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He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?
Q. I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...
A. 4 December 2012: You've done so well honeypie, you've done better than I thought you would. You sound stronger, you sound calm, you sound much happier.
"I dont want to cause anyone hurt"
Again, that's always the big problem.... again I'll translate... "I ... (read in full...)
He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?
Q. I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...
A. 30 November 2011: I guess we aunts don't like him either, we feel the same as your kids. Counselling is a good idea, you sound like you've had bad experiences in life and don't expect to be treated nicely. I know it's hard to leave when the outside looks co... (read in full...)
He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?
Q. I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...
A. 30 November 2011: " As long as he's not physically, and emotionally abuse to you and the children, everything is possible."
Chickpea please read carefully, he is emotionally abusive to the children, one of them is so frightened he has had to go counsell... (read in full...)
He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?
Q. I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...
A. 29 November 2011: OK, here's a question. Are you frightened of this man?... (read in full...)
He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?
Q. I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...
A. 29 November 2011: 15. Your older kids don't mind him now, but they don't love him, they don't like him much and they are still scared that he'll starting treating them bad again.
16. Your baby loves the dad.. but the baby has not lived with him very long. T... (read in full...)
He abused me so I left the relationship. But how do I stop emotional binge eating I've been doing since the split?
Q. August, I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. He would call me fat then try to get me into nude modeling (makes sense right?). Also I was 17 and he was 27. He'd say I belong to him and other manipulative ^^^t like that. Anyways one day ...
A. 28 November 2011: If you reject a guy who is making sexual moves on you, and your unwilling and have pushed him away, you haven't agreed to sexual activity. If he then sticks his hands down your crotch, then of course it's sexual assault.
Imagine he's some str... (read in full...)
He abused me so I left the relationship. But how do I stop emotional binge eating I've been doing since the split?
Q. August, I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. He would call me fat then try to get me into nude modeling (makes sense right?). Also I was 17 and he was 27. He'd say I belong to him and other manipulative ^^^t like that. Anyways one day ...
A. 28 November 2011: Oh dear, you done it now.. We were trying to stay as calm and factual as you. But your follow up has opened up the emotional floodgates. I'll be back to tell you what I think of them nasty, horrible men. You are an angel, you don't deserve the ... (read in full...)
Ladies, have you had more sexual (intercourse) partners than oral sex partners or have you masturbated more partners?
Q. I was just wondering about female statistics, something me and my partner were talking about. Ladies, have you had more sexual (intercourse) partners than oral sex partners or have you masturbated more partners? For example, my partner (I've asked ...
A. 27 November 2011: I guess this is one of these intellectual discussions, where everyone gets heated and upset. If it's a case of more sex than oral, then I guess your lady wins. Her experience is probably more common. I think the situation is different for men.
... (read in full...)
Ladies, have you had more sexual (intercourse) partners than oral sex partners or have you masturbated more partners?
Q. I was just wondering about female statistics, something me and my partner were talking about. Ladies, have you had more sexual (intercourse) partners than oral sex partners or have you masturbated more partners? For example, my partner (I've asked ...
A. 27 November 2011: More sex partners than oral, masturbation is hard, because we women don't remember them so much. Masturbation partners start earlier, and that's why we forget... I think mine is probably, sex partners, masturbation partners, then oral.
I think, b... (read in full...)
How can I avoid an Arranged Marriage? I do not wish it to go ahead. What should be my actions and behaviour in this situation?
Q. I am getting married as per my parents wish to a guy who is a liar, unattractive, no mannerisms, hypocrite, etc. Worst I get shivering spine when I think I will have to go to bed with him, for which he is eagerly waiting. He thinks himself very ove...
A. 26 November 2011: Arranged marriages are legal, Forced marriages are not. Forced marriages are illegal in India, Pakistan, Europe, and the USA. Arranged marriages are supposed to be about finding you a husband who you can respect and eventually love, it's supposed ... (read in full...)
How can I avoid an Arranged Marriage? I do not wish it to go ahead. What should be my actions and behaviour in this situation?
Q. I am getting married as per my parents wish to a guy who is a liar, unattractive, no mannerisms, hypocrite, etc. Worst I get shivering spine when I think I will have to go to bed with him, for which he is eagerly waiting. He thinks himself very ove...
A. 26 November 2011: Arranged marriages are legal, Forced marriages are not. Forced marriages are illegal in India, Pakistan, Europe, and the USA. Arranged marriages are supposed to be about finding you a husband who you can respect and eventually love, it's supposed ... (read in full...)
Should a girl ever truly trust a man 100 per cent?
Q. I was wondering should you ever trust a man 100% or give your love 100%. I am 25 good looking and have two degrees but recently I find it hard to be in a relationship or even wonder if a man is ever worth giving your all. I was in a five year rela...
A. 25 November 2011: Yes of course, men are people too, they are not all animals. Let me turn it around on you - Should a man ever truly trust a woman 100 percent?
If one person hurts you, should you hate the other 6 billion of us, and say that we must all be the s... (read in full...)
Is is cheating or is it my bi-polar disorder?
Q. Hi guys I'm Tiffany My fiance is Elvin and I love him very much. I have bi-polar disorder,anxiety,and depression. I do not take pills do to no insurance but doing teh best I can to figh the sickness:/....I have been having anxiety lately because I ...
A. 24 November 2011: It's the bi-polar, messing up your head. You know about the bots. You said they wanted to messenger with him, but he doesn't have messenger. If he actually was talking to these girls wouldn't they know they can't contact him this way. You know ... (read in full...)
I want to talk to this stunning woman on the train but don't know how!
Q. Ok most days going into work I see the most stunning woman on the train, and I can't seem to get to talk to her. I've tried the old sit opposite and try and make eye contact and smile stuff, but she's always got her head buried in The Times (or on...
A. 24 November 2011: If she's reading the Metro newspaper, I think they got a special "I like you" column especially for cases like yours. Think you can call, text or write in and say "To the lady, on the Southbound Bakerloo line, your so beautiful, your all I can ... (read in full...)
Marriage stereotypes....
Q. After having heard some comments last night, and searching the web a bit for answers, I have this question, and would like to hear different inputs. The topic is marriage, and it appears to me that there are certain stereotypes out there. A...
A. 24 November 2011: Also sposal support and child mantainence is not for life here. It lasts as long as the child is 18 (or 19 and in full time education) You can go back to the courts at any time to ask for your settlement to be reviewed if the situation has ... (read in full...)
Marriage stereotypes....
Q. After having heard some comments last night, and searching the web a bit for answers, I have this question, and would like to hear different inputs. The topic is marriage, and it appears to me that there are certain stereotypes out there. A...
A. 24 November 2011: Ah yes, thought so.. alimony or spousal support laws are different in every country. The american system is well known for it's seemingly unfair awards. Just quickly checked the UK version. You don't just get alimony like that, it has to be ... (read in full...)
Marriage stereotypes....
Q. After having heard some comments last night, and searching the web a bit for answers, I have this question, and would like to hear different inputs. The topic is marriage, and it appears to me that there are certain stereotypes out there. A...
A. 23 November 2011: But odds, don't you have some of the same problems by just living with a woman.. she can still ban access to the kids, they can still force you to pay child support. Even worse, when your not married, the woman can just take the kid and go away and ... (read in full...)
Should I dump him despite the fact he's given up the porn??
Q. I have a problem. My boyfriend of nearly seven years has watched and masturbated to pornography throughout behind my back. He has also lied to me when I have caught him out. He even continued to do this whilst I was pregnant and after our baby ...
A. 23 November 2011: I'm aware of your views you've made them very clear, and you haven't left much room for discussion. You also haven't left us any room to give any advice except dump the guy. That's your choice, no compromise, no understanding - So show the guy the ... (read in full...)
He hit me, but I still think about him...
Q. Here it goes... I am a 21-year-old, single mother at this point. My current ex is the father of my child. In the beginning of our relationship, he was kind, caring, sweet, loving and good to me. However, we did have our problems. I cheated on ...
A. 23 November 2011: You know you can't have contact with this man. You know the abuse will not stop. You know you have to keep yourself and the baby safe. You know that when guys hit, they will hit again. You know all this - that's why you threw him out. Abus... (read in full...)
Career vs Love - what comes first?
Q. What's more important? • a career that pays $10k more than you currently earn... With greater responsibility and pressure. Or... • being in a loving relationship, building your own home and having a future with somebody that loves you? Your wag...
A. 23 November 2011: For me, B has always been important. The money is not so important, but an interesting job is.
For other people it's probably different. People like all kinds of thing.... (read in full...)
Marriage stereotypes....
Q. After having heard some comments last night, and searching the web a bit for answers, I have this question, and would like to hear different inputs. The topic is marriage, and it appears to me that there are certain stereotypes out there. A...
A. 23 November 2011: Chigirl, yep, that's exactly how I see it too.. unfortunately I don't have one single answer for why marriage is seen as only a woman's thing, and men are encouraged not to try.... (read in full...)
Poll: When did you have your first kiss and the first relationship?
Q. Hey just a quick thing. Can you guys/girls tell me when you had your first kiss and when you first had a boyfriend/girlfriend? I'm 16 and never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, nothing. Just wanna know when you guys/girls had your f...
A. 23 November 2011: About 13-14 I think. Didn't fancy the guy, but he asked me to be his girlfriend, and I said yes, because I wanted to see what a boyfriend did. It was awkward, neither of us were sure what we were supposed to do. He kissed me on the lips, with a ... (read in full...)
I "insulted" my husband about his performance in bed and I think I deeply wounded his ego. How do I fix it?
Q. I "insulted" my husband and I think I deeply wounded his ego. He cant please me in bed and he has stopped trying to quite a while back. I told him that what he is doing isn't working. He told me he never had problems pleasing women in the past. I ...
A. 23 November 2011: You got to be careful about how you criticize a man's sexual technique. If you are brutal, you'll do more than hurt his ego, you'll make him frightened to have sex and his dick won't come up any more.
Apology won't do much now. Give him as much ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't stop masturbating to porn!
Q. Dear Cupid, So a while ago, my boyfriend confessed to watching porn and said he would stop. He thinks it's a bad thing. A teeny bit recently, i told him how i felt about it and he said "sorry for doing that" and promised he'd stop again. Then...
A. 23 November 2011: It's not that we don't understand. You don't want porn in your relationship and you feel upset and betrayed. But this guy has shown he's a porn user, and porn users will lie if somebody tries to force them to give it up. At 20years old, of course ... (read in full...)
I found hundreds of porn videos on his laptop. I'm devastated.
Q. This is so hard, I dunno where to start :/ I moved abroad about a year ago, I left everything behind because I wanted to pursue some intellectual goals. Everyone supported me and it seemed pretty exciting for me. Things were good, and they got bet...
A. 22 November 2011: Not sure about an addiction to porn, and neither are you. You left the guy alone, expected him to be faithful, you went to another country to earn money. What did you expect the guy to do, do completely without any type of sex for a year. Anon... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose the trust of my b/f's daughter but I do think she pushes the boundaries!
Q. I'm in a relationship (for 6 years already) and my boyfriend has an 11 year old daughter. I'm very lucky in the sense that she loves me very much. We get along great and I feel she trusts me 100%. I, myself, does not have any kids of my own and ...
A. 22 November 2011: I'm quite good around kids, and most of the time, I'm not afraid to discipline, even if it makes their parent's uncomfortable. I'm experienced, so I know ways to talk to them without it being a problem. You can't discipline for everything, and you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of 7 yrs isnt putting effort in anymore what should I do? is she scared of committment?
Q. My girlfriend of 7 yrs isnt putting effort in anymore what should i do? *warning this is gonna be long i apologize and appreciate any feedback*thankyou* Ok heres the situation.. Ive been with my girlfriend for 7 years and also have a beautifu...
A. 22 November 2011: ah.. early 20's.. and you've been together for 7yrs... She's lost her childhood, she's never had the chance to experience the freedom that most young people have. Many people feel like this when they get into a serious relationship so young. She ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of 7 yrs isnt putting effort in anymore what should I do? is she scared of committment?
Q. My girlfriend of 7 yrs isnt putting effort in anymore what should i do? *warning this is gonna be long i apologize and appreciate any feedback*thankyou* Ok heres the situation.. Ive been with my girlfriend for 7 years and also have a beautifu...
A. 22 November 2011: Your a wonderfull guy, you sound great - but, it doesn't sound like this woman is in love with you. It's hard to leave a wonderful man, who tries so hard to please you. But - you can't force the heart to love, no matter how hard the other person ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want me! How can I get him to change his mind?
Q. i want to be his girlfriend but he's not ready for a new relationship right now. i don't want no one else i want only him what can i do to make him change his mind and say yes i want you to be my girl before this year end ...
A. 22 November 2011: Nothing you can do. You can't force someone to love you. If you can only love him, how do other people who really like you feel. Stay single, that's best for you right now. Don't wait, the guy is being kind. He doesn't love you, and one day he ... (read in full...)
I am addicted to porn!
Q. I am quite badly addicted to porn and it makes me struggle concentrating on anything else properly. If it was happening once in a week , then I guess it would have been okay but I spend most of my time watching porn and getting jerk off in front of ...
A. 22 November 2011: What country are you from and how old are you? More information needed for proper advice.... (read in full...)
He abused me so I left the relationship. But how do I stop emotional binge eating I've been doing since the split?
Q. August, I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. He would call me fat then try to get me into nude modeling (makes sense right?). Also I was 17 and he was 27. He'd say I belong to him and other manipulative ^^^t like that. Anyways one day ...
A. 22 November 2011: Yep counselling - What your mind and body are doing is trying to fill your mouth with food, so you don't have an opportunity to open your mouth and scream about the pain and hurt. Your repressing yourself and getting fat in the process. See if you ... (read in full...)
How can I divorce my husband when I'm all he has?
Q. I've posted a few times now and had some really good replies. I'm now in a situation where I am so unhappy with my life/marriage that I am actively pursuing affairs. In the 7 years we have been together we have grown apart, we are so different now. ...
A. 22 November 2011: Babes, no matter how nice he is, you don't want to stay. You can't stay anyway, it's not fair to him and it's not fair to you. You are stopping both of yourself finding love from someone more suitable. Do you remember when you was a kid and yo... (read in full...)
What are healthy fantasies?
Q. I am a 26 year old male, and like most people, I masturbate. I am saving sex for someone I am in love with- but in the meantime I have to make due. I'm wondering how many people can relate to my issues or what their opinions on my concerns about th...
A. 22 November 2011: Amature porn is better - it's home made and it's not so graphic or as scripted as the professional stuff. Be careful though, the home made stuff is not regulated. You never can be sure if the woman and man has given permission to have their sex ... (read in full...)
Extremely insecure about my small breasts! I want to go out with my friends and not feel inferior, because they get more attention than I do. I want to feel like a sexy woman!
Q. I have small breasts and this makes me feel insecure, especially because my ex was more into bigger ones. I have also noticed that most men prefer big ones. I know looks supposedly don’t matter, but men, even other women, seem to make such a big ...
A. 22 November 2011: No, no, no.... nothing wrong with that at all. So you do want a shallow man who is interested in nothing my tits. I get it. Some fun, feel sexy, nothing too emotional, great sex. Yep, sometimes that's just what a woman needs. Of course this is ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to feel comfortable about my boyfriend occasionally watching porn
Q. I'm hoping to settle this whole porn issue (though it isn't one at all) once and for all. I watch porn myself and I know my boyfriend does. But why do I get so touchy when the subject comes up? Or when I see hot women in a movie? I am attractive, I ...
A. 22 November 2011: It's not a porn issue. You don't really have strong feelings about it. This is more, as you say, a self-confidence issues. You don't like things about your body (normal for a lot of women)so therefore you assume he must feel like you do. You and ... (read in full...)
Is my interest in transexual pornography a harmless fantasy or a sign of something else?
Q. I'm not sure how to start, so I will just dive in. I am 36 and married to a woman I love. We have good sex and no problems except that my testosterone may be a little low so we don't have it as much as we used to, but i'm working on that. The pr...
A. 21 November 2011: Straight men who like transsexual porn are common, nothing wrong with it. But it also might be a sign that your watching too much pornography, and need greater and greater stimulation to get aroused.
I'd suggest, give pornography a break for a li... (read in full...)
So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends
Q. What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...
A. 21 November 2011: Sounds like Madonna and Whore Syndrome - You are the good girl, the nice girl who gets to meet the family, he takes home to mother and he treats you nice and shows you consideration. Your the Madonna. But he also has to have his whores, women who ... (read in full...)
I think he's just living with me for the kids and because he doesn't want to live alone
Q. I feel my partner or supposed partner has a problem. He has started going out at wkends binge drinking and taking amphemines. We have 2 kids and our relationship has always been volitile. I dont feel he loves me and that im just the maid that does ...
A. 21 November 2011: Hi shanib, I remember you from before. Thanks for coming back and sharing more of your story. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-are-some-men-so-selfish.html. So we was right, you do have a big baby on your hands. He lived at home, because he ... (read in full...)
His exes call him all the time, when I try to talk to him about it he calls me controlling.
Q. I am 45 and recently married for the second time. My husband is a very friendly person but seems unable to draw the line at what is friendly and what is unacceptable behaviour. He has a lot of female friends and ex girlfriends and even though we are ...
A. 21 November 2011: Wishing you all the best in whatever you do. :)... (read in full...)
Am I too heavy to be a stripper?
Q. Hello. I know this is a bit off topic but I was recently contemplating becoming an exotic dancer/stripper to make some extra cash but wanted some advice as to what a dancer should ideally look like. I workout about 3x a week running 30 minutes to 1 ...
A. 21 November 2011: Sigh.. men aren't being nice, and it's sad that we women don't listen to them when they give their opinions on body issues. Best thing is to find one of them stripping clubs, give them a call and get better advice. It's not about what men will ... (read in full...)
Extremely insecure about my small breasts! I want to go out with my friends and not feel inferior, because they get more attention than I do. I want to feel like a sexy woman!
Q. I have small breasts and this makes me feel insecure, especially because my ex was more into bigger ones. I have also noticed that most men prefer big ones. I know looks supposedly don’t matter, but men, even other women, seem to make such a big ...
A. 21 November 2011: OK.. You don't want a guy who likes personality.. You want a shallow man who only wants a woman who has big breasts. Fine, that's what you want. Save money and go and get surgery then. Get the biggest breasts you can find and then you'll attract ... (read in full...)
Why are some men so selfish?
Q. Why some men so selfish?. My partner and i have 2 kids together he is 42 and i am 36. Our relationship is very dull, we never go out as a couple, we have little to no sex life to which i put down to him not having a sex drive. He never treats me or ...
A. 21 November 2011: Yep.. he's right.. put up or shut up.
What you got is a big lazy baby on your hands. He's acting like a dog who is happy because he gets what he want. Dog then turns around and pees all over your floor, and you cuddle him and give him a treat as... (read in full...)
He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?
Q. I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...
A. 21 November 2011: Yep, remember your last post. We are here, you need to talk and open 24/7 when you need someone. It's always better to try to keep to one post, that way aunts who are interested or who have the relevant experience can find you easily and not miss ... (read in full...)
Am I normal for wanting to remain single?
Q. Is it normal that I shut out all emotions and don't even care for having a girlfriend? About a year ago this time I was always stressing about finding a girlfriend and wondering why I was alone but something clicked in me this past summer and I re...
A. 21 November 2011: It's normal not to want a girlfriend. It's also normal to be too interested in other things to deal with girls right now.
However, it is dangerous to cut yourself off from emotions, and harden your heart and put yourself behind a wall. It might... (read in full...)
Should I dump him despite the fact he's given up the porn??
Q. I have a problem. My boyfriend of nearly seven years has watched and masturbated to pornography throughout behind my back. He has also lied to me when I have caught him out. He even continued to do this whilst I was pregnant and after our baby ...
A. 21 November 2011: I'm assuming that you made it clear that you didn't want him to use pornography. That means he has lied to you for 7years. Very normal, most men who use pornography have to lie if they are with a woman who hates it. Not going to argue about your... (read in full...)
Is it normal for someone 50 to ask their parent if its ok to take a bath?
Q. do you think its normal asking your parent that you will take a bath at the age of 50?someoene i know ask this question everytime want to take a bath in the night. i find it so weird? for me its wrong because personal hygiene.. why ask other people. ...
A. 21 November 2011: You ever seen jokes about selfish teenagers who spend hours in the bathroom and don't care about the fact that other people need to use it.
It may be news for you, but at 70+ people still need to use the bathroom, and it's the only bathroom... (read in full...)
Girls' night out - girlfriend comes home drunk at 4am
Q. My girlfriend went to a nightclub for a girls' night out last night, came back at 4am and spent the first hour of today throwing up. How worried should I be? The poster for the event she went to depicts a young lady sitting down in a chair, with...
A. 21 November 2011: Not worried at all.. it's the modern form of entertainment for some women right now. Only worry if she demands to do this every single week.... (read in full...)
Has anyone got any quotes/sayings that they live by or feel inspired from?
Q. I know this is a relationship website, but I am getting a quote painted on my wall above the mirror, I want it to be something that when I wake up and look at everyday, I feel inspired by it! Something about either, life, success, our future, ...
A. 21 November 2011: “Lord grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”
And I'm not religious, I'm an atheist, but this one works for me.... (read in full...)
Should I get there first and end it before he does?
Q. I met a guy at uni and become really close to him. we lost touch for a couple of years and recently met up . with a bit of alcohol and the obvious attraction still there, we ended up kissing. a week later caught up again and decided we'd be toget...
A. 21 November 2011: Thanks for coming back and giving us an update.. It will provide a useful warning for other women who are now in the same position.
You gave it a chance, and that's healthy. Your not letting bad experiences drive your life.. He's a twat, an... (read in full...)
Is it normal for someone 50 to ask their parent if its ok to take a bath?
Q. do you think its normal asking your parent that you will take a bath at the age of 50?someoene i know ask this question everytime want to take a bath in the night. i find it so weird? for me its wrong because personal hygiene.. why ask other people. ...
A. 20 November 2011: Also if there are several people in the house, the hot water might run out. This 50year old is very polite and thinks of other people.... (read in full...)
His exes call him all the time, when I try to talk to him about it he calls me controlling.
Q. I am 45 and recently married for the second time. My husband is a very friendly person but seems unable to draw the line at what is friendly and what is unacceptable behaviour. He has a lot of female friends and ex girlfriends and even though we are ...
A. 20 November 2011: My story.. I have two ex's. Both promised to be life-long friends. One left, and his new woman thought like you did. She hated the fact that he still wanted to see me and contact me. She didn't think that ex's should be friends. The other ex, ... (read in full...)
His exes call him all the time, when I try to talk to him about it he calls me controlling.
Q. I am 45 and recently married for the second time. My husband is a very friendly person but seems unable to draw the line at what is friendly and what is unacceptable behaviour. He has a lot of female friends and ex girlfriends and even though we are ...
A. 20 November 2011: Sigh.. you two should have discussed this before marriage. You don't like ex-partners and think they should stay in the past. He believes that ex-partners cam be friends and friends should be kept for life. It's not that he's disrespectful, it's ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose the trust of my b/f's daughter but I do think she pushes the boundaries!
Q. I'm in a relationship (for 6 years already) and my boyfriend has an 11 year old daughter. I'm very lucky in the sense that she loves me very much. We get along great and I feel she trusts me 100%. I, myself, does not have any kids of my own and ...
A. 16 November 2011: Sorry.. your follow up came in late...
3 days with a kid that is not yours, whilst her father stays away. That is not fair, it's not right, no wonder she feels alone and you feel exhausted. If you were a single mother, at least you would kn... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose the trust of my b/f's daughter but I do think she pushes the boundaries!
Q. I'm in a relationship (for 6 years already) and my boyfriend has an 11 year old daughter. I'm very lucky in the sense that she loves me very much. We get along great and I feel she trusts me 100%. I, myself, does not have any kids of my own and ...
A. 15 November 2011: One more thing.. it's been brought up that she may really have issues and you are the only friend she has to talk to. She says she has problems with friends, this is normal, all kids have this, but some kids do have problems with bullying. She ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose the trust of my b/f's daughter but I do think she pushes the boundaries!
Q. I'm in a relationship (for 6 years already) and my boyfriend has an 11 year old daughter. I'm very lucky in the sense that she loves me very much. We get along great and I feel she trusts me 100%. I, myself, does not have any kids of my own and ...
A. 15 November 2011: Absolutely spot on, your doing great and that's why she wants to be friends. Your not a huggy person, and that's alright, you can tell her that, she's not stupid, she will understand. Continue to correct her behavior if you feel it necessary, and ... (read in full...)
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