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I don't want to date a married women, so how do I break things off?

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3 April 2012: Hey cupid. I meet a lady and we dated, then I there realised that the lady was married, When I ask her about it she says she is not married she is only living with her boyfriend, and she doesn't like these guy anymore. When I ask how possible...

What are the top reasons for cheating?

Q.   hello, thanks for ansewering me... i appreciate all advices. one question. Why girls/woman cheat? What are top reasons? Thank you....

A.   23 April 2012: Cheating has nothing to do with women, I think you should consider editing your question and ask it again. What I can say is cheating has no gender and for that reason I will say most man cheat cause of lust, and immorality. Whereas women cheat ... (read in full...)

25 year old friend of mine having sex with a 16 year old, is this wrong?

Q.   Short question for you all. A male friend of mine is 25.He is dating a 16-year old girl,and they are having sex. I can't help but think it's wrong.Am I totally out of line??...

A.   16 April 2012: The age difference of this two is just 9, and I think it is not bad as long as he is not using her as a sex toy, if he has love to her such age difference i think is perfect. There is nothing wrong and nothing to worry about here.... (read in full...)

What is the average time for a couple to move in together?

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now, i asked him if he wants kids with me and he said yes, but I'm wondering what is the average time it takes a couple to move into together? He is making efforts for me he met my mom and sister and for ...

A.   16 April 2012: Look here dear things are not the same, and don't expect things to happen like how it happened to your friend or someone you know. You can move in even a day after meeting, and it works for you and you even live longer until death do you apar... (read in full...)

Am I being petty over my husband's friend?

Q.   Hello! So my husband and I were separated for three months and have decided to work things out. While we were separated he was seeing a lady who works in his building. They would go out and hang out and what not. I don't have a problem with tha...

A.   9 April 2012: Hi, as you said by the time he was going out with her is when you guys were not together. I think as you spoke to him, just put your trust on him, everything will be okay, please don't forget that they hadn't part cause they had a fight or diff... (read in full...)

How do you end things when the other person is ignoring you?

Q.   Last August my boyfriend of 5 years just uppin left me .. 3 days later I got a text message saying he was moving out and we were done. Then 3 days after that he was seen with a new girl at work. That ended about a month later. And we started talking ...

A.   9 April 2012: Why worry, he used text do the same as well. If ever you don't want to hear his side of the story as he is ignoring you then block him in all ways of contact, what you cannot block is when he come in person, but still you can do what he is doing ... (read in full...)

Men & Women: How long have you gone without sex?

Q.   How long have you gone without sex with another person? ...

A.   9 April 2012: 4-6 weeks that is the longest I lived without sex. ... (read in full...)

I still love my ex but I'm married!

Q.   Hi I have been divorced from my ex for about 9yrs now. We still talk on a regular basis. He now has 2 kids but indicated to me that he would never marry again unless it was me. I recently re-married almost a year ago. I love my husband, but I just ...

A.   9 April 2012: Let the past be the past, I strong believe that when you part with your ex-hobby, it was like you wanted too, is just that you had differences that you couldn't bear or stand for it. Then forget about him cause if you go bad you might get the ... (read in full...)

I'm in desperate need of earning back my boyfriend's trust

Q.   Well I have been with my boyfriend 7 months now, but there are so many guys that have been flirting with me ever since i started dating him. Now he is realizing that he has given me so many chances and doesn't know if he should now. I'm afraid of ...

A.   8 April 2012: That is cool as you see that there was something in which you were not doing good, then that is where you should start. Make it a point that what ever you guys were having argument about, change it or do it differently or don't do it anymore. T... (read in full...)

What size penis do women prefer?

Q.   I am a man aged 34, iam just wondering on what penis size do women prefers. Is big, small or just average and if big how big. What do women enjoy most while having sex. Do they like when a man comes from the back or when he is on top....

A.   8 April 2012: Okay guys i think i will stop worrying about my penis size, i tought they like the bigger once. The thing is like most I meet they were shy of talking about sex. Thanks guys... (read in full...)

He likes me touching him but doesn't want to touch me back. A user?

Q.   I have been texting and phoning this guy 24\7 for over a year now. He has told me loads of times that he likes me, and I have told him that I like him. We have had what I would class as a few non-dates, lunches etc but I have asked him out a few ...

A.   8 April 2012: He might be saying he likes you too while he is not sure if ever really he wants to be with you. As you are the one started this matter just try and talk to him about this things, more specially what is bordering you. It can be possible that he d... (read in full...)

I don't want to date a married women, so how do I break things off?

Q.   Hey cupid. I meet a lady and we dated, then I there realised that the lady was married, When I ask her about it she says she is not married she is only living with her boyfriend, and she doesn't like these guy anymore. When I ask how possible...

A.   8 April 2012: Thank anonymous I will try. It is just not that easy to do it, but very easy to talk it. Sometime you don't even program your mind to think of a person you once love, is just that she wasn't honest with me, but at time before I discover about her bf ... (read in full...)

How do I start talking about this with him?

Q.   Hi, So I have a bit of a situation and it'll probably help me explain it more if I share a little bit of a timeline. There is this guy "Jay" and we've been friends since we were 12 years old (I'm 23 now). We went to middle school and high school ...

A.   7 April 2012: Being shy I don't think it will ever helps you than hurting you, I think it will hurt you even more if you find that he is going out with someone because you took for ever to sort this matter out. This is what I mean, as a man it can be poss... (read in full...)

He wants me to meet his mother.

Q.   Well Ive been seeing this israeli guy for 3 months now. Im not a religious person and he is secular too. Hes an engineer whos working for an american company and hes pretty much like just westners. Though he cares about his family very much and ...

A.   7 April 2012: Thanks for your good question, I think this will help a lot of people who are kind of having a similar questions. Take this easy, be who you are, don't try to make things in which you are not, or what you never did to please his mom. I think on... (read in full...)

Staying safe in a taxi?

Q.   Hello. I'm not sure if this question should be asked on this site, but I thought I'd try anyway. I am looking for tips/advice as to how to stay safe when travelling in a taxi. I am a 25 year old female and I use taxis a lot, as I have a physical ...

A.   6 April 2012: Sorry about the bad experience you countered. That taxi drivers are human being as well. When close to them and as strangers is good to keep you self for your self sometimes, but believe me it is not rude to tell that you are not comfortable with... (read in full...)

Should I lose my virginity this way?

Q.   I went out with this guy 3 years ago, the relationship ended pretty badly, but we perservered and stayed friends over the years, despite him going out with my best friend and the rest of my friends pretty much hating him. I'm don't have any real fee...

A.   6 April 2012: Good luck, we only give you our opinions but all this won't really change who you are and what you want. I think you don't has to do sex with him, just wait until someone you loves comes in your life, there is no point of losing your virginit... (read in full...)

Can men and women really be just friends?

Q.   I have got my girlfriend over 4 times with guys on a compromising positions, when I ask her about these guys she says they are her friends only and nothing else. Okay my problem is I told her severals times that I personally don't believe on such ...

A.   29 March 2012: Okay, thanks for your help. State of compromising it is not what I mind most. What are wanted to know most is about friends of different sex, as she alway tells me of her guy friend. Thanks anyway... (read in full...)

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