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Do pregnant women still get wet when they are aroused?

Q.   i was just wondering if you are pregnant, when u get aroused can u get wet ?...

A.   19 August 2008: i'm a mother of two, when i was pregnant my husband could not get enough of me. And yes some women do get more aroused during pregancy and are well lubricated. ... (read in full...)

I am so shy I can't even respond to him on msn!

Q.   I like this guy since May..he was in my class, we didn't really talk so i don't know why i just started liking him..thing is i ended up telling him and he said he has a girlfriend..but after he told me that; he would stare at me all the time then he ...

A.   15 August 2008: i know exactly how you feel. he already has a girlfriend and i'm glad he told, this just shows that he is not some jerk that would've used your feelings as a way to get some meaningless sex out of you.if he does become available again then may be ... (read in full...)

How do I find out if she likes me, and will my parents let me have a girlfriend?

Q.   im a 13 year old boy. I hav a crush on someone and i am really desperate for a girlfriend. I dont know if she likes me because sometimes shes sending me lots of texts and laughs at my jokes but sometimes she completely ignores me. How do i find out ...

A.   15 August 2008: i don't think desperate is what you should be. i do think she likes you, but is probably afraid of approaching the subject,because she doesn't know how you feel and scared that you will reject her, that's why she ignores you sometimes.As for your ... (read in full...)

Stepsister confusion? Does she like me? Should I go with her?

Q.   Well I'm think I'm falling for my future step sister (not related) which I will call Miss X. Well me and miss x are always talking on msn till late in the mornings (from 12am-6am) when she's allowed. We have a lot in common, we talk about rando...

A.   15 August 2008: firstly you didn't say how old either of you are and secondly will you living in the same house? You not related yet, so there is nothing incestuous about what going on. If i was you i'd wait it out and see how things turn out...cos if you are going ... (read in full...)

Should I have sex even though I'm just 13?

Q.   ok im 13 and i want to have sex. i have a boyfriend, and we have been dating for about 4 months and i think i am ready he is 14 and is a freshman in high school i am still in middle school (8th grade). but my main question is, should i even though i...

A.   14 August 2008: don't ruin something that is special,especially if you not sure. ... (read in full...)

I started my periods and I don't know how to tell my mum.

Q.   hello erm i dont really know how to put this but i started my periods. and i really dont know how to tell me mum! like she has a draw full of black pants and pads and things and i put on some of the black pants and put a pad on and yes im basically...

A.   13 August 2008: oh my baby! I wish i could give you a hug!!!!! I think you should just tell her and get it over and done with so that you can go on with your life. i bet she'll probably feel very proud of you. go on now and just tell! Let me know how it went ... (read in full...)

Because I was molested as a child do you think this is the reason why I can't hold a relationship?

Q.   I was molested when I was around 10-11 years old by an older cousin. I've never really talked to anyone about it but now that I am older I am reading alot about molestation and rape. By the way I grew up in a third world country and didn't know ...

A.   13 August 2008: I was molested as a child too. I was 12 and by an older cousin too. I guess i blocked out all the details about what happened and only after the birth of my second child everything just came gushing back like the wind.I was depressed and wanted ... (read in full...)

I am irritated with my girlfriend because of her flaws, what should I do?

Q.   I have a big problem. My girlfriend is lovely and everything but there are some things I don't like about her. I know this myght sound like bitching but most of the time she doesn't keep up her promise: she tries hard and everything but s...

A.   12 August 2008: it doesn't sound like you bitching.....you are bitching!!!! you trying to change her to someone best suited or moulded by yoouu!!! i don't think she deserves someone as insensitive as you. i think you should let go of her so that she can find som... (read in full...)

We've been married for 18 months and she's still a virgin! What can I do?

Q.   Hi, I have been married since March '07 (nearly 18 months ago), I love my wife to pieces but am extremely stuck on this. She was a virgin when we started going out, but the problem is she is still a virgin now. We've been together since '03, and...

A.   12 August 2008: A marriage is not a marriage until it has been consumated. She obviously have issues with sex or fear thereof. I know being married has different angles to it and one of them being able to enjoy each other sexually. hope things work out!!... (read in full...)

I have a husband who loves me, and a mad crush on my younger brother-in-law, I feel awful about this,can anybody help me get over this craziness?

Q.   I have a crush on my younger brother-in law.I havn't made a move yet and i think there is a mutual attraction. My hubby loves me dearly and i feel awful about what i feel but i just can't help it. Can someone please help me!!!...

A.   12 August 2008: you probably all right. i just hope the next time he sleeps over at our house and hubby goes to bed, i will remember what you all said........ (read in full...)

I've met this amazing guy but he is not a great looker-what do I do?

Q.   Okay so my question is this... I am 19, and two weeks ago I have met this guy... He is so amazing. In his personality... I cannot even describe all of his wonderful characteristics...He truly is amazing. Truly. He is talented in music, has nice ...

A.   12 August 2008: you obviously are one of those girls who think what other people will say. most "pretty" boys got the looks but do they have the brains to set out goals for themselves?? Your guy sounds incredible!!!! Don't judge him by the way that he looks. ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my former maths teacher. Could he be interested?

Q.   I recently graduated and am of legal age and I think I've fallen head over heels for my former math teacher. He's nine years older than me and is by far the most attractive man I've met in my life. It's not just his looks, but everything about him, ...

A.   12 August 2008: My husband is nine years older than me. We met when i was 15 and started dating when i was 16. The thing about me when i was younger was that i couldn't date a guy younger than me, they'd either be to immature or just plain out stupid. Now that i'm ... (read in full...)

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