'm 20 and i...

A.   3 December 2011: St Johns Wort is a natural herb, with few side effects. Not to be taken with anti-depressants or by women on contraceptives, because it can interfer with the way these tablets work and make them less effective. Often recommended by doctors for ... (read in full...)

He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?

Q.   I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...

A.   30 November 2011: I guess we aunts don't like him either, we feel the same as your kids. Counselling is a good idea, you sound like you've had bad experiences in life and don't expect to be treated nicely. I know it's hard to leave when the outside looks co... (read in full...)

Is it ok to date a friend's daughter?

Q.   I was having a conversation the other day about morals, and the person asked me if I thought it was ok to date a friend's daughter. We didn't go into depth in terms of which friend, how long you'd known them, etc. personally, I couldn't see a p...

A.   30 November 2011: I don't think it's right to date a friends daughter, it causes all kinds of problems for everyone involved. However, I think it's OK to marry a friends daughter, and not have sex with her before the wedding day. That's OK by me, cause marriage ... (read in full...)

I prefer masturbation to girls!

Q.   Is that normal? I've been on SSRIs for about a year and stopped a few weeks ago as i'd had enougn of feeling like a zombie and not being able to sleep at night and just being tired all the time and understanding nothing in my lectures. I'm 20 and i...

A.   30 November 2011: Flynn is right.. if you don't want the tablets, then St Johns Wort (on it's own) might be able to help. Also running or swimming, some people swear by exercise, helps raise the serotonin levels (happy chemicals) in the brain. But don't cut your ... (read in full...)

Sex tips, anyone???

Q.   Dear Cupid, I'm gonna make this short and sweet. I'm really looking for male opinions, but females are welcome to respond, too. Basically, I need the best, sexiest, most awesome, most successful tips that anybody can think of for turning on a guy...

A.   30 November 2011: Eek... NO SWITCHING FROM VAGINA TO ASS - THIS IS DANGEROUS. You must always use a clean condom when "switching", or the penis must be washed before this is done. This is to prevent serious infection which can make you infertile. Going from ass... (read in full...)

He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?

Q.   I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...

A.   30 November 2011: " As long as he's not physically, and emotionally abuse to you and the children, everything is possible." Chickpea please read carefully, he is emotionally abusive to the children, one of them is so frightened he has had to go counsell... (read in full...)

Inside, I identify myself as a woman-I'm confused! How can I find someone who understands me as I really am?!

Q.   Ok so new at this. Not sure if this question qualifies for this site but here goes anyways. Basically I'm 34 years old and on the inside I Identify as female. So transgender I guess. When I was younger I ad lots of accepting friends. Long blond hair ...

A.   30 November 2011: Also lily, just try to find some women friends, just normal women friends, who aren't sexually interested. Hang out where women hang out, in fashion online sites, go get your hair done at the hairdressers instead of the barbers. Talk to them about ... (read in full...)

Inside, I identify myself as a woman-I'm confused! How can I find someone who understands me as I really am?!

Q.   Ok so new at this. Not sure if this question qualifies for this site but here goes anyways. Basically I'm 34 years old and on the inside I Identify as female. So transgender I guess. When I was younger I ad lots of accepting friends. Long blond hair ...

A.   30 November 2011: Check the internet for "transgender support groups", there you'll find websites with people just like you. Best to go there, you pick up hints and lots of advice, which will help you gain the confidence to do what you want to do. Hopefully, you'll ... (read in full...)

I'm not model material and don't want my b/f to photograph me

Q.   My boyfriend is a photographer, and he wants to photograph me for part of his portfolio. I insists I should do it but I'm so worried. The other girls he photographs are skinny models. I'm a uk size 8-10. I know I'm not fat but I will just not look ...

A.   30 November 2011: Your in the UK, haven't you ever seen "Look good naked" on channel 4. Put on some makeup and some nice clothes (or few or none, depending on what type of shot you have agreed on) Then try to look sexy, confident, shy, sleep or whatever Mr ... (read in full...)

What do women feel when they are horny?

Q.   hi !! if a boy or man gets horny he gets a erection !! what a girl or women feels when they are sexually aroused !! hope u wil answer my question ????...

A.   30 November 2011: I feel itchy... (read in full...)

I've been told he's taking me to France for the weekend as my present. What can I get him as a present for the same anniversary?

Q.   Right i dont know what to get for my boyfriend for our 2 year anniversary. He spoke to my best friend without me knowing and apparently was planning on taking me to france for the weekend! how can i possibly compare? does anyone have any sugg...

A.   30 November 2011: Oh, forgot to say, don't get too disappointed if he doesn't manage to take you. At the moment, this is what he is planning, but sometimes plans don't work. You know that's what he wants to do in his heart. I suppose the UK chocks, cakes, ... (read in full...)

I've been told he's taking me to France for the weekend as my present. What can I get him as a present for the same anniversary?

Q.   Right i dont know what to get for my boyfriend for our 2 year anniversary. He spoke to my best friend without me knowing and apparently was planning on taking me to france for the weekend! how can i possibly compare? does anyone have any sugg...

A.   30 November 2011: Don't try and compare, gifts are not about competition... didn't you mum tell you something about being gracious, not loving all presents equally big and small, and not worrying about you get or don't get. See if you can save a little extra mon... (read in full...)

Why would a girl ask a guy why he doesn't flirt with her when she knows that he is in a serious relationship with a live-in girlfriend?

Q.   Why would a girl ask a guy why he doesn't flirt with her when she knows that he is in a serious relationship with a live-in girlfriend? I find it strange and rather disrespectful. Is this something that people generally do? Because I don't think I ...

A.   30 November 2011: Some people have no manners, but that's not what is happening. The girl likes him and she wants him for herself, she doesn't give a damn about his girlfriend. Some women are like that. If it's your boyfriend and you trust him, then don't wo... (read in full...)

If he pulls out before he comes does that reduce the chance of pregnancy?

Q.   Ok me and my boyfriend was talking about if we have sex and he pulls out before the semen comes out does that reduce the possibility of me getting pregnant ? Haha sorry about how I ask the question I just really didn't know how to put it ...

A.   30 November 2011: People who don't use contraception and use the pull out method without a doctors help are usually called parents. Very bad idea, large chance of pregnancy or picking up a STD which will put your life a risk.... (read in full...)

Sex tips, anyone???

Q.   Dear Cupid, I'm gonna make this short and sweet. I'm really looking for male opinions, but females are welcome to respond, too. Basically, I need the best, sexiest, most awesome, most successful tips that anybody can think of for turning on a guy...

A.   30 November 2011: If you can get the guy to relax, some of the nicest things aint sex related. Head massage, neck massage, bodies hold a lot of tension. You do that to him, he'll flop like jelly and then you can do the sex thing and drive him wild. Also, wet warm... (read in full...)

Afraid I'm addicted to porn

Q.   Ok well i REALLY need advice..here it goes.. Him im 13 and i am adicted to watching porn.. Its kinda wrong but i cant stop watching it.. I masterbate to it till i Ejaculate when ever my parent leave to the store i rush to the computer and go on a ...

A.   30 November 2011: Porn is not for children, it's for adults. We have had sex, we have had life experiences, we understand that what we see in pornography is fantasy. We understand the people are acting, and we also know what things are wrong are abusive. Children ... (read in full...)

I prefer masturbation to girls!

Q.   Is that normal? I've been on SSRIs for about a year and stopped a few weeks ago as i'd had enougn of feeling like a zombie and not being able to sleep at night and just being tired all the time and understanding nothing in my lectures. I'm 20 and i...

A.   30 November 2011: Yep, either the SSRI's medication or the depression will cut down your sex drive dramatically. Depression causes us to want to be alone, it's part of the condition. As you notice, your're irritable, you get upset over very little things. All ... (read in full...)

He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?

Q.   I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...

A.   29 November 2011: OK, here's a question. Are you frightened of this man?... (read in full...)

17 year old and 14 year old

Q.   Hey I'm a 17 yr old guy, my girlfriend is 14, yes I know that a big age differance this young. We are very much in love, strong word but true. I have asked her about sex and she said she doesnt want to go that far, but she keeps throwing me mixed ...

A.   29 November 2011: Your not behaving nicely.. this is a child you are dating, last year she was still liked dolls more than boys. In a years time you'll be 18 and an adult. She's never had a boyfriend before, she's never ever been kissed, and all you can think about ... (read in full...)

Sleeping with an EX who is with someone else... Do I go for it or no

Q.   Okay so here is my problem. Ive been sleeping with my ex boyfriend (we will call him Chad) but chad is kind of still with his Baby mama. I am 19 years old and we havnt dated since I was around 15. When we was in jail we wrote n we decided we would ...

A.   29 November 2011: Actually you don't sound like a heartless bitch to me, but it standard to remind people not to cheat. What you sound like is numb, like your dead inside and have no feelings, none of this sounds like fun. But you don't sound like you are crying, ... (read in full...)

He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?

Q.   I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...

A.   29 November 2011: 15. Your older kids don't mind him now, but they don't love him, they don't like him much and they are still scared that he'll starting treating them bad again. 16. Your baby loves the dad.. but the baby has not lived with him very long. T... (read in full...)

Sleeping with an EX who is with someone else... Do I go for it or no

Q.   Okay so here is my problem. Ive been sleeping with my ex boyfriend (we will call him Chad) but chad is kind of still with his Baby mama. I am 19 years old and we havnt dated since I was around 15. When we was in jail we wrote n we decided we would ...

A.   29 November 2011: Yep you are confused - CHEATERS ARE IMMORAL PEOPLE, THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT PEOPLE GETTING HURT (morality lesson over) You like sex, good, go and buy a vibrator and use that. You like drama, heartache and noise - Are you bored, find a hobby, go ... (read in full...)

I feel he did not respect my 'No" when he requested anal sex and I have refused that and his other request. I don't know enough about it, like does it hurt?

Q.   My boyfriend has recently requested anal sex, and he has also said he would like to ejaculate on my face. When he first asked if we could have anal sex I said no. I have tried it before (not actual sex, but similar) and didn't really enjoy it....

A.   28 November 2011: In important sex matters which you don't like, it's best to discuss outside the bedroom, where the heat of passion makes you less emotional.. Talk to him, and I'm sure he won't make that mistake again... Sure he might ask you, after a long gap, but ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend spoils me to the point where its become uncomfortable!!

Q.   So ive only been dating my boyfriend for a few weeks now, but i feel like he spoils me entirely TOO much, as selfish as that sounds, in a way it kind of makes me feel helpless like im incapable of doing anything myself. I told him about it, and he ...

A.   28 November 2011: Well then, try in small ways to make him know how much you appreciate and like him. When you try hard to please him (not sex) you will see the effects for yourself.. lol.. the men, they push out their chest, they seem to have more confidence and ... (read in full...)

Is this just mild, controlling behavior or something else?

Q.   My bf of 2 years is really a sweet guy but he has this very mild, controlling behavior...For instance, if I ask him if we can get something to eat he will say "no, we just ate" or "no, have patience." At a restaurant, he controls what I eat and ...

A.   28 November 2011: And don't forget the cherry on top.. He'll go crazy, I want that, I want you to see the real man behind the mask he wears. Remember, you only want to eat some desert.. NORMAL FOR MOST OF THE 6 BILLION PEOPLE ON EARTH.... (read in full...)

How do you feel about nick-names in a loving relationship? Do you have a favorite nick-name?

Q.   Does your loved one give you nick names? Or a nick name? And which one do you love the most? I think nick-names can be a barometer of a relationship. If the nick-names stopped happening then I would know there was a problem, even if nothing had been ...

A.   28 November 2011: My ex calls me Pizza.. when we were young and the relationship was new, he always took me to a pizza restaurant. (poor and young) Being deeply in love and young, I tried to eat as much as he did. He thought I liked pizza, nope, I was so in love, ... (read in full...)

He doesn't like my breasts, other girls are prettier than me, he treat his ex better than me....all these things are making me so insecure!

Q.   Hello, I feel like this question is stupid :( but please help me out. So me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1yr and 3 months or so. At the start of our relstionship, it wasnt the best, i felt so upset with him at times with the things...

A.   28 November 2011: People who come for advice never want to hear the truth... your pretty, you funny, your kind, your all that and more.. and you definitely got fire in your belly.. But, you love a guy, and the truth is "he just aint that into you", (Use google to f... (read in full...)

Is this just mild, controlling behavior or something else?

Q.   My bf of 2 years is really a sweet guy but he has this very mild, controlling behavior...For instance, if I ask him if we can get something to eat he will say "no, we just ate" or "no, have patience." At a restaurant, he controls what I eat and ...

A.   28 November 2011: Just saw your follow up.. if you want to get free and defeat him.. You order, ice-cream with cheese cake, cherry on top, a drizzle of chocolate, cream on the side, honeycomb crumble, and jelly on the bottom And when he asks what you are doing.... (read in full...)

Is this just mild, controlling behavior or something else?

Q.   My bf of 2 years is really a sweet guy but he has this very mild, controlling behavior...For instance, if I ask him if we can get something to eat he will say "no, we just ate" or "no, have patience." At a restaurant, he controls what I eat and ...

A.   28 November 2011: Be careful.. this isn't mild controlling behaviour.. "CHANGE IT TO MAJOR CONTROL FREAK" It seems OK to you now, but in time, you will be a mindless slave and he will be able to make you do anything.. and I mean anything... This type of control ... (read in full...)

Is ejaculating in a woman's mouth more degrading than on her face?

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years now, and really want to ejaculate in her mouth, she can't stand the taste. She wants me to ejaculate on her face, but I feel that's degrading....what do you guys suggest....?...

A.   28 November 2011: *sigh*.. shivers... Try to fulfil her needs, and fulfil your own, and you two will be all right. This is not worth a fight.... (read in full...)

I feel he did not respect my 'No" when he requested anal sex and I have refused that and his other request. I don't know enough about it, like does it hurt?

Q.   My boyfriend has recently requested anal sex, and he has also said he would like to ejaculate on my face. When he first asked if we could have anal sex I said no. I have tried it before (not actual sex, but similar) and didn't really enjoy it....

A.   28 November 2011: Understood babes, I don't think he's horrible, just you two need to find your own way to negotiate sexual matters. I understand you've come for advice because you want to do things right. Porn as an issue is controversial and there are many views, ... (read in full...)

Spotting before my period is due and definitely not pregnant....is this normal?

Q.   I have been on the pill for 10 months, never missed a pill, take it at the same time to the minute, but every month before my period is due, i have brown spotting and then my period follows as normal. i have been to the doctors and they advised to ...

A.   28 November 2011: Yep, I think spotting is normal on the pill.. But why ask me, I'm no doctor. I could be talking rubbish. Your in the UK, that means you have access to the NHS. The NHS has a online website, that gives you information about everything. You... (read in full...)

He doesn't like my breasts, other girls are prettier than me, he treat his ex better than me....all these things are making me so insecure!

Q.   Hello, I feel like this question is stupid :( but please help me out. So me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1yr and 3 months or so. At the start of our relstionship, it wasnt the best, i felt so upset with him at times with the things...

A.   28 November 2011: First, never feel bad about asking questions. Questions are good, no question is ever stupid. Second, I just read a couple of lines, and I don't need to read anymore. The guy aint treating you right... DUMP HIM NOW. If he loves you, well the... (read in full...)

The girl I like is a Jehovah's Witness

Q.   There's this girl who I found to be amazing. I am the type to fall for girls who "catch my eye" as in i am picky and i go for girls who call out to me. This girl caught my eye a while ago but she's one of those girls that i call wayy out of my le...

A.   28 November 2011: Don't worry about the height thing.. people love to gossip and talk, so just ignore them. Your not dating them, so who cares what they think. They'll always find something to say, some people are like that. We had a woman on here, she's a "little ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend spoils me to the point where its become uncomfortable!!

Q.   So ive only been dating my boyfriend for a few weeks now, but i feel like he spoils me entirely TOO much, as selfish as that sounds, in a way it kind of makes me feel helpless like im incapable of doing anything myself. I told him about it, and he ...

A.   28 November 2011: I'm more interested in you and your thinking. You were happy to sleep with this guy, with no gifts, no presents, and no promise of a long term relationship. You were happy with this. But now the guy wants to be closer to you, he wants to spoil ... (read in full...)

I feel he did not respect my 'No" when he requested anal sex and I have refused that and his other request. I don't know enough about it, like does it hurt?

Q.   My boyfriend has recently requested anal sex, and he has also said he would like to ejaculate on my face. When he first asked if we could have anal sex I said no. I have tried it before (not actual sex, but similar) and didn't really enjoy it....

A.   28 November 2011: Opps.. same goes for ejaculation on the face... do it if you like it, but say no if you don't. Some women like it, some women don't. Again, it's hard to say if it's influenced by porn or not. Research from the Kinsey Institute into sexuality were ... (read in full...)

He abused me so I left the relationship. But how do I stop emotional binge eating I've been doing since the split?

Q.   August, I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. He would call me fat then try to get me into nude modeling (makes sense right?). Also I was 17 and he was 27. He'd say I belong to him and other manipulative ^^^t like that. Anyways one day ...

A.   28 November 2011: If you reject a guy who is making sexual moves on you, and your unwilling and have pushed him away, you haven't agreed to sexual activity. If he then sticks his hands down your crotch, then of course it's sexual assault. Imagine he's some str... (read in full...)

I feel he did not respect my 'No" when he requested anal sex and I have refused that and his other request. I don't know enough about it, like does it hurt?

Q.   My boyfriend has recently requested anal sex, and he has also said he would like to ejaculate on my face. When he first asked if we could have anal sex I said no. I have tried it before (not actual sex, but similar) and didn't really enjoy it....

A.   28 November 2011: Forget about the porn for the moment. What you and your boyfriend want to do in the bedroom is your business. Of course he has the right to ask you to do something, just as you have the right to say what you like and ask him for something. You ... (read in full...)

Is ejaculating in a woman's mouth more degrading than on her face?

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years now, and really want to ejaculate in her mouth, she can't stand the taste. She wants me to ejaculate on her face, but I feel that's degrading....what do you guys suggest....?...

A.   28 November 2011: Sigh.. I know that some women don't like the taste.. but the strong views that have been given, really make me wonder, how women would feel if men said "I HATE TO EAT PUSSY, IT TASTES SO DISGUSTING, IT'S NASTY....." Anyway... you want her to swall... (read in full...)

He abused me so I left the relationship. But how do I stop emotional binge eating I've been doing since the split?

Q.   August, I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. He would call me fat then try to get me into nude modeling (makes sense right?). Also I was 17 and he was 27. He'd say I belong to him and other manipulative ^^^t like that. Anyways one day ...

A.   28 November 2011: Oh dear, you done it now.. We were trying to stay as calm and factual as you. But your follow up has opened up the emotional floodgates. I'll be back to tell you what I think of them nasty, horrible men. You are an angel, you don't deserve the ... (read in full...)

How do I lessen the pain for my first time?

Q.   I'm 16, and I've recently watched my first porn videos (just like 4 or so), but I stopped quickly because I felt so bad for watching them, like I've done something I wasn't supposed to. I feel like I did something wrong, and I'm really embarrassed ...

A.   28 November 2011: I'll deal with the porn issue.. Many people like it, and many people don't. Never feel pressurized to be interested in porn because that's what everyone else likes. The shame and embarrassment you felt watching such things is very normal. ... (read in full...)

Ladies, have you had more sexual (intercourse) partners than oral sex partners or have you masturbated more partners?

Q.   I was just wondering about female statistics, something me and my partner were talking about. Ladies, have you had more sexual (intercourse) partners than oral sex partners or have you masturbated more partners? For example, my partner (I've asked ...

A.   27 November 2011: I guess this is one of these intellectual discussions, where everyone gets heated and upset. If it's a case of more sex than oral, then I guess your lady wins. Her experience is probably more common. I think the situation is different for men. ... (read in full...)

Ladies, have you had more sexual (intercourse) partners than oral sex partners or have you masturbated more partners?

Q.   I was just wondering about female statistics, something me and my partner were talking about. Ladies, have you had more sexual (intercourse) partners than oral sex partners or have you masturbated more partners? For example, my partner (I've asked ...

A.   27 November 2011: More sex partners than oral, masturbation is hard, because we women don't remember them so much. Masturbation partners start earlier, and that's why we forget... I think mine is probably, sex partners, masturbation partners, then oral. I think, b... (read in full...)

He abused me so I left the relationship. But how do I stop emotional binge eating I've been doing since the split?

Q.   August, I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. He would call me fat then try to get me into nude modeling (makes sense right?). Also I was 17 and he was 27. He'd say I belong to him and other manipulative ^^^t like that. Anyways one day ...

A.   22 November 2011: Yep counselling - What your mind and body are doing is trying to fill your mouth with food, so you don't have an opportunity to open your mouth and scream about the pain and hurt. Your repressing yourself and getting fat in the process. See if you ... (read in full...)

He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?

Q.   I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...

A.   21 November 2011: Yep, remember your last post. We are here, you need to talk and open 24/7 when you need someone. It's always better to try to keep to one post, that way aunts who are interested or who have the relevant experience can find you easily and not miss ... (read in full...)

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