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14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 14 December 2011: Yep, got it now, know what to say...
Babes, I want you take take a picture of you and your mum going to the hospital together. I want you to get two copies, you keep one and give one to your mum. Keep this picture with you for all of your life... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 14 December 2011: Nope I'm moved as well, I'm just thinking and trying to find the right words to write back...... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 11 December 2011: * one last tip.. try to stay close to your mother and your boyfriends mother.. in years to come you will find that they are your greatest friends and your best support.... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 10 December 2011: Mum: "If you get pregnant I'll kick you out"
Daughter gets pregnant
Mum: "Wow, my baby's having a baby.. I'm gonna be a grandma"
See... wasn't so bad after all.. Well done you for being brave and strong.... (read in full...)
Vulgar bulgur
Q. Okay I know this is a rather silly question, but the other night my gf cooked this dish that I hated. She is a tender woman and so I haven't told her yet. The next day she said she was quite pleased with the flavor. Any tips on gently telling h...
A. 9 December 2011: Thanks for the tip.. gonna stick this one in me recipe book.... (read in full...)
He wants a baby but not marriage?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. (He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's.) We recently got pregnant, but I had a miscarriage. Though this pregnancy was unexpected, we had discussed wanting to have kids together in ...
A. 8 December 2011: I can hear the anger, upset, pain and sarcasm in your voice. Your hurt about how he feels and you think it's either some type of bad reflection on you, or there is something wrong with him, or how he feels or the relationship itself.
Sigh.... (read in full...)
He wants a baby but not marriage?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. (He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's.) We recently got pregnant, but I had a miscarriage. Though this pregnancy was unexpected, we had discussed wanting to have kids together in ...
A. 8 December 2011: "He does realize that marriage is important to me and said that he would get married if it would make me happy, but he also explained that it's going to take some time for him to warm up to the idea again." Translation... man wants to keep yo... (read in full...)
He wants a baby but not marriage?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. (He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's.) We recently got pregnant, but I had a miscarriage. Though this pregnancy was unexpected, we had discussed wanting to have kids together in ...
A. 8 December 2011: "He does realize that marriage is important to me and said that he would get married if it would make me happy, but he also explained that it's going to take some time for him to warm up to the idea again." Translation... man wants to keep yo... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's and my plans for life do not mesh!
Q. All right, here's the deal. My girlfriend and I have been together for just over three years. And good god we love each other like nothing else. We just moved in together and, minor issues aside and one or two larger ones that we have talked about ...
A. 7 December 2011: First you both are young, and you may change your plans many times before you settle down.
If you love each other now, that's what matters, not what you will be doing in 10 or 15years. When you get to the point when she wants to go one way, and... (read in full...)
I don't want sex with my boyfriend and I don't mind if he finds it elsewhere. Normal?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been in each others lives for 1 year and maybe three months? I say this because I'm not sure exactly when we became a couple. I'm 20 and I have a relaxed philosophy to relationships and my boyfriend is 22. I moved away f...
A. 7 December 2011: This story I like.. lol.. have fun and enjoy yourself.... (read in full...)
My partner couldn't be bothered that I miscarried our baby, and he's been busy texting his ex while I'm going through hell!
Q. Hi I've been with my partner for 3 half years. I was due to move on with him next month. In October I found out I was pregnant and was so happy. I'm 41 and my son has left home. My bf wasn't too keen at first but eventually began to get excited....
A. 7 December 2011: "old fashioned" means going to the hospital and waiting outside the door until everything is done. Old fashioned doesn't mean leaving you alone to go through this and texting his ex-girlfriend. Nothing old fashioned about that, old fashioned means ... (read in full...)
Finally found someone I connect with on an intellectual level, as well as an intimate level...but he just so happens to be my literature professor. How do I go about starting a relationship with him?
Q. I've always been a hopeless romantic, but I love the feeling I get when I find someone that I enjoy talking to in an intellectual sense as well as on a more intimate level. Recently, I've met someone that has inspired me in so many ways I cant even ...
A. 7 December 2011: "I'm hesitant to use the word "teacher," just due to the huge stereotypes involved around such a taboo subject"
There is no stereotype or taboo involved, it's written in his contract of employment. There can be NO romantic or sexual involvem... (read in full...)
Would you be willing to be friends with a transgender?
Q. I suppose this is more a question than seeking advise but as a person that is transgender I am curious to know how people really view someone like me. I'm female born in a male body. I've never known anyone els like me and friends from my youth put ...
A. 7 December 2011: Hi Lilly,
I remember you, of course I got no problems being friends with a transgender person. Here in the UK, I see them transvestites all the time, in my case it's hard to make friends, they seem to have tons of friends of their own. Peop... (read in full...)
Vulgar bulgur
Q. Okay I know this is a rather silly question, but the other night my gf cooked this dish that I hated. She is a tender woman and so I haven't told her yet. The next day she said she was quite pleased with the flavor. Any tips on gently telling h...
A. 7 December 2011: You report as over 40 and presently living in the USA.... good your not a kid, so you I can be truthful.
ALL MEN MUST LIKE WOMEN'S COOKING, NO MATTER IF IT'S CRAP.. it's the thing you must do to be called a gentleman. (smile)
You could pre... (read in full...)
Not Over Him After 3 Years
Q. It's been one year and a half now that i did the biggest mistake in my life. I broke up with my man after a 3 years relationship. I deeply regret what i did. I left him for another man. I took the decision in a blink of an eye. I didn't know back in ...
A. 7 December 2011: There is no advice to give. Like you, he has made up his mind, like you he is determined to walk away. It doesn't matter if he loves you or not, it doesn't matter if he loves her or not, it doesn't matter if you both have sex or not. You broke ... (read in full...)
He wants a baby but not marriage?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. (He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's.) We recently got pregnant, but I had a miscarriage. Though this pregnancy was unexpected, we had discussed wanting to have kids together in ...
A. 7 December 2011: Hey, OP, you could show him this post.. as you see, the aunts and uncles have done the arguing for you both and highlighted the most important points.
Maybe, somehow, with a lot of love and determination, you both could sort things out in a way to... (read in full...)
Feeling like I am settling, but he is truly fantastic
Q. I'm a survivor of domestic violence that went on for 3.5 years. I was 17 to 20 when it all happened and the guy I was with was nine months younger than me. Anyway, I never truly gave myself the chance to grow into my own and learn to be independent ...
A. 7 December 2011: Sounds like you missed out on being single, and your wondering if your hurrying and rushing through life.
You love the guy, and the guy loves you, but your human and you can't help wondering about other choices that will become closed to you.
... (read in full...)
My Dad hates body modification. Should I tell Dad or keep my new large tattoo a secret? My husband says to keep it to myself.
Q. hello, this is a bit of a trivial question but i'd like peoples opinions. Im a gothic girl and love tattoo's and piercings. My dad is a lot older then my mum, my dad is in his 70s and is very traditional, he hates beauty and body modifica...
A. 7 December 2011: Over 18, legally an adult in the UK.. you are grown up and don't need to tell your Dad anything.
Besides your now married, your husband (and your own) opinion is all that matters now, remember you dad gave you away at the wedding to your hus... (read in full...)
He wants a baby but not marriage?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. (He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's.) We recently got pregnant, but I had a miscarriage. Though this pregnancy was unexpected, we had discussed wanting to have kids together in ...
A. 7 December 2011: Many men don't want to get married nowadays, especially if they have been divorced. But then they feel hurt when the woman refuses to put them on the birth certificate or refuse to give the baby their surname. That's just the way it is. And who ... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 7 December 2011: Babes, if your pregnant, eventually your mum will notice when your belly gets bigger and the baby comes out. It will be worst if you leave it until then. If she's going to kick you out, she's going to kick you out, hiding your pregnancy isn't ... (read in full...)
How did you move on from a broken heart?
Q. Hi guys, i just dont know what to do. I am still heartbroken nearly 2 years down the line. I have tried to get over him. No contact, going out with friends. Pampering myself you know all these things, and yet I have a great empty hole in the pit of ...
A. 6 December 2011: Yep.. sucks doesn't it.. your doing all the right things. Time and distance are the only thing that can heal. Have you tried dating again.. I know that's hard, but another man making you feel pretty helps a lot.
Wish I had better advice, ... (read in full...)
What should I do about this teacher, that I think has a crush on me?
Q. I am 16 and in grade 11. My school is a small school with 7 grades in it. I had this teacher in my grade 8-9 years. I still see him a lot because I help him with 2 of the activities at my school. Lately I have been getting these mixed signals from ...
A. 6 December 2011: Distance yourself from him.. no more personal talks. What this man is doing is abusive and could lose him his job. There can be no relationship between teachers and students. He should know better. If he has feelings, he should be adult enough ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he hasn't let go of his wife!
Q. I have been with a man over a year now..he hasnt stopped with communicating with his ex wife..he hasnt stopped hacking into her email He has told me several times that he wishes she would move on but when she has a caller he turns into this ...
A. 5 December 2011: You probably find us hostile and not understanding about your situation.. no problem, we are here to help, not to attack you and make you upset.
Please go here, it's me favourite post about your "unique" situation.. tons of women, just like you... (read in full...)
Why do guys think it is ok to kiss women they have only just met?
Q. Am i strange, or do other people think the same as me ?. I hate it when i go out to bars and a guy who i have only just met expects me to kiss him, especially if he tries to force me to kiss him, by grabbing me or holding my face or something. And i ...
A. 5 December 2011: It's not "night club behaviour", Daniel me invitation stands, I'll show how we rock down where I live. It's just bad manner from drunken men, the same thing happens in pubs. It's very rare for me to see, because we have bouncers and security to ... (read in full...)
Why do guys think it is ok to kiss women they have only just met?
Q. Am i strange, or do other people think the same as me ?. I hate it when i go out to bars and a guy who i have only just met expects me to kiss him, especially if he tries to force me to kiss him, by grabbing me or holding my face or something. And i ...
A. 5 December 2011: * hate when people say clubs are just about drinking and having a quick hook up, or public sex.
Remember, some cultures, music and dancing are important, and it's got nothing to do with picking up men.... (read in full...)
Why do guys think it is ok to kiss women they have only just met?
Q. Am i strange, or do other people think the same as me ?. I hate it when i go out to bars and a guy who i have only just met expects me to kiss him, especially if he tries to force me to kiss him, by grabbing me or holding my face or something. And i ...
A. 5 December 2011: Stranger trying to kiss you, that's bad manners.. Stranger grabbing you and holding your face and trying to force a kiss on you, that's an assault, and deserves a kick between the knees, or at least a loud scream. Man asks you to dance, say no ... (read in full...)
Am I justified or being selfish by telling my bf that his sexual persistance annoyed me?
Q. Hi everyone, I am 27 and my boyfriend is 33. He's my first sexual partner and we've been together for 2.5 years. I've always felt bad that we have sex as I wanted to save it for marriage. We're going through a difficult patch at the moment. I ...
A. 5 December 2011: Your 27, you should take more responsibility for your sex life. Why are you stopping contraception when you are in a sexual relationship. That is irresponsible. Unless you knew that you would never have sex with this man again, you should ... (read in full...)
What do you think about when you're masturbating and/or having sex?
Q. i have a question for guys and gals. me and my boyfriend got into a conversation about sex and masturbation. he told me that when he masturbates he fantasizes about things, and when we have sex and i close my eyes, he thinks that im fantasiz...
A. 5 December 2011: Masturbation - usually about some romance/erotic book I've read.. like imaging a sexy end to Jane Austen's "Pride and Prejudice", or I make up my own stories in my head.
Sex.. I'm too caught up to think of anything at all.. it's all about feelings... (read in full...)
Told his wife he's cheating.....was I wrong for telling?
Q. I Recently slept with a married man after talking to him daily for two months and him promising that he would leave his wife within the next 5 months and there is no love between them or sex..just friendship....I believed him and after a dinner date ...
A. 5 December 2011: It's done now, everyone is now hurt including the wife, and it's not your fault, it's the fault of a lying cheating husband. She thanked you, so it's not you she is blaming... Don't worry, you made your move, and it's turned out as it should. Now ... (read in full...)
How can I confront my boyfriend of lying about porn?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in a great relationship for the past 2 years and haven't had any big fights... except about one topic: porn. I absolutely hate it. I see it as a form of cheating. He knows I would never allow him to look another ...
A. 5 December 2011: Sometimes looking at naked men will make your man feel threatened and he will no longer look at women in porn. But a lot of men get turned on by any sexual aids (porn, female masturbation, vibrators). He might just think you've decide to bring ... (read in full...)
We have not consumated this relationship. He is married. But can I get over him while I have to see him twice a week?
Q. I have a major problem here and need help. I am in love with someone who is married. He is in love with me but we have not had an affair. We acknowledged that this was the case but that we would do nothing about this. The problem is is that I ...
A. 5 December 2011: Me favourite post about married men who love other women is here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/in-love-w-a-married-man-how-do-i-cope-w-break-up.html Take time to read every single post, it will distract you and open your eyes a lot. No sex n... (read in full...)
Sleeping with an EX who is with someone else... Do I go for it or no
Q. Okay so here is my problem. Ive been sleeping with my ex boyfriend (we will call him Chad) but chad is kind of still with his Baby mama. I am 19 years old and we havnt dated since I was around 15. When we was in jail we wrote n we decided we would ...
A. 5 December 2011: Yes it's silly - you told us he didn't want her and he was breaking up and on his own. Sounded like he was moving on as a free man. So maybe there was a possibility. Woman is pregnant, that means they have sex, that's not a man moving on at all. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's brother hates me!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years our relationship is great, however there is one problem... His older brother. I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 25 and his brother is 27. They still both live at home, so whenever I'm around his brother is too. For ...
A. 5 December 2011: Your boyfriend is also at fault, why isn't he standing up for you more, why is he allowing these insults to continue. Think it might be three possible reasons. 1. Sibling rivalry, the older brother is jealous his young brother is happy. 2. T... (read in full...)
I simply don't know how to move on from what I did and no-one is giving me any opportunity to do so because they blank me or look at me with loathing
Q. I was in an eighteen year relationship with someone who was a binge drinker and I finally plucked up the courage to leave him some months ago. I need help with some of the leftover crap from that please. My background: I got married at 18, p...
A. 5 December 2011: Thanks for the update, you really are a kind and thoughtful lady. Chocoholicforever knows more about that world than I do, and all her words were very wise, please consider her words carefully before you make your next move.
Blessings, and stre... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he hasn't let go of his wife!
Q. I have been with a man over a year now..he hasnt stopped with communicating with his ex wife..he hasnt stopped hacking into her email He has told me several times that he wishes she would move on but when she has a caller he turns into this ...
A. 5 December 2011: This story doesn't get any better.... I guess you can fool some people all of the time when they is desperate to believe.
Thing is, he's not even lying or trying to fool you, you manage to do that all on your own with tons of excuses. That guy... (read in full...)
My Gf got pissed that I dropped some rice in her bowl of soup, that I was angry at her and that I didn't call her, and now we shouldn't see each other till the end of the year! How trivial is that!!
Q. My gf and I are mad at each other. We’ve dated for about 16 months. I’m 27 and she’s 26. We’re each other's first gf/bf. We were eating at a buffet along with her sister. My gf returned to the table with a small bowl of soup and placed it on the...
A. 5 December 2011: Stuckguy, you say she's your first girlfriend, and you her first boyfriend, well I guess none of you are used to this type of thing.
Your trying to be polite and kind to a rude, selfish, woman - She expects you to treat her like gold, whilst y... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he hasn't let go of his wife!
Q. I have been with a man over a year now..he hasnt stopped with communicating with his ex wife..he hasnt stopped hacking into her email He has told me several times that he wishes she would move on but when she has a caller he turns into this ...
A. 5 December 2011: "I met him while he was with his wife" (so she kicked him out, he didn't leave, he was booted)
"he has introduced me to some of his friends but has told them I am a friend" (you guys may have fun, but that doesn't sound like a man in love, he... (read in full...)
Am I freaking out by thinking the worst?
Q. So I've been seeing this guy for a while. We aren't "boyfriend and girlfriend", so to speak, but we talked abut moving on to that stage. He travels a lot for work and doesn't own his own cellphone (in this day and age... I know). when we met and ...
A. 5 December 2011: You sure have a lot of excuses... no matter what we say, you say, no he's OK. You've made up your mind your dating a good guy. So your not really looking for advice, you just want someone to make you feel better.
He met your mum, you aint met... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he hasn't let go of his wife!
Q. I have been with a man over a year now..he hasnt stopped with communicating with his ex wife..he hasnt stopped hacking into her email He has told me several times that he wishes she would move on but when she has a caller he turns into this ...
A. 4 December 2011: "I dont know what his deal is with me he says he loves me and wants to move here but his wife keeps meddling in our life and he is miserable"
Ok here's the deal, and I'm surprised that you can't see it. He's not treating you like a proper g... (read in full...)
Why do married men lie and tell you there are separated, when they not?
Q. Why do married men lie and tell you there are separated, when they not? ...
A. 4 December 2011: Because they want more sex, and they know if they tell the truth, the other woman will run off.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband that I was raped when I was 16 years old or bury the secret?
Q. I need someone's advice. I'm 26 yo and just recently I got married, me and my husband have together 10 years he's the only guy in my life and love him more anything and I never lie to him no matter what. but during this time I had a secret that I n...
A. 4 December 2011: It's hard to tell such secrets, but it's harder for him to watch you cry and not to know why. It's always best to tell if you can, but many women can't. If you tell a man about rape, remember he gets hurt as well. Somebody in your past has hurt ... (read in full...)
Urgent help needed!! I am meeting the creepy pervert who has my papers, in an hour and a half. How do I handle him and get my papers back? What can I tell him to offend him the way he deserves to be offended?
Q. Little urgent help please!!! I am a student and my financial situation is pretty bad at the moment. Things begun to look up when I landed a pretty decent part time job. The catch is I need to be a member of an association in roder to be able to ...
A. 4 December 2011: Have you got tall strong friends. Go to the flat with a strong man friend or a couple of girlfriends, he won't dare try anything if other people are there.... (read in full...)
My Gf got pissed that I dropped some rice in her bowl of soup, that I was angry at her and that I didn't call her, and now we shouldn't see each other till the end of the year! How trivial is that!!
Q. My gf and I are mad at each other. We’ve dated for about 16 months. I’m 27 and she’s 26. We’re each other's first gf/bf. We were eating at a buffet along with her sister. My gf returned to the table with a small bowl of soup and placed it on the...
A. 4 December 2011: Dump her, she doesn't want a boyfriend, she wants a slave who will jump at her every command. Dump her, no guy will stay with such a rude, selfish woman. When you dump her, in a couple of weeks she'll be on her knees begging you to come back to ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to want her to wear a different dress? The one she chose for New Year's Eve looks like Lingerie.
Q. Hey everyone, I have a somewhat delicate issue here. First of all my girlfriend and two mutual friends of ours (a boy and a girl) decided that we are going to celebrate new years eve together in a club in town, so far so good. Today she was s...
A. 4 December 2011: Oh I forgot.. at New Years the clubs I go to always state "Dress to impress" and if your not looking good enough, sometimes you won't get in.
Also it's crazy, cause you want to look good and not get to hot, but it's also very cold (sometim... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to want her to wear a different dress? The one she chose for New Year's Eve looks like Lingerie.
Q. Hey everyone, I have a somewhat delicate issue here. First of all my girlfriend and two mutual friends of ours (a boy and a girl) decided that we are going to celebrate new years eve together in a club in town, so far so good. Today she was s...
A. 4 December 2011: You have a right to your opinions, and of course you have a right to feel upset when other men stare. It's your emotions, you just can't turn them off and pretend you don't care. But, she has the right to wear what she wants. Sounds like you and ... (read in full...)
I was lied to about my husband and now I don't think I love him
Q. hi .... dear all .... i desperately need soem advice......... I am 29 years old married since 1 year 4 months.... i feel i have lost that love for my husband from the first few month itself.......because from the very first month i found the man ...
A. 3 December 2011: Hi Sweetwine, I have sent an answer to your private mailbox at the top of the page. But maybe you will get better answers on here from aunts who are Asian or from your part of the world. Don't worry babes, there is no point. Go or stay, it is u... (read in full...)
How can I confront my boyfriend of lying about porn?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in a great relationship for the past 2 years and haven't had any big fights... except about one topic: porn. I absolutely hate it. I see it as a form of cheating. He knows I would never allow him to look another ...
A. 3 December 2011: I love him, and I want to fix this without it turning into something terrible. This can't be fixed. You hate porn, he likes it. No matter what he says, one day he will look again. Three times he has tried to stop, but he couldn't he like... (read in full...)
How can I confront my boyfriend of lying about porn?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in a great relationship for the past 2 years and haven't had any big fights... except about one topic: porn. I absolutely hate it. I see it as a form of cheating. He knows I would never allow him to look another ...
A. 3 December 2011: I love him, and I want to fix this without it turning into something terrible. This can't be fixed. You hate porn, he likes it. No matter what he says, one day he will look again. Three times he has tried to stop, but he couldn't he like... (read in full...)
I simply don't know how to move on from what I did and no-one is giving me any opportunity to do so because they blank me or look at me with loathing
Q. I was in an eighteen year relationship with someone who was a binge drinker and I finally plucked up the courage to leave him some months ago. I need help with some of the leftover crap from that please. My background: I got married at 18, p...
A. 3 December 2011: Not sure I understand your world where it comes to education. For me, education is about the subject. You focus and study and get top marks, and then you go beyond that and get creative and write original stuff. That's what gets you in, not your ... (read in full...)
I was lied to about my husband and now I don't think I love him
Q. hi .... dear all .... i desperately need soem advice......... I am 29 years old married since 1 year 4 months.... i feel i have lost that love for my husband from the first few month itself.......because from the very first month i found the man ...
A. 1 December 2011: Yes in arranged marriages (not forced) it's important that people tell the truth about who they are and what they offer, that's all you have on which to make a decision. Lying is very bad. Not very familiar with your wedding traditions, but the ... (read in full...)
Sleeping with an EX who is with someone else... Do I go for it or no
Q. Okay so here is my problem. Ive been sleeping with my ex boyfriend (we will call him Chad) but chad is kind of still with his Baby mama. I am 19 years old and we havnt dated since I was around 15. When we was in jail we wrote n we decided we would ...
A. 29 November 2011: Actually you don't sound like a heartless bitch to me, but it standard to remind people not to cheat. What you sound like is numb, like your dead inside and have no feelings, none of this sounds like fun. But you don't sound like you are crying, ... (read in full...)
Sleeping with an EX who is with someone else... Do I go for it or no
Q. Okay so here is my problem. Ive been sleeping with my ex boyfriend (we will call him Chad) but chad is kind of still with his Baby mama. I am 19 years old and we havnt dated since I was around 15. When we was in jail we wrote n we decided we would ...
A. 29 November 2011: Yep you are confused - CHEATERS ARE IMMORAL PEOPLE, THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT PEOPLE GETTING HURT (morality lesson over) You like sex, good, go and buy a vibrator and use that. You like drama, heartache and noise - Are you bored, find a hobby, go ... (read in full...)
I don't want sex with my boyfriend and I don't mind if he finds it elsewhere. Normal?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been in each others lives for 1 year and maybe three months? I say this because I'm not sure exactly when we became a couple. I'm 20 and I have a relaxed philosophy to relationships and my boyfriend is 22. I moved away f...
A. 10 November 2011: Ok, so he's not a bad lover.. then you are not romantically involved with him. He's your friend, not your lover or soulmate. Please don't be upset with us, we are just trying to help based on the little that you have told us. Why would you w... (read in full...)
I don't want sex with my boyfriend and I don't mind if he finds it elsewhere. Normal?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been in each others lives for 1 year and maybe three months? I say this because I'm not sure exactly when we became a couple. I'm 20 and I have a relaxed philosophy to relationships and my boyfriend is 22. I moved away f...
A. 10 November 2011: 18-21 and you don't want to have sex with him and you don't feel jealous if he has sex somewhere else. This doesn't sound much like romantic love. He is bad in bed and he hurts you. This can be fixed. mmmm... when I was your age, I did the s... (read in full...)
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