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I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?
Q. ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...
A. 11 February 2012: Hoping Maverick would come back on this one, cause she knows a lot more than me... she says it's not possible, I don't think it's possible.. I'm gonna stop feeding any hope and agree that your decision to walk away is right.
You've consider... (read in full...)
I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?
Q. ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...
A. 10 February 2012: Stuff and bother, more complicated.
So he wasn't hacked, he just opened an email which then took you to a link which says he's registered. Not sure what pof is, that needs explaining.
I had a virus which decided to send every friend in my contac... (read in full...)
I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?
Q. ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...
A. 10 February 2012: Yes, maverick is right... it's unlikely to be an ex, even if she remembered all his passwords and he didn't change them... she couldn't be sure if he or you, or anyone he knows would ever see any sex sites. She more likely hack into his social ... (read in full...)
I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?
Q. ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...
A. 9 February 2012: OK, so it's out of character, it's not like him to do this. But no strange hacker could do something like this. No strange hacker would want to do this.
The fact that he has gone and told his mum this isn't a relief, guys who are lying go and l... (read in full...)
I can't believe anything he says anymore!
Q. Ok i need honest objective advice. I'm 24 years old and been with my boyfriend for just over a year. It's a fairly good relationship - aside for some trust issues. Over the past year my boyfriend has lied to me - about big things and little...
A. 8 February 2012: It's really a pity that you told all our anti-porn aunts to stay away, they do have suggestions and advice that might help... you don't like the advice to leave, your not happy about my working with porn stance and you don't want anti-porn ... (read in full...)
I can't believe anything he says anymore!
Q. Ok i need honest objective advice. I'm 24 years old and been with my boyfriend for just over a year. It's a fairly good relationship - aside for some trust issues. Over the past year my boyfriend has lied to me - about big things and little...
A. 8 February 2012: Thanks for your follow up. I'm going to choose my words more carefully, because you seem like a woman who needs that.
He lies about drugs, but you don't worry much about that, porn to you is more important.
He manages to go without porn for... (read in full...)
I feel like I owe it to my husband to have a threesome.
Q. My husband has been wanting a threesome with another women, i was for it at first but after his pushing and searching I started to have my insecruities. I feel tho, it needs to happen. I was unfaithful to him. I kissed a guy. (it might not see...
A. 7 February 2012: Thanks for the update, that's an ending that I like very much.. lol... (read in full...)
Urgent! I snooped through my boyfriend's phone and now his mother says I have to tell him right away
Q. Hello, I really need some advice/help fast my as boyfriends mom tells me Im running out of time..JOY! Ok heres what happenned, I live with my boyfriend and his mom for the last 6months. We've had our ups and downs..Im having some stuggles due to f...
A. 6 February 2012: mntrstina30 got to tell you, damn girl you is brave and you got balls. That's a good thing in a woman.
I know your housing situation aint good, and you need to spend some time concentrating on that.
I know you wished you didn't ask, but ... (read in full...)
Why does he think going on dating sites is "nothing"?
Q. I have officially broke up with my bf of 4 years a few months ago but the feelings are still there and we still love each other a lot. We broke up because the future for us would be very tough together. I also found out that he's been on dating w...
A. 6 February 2012: Thanks for the follow up.. I do understand you know, I've felt just exactly like you before.
That's why it's good to have clarity about these things. A boyfriend is a boyfriend, a friend is a friend, and an ex is an ex.... don't mix them up toget... (read in full...)
Why aren't men ever content with just one woman, on dating sites?
Q. Dating sites are very adventurous but I think once you have dated a guy and he wants to see you again, its only manners to wait until the next time.In meeting someone old fashioned style, if you meet someone and wanted to meet them again, would it ...
A. 5 February 2012: "if you dated a woman that you really really liked and fell for, would you like her dating other men" (female anon) That's the thing that code warrior and some of the aunts are trying to tell you in a polite way. If the guy really likes you... (read in full...)
I want to better this world, not date. what's the best way to react to prying personal questions on dating?
Q. Okay so here it goes, ever since I was very young I always knew what I wanted in life and that desire was to better this world in some way before I died. At a young age I could comprehend what death was and that eventually every living thing has to ...
A. 5 February 2012: I have nothing to add, you've been given the words to say to people who ask you questions.
Your young, and you've got very fixed ideas about the world. Unfortunately because you are young you lack a lot of knowledge and talk with ignoranc... (read in full...)
If a married man and a woman have an affair, can the woman be blamed as well?
Q. If a woman and a married man have an affair, is it the woman's fault as well? Obviously, it is the man's fault, but is the woman to blame as well as a home-wrecker? I have heard the defense of the woman saying "It was his choice to go after m...
A. 5 February 2012: Woman's single, she didn't make no promises to anyone. She can do what she likes. She isn't the friend of the wife and owes her no consideration.
But the other woman is stupid, because she's being used and will end up getting very hurt.... (read in full...)
Why does he think going on dating sites is "nothing"?
Q. I have officially broke up with my bf of 4 years a few months ago but the feelings are still there and we still love each other a lot. We broke up because the future for us would be very tough together. I also found out that he's been on dating w...
A. 5 February 2012: But you two was breaking up, there was no future. You can't tell a guy your breaking up and then get upset by what he is doing. Break up means over, he's single, he doesn't have to ask your permission to go on dating sites. Break ups and ... (read in full...)
Why don't I love my brother?
Q. Hi agony aunts! I'm having a problem with love. Not romantically though. My problem is I don't really love one of my brothers. I have 4 sibs. 2 brothers and 2 sisters. (All halves two at each house.) I love my first born brother and used to love my ...
A. 5 February 2012: This is terrible. You are older, you should be protecting and taking care of your younger family. Your brother at 6 is still a baby, his brain is not fully grown, he doesn't really understand what he is doing. Yes, you have the right not to lik... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 5 February 2012: I'm not really understanding the big issue about virginity. I don't see many references to waiting until you find a virgin girl in the UK.. America is a very different thing. At the moment your worrying so much about embarrassment th... (read in full...)
Scared of having sex as I'm not sure what to do... Help!
Q. hi everyone, I really need some advice. The thing is I've been dating this guy for about eight months now and he wants to have sex and I just keep telling him that I'm not ready but the truth is that I'm really scared of sex and I don't know what ...
A. 5 February 2012: Your very young and your not ready. Don't let anyone force you into sex. Your scared of sex and that is normal at your age. Girls that rush into sex before they are ready often hate themselves and regret it when they are older. Have sex when ... (read in full...)
RETROACTIVE JEALOUSY: I am on the verge of divorce due to this irrational OCD
Q. Once again, my retroactive jealousy/OCD has overtaken me and I am on the brink of separation from my wife of 14 years(i can't blame her she has had enough abuse! She is fed up and repulsed by me talking about the past- Over n over n over etc..which ...
A. 5 February 2012: Hi needpeaceofmind, First of all congratulations for understanding the link between Retroactive Jealousy and OCD.. It's an obsession and in my time here at DC I too have learned you can't just forget about it and let the past go. You have don... (read in full...)
I always swore I wouldn't put my children through what I had to face as a child!
Q. I could do with some sturn honest advice as I'm feeling a little annoyed with myself. I'm in my 20's and have been with my boyfriend who is in his 40's for 4 years. We live together and have talked about marriage. The problem I have is my jealo...
A. 5 February 2012: I'm the first one to say, I'm used to keeping touch with ex's. That's how I was brought up. I was taught, if they're good enough with to have sex with, they should be good enough to remain friendly with and stay in your life in some way.
But t... (read in full...)
I can't believe anything he says anymore!
Q. Ok i need honest objective advice. I'm 24 years old and been with my boyfriend for just over a year. It's a fairly good relationship - aside for some trust issues. Over the past year my boyfriend has lied to me - about big things and little...
A. 5 February 2012: Honest and Objective is me middle name... but a lot of people don't actually want honesty, they want confirmation for their own beliefs.
Your boyfriend lies.. about "little things", over 10 times you said. Nope he's lied more, he lies when he ... (read in full...)
How do I stop this retroactive jealousy? Help!
Q. I went out with my current girlfriend for about a year, then broke up with her for about three years, then got back together about 9 months ago. I love her, and she says she loves me and wants to get married to me. But, I've been struggling with ...
A. 5 February 2012: Thank you very much for the follow up.. I'm going to save this post and recommend it to other men who are in the situation you were a year ago.
Thank you very much, you've been very helpful.
Congratulations on your marriage, I am so happy that... (read in full...)
I feel like I owe it to my husband to have a threesome.
Q. My husband has been wanting a threesome with another women, i was for it at first but after his pushing and searching I started to have my insecruities. I feel tho, it needs to happen. I was unfaithful to him. I kissed a guy. (it might not see...
A. 5 February 2012: He's either young like you, and full of stupid ideas which he got from porn and he's not thinking about the reality and the difficulties that may come up. Or he's a lot older, wiser and knows exactly what he's doing and married a young woman so h... (read in full...)
being married to him is a daily shake of the dice wondering which personality he will have that day
Q. Hi my husband goes through long periods of being nice sometimes even a couple months but he always starts that way and then one day boom he is yelling at me to clean the fridge or something the moment I get up. Then he is mad at me all day and ...
A. 5 February 2012: Since we are considering bi-polar, it's genetic.. so keep an eye on your kids.
And him being an workholic is making things worse.. stress, tiredness and overwork all make the condition worse.
And the idea that he knows exactly what he's doing.... (read in full...)
He says she's his soul mate. Do I go through with the divorce or wait?
Q. My husband left my and the kids for his mistress. he met her online. She is 1400 miles away. He's been 1 1/2months. He tells me he loves her and she makes him happy but he still loves me. That he's just not in love with me. Not to mention ...
A. 5 February 2012: Does anyone believe in the affair fog?
Yep, there you go again.. forgive, forgive, forgive.. he's already cheated once, and now he's dumped you and run off again.. and you want us to help you with excuses for him....
Sigh... Love really is b... (read in full...)
I want to better this world, not date. what's the best way to react to prying personal questions on dating?
Q. Okay so here it goes, ever since I was very young I always knew what I wanted in life and that desire was to better this world in some way before I died. At a young age I could comprehend what death was and that eventually every living thing has to ...
A. 5 February 2012: Sorry I don't answer questions about my personal life.
I've got more important things to do than go dating
Sorry, but that's none of your business
I'm too busy to date right now
I'm ambitious about my future, a relationship would slow me down
... (read in full...)
Why aren't men ever content with just one woman, on dating sites?
Q. Dating sites are very adventurous but I think once you have dated a guy and he wants to see you again, its only manners to wait until the next time.In meeting someone old fashioned style, if you meet someone and wanted to meet them again, would it ...
A. 5 February 2012: Seems to me that dating sites are about meeting new people, they don't promise marriage, love or relationships. Dates are about people going out and getting to know each other. Nothing is promised and nothing should be expected, except maybe an a... (read in full...)
4 months after breakup I'm still feeling desperately sad
Q. Hello Everyone I'm new to this site and really could do with some help. I split up with my partner 4 months ago. He wanted to break up with me and I was devastated. (we were both in our mid forties). We were together for 5 years and for mos...
A. 5 February 2012: For me staying on Dear Cupid helped... also dating again after a year gave me back my confidence. How long will it take.. who knows it depends on the person. For me it was many years not months, but then we were together many, many years. The ... (read in full...)
He says she's his soul mate. Do I go through with the divorce or wait?
Q. My husband left my and the kids for his mistress. he met her online. She is 1400 miles away. He's been 1 1/2months. He tells me he loves her and she makes him happy but he still loves me. That he's just not in love with me. Not to mention ...
A. 5 February 2012: Get the divorce. If he changes his mind, you'll be a single woman, independent, different and no longer his. He'll approach you carefully and he'll show you a lot more respect. If he doesn't come back, you'll be free to create a more stable ... (read in full...)
He was reading (possibly more) old explicit chats with his ex, should I worry?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months. He hasn't been with his ex for 2.5 years now. I have always felt that he still has feelings for her. Numerous things have happened to make me feel uneasy but the latest one really has me distrusting ...
A. 5 February 2012: Yes of course it's a bit upsetting to find him looking at sex mail from an ex. That would hurt anyone. Also not sure about him lying about deleting them. Lies are never good. He should have just refused to delete them, no matter how insecure ... (read in full...)
My period cravings make me feel terrible!
Q. Everytime I'm on my period, I have immense cravings for salt and chocolate. I know that its a usual craving, but its all i can think about! My favorite foods can be served and I'll still only want chocolate and potato chips. Its all I can think ...
A. 4 February 2012: Make sure you eat a very healthy diet, sometimes we get cravings because something is lacking. Drink lots of water. Go see the doctor and maybe they can help you draw up a diet that will help to lessen the cravings.
Potato's are starches... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is going through chemo, and suddenly we're more like just friends!
Q. Ok .. complicated, but serious question. Just 5 months into a new relationship (which was going very, very well) my girlfriend was diagnosed with breast cancer. Through surgery .. then 4 months of chemo, she is now cancer free .. yet doing 6 weeks ...
A. 4 February 2012: She's still in treatment, she hasn't even finished... I know you think your caring, but we aint seeing much of that here.
I think she's a bit busy worrying about not dying. Let her at least finish treatment and have some time to recover before a... (read in full...)
Does he like me or not?
Q. Does this mean he likes me? "he asked me if I liked you and I got worried he was going to tell everyone" Tell everyone what? Does he like me? Dislike me? He avoids me and completely ignores me :( ...
A. 4 February 2012: Ah ok... it's because he likes you a lot, and that makes him embarrassed and shy. He's afraid of rejection and probably can't control his feelings when your around. He also probably knows that you don't fancy him, and that has got to hurt.
A lot... (read in full...)
being married to him is a daily shake of the dice wondering which personality he will have that day
Q. Hi my husband goes through long periods of being nice sometimes even a couple months but he always starts that way and then one day boom he is yelling at me to clean the fridge or something the moment I get up. Then he is mad at me all day and ...
A. 4 February 2012: Sorry... bi-polar can be controlled with medication, it may not be that you have to leave if he is treated and behaves better. Bi-polar can't be cured.
It is not true that he cannot change, (if he is bi-polar) and I know that for a fact... ... (read in full...)
being married to him is a daily shake of the dice wondering which personality he will have that day
Q. Hi my husband goes through long periods of being nice sometimes even a couple months but he always starts that way and then one day boom he is yelling at me to clean the fridge or something the moment I get up. Then he is mad at me all day and ...
A. 4 February 2012: This actually sounds like sickness, very few people act like this. Have you ever thought that he might be bi-polar? I suggest you go to your doctors and tell them how your husband behaves and ask their opinion about calling him in for a test.
... (read in full...)
I've not heard from him for 3 days , am I over- reacting?
Q. Hello Everyone, I hope you can help me here, I am wondering what happened. Sorry, it's a longish one. A guy contacted me online on 29-Dec-2011. We seem to get along really well, and started to communicate daily via the dating website, we...
A. 4 February 2012: I'm sorry it didn't work, and I like the fact that he was honest. There is nothing wrong with you, he just has a certain body type in mind. I think it's rude that he didn't contact you sooner and tell you, he left you waiting and guessing and kep... (read in full...)
Do I have the right to ask to see my boyfriend's check stubs?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 6 months and in the beginning he was not employed. The agreement was that he would pay me XX amount of dollars until he went back to work. After he got a new job, then we would revisit the money ...
A. 4 February 2012: Sorry not sure about the joint bank account for you.. UK laws are different, on this Youwish knows more.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is so overbearing I cant even pick up a newspaper with an attractive woman in it! Now she has started commenting on my friend's Facebook too, how do I deal with her?
Q. Hi guys and gals, My gf is getting a little overbearing and insecure... She accuses me of constantly hurting her when i pick up a magazine or newspaper and theres an image of a beautiful woman in a suggestive or sexy pose. She snatches the maga...
A. 4 February 2012: Well done you. I'm never crazy about a person losing his friends, but if they is trying to destroy the relationship then certainly you got to step back. Again, she is the one that must change, she is the one that is destroying the relationship... (read in full...)
Ladies, how would you rather be approached by an interested man?
Q. As a woman, which way would you rather be approached? A. At my university, I see an attractive woman, so I say to her, "Excuse me, do you know where building F is?" She then shows me where it is and I say, "Actually, I know where building F...
A. 4 February 2012: A is creepy, C sounds like you want sex... approach B might work for me, depends if I like you and if I'm in a good mood.
It's the idea you've been watching me and was forced to come and talk that I like. Yep, two guys that impressed me, that's e... (read in full...)
Great love life but sneaky boyfriend. What do you think?
Q. My bf and I have been together for 9 yrs. We are both late 20's and he is good to me and loves me. However I say he is "sneaky" because pretty much every 3-4 months like clockwork I will discover something that makes me really question my ...
A. 4 February 2012: Exactly babes, that's it for the porn thing.
But taking pictures of girls and going on sex sites, that's creepy. Tons of guys watch porn, but very few do these other creepy things. Pretty girls aint that interesting.
Take time and work ou... (read in full...)
Does he like me or not?
Q. Does this mean he likes me? "he asked me if I liked you and I got worried he was going to tell everyone" Tell everyone what? Does he like me? Dislike me? He avoids me and completely ignores me :( ...
A. 4 February 2012: You don't exactly want him. You don't exactly want a relationship with him.
What does this mean. Do you fancy the guy or not?... (read in full...)
Do I have the right to ask to see my boyfriend's check stubs?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 6 months and in the beginning he was not employed. The agreement was that he would pay me XX amount of dollars until he went back to work. After he got a new job, then we would revisit the money ...
A. 4 February 2012: And don't be too hard on yourself. Normally I'd say a man or a woman has a right to keep some of their financial dealings private. But your the expert in this, he is having problems getting paid at work, so casually you said, "let me have your pay ... (read in full...)
He can't maintain an erection during sex now...is he cheating?
Q. Your Open Question: Why can't he keep his erection long anymore? is he cheating? Wow I've just been told my bf has been cheating on me. I asked him if he's ever cheated on me he says no. He says he loves me. But I'm not sure.. Am gunna have...
A. 4 February 2012: Why do you assume that everything has to be about you. Why no consideration about what the poor guy is feeling? Being unable to maintain an erection is a very embarrasing and distressing problem. Guy must worried sick over this, and instead of ... (read in full...)
What's it like to have a girlfriend/wife who's a gamer?
Q. Gamer Guys: What's it like to have a gamer as a girlfriend/wife? Is it annoying, fun, cool, make it a happy relationship, causes fights, ect? I do think that girl gamer's are really hot. Because I'm a huge gamer and for years I've wanting to have ...
A. 4 February 2012: I like games, so did my ex partner.. unfortunately we mostly liked different games. It's like sharing any interests, because you like the same thing, you can talk about things with understanding because you do the same thing yourself. I like si... (read in full...)
Am I abandoning my family?
Q. I'd really like some outside opinions on this. I live at home with my parents, and attend school. Recently however, my home life has become extremely chaotic. There are tears, temper tantrums, and angry fights several times a week between my ...
A. 4 February 2012: Nope.. your parents are selfish for making your home life so stressful and upsetting. Your parents are selfish for asking you to play piggy in the middle and get in the middle of their arguments. Your old enough to tell them that their marriage p... (read in full...)
He's generally great, but not so romantic any more
Q. this might sound silly.but the fact that my boyfriend of two years who loves me and is great in many ways,does not call me sweet names anymore at all...whereas i call mother him so much :( its only the first 8 or 9 months he used to be more caring ...
A. 4 February 2012: Nope I don't believe in telling everyone to walk away, it depends on the situation. And no you're not silly for feeling hurt because you don't get sweet words no more. Yes he is wrong about romance only being in the movies, if you want romance in ... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't want sex any more. Can any one suggest what things need fixing to improve this situation?
Q. My wife and I have been married 15 years. We have a miserable sex life and have for a long time. It started very early in our relationship where within a year we went from: "I have never been so loud during sex. Can we do it again?" to "Do...
A. 4 February 2012: Sorry me again.. last time
"Because you are sweet, and you sing to me in a high voice, and you call me silly nicknames."
Translation: This actually means, because I love you.... women like all these things, she's actually telling you she ... (read in full...)
I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?
Q. ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...
A. 4 February 2012: Don't think hackers know your dick size or your car?
If he's telling people about his dick, the girls aint the skank, he is.
The guy is a liar and he is a cheat, first chance he gets he'll be doing sex with someone else, if he's not already.... (read in full...)
Sweet 27 and never been kissed. Aunts what hope can you offer me that it will happen? Xxxx
Q. I'm looking for advice aunts. I've never kissed a guy before and I don't think anyone wants to. I'm kind of getting old and looking it and feeling it too. I feel too ugly and fat, and its not so much the fat cos i know i usually lose it quic...
A. 4 February 2012: People liked you before.. so what was you doing, and what changed to make you into such a negative person.... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't want sex any more. Can any one suggest what things need fixing to improve this situation?
Q. My wife and I have been married 15 years. We have a miserable sex life and have for a long time. It started very early in our relationship where within a year we went from: "I have never been so loud during sex. Can we do it again?" to "Do...
A. 4 February 2012: sorry forgot...
Depression destroys sex drive, so does any medication to stop the depression... Depression also makes you think that you don't deserve anything good.
See why I'm saying that she needs tons of help.... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't want sex any more. Can any one suggest what things need fixing to improve this situation?
Q. My wife and I have been married 15 years. We have a miserable sex life and have for a long time. It started very early in our relationship where within a year we went from: "I have never been so loud during sex. Can we do it again?" to "Do...
A. 4 February 2012: "I think in some ways she doesn't feel good enough for me"
I'm very sorry your suffering like this, but this is the true reason. It's not that she hates you or finds you unattractive, the fact is she hates and despises herself.
You've mentio... (read in full...)
Does he like me or not?
Q. Does this mean he likes me? "he asked me if I liked you and I got worried he was going to tell everyone" Tell everyone what? Does he like me? Dislike me? He avoids me and completely ignores me :( ...
A. 4 February 2012: Your post makes no sense.. who said what to everybody, who asked who? .. read it carefully then repost again so we can understand what your saying.... (read in full...)
Urgent! I snooped through my boyfriend's phone and now his mother says I have to tell him right away
Q. Hello, I really need some advice/help fast my as boyfriends mom tells me Im running out of time..JOY! Ok heres what happenned, I live with my boyfriend and his mom for the last 6months. We've had our ups and downs..Im having some stuggles due to f...
A. 4 February 2012: *Big Hugs*... sorry babes
I know it's hard, but I want you to try again. The way your trying to attract his attention is good, he'd have to be a blind man not to see that you want to get sexual. One more time, but this time make sure it's ear... (read in full...)
Does he want to see me with another woman for my pleasure or his?
Q. Hello everyone , i would like to have your opinion about a relationship-sex issue that is troubling me for some time .Iam a woman 36 yrs,I was married 7 years and had 2 small chidren when i met my current fiancee, who is 36 yrs old also .I had a ...
A. 4 February 2012: Got to admit, I was being provocative, just wanted to make sure if you find women attractive or not. So it's threesomes that are the problem, now you are sure that your clear on that, you don't want you and him to invite another person to bed. You ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is so overbearing I cant even pick up a newspaper with an attractive woman in it! Now she has started commenting on my friend's Facebook too, how do I deal with her?
Q. Hi guys and gals, My gf is getting a little overbearing and insecure... She accuses me of constantly hurting her when i pick up a magazine or newspaper and theres an image of a beautiful woman in a suggestive or sexy pose. She snatches the maga...
A. 3 February 2012: She's very young and insecure, a lot of women are like this. Show her in actions and words how beautiful you think she is, and how special ahe makes you feel.
Then block her on facebook, and tell her it's because she acts childish and embarras... (read in full...)
I feel like I owe it to my husband to have a threesome.
Q. My husband has been wanting a threesome with another women, i was for it at first but after his pushing and searching I started to have my insecruities. I feel tho, it needs to happen. I was unfaithful to him. I kissed a guy. (it might not see...
A. 3 February 2012: You kissed a guy and for that you want punishment.... but the punishment seems a bit extreme to me... why can't you sentence yourself to do the dishes or be his love slave for a week.. that seems more balanced. Have you really considered what ... (read in full...)
Does he want to see me with another woman for my pleasure or his?
Q. Hello everyone , i would like to have your opinion about a relationship-sex issue that is troubling me for some time .Iam a woman 36 yrs,I was married 7 years and had 2 small chidren when i met my current fiancee, who is 36 yrs old also .I had a ...
A. 2 February 2012: Sorry two other things...
"I can say about myelf i have nothing to be jealous from the gorgeous women in lesbian porn he makes me watch to get use to it, " (camomile)
MAKE'S YOU WATCH... TO GET USE TO IT!!!!!!!!
What kind of love is that... s... (read in full...)
Does he want to see me with another woman for my pleasure or his?
Q. Hello everyone , i would like to have your opinion about a relationship-sex issue that is troubling me for some time .Iam a woman 36 yrs,I was married 7 years and had 2 small chidren when i met my current fiancee, who is 36 yrs old also .I had a ...
A. 2 February 2012: Guy is telling you a whole pile of bullcrap and nonsense. He wants to see two woman having sex, and he is pressuring you into accepting it, even though your not a lesbian and you have no sexual feelings for another woman.
He's not showing ... (read in full...)
Urgent! I snooped through my boyfriend's phone and now his mother says I have to tell him right away
Q. Hello, I really need some advice/help fast my as boyfriends mom tells me Im running out of time..JOY! Ok heres what happenned, I live with my boyfriend and his mom for the last 6months. We've had our ups and downs..Im having some stuggles due to f...
A. 2 February 2012: Ah.. so your problem is he likes playing computer games and you get no sex...
Yep, that's enough to make any woman feel insecure.. but the snooping thing, as everyone has said is just not right.
Can't work out why your not having sex, or w... (read in full...)
Great love life but sneaky boyfriend. What do you think?
Q. My bf and I have been together for 9 yrs. We are both late 20's and he is good to me and loves me. However I say he is "sneaky" because pretty much every 3-4 months like clockwork I will discover something that makes me really question my ...
A. 2 February 2012: "I have repeatedly over 9 yrs. said, "If you do this again.." If you make threats, but never back them up with action, he's not going to take you seriously. For 9years you say, "if you do this again"... what... I'll forgive you, ignore it, and t... (read in full...)
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