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How can I please him sexually without sex?

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Question - (12 December 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 23 December 2011)
A female Iceland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok another question for the guys..girls feel free to answer

How do you sexually please a guy without having sex? And yes you will all say hand job and blowjob...but can I have more detail please...see this guy he doesn't show any emotion or pleasure at all wen I gave him a blow but I no he was impressed but he won't even give a tiny moan...and his face is totally blank...so is he enjoying it and just not showing it? Or is he not? How can I please him sexually without sex? DETAILS please help! And he goes soft even faster than he gets hard! Help me!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2011):

Hey if he doesn't take the time to apreciate that your trying to please him and you spending more time trying to please him then he you than i have to things you can do

1. tell him you want to pleasure him bout he has no feedback from it, if he really cares he'd tell u ways to please him and maybe he'll try to please you

2. he probly ain't worth your time at all.

best of luck

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (12 December 2011):

Miamine agony auntYou don't need tips on sex.. you need help with communication.. Best thing is to ask the guy what he likes. We could tell you to do tons of stuff, but that won't mean he'll face will change or he'll act any different.

Good sex needs communication, not just knowing all the right moves.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (12 December 2011):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntHere's my sage input: IF you are with a guy who is interested only in YOUR pleasing HIM.... and NOT by some form of sexual activity by which YOU get some enjoyment... then you are spending time with a major-league loser... AND you are selling your soul trying to please HIM whilest he doesn't give a darn about YOU....

.... and now, I find myself getting angry about this so-called "man" who you call a "boyfriend"..... My bottom line? He's a jerk and isn't worth your time or mental energy... Go get a real, (and decent!) boyfriend....

Good luck....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2011):

Hi girl. It doesn't necessarily have to be a hand job or a blow job, it should something you both feel comfortable in and I don't think you are with both the things you mentioned. How about you have something like dry sex or dry humping? This would be you guys being in any sexual position (best effective in the missionary position) whereby you lie on your back with your legs a bit widely open and him on top of you with penis on your vagina..not in!!! You have to do this with clothes on...or atleast underwear on. You might also want to use a condom to be on the safe side. This can be very sexually fulfilling for both partners unlike a hand job.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (12 December 2011):

olderthandirt agony auntAsk any man; a good strong and loving hand job is better than anything else except a BJ.

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