I had sex with two men on the same day, became pregnant, lost the baby, my boyfriend, one of the two men, does not knpw I cheated, should I confess?
Q. Ok so a week ago I had a miscarriage, and well depression is on my side, actually I've been depressed ever since I found out I was prego. Im 18 years old and I just graduated high school, and I now go to uc davis, going into the dentist field. So ...
A. 11 August 2008: Oops... got yourself into a bit of an awkward spot there! Okay.. I suggest first of all, get some contraceptives so that you dont fall pregnant again and secondly, if you really and truely want to spend the future with your boyfriend, forget what ... (read in full...)
I've been giving my mom money to pay bills but she is giving money to my sister
Q. I want to know how to handle this. Over the past year, my mom has been asking me for money to help pay her bills. She is elderly and on social security. There is this one sister who drained her of her life savings so she has very limited ...
A. 11 August 2008: I can understand how angry you must be feeling, especially when money you have given to your mother is not benefitting her. I suggest you ask your mother to give you the account details and you will pay them yourself, that cuts out the handing over ... (read in full...)
He told me people I stuff my bra when I asked him not to!
Q. My boyfriend told his friends that I stuff my bra when I said to not. He does feel pretty bad and told me right away. But I'm still mad at him. Does he have any respect for me? My friends think I should break up with him. Any ideas...
A. 11 August 2008: Ouch, Sweetie dump this guy, sounds like he has no respect for you at all. If he really liked you he wouldnt go around telling his friends personal things about you.... (read in full...)
Are you still a virgin if the guy uses a condom?
Q. ok so i have a question about condoms. If i have sex with a guy and he uses a condom, am i still a virgin or does his bare skin and sperm have to be inside of me ?...
A. 11 August 2008: You are no longer a virgin if he has penetrated your vagina regardless of whether he used a condom or not!!!... (read in full...)
How should I greet my boyfriend when I get back from travelling?
Q. hello, im about to turn 16 in a month. but anyways, this is kinda stupid but you see im traveling at right now and though i know it wasnt the best idea i got back together with my boyfriend while ive been away. thing is last time we were together...
A. 8 August 2008: Sweetie, I think a big smile, a hug and perhaps a kiss on the cheek unless he kisses you first. Dont stress over it, just play it by ear.
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I had a great husband of thirty years who passed away, now I just left an eight month relationship, where my boyfriend lied, cheated and watched porn, others have been just as bad, what has happened to men, I am losing faith in them, can anyone expla
Q. i just came out of a relationship of 8 months, I have found the man i liked , likes porn, also cheats, and lies,I couldn't trust him at all. I have also found this in lots of other men, What is my problem, or what is their problem i am turning ...
A. 8 August 2008: Sweetie, It does seem that all the 'good' men are not available and all that is left are the ones that other women have thrown out!! I know things can get very lonely on ones own but you must really be more picky and less tolerant in your ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend, but he does not want to work, or go to school, he plays xbox 360 all day long, I am 18, he is 20, what can I say to motivate him to do something with his life?
Q. well im 18 and i have a bf thats 20.I love him alot but the thing is that he doesnt work and doesnt wanna go to school or like basically do anything..All he does is play on xbox 360 the whole day.. 1.How should I tell him to do something with h...
A. 8 August 2008: Sweetie, he needs to get a job, sorry but I feel that spending all this time on xbox is being really anti-social! Suggest you have a chat to him - unplug the computer if thats the only way you can get his attention, and find out what are his plans. ... (read in full...)
Should we have a threesome with this girl??
Q. My wife and I recently went through a "rough" patch in our marriage, she basically was on the verge of leaving me because of my depression and generally feeling sorry for myself. That's all sorted out now, I'm walking on air and we are better than ...
A. 7 August 2008: Hang on there sweetie!!!! If you and your wife are only just getting over a rough patch in your marriage, introducing another person into the 'marriage bed' is going to cause problems.... I suggest that you rather discuss this rationally with your ... (read in full...)
How can I take a restraining order out on a family member?
Q. Well let me explain my situation. I'm 16 years old and i live in a house with my dad, mom, little sister and brother. My father has verbally attacked me and has struck me. He's even blacked my eye before. He doesn't take his aggression out on my 2 yo...
A. 6 August 2008: Sweetie, I dont think that you can take out a restraining order against someone who lives in the same house as you..... here in my country you would have to lay a charge of assault against that person with the police then follow up with a ... (read in full...)
What are these red dots on my breast?
Q. Hi all! Ok my question is a bit embarrassing so please don't be put off about it, thanks. Ok well yesterday i met up with my sort of boyfriend (it's complicated) and we were "sexually active" together. We didn't actually have sex but we were more...
A. 6 August 2008: Sweetie, if they werent there before your oral sex session then I would worry, however sounds like he has given you a hickey on your breast! They will go away in a day or so!
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Why does the ex declare undying love, yet behaves like a player?
Q. General question time. Why would someone you split with 7 months ago, be telling you they still love you, and cant get with someone else yet because of that. Yet be chasing lots of different girls at the same time, especially ones 10 yrs younger ...
A. 6 August 2008: Sweetie, that man is not worth knowing! All he will bring is pain and heartache. He is only telling you those things for 'just in case' his conquests dont work out then he will still have you available...... Send him on his way and dont listen to ... (read in full...)
Would "naughty" pictures be on a reconditioned laptop??
Q. i have recently just found out my bf was using adult friend finder, i am naturally angry. our relationship is destroyed over it. i also searched the hard-drive for pictures.. the usual pics came up of friends and then there were naked pics in jpeg ...
A. 6 August 2008: Sweetie, to blame the company that reconditioned the laptop ...... mmmm....I find this highly unlikely as they usually reformat the hard drive to get rid of all data. You also talk about him being on adult friend finder, how did you find out? How ... (read in full...)
Can a relationship work even though I cheated on a guy?
Q. Can a relationship work even though i cheated on a guy i have been seeing for about 4 weeks, we were going through a patch when he wasn't replying to my messages so i assumed he wasn't interested, he then contacted me and wasn't aware that i thought ...
A. 5 August 2008: Sweetie, you were only together 4 weeks, so he will survive without you! Communication is very important in relationships, so sweetie, you must learn to talk otherwise things could get mixed up all over again!
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I'm jealous and guilty what should I do???
Q. Im sleeping with a married man and Im 14 years old. Ive fallen in love with him but recently he's been really really close to his wife in front of me and i just feel jealous and guilty. help?? what should i do??...
A. 5 August 2008: Sorry no sympathy from me either. You are making a fool of yourself and he is a cheater! Have you even considered how his wife would feel if she found out? He is not really interested in you, he's just getting free sex! ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and scared that I might be pregnant...I know I shouldn't had sex...
Q. help,im a 13 year old girl,i no i shouldn't of had sex but i did, and i just hate my self for it , me and my boyfriend had sex on the 15th of july ,and i was due on my period on the 27th of july but have'nt come on and i no im not late because i ...
A. 5 August 2008: Dear Sweet Emily, you have done the deed so there is no going back on that, what you need to do is go and see a doctor or do a home pregnancy test.... If the test is positive, you must then tell your parents, there are decisions to be made which ... (read in full...)
Pain while urinating since I first slept with my boyfriend (I wasn't a virgin) - what to do?
Q. I slept with my boyfriend of 2 years on friday 1st august. It wasnt my first time. But since then when i go to the toilet it hurts a bit whilst i pee, is this normal? i dont no what to do, and i dont want to tell my mum about it. I dont want to go ...
A. 5 August 2008: Sweetie, sounds like you might have an urinary tract infection.... nothing uncommon in females.... although you might need some antibiotics to clear it up. In the meantime drink lots and lots of water, cranberry juice is also very good... and if it ... (read in full...)
"Should I marry my Northern Monkey?"
Q. Hey to all, I am 26 and getting married next year (apparently)! My fiance is a very good man, he is two years older than me, a sober, clean living, intelligant, funny and caring person. He of course has his negatives, stubbon, petty, bit...
A. 5 August 2008: Sweetie, you need to reconsider why you are getting married to this man.. you have nothing positive to say about your relationship with him... If you are feeling trapped and you are not even married yet, any idea what its going to be like after, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me he dislikes me talking to an ex and now I am tempted to remind him of things from the past that have bothered me.
Q. My boyfriend went away for the weekend, when he returned he admitted he had an issue with me speaking with an ex of mine ( he speaks regulary to a few of his exs, and this ex of mine is the only one ive maintained contact with we were good friends ...
A. 5 August 2008: Sweetie, from what you have said it sounds like your boyfriend thinks its okay for him to chat to ex's but its not okay for you to chat to your ex. Its a 2-way street here - and you need to sit down and talk with him. If you are going to be a ... (read in full...)
He won't get tested with me! Is he hiding something?
Q. Hi. We've been together with my boyfriend for a year now. Problem is, i've asked him to get tested with me but he says that he's not yet ready!!! Could'nt believe it either... Actually it shocked me. My mom knows that i wanted to go and test with ...
A. 1 August 2008: Sweetie, I think there are a lot of people out there who know they should get tested, but lack the courage... give him time and space to make his own decision. Rather abstain from any sex until he is tested. If he loves you he will understand your ... (read in full...)
She says she will leave me if I don't buy her gifts. So should I continue to buy her more things?
Q. Hey I am 15 and i have a girlfriend who is 19. She has a job and lives with her parents. I am in school my girlfriend scemms to like me for all the things that i buy her. I have been buying her iPods and laptops and all that. At the mom...
A. 31 July 2008: Sweetie, sounds like your girlfriend is only interested in you because you are able to give her gifts.... I would say that is a very one-sided relationship! Refuse to give her anymore gifts and you will then see her true intentions. Honeygirl... (read in full...)
How can I do something nice for my grandma to stop her stressing out?
Q. Hello everyone, My problem doesn't have anything to do with sex or anything, its about my grandma. I love my grandma so much and she's sooooo stressed out I'm 17 and she's like my best friend. Im scared that she's gonna pass away from all the stre...
A. 31 July 2008: Sweetie, just tell her how much you love her and how important she is in your life..... ... (read in full...)
Thrilled about a new pregnancy! What is something special that I can do for my wife?
Q. Hi all not really a question but more of an announcement! I want to tell the world but I think this is the closest I shall get! I am very excited, my beautiful goddess of a wife has just informed me we are about to have another child!! It wil...
A. 31 July 2008: Congratulations, what wonderful news! Wishing you and your family lots of love and happiness!
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I'm self-conscious about my body, I'm afraid that when we have sex he'll tell his friends about it!
Q. I'm self concious of my body and am scared to have sex for the first time because i fear that he won't like my body and will tell all his friends about it. Are guys usually like this. please help!...
A. 31 July 2008: Sweetie, you need to address your self-esteem issues... by having sex its not going to change the way you see yourself. And, yes.. there are guys out there who have to reveal all the details once they have had sex with a girl.. why not rather wait ... (read in full...)
Does my friend's husband have a real emotional attachment to me? Or was it just a bit of physical attraction?
Q. I have a friend ,whom I know since last 4-5 yrs,me n his wife r really gud friend actually all of us (me n my hubby he and his wife)are really close friends .But 2 months back I was alone with him for beer ,then he lost his control once but some how ...
A. 18 July 2008: Sweetie, what you are doing is going to ruin your marriage and his marriage... your hubby and his wife would be devastated to find out whats happening. Maybe you should rather see this man when in the company of his wife or your husband. Stop now ... (read in full...)
Can going to the gym ONCE on a serious work out make ANY visible difference?
Q. Exactly what the title says really, my friend has a free pass for the gym and told me to go with her to give it a try, I am allowed to stay as long as I want for the day at the gym, and I know this is a stupid question but I just wanted to double...
A. 18 July 2008: Sweetie, sorry once at gym wont make any visible changes to your body, might give you sore muscles though! Why dont you join up at the gym with your friend, could be lots of fun!!... (read in full...)
He has an anger problem and I want to leave him! How can I do this without getting hurt?
Q. I had posted a question a while back, wondering what to do about my boyfriend with an anger problem. i've now reached the point where i'm ready to leave, as soon as my mother gets a place, hopefully before August. My question is HOW do i leave ...
A. 8 July 2008: There is only one way - tell him the relationship is over and tell him the reasons why you dont feel the same for him. If he continues to harass you, you will need the assistance of your police department. He doesnt have an anger problem he is ... (read in full...)
She's married and says she'll leave her husband but hasn't yet...give it up or hold on?
Q. I started an affair with a married woman some 2 years ago now although had worked with each other 3 years before. She was unhappy in her marriage and wanted to be loved. I was wary of getting involved since we worked with each other and obviously we ...
A. 8 July 2008: From what you have said she sounds like she just wants a bit of a thrill in her life, she has no intention of leaving her husband and he obviously has no idea that his wife is having an affair with you. You also say you are married, so there really ... (read in full...)
Confused about my period. Could the pill have something to do with it?
Q. Hiya, i'm a little confused as i had my period over a week ago and it lasted for around 4-5 days like usual now im bleeding again over a week later.. Its not heavy or anything its just something thats never happened before. I'm on the pill so is ...
A. 1 July 2008: Sweetie, it might be 'break through bleeding' suggest that if you have been taking these correctly and it happens again to consult your doctor, you might need to change your brand of pills. ... (read in full...)
My husband keeps hinting that I have sex with his brother, who I have been attracted to for years now; what do I do?
Q. My husband and I moved in with his younger brother (12 years younger) a few months ago. He and his wife are in the process of getting a divorce and we agreed to move in to help each other out with bills, etc.My husband and I have been together for ...
A. 1 July 2008: Sweetie, just HOW do you think it will be different? Do you love your husband and value your marriage? If so, dont even consider the option of sleeping with your brother in law. It is flattering to know that another male wants you sexually but ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend complains that it hurts to shave "down there" but I don't want to go down on her if she doesn't!
Q. Hi, I have been dating my girlfriend for 8 months now and i have gone down on her twice. The first time i did it was the first time ive ever done it. So i liked it. But then te second time i realized that i didnt like it so much. Mainly because of ...
A. 1 July 2008: Sweetie, has your girlfriend tried depilatory creams? This stuff you spread it on, wait 15mins or so, then wash or wipe it off. Shaving can get uncomfortable especially when the hair is growing back... and waxing.. well that is better left to the ... (read in full...)
He wouldn't hold my hand in public because it was "scary". Was I being used for sex?
Q. I dont get this guy! He said he likes me but didnt want a relationship cuz he was too "busy" with school. I told him i felt like i was being used for sex cuz we werent dating and he wouldnt hold my hand in public cause it was "scary". he told me ...
A. 1 July 2008: Sweetie, sounds like you are a FWB... You need to sit him down and ask him what he wants out of the relationship as it sounds like you want a boyfriend and he doesnt want the committment. ... (read in full...)
Can anyone understand the relationship I have with a married man?
Q. I know nobody would understand the relationship i have.I`m having an affair with a married man.I`ve tried to stop my feelings towards him,but he`s persistent in courting me.He did the best and the sweetest things to win my heart.I know that married ...
A. 30 June 2008: I dont understand what you are asking.. do you want us to applaud you for 'not being a homewrecker' and for 'doing everything to save his family'???? Sorry Sweetie, you are a home wrecker and you are destroying his family. You are the other woman ... (read in full...)
He has never tried anything with me...but whenever I see him there are lovebites on his neck...whats going on!??!
Q. hello there, I have a really puzzling situation atm, ive been sort of seeing this lad hes 19 gorgeous has his own place and is really nice to me. when we first met i thought id start off our friendship or relationship with being honest and i ...
A. 27 June 2008: Sweetie, I think that you are more of a friend to him than a girlfriend.... this is why he has never tried anything with you. If you want to know where you stand in this relationship you must ask him face to face, perhaps he doesnt want to tell you ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to mastubate to my crush??
Q. i think i have a problem...i tend to masterbate when i think about him, because i dont want to have sex before i am married i cant have intercourse with him... and i lack attention, and romance since i havent had a bf, and he just came and filled ...
A. 27 June 2008: Theres nothing wrong about thinking of him while you masturbate just dont let it take over your whole life.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is begging me to have sex with him, What should I do?
Q. I am 13 years old, my boyfriend and I have known each other since we were 4 but we only started dating last year. My b/f and i are really close, but he keeps begging me to have sex with him. I trust him alot, but i'm not sure what to do. Please h...
A. 24 June 2008: Sweetie, you are too young to consider having sex, and for that matter, so is your boyfriend. You need to tell him that the answer is NO and will remain NO until you feel ready. ... (read in full...)
How do I change some issues I have with this guy?
Q. I think i'm falling for this guy i've hung out with, but there's a few problems i need to sort out with him, but not sure how. 1) He changes how he acts all the time - one min he all compliments, next he's pushing me into walls then he's accusing...
A. 24 June 2008: Sweetie, I dont think you will be able to change any of his traits, only he will be able to change them and by the sounds of it he is insecure, sexually obsessed playa! Suggest that you move on before you get really hurt by this one! Sorry!... (read in full...)
We broke up but he is now asking if I will lose my virginity with him?
Q. I am only 17 years old, I've dated a guy for only a month then we broke up. We kept talking for a while and he's always been honest to me, even when we broke up. Know were going to see each other and he ask me if i want to lose my virginity with ...
A. 24 June 2008: This guy is your ex and you only dated him for a month.. what gives him the right to ask you to give up your virginity to him?? Sweetie, hold onto your virginity until the right man comes along... ... (read in full...)
How can I make my brother's wife have sex with me?
Q. How I can make my brother's wife to have sex with me?...
A. 24 June 2008: Why do you want to destroy your brothers marriage?? ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's 25, does he love me?
Q. I am 14 yrs old and have crush on a boy who is 25-26 yrs old. I don't know if he is having a girlriend or not, but he talks with me very nicely as if he also loves me. What to do???...
A. 24 June 2008: Sweetie, this man if far too old for you. You need to look for friendship with boys who are in your age group. I dont think that a relationship between the two of you would be a very healthy one... ... (read in full...)
My husband gets firm erections in his sleep. But he can't get one with me!
Q. My husband gets firm erections ,in sleep. But he can't get one with me,or not when he tried masturbating just to try it, how it works. So it looks like something is not ok with his sexual desire, or he shot it down,for some unknown reason.He is sure ...
A. 24 June 2008: Sweetie, I understand this must be worrying, but it must also be worrying for your hubby. You say nothing medically wrong with him so we can rule out hypertension and diabetes, the next step would be for him to visit a counsellor. When we have been ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that his sperm may have leaked down from "there" into my vagina because I don't want to get pregnant!
Q. Everyone I need help. Don't get me wrong when I ask this question but how possible is it to get pregnant from anal sex? My boyfriend didn't use protection and I'm worried that his sperm may have leaked down into my vagina. I really don't know what ...
A. 24 June 2008: Sweetie, there is a very, very slim chance of pregnancy but should you carry on being sexual I suggest that you find some suitable contaceptive so that you dont have to worry about falling pregnant. ... (read in full...)
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