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Being in love with her has been torture.

Q.   I have been in love with this girl for three years now. She is beautiful, charming, witty... I fell in love at first sight - when we met I felt as if I'd known her all my life, and I truly love her with all my heart. The thing is, I just can't wo...

A.   25 August 2010: Your emotions are wasted on this girl right now.She is probably all the lovley things you said about her.At the moment she is a young girl playing the feild.I can not see her having emotions for you as strong as you do for her. You have made your... (read in full...)

If a man views porn, is that sufficient reason for a woman to break off the engagment?

Q.   Here is my situtation. I am 60 yrs old, of Italian heritage, and my now ex-fiancee is 54 and of Korean heritage. I am a widower; she has been divorced for 6+ years. I say this to put things into perspective. I am retired and a very succ...

A.   24 August 2010: simple fact is when it came to it you chose porn over her. Imagine how she feels. She loves you .spends time with you, eats with you ,laughs with you ,makes love to you has offered you her hand in marriage and you have chosen something that pops... (read in full...)

Help with man in denial

Q.   I have dated a man that is in denial. I love him with all of my heart and want to him to be happy. He has in past fallen into drug addiction and much of it relates to his denial. Recently he decided that church could cure him of both his addictions ...

A.   24 August 2010: I feel so sad for him hating himself. Being gay isn’t a choice. stereotypes and homophobia could of made him to scared to come out. an option is to direct to a gay helpline who perhaps could talk to him about it.I few members of my family are gay ... (read in full...)

Caught him with a man! I don't know how I can trust him!

Q.   My name is Thelma. My boyfriend and I met a few years ago, we were friends for months before we ended up dating. We've been dating for over 2 years. He and I have never had sex, as of right now I am almost 26 and he was 2 years older than me. We ...

A.   24 August 2010: your boyfriend maybe bisexual or gay but one thing he is ,is cheating. marriage will not make him faithful nor will it make him honest. I understand you isolation is making you feel like you have no other options. all of your energy and thoughts... (read in full...)

Boyfriend buys jewelerry and expenisive gifts for his married woman friend...is this appropriate?

Q.   I have a dilemma ... I have been dating someone online for 5 months ... he is early 30s, I am late 30s. Neither of us has ever been married; in fact, he has never been in a serious relationship longer than 5 weeks due to many violent episodes ...

A.   23 August 2010: If you reread the contents of your post and step back from the situation look at as though it wasn’t written by you .You would see plain and clearly that this man is never going to give you what you want from the relationship. You are to him what... (read in full...)

13 and may have missed a period......I'm so scared of being pregnant!

Q.   Ok so im 13 and me and my boyfriend had sex,we used the take out method and now theres only 1 week of august left and i still havent had my period.I dont want to tell my mom that me and my boyfriend did anything but i did tell her i think i missed a ...

A.   23 August 2010: you must deal with quickly go a sexual help/advice centre or to your dr today. take your boyfriend with you. If he will not go with you confide in someone you trust maybe a big sister an auntie or a kind friend. sexual health clinics deal with thes... (read in full...)

My boyfriend raped me!

Q.   MODS NOTE: OP's own title. I am 20 years old. I have always been committed to abstaining from sex til marriage - not "everything but", I mean really abstaining from sexual activity. The furthest I went with my first boyfriend was us both taking o...

A.   23 August 2010: I feel so sad for you. Please don’t be fooled in to thinking he was a virgin. He took something that you wanted to save for marriage. Would you really want to be married to this heartless guy? tell the police it may stop him from doing it to ... (read in full...)

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