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8 March 2009: I've realised something which has taken me around 18 years to figure out...I'm writing this article as theremay be some people out there who still haven't figured this out! 'Life is too short' is the best expression ever, it can help you to make des...
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Pregnant, not ready for a child but cannot have an abortion either
Q. Help me!!!!! Idk what to do. I skipped my period last month so I took a pregnancy test yesterday and it came back positive I'm gonna get myself two other test just to make sure its not wrong but I'm so scared. I'm only 20 and me and my fiancee arnt ...
A. 9 September 2009: Hey, my mum had me when she was 19 and although there were certain things she missed out on at the time that she was pregnant she made up for it after I was born...she has qualifications, we live in a lovely home, she is still married to my ... (read in full...)
I had an abortion but fell pregnant again shortly after, is there a chance I could have miscarried?
Q. i had an abortion about five months ago it was noting i ever thought i would do anyways i was feeling confident that i would be able to cope with it but it is so hard even harder when i found out my boyfriends sister is pregnant and during the nine ...
A. 7 September 2009: See a doctor! And next time use condoms or another form of contraception! ... (read in full...)
Does this seem like an overreaction?
Q. Okay, so here's the deal. Around late June, my girlfriend asked me to hold onto a piece of sheet music for her because she didn't want to lose it. She would ask for it a few times to practice, seeing as how her choir class would be performing the s...
A. 21 July 2009: You should have told her to look after the sheet of music herself! What a weirdo! You're better without her! X... (read in full...)
He's planned to get his wisdom teeth out just before our holiday
Q. It seems like my boyfriend of three years just doesn't care when things are planned out. He and I are planning to take a romantic weekend trip to a nearby city. Today he went to the dentist to make an appointment to have his wisdom teeth taken out. ...
A. 21 July 2009: This is totally irrational, his dental hygiene has to come first before a romantic weekend! You could even be his nurse! X... (read in full...)
I want to renew my wedding vows to my husband, but he disagrees! What can I do?
Q. My husband and I have been married a little over three years. About 8 months ago, we hit a really bad patch and seperated for about 6 months. Now we are together and working things out and things have been going really well. There is a point of...
A. 20 July 2009: Well you can't change his mind, and personally I'm with your husband on this one. You have already taken vows! Renewal cermonies are for people who just want to make abit more of a fuss. If you're that set of doing it then sort the ceremony out ... (read in full...)
15 and curious....
Q. Hello. I'm 15 and Curious. i have 2 flaps of skin either side of my vagina, and i dont know what they are.. they don't cause me any pain or anything, i just don't know what they are.. should i be worried? they have been they for a while (last few ...
A. 20 July 2009: The skin is probably the labia, so don't worry about it. And the discharge is normal too, the only time you should be worried about discharge is if it is a funny colour or causig you to itch. X... (read in full...)
No sex on my wedding night!
Q. I am writing this a day after getting married. We had a really special day and we retired to our room about 1am. My wife looked amazing and I couldn't wait to consumate the marriage. Unfortunately despite my advances she simply was not interest...
A. 20 July 2009: Yes, you're being very unfair with your wife! She would have been through a lot that day, more than you think so its no wonder that she's tired! And your daughter was in the room! That's abit sick in the head, so she may have felt uncomfortable with ... (read in full...)
I have a burning sensation in my vagina! It interferes with my life...
Q. ever since i was like 12 years old i used to get this burning uncomfortable sensation in my vagina , not insede i guess i dont know where just my vagina , it stopped happening for a while but now it comes and goes , it just comes out of the nowhere ...
A. 18 July 2009: you should see a doctor!... (read in full...)
We made a promise to tell each other if anything happened, but I don't want to say anything!
Q. ...so i dated this guy for year and we have this plan that we're going to be together again [we broke up because i moved]. we said that while we're not together we're gonna have fun and all we're both in college and so we're going to have fun...
A. 11 July 2009: I wouldn't bother telling him! He doesn't have to know. It wasn't important to you, you didn't even kiss them back. Just leave this and move on! X
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How do I give myself a Beauty Makeover?
Q. Hi i dunno if dis is a valid question but could i get tips on how to get good skin-lik totally pimple free n glowin?? n also my hair is neither curly nor straight-its wavy n quite frizzy! how do i make it look sleek n shiny without makin it look ...
A. 10 July 2009: Hi, I'm a hairdresser and beautician. If you'd like to personal msg me then feel free! Xx... (read in full...)
What if teachers had crushes on their students?
Q. Hello, all! I'm looking to hear from any teachers (female/male) out there or anyone.... Anyway... I've noticed that there are countless posts on this website of students declaring their love for teachers. What about if it was the other way ro...
A. 10 July 2009: As f anyone is going to admit to being a teacher and having a crush on a pupil! They could get fired from their job and it could be investigated and lead to being put on the sex offenders register! ... (read in full...)
Why does it hurt when he fingers me?
Q. It never really feels good when my boyfriend fingers me, it feels great when he rubs/plays with my clit but no feelings but pain with the fingering, (pain cuz i'm really tight). Is something wrong with me?...
A. 10 July 2009: Well it says that you're 13-15 so I'm guessing its because you're both inexperienced! He's probably going to fast and too deep! You're probably tight and you may not be lubricated properly! Have a chat with him and tell him to slow down! Maybe use ... (read in full...)
Why don't I want to have sex with either women or men?
Q. I have no real desire to have sex with a woman or a man. The only thing that gets me aroused is my own stomach and some other young men's stomachs who are just the right amount overweight. I just masturbate to myself. No other part of a body, man ...
A. 10 July 2009: Some people are just asexual and have no desire, you're one of them. You may change your mind in the future but if you don't then you're not unusual, there are many other people like you. X... (read in full...)
My breasts are different sizes by about a cup, what can I do?
Q. Ever since I was about 16, my breasts have been different sizes. Now that I'm 19, they're still different. I'd say it's a good cup size difference, so it's obvious when I'm naked. Luckily, you can't really tell when I have a shirt on, although my ...
A. 10 July 2009: I'm sure that you're boyfriend would understand if you have a chat with him about it, I know it could be embarrassing to talk about but once you have the discussion you'll feel great. My boobs are tiny and so I was embarrassed to take my top off, I ... (read in full...)
3 weeks of antibiotics and no improvement
Q. Hi. I'm currently on antibiotics for acne treatment and i've heard that having been given too much antibiotics in your life may results to your body being resistant to them. So i was wonderin if is it possible for my current treatment to work for me ...
A. 8 July 2009: Go and see a doctor! ... (read in full...)
Estranged from my child, how do I make it hurt less?
Q. I would like to address the painful side of Mothers Day! I know for a fact I am not the only one out there feeling sad this day! I am referring to Mothers who are astranged from their children. It hurts! We gave birth to these people! We did t...
A. 8 July 2009: That's amazing! I'm really glad for you and I hope everythig goes well. Xxx
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The bleeding is bad...What is going on here?
Q. he made it bleed bad about three month ago with his fingers. it bled bad. now today he he didnt barely go in with his fingers and blood came gushing out. whats the problem?...
A. 7 July 2009: You NEED to see a doctor asap! X... (read in full...)
I called her a random celebrity name while having sex!
Q. I was making love with my fiance and by mistake I call her an random celebrity name. She got really upset, then angry she threw her engagement ring at me then she went her friend's. I called her friend (my fiance wouldn`t pick up) and ask her to ...
A. 6 July 2009: I don't blame her! I would have done far worse than just gone to my friends! She's an idiot if she goes back with you! And you're a total idiot for calling her someone elses name! How can you expect help from this site when you have done something ... (read in full...)
I called her a random celebrity name while having sex!
Q. I was making love with my fiance and by mistake I call her an random celebrity name. She got really upset, then angry she threw her engagement ring at me then she went her friend's. I called her friend (my fiance wouldn`t pick up) and ask her to ...
A. 6 July 2009: I don't blame her! I would have done far worse than just gone to my friends! She's an idiot if she goes back with you! And you're a total idiot for calling her someone elses name! How can you expect help from this site when you have done something ... (read in full...)
He says I've cheated because "it doesn't fit right anymore"!
Q. I have a sex question. Me and my boyfriend have been together 6 years, he is the only person I've ever slept with- about 6 months ago when he have sex my vagina started making a "farting" noise- used to it would only do this in doggie style. For ...
A. 5 July 2009: Someone who has cheated previously on another partner is automatically insecure about in in other relationships which they care about as they know how easy it is to do! They know the mind set of a cheater, however they don't know that not all ... (read in full...)
How can I get my boyfriend to miss me?
Q. I love my boyfriend very much. He also loves me. Actually he is a rude guy but very cute. He is my life and everything. We started our relation in 2007. So its 2 years that we are with each other. At the beginning he used to call me and talk to me ...
A. 4 July 2009: I'm going through something similar, you both need time apart! Keep busy and distract yourself. I know its hard but try not to txt and phone him! Eventually he will come closer to you when you distabce yourself!x ... (read in full...)
Brother molested me
Q. when i was 5 years old my parents went out for a couple of hours so my oldest brother who is 14 was baby sitting me and my 6 year old brother, we were all in my parents room watching tv and my oldest brother told my younger brother to go down stairs ...
A. 4 July 2009: Yes you can get him arrested, tell the police and you will make a statement and they'll take care of it! They could also arrange counselling for you and family members, you just have to ask about it! X... (read in full...)
He says I've cheated because "it doesn't fit right anymore"!
Q. I have a sex question. Me and my boyfriend have been together 6 years, he is the only person I've ever slept with- about 6 months ago when he have sex my vagina started making a "farting" noise- used to it would only do this in doggie style. For ...
A. 4 July 2009: When havong sex doggy style air can get trapped in the vagina, its called queefing (I think) and this is probably what made you feel bigger to him, the vagina was just full of air. When he enters you and thrusts the air can be expelled and make this ... (read in full...)
If I am having all these feeling and doubts should I still go though with the wedding?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for seven years and we are to get married in 2 months. I started dating her 1 year after my ex-girlfriend. Me and the ex had a terrible break up of course cheating was involved. The relationship ended and for the most ...
A. 3 July 2009: Don't even think about calling the wedding off or post poning it! Your fiance will never forgive you and you'll lose the best thing in your life! Just try and stop thinking of your CHEATING LYING EX girlfriend!! She is an ex for a reason so get over ... (read in full...)
Why do I make this sound during sex?
Q. My vagina has been making this queefing(fart) sound and im just wondering if this is caused because my vagina is loose? The sound is very embarassing and i hate it. My boyfriend said that my vagina is the tightest vagina that he has ever had and i ...
A. 3 July 2009: A vaginal fart is caused by trapped air so to make sure it doesn't happen you have to think about how your boyfriend enters you, if your pelvis is high in the air its likely to trap more air than if he enters you missionary style. X... (read in full...)
During sex all I do is think about the size
Q. Hi! k i'll try keep this short. I was with my ex for six years and we split b34 xmas. I dated and slept with two of the guys, its was nice but they didn't last long! Anyway, i've met a guy recently, and he's different to anyone i've been out with, ...
A. 2 July 2009: Its normal for a woman to not orgasm all of the time. You need to talk with your boyfriend and explain that you're feeling a bit of pain and he needs to slow down! X... (read in full...)
Our parents are going out, now people are saying I'm dating my 'sister', what do I do?
Q. Right here goes, I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months now and we introduced our parents about 2 months ago and they are both single... About a week ago they both told us that they are together!! I don;t know how to explain it but i...
A. 2 July 2009: Its fine, my boyfriends mum and step dad are technically step brother and sister as their parents are now married. There's no blodd relation so you're fine! Just try to ignore your friends! X... (read in full...)
Family drama....
Q. My mother in-law wants to move in should i let her it not just her its her grandaughter to because my boyfriends brother is in the army and his mother is watching his child until next year when he comes home we already have 2 kids and 1 on the way ...
A. 2 July 2009: Don't let her move in, things would get too complicated and you should be enjoying time with your family(kids and partner) not her too. Sure, visits and stayovers are fine but she is a mother herself and in most households there is only room for one ... (read in full...)
I KNOW he's had oral with another guy! If I ask him and he denies it I'll be gutted.
Q. My boyfriend borrowed my laptop, when I got it back I found he has been watching gay and Bi porn. He also left facebook chat open and there it was right in front of me.... a conversation with an old male friend which stated they had had oral sex in ...
A. 1 July 2009: Its his past and he's obviously embarrassed! Just leave the issue alone and build up more evidence against him! Did you print the convo out? X... (read in full...)
I feel guilty I lied to him but I'm probably never going to see him again...
Q. I have a bit of a problem... last year me and my friend were 15 and we went on holiday to spain, in the resort the drinking age was 16. We met some lads who said they would take us out drinking. After they asked our age my friend said 16, so we just ...
A. 1 July 2009: You have started a lie so you may aswell just go along with it, its not a big deal. X... (read in full...)
Homosexuality versus Christianity
Q. So i wanted to know. Like eversince 15yrs i started finding women attractive and for some reason at age 5 me and my best friend had some lesbo interaction. I dont know what it is but some women just have an affect on me and i end up liking them. Now ...
A. 1 July 2009: I'm sure that if there is a god out there then he will be happy as long as you are happy. Just do whatever you feel is right for you! X... (read in full...)
Family drama....
Q. My mother in-law wants to move in should i let her it not just her its her grandaughter to because my boyfriends brother is in the army and his mother is watching his child until next year when he comes home we already have 2 kids and 1 on the way ...
A. 1 July 2009: Then just have a chat with her or your partner and explain that its not what you want. Just explain that you already have kids and you don't want the pressure of another one too. What does your partner want? I doubt that when your mother in law is ... (read in full...)
Any ideas how to make sex more special?
Q. Hello. I'm actually into the 6th month of my relationship with a guy and we're in love. and we've experienced a lot together. physically, we've covered all the bases but i think that there's still a lot we have to learn because we are just in our ...
A. 1 July 2009: Firstly!!!!! ALWAYS USE PROTECTION! Secondly, sex should be special with your partner whatever way you do it! If it doesn't feel special anymore then maybe you're not with the right person. Why don't you look up some sex postitions on the internet, ... (read in full...)
I went online pretending to be another woman and my boyfriend fell for her!!!
Q. I used this fake account and added my boyfriend on it. I started talking to him as her, and he started to flirt with her. He said he would kiss her and most probably have sex with her! I kept asking him about me his girlfriend and he was acting like ...
A. 30 June 2009: You could keep talking to him and print off a conversation, then when you dump him just put the conversation in an envelope and give it to him. Just walk up to him, hand him the envelope and say 'it was me who you were talking too all along!' Then ... (read in full...)
I'm so scared of giving a blow job!
Q. I'm 20 and I've NEVER given a blow job! I don'tknow how to, I was always scared of doign it wrong. All my life I've been scared of almost EVERYTHING. I was 17 when I had my FIRST boyfriend after bing scared of relationships. And 19 when I FIRST ha...
A. 30 June 2009: Just watch some porn scenes! X... (read in full...)
What the most embarrasing makeout or intercourse session you have ever had?
Q. Have you ever done something embarrasing during a makeout session or during intercourse (sex)? ok this is suppose to be fun so share with other people the most embarrasing or funny thing that happened ill go first and feel free to add your stories. ...
A. 30 June 2009: This is a site for people with relationship problems! ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her I think about her when I masterbate?
Q. ok well i don't know how to say this but my gf just resently asked if i masterbated and i said yes and i have been wanting to tell her that when i masterbat i think of her but idk how to tell her i mean i want to tell her bcuz we tell each other ...
A. 30 June 2009: Trust me, you don't have to tell her this! X ... (read in full...)
What is this weird pulsating behind my eye?
Q. Ok i know this isn't a relationship question, but i've gotten a lot of health help from this sight. My question is that there's this weird pulsing behind one of my eyelids. Could it be something serious? Some people said it could be allergies but i ...
A. 30 June 2009: Go to see a doctor, we haven't got the knowledge which a doctor would have. X... (read in full...)
Texting his co-worker 30-40 times a day but says nothing is going on
Q. My husband has been texting a female co-worker at work. Sometimes a multiple of 30 times a day.She is a lot younger than he is. I found out. He swears nothing is going on. Do I believe him, or am I being stupid to think that nothing is going...
A. 30 June 2009: You can't trust him! I would not believe a word either of them say! Do what's best for you and get out of the relationship before he makes you look more of a fool! X... (read in full...)
During sex, he says the names of my friends who he'd like to have watch us! Normal or not?
Q. hi , i 've been married for 6 months, last night my husband told me about his dream , he was making sex with me and one of my friend.. and everytime we do love he keeps repeating my friends names that he would like if they will watch us making ...
A. 29 June 2009: Omg! I would kill my boyfriend if he did this! How do you feel about it? You need to talk to him and tell him to stop because its not normal. X... (read in full...)
Texting his co-worker 30-40 times a day but says nothing is going on
Q. My husband has been texting a female co-worker at work. Sometimes a multiple of 30 times a day.She is a lot younger than he is. I found out. He swears nothing is going on. Do I believe him, or am I being stupid to think that nothing is going...
A. 27 May 2009: Sorry to be blunt but there is something going on here! My guess is he's having an affair! Don't believe a word that he says! X
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Estranged from my child, how do I make it hurt less?
Q. I would like to address the painful side of Mothers Day! I know for a fact I am not the only one out there feeling sad this day! I am referring to Mothers who are astranged from their children. It hurts! We gave birth to these people! We did t...
A. 10 May 2009: You can't! Its something that you can't really change, the change has got to be made on her part. Sorry. Xxx... (read in full...)
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