She thinks she is pregnant but we always use condoms, I'm nervous, any help?
Q. hi i am 18 years old and just started having sex a couple of months ago with condoms but my girlfirend is saying that her period has been late three weeks and her boobs hurt and she is urinating a lot and she thinks she is pregnant but we always use ...
A. 19 March 2010: Hun, there is always a possibility of falling pregnant even with contaceptives. Go buy a home pregnancy test for your gf so that you and her can know for sure whether she is pregnant or not.
With the symptoms you describe, the sore breasts,... (read in full...)
How do I tell my ex about my new boyfriend without hurting his feelings?
Q. I've got a great boyfriend thats there for me all the time and i can talk to him about any thing. I've even told him that i still stay in contact with my ex what he's fine with that as he knows nothing will happen. My ex on the other hand dont know ...
A. 18 March 2010: Hun, he is your ex - you have moved on with your life - did your ex expect you to sit pining for him??
If he is so childish that he wont talk to you again when he finds out you have a new man in your life... well then you are lucky to be rid of h... (read in full...)
Things just aren't working out between us any more...
Q. hi, my name is Farnaaz and i am 19 turning 20 in Ocotber. i have been dating for 3 years and we got engaged on the 20 Februay 2010. throughout our relationship he has hurt me, lied to me and im convinced cheated even though that hasnt surfaced. i ...
A. 18 March 2010: Hun, this man does not love or respect you, he treats you very badly and this will not improve when you marry, it will in fact, get worse.
I know you love him and dont want to imagine life without him, but you also feel like you have fallen o... (read in full...)
Why can't he just break up with her if he likes me?
Q. So ive liked this guy for two years... he has a girlfrend though. I told him last year that i liked him and he told me that he liked me back. heres the problem... hes been telling me for about 6 months now that he wants to break up with his ...
A. 18 March 2010: Hun, this guy is just loving the fact that he has two gf and enjoying cheating on the other gf with you!
If he really felt something for you he would break up with his current gf, but to be honest, he likes things just the way they are........ (read in full...)
Lost the love of my life, help
Q. So my girl friend who is the love of my life broke up with me recently. We dated about one year and it was the best time of my life. When we met I had many girls as friends, some were girls I dated in the past and some were just friends. We had a ...
A. 18 March 2010: Hun, you have shown your gf by your behaviour that you have no intention of changing, dont respect her and you are wanting to control her. That is enough to make a woman want to run away.
The emails you were sending could be construed as cheating... (read in full...)
Why is she like this and how to make her talk to me again?
Q. my best mate went out with this girl and i started to talk to her over msn and facebook she and my mate broke up and i told her that i liked her she said it was sweet and then i made the mistake of telling her that i loved her but she let it pass ...
A. 18 March 2010: Hun, you told her you loved her then you ask advice about another girl??? She probably sees you as a player and doesnt want to get involved with you... she doesnt want the heartache!... (read in full...)
Several arguments led to a break up - is there any chance he will want to be back with me again?
Q. hi, my ex and i broke up in november. This was due to arguemens from moving house, buying a doberman, money, being told he doesn't love me and i ended up seeking advice from his male boss who confessed feelings for me in the space of 3 months. we ...
A. 18 March 2010: Hun, your bf has lost his trust in you because of the way you behaved. You must have hurt him deeply.
I suggest that you just keep being yourself, dont pressurise him at all.
Unfortunately once trust has been broken in a relationship it ... (read in full...)
How can I get her respect with wanting to be with me?
Q. Plz help me out somebody...m in a great depression as i loose all my respect. Im in a 3months old relationship with a girl who proposed me as she liked me back from 2years. Now everything has changed, she never calls me never use to take care of me ...
A. 18 March 2010: Sorry hun, but it sounds like this girl is just not into you anymore.
Time to forget about her and move on with your life.... (read in full...)
Help - my brother-in-law is hitting on me!
Q. This is kind of long, so thanks in advance for those who read and respond. :) I am married to a wonderful man, "Jay". We have a very good relationship, and talk about everything, but there's one thing I don't feel I can bring up to him at this p...
A. 18 March 2010: Hun, I think that you have to back off from being too friendly with your brother in law.. just so that he will get the idea that you are not interested.
He is trying his luck, and wants to see if you are receptive to his attentions - all he wants... (read in full...)
Is it harmless or should I be moving on?
Q. My boyfriend of several years is looking at online dating sites and "classified ads." I have caught him emailing some of the girls and when I confront him he says he is "just looking" and would never do anything. Is it harmless or should I be ...
A. 17 March 2010: Sorry hun, he's looking at dating sites, and contacting girls on these sites.... huge red flag here!!!
If he was content with you he wouldnt be looking. Time to move on with your life...... (read in full...)
What is up with all of this???
Q. A couple of weeks ago, I went to visit an associate of mine. She had a possible health problem and I wanted to make sure she was okay. When I got to her house, this tall, handsome guy walks out and introduces himself as her son. I asked for her ...
A. 16 March 2010: Sorry hun, he was just after sex... go for a check up just incase you have contracted anything from this man. He certainly sounds like a smoother mover!!
Put this one down to experience and dont get caught again - make them wait for sex... a... (read in full...)
I don't want to be kicked out of church, but I don't want to have to tell the leader about my sexual activity either!
Q. Okay - first off - not a virgin and was not an active church go-er. However since being sexual active and regreting it ... i feel i need church in my life and if that be the case, i have to confess to my church leader (namely cos evidence of that ...
A. 16 March 2010: Hun, if your church cannot accept that you are human and have made a mistake then look for another church!
We all have made mistakes so no one can judge another... Not all churches are so rigid, so if you have the need to go to church and your cur... (read in full...)
We have an open relationship, yet I think he is hiding an attraction to another person.
Q. I have an open relationship with a guy. We both have an understanding that we can date other people and that we have no need to lie to one another because...well its an open relationship. I wouldn't even call it a relationship because we are not ...
A. 16 March 2010: Sorry hun, but you are just a friend with benefits... you have no control or say over his relationships...
He is using you for his pleasure... time to move on with your life and find someone who wants to be in a relationship with you not just hav... (read in full...)
Can I ever trust my wife again...after her affair?
Q. I found out my wife was having an affair at the early stages by accident. That was 3 weeks ago. I was shocked and heartbroken - my world collapsed, partly due to the fact that she told me that she did not feel anything for me anymore after I ...
A. 16 March 2010: Hun,
She is having an affair with a married man, who will probably never leave his wife [regardless of what he says]. So he will probably keep stringing her along until she wises up to his lies.
You on the otherhand, need to give her an ulti... (read in full...)
Could I still be pregnant or am I immediately protected because of the pill?
Q. I started the combined pill on the 2nd day of my period last wednesday. I took it Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday at exactly the same time of 7:30. On saturday nite i had sex without a condom with my boyfriend and he came inside me could i ...
A. 16 March 2010: Hun, there is a possibility that you could be pregnant. It is recommended that a pills are taken for a month before having sex without other contraception [condom].
When you went to the dr/healthcare worker for your pills did they not explain ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my wife?
Q. I am planning to leave my wife, but I am really scared of her - not that she is gonna beat me up or anything. The other day we were having a argument and she punched me - I was too shocked, even so she has hit me before. And she blames me for "m...
A. 8 March 2010: Hun, I think that you need to get your wife to an anger counsellor for help... if in the event she does frame you for striking her, at least you will have proof that she is attending counselling for her anger issues.
This should weigh in your fav... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble accepting the way he treats women because of his culture, is it true all men from the middle east are like this?
Q. Ok, my boyfriend is Kurdish. I love him so much but ive got the biggest problem with some of his attitudes, mainly about women but about other things as well. It's not just him, all his friends also have these attitudes, I'm told frequent...
A. 5 March 2010: Hun, its his culture to treat women as possessions, and you want to be treated like an equal.
He will not change and you cannot accept being treated like you are not a worthy human being.
Sorry, as much as you love him I dont see a future in ... (read in full...)
I'm moving back in with him but my mother hates him!
Q. hello I'm 27 yrs old I've been living with my mother and step father since last year reason being i lost my job because i was pregnant. i was engaged to my daughter's father who was living with a room mate at the time. we were saving to move in ...
A. 5 March 2010: Hun, you are aged between 26 -29 ??? Then move out, you are not a minor anymore!!
What rights does your mother have to restrict his visiting rights?? Has she got legal documents to prove that she is the guardian of the child??
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His emails with other women make me question whether our marriage can be saved
Q. Hello - My husband and I have been together for five years. Two years ago I made a mistake and had a very brief affair, which I took completely responsibility and accountability for after confessing it to him. The past six-eight months have...
A. 5 March 2010: Hun, I would suggest relationship counselling because it sounds like there are some serious unaddressed issues in your marriage.
I would hazard a guess that your husband has been texting these women long before you had your affair, which in itsel... (read in full...)
I got my period but it was really heavy and just for one day. Could I be pregnant?
Q. alright so me and my now ex boyfriend had sex between the day i was most fertile and ovulation and the day that i was just fertile since then ive been showing early signs of pregnancy..i got my period but it was a day early and wasnt a real period ...
A. 5 March 2010: Hun, the only way to tell for sure is to take a pregnancy test.
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How do I achieve bigger boobs without surgery?
Q. I'm really want to attract someone I like but I have small boobs and although I know there's nothing wrong with that and so forth, I do want to feel confident and attractive. I would like to boost them a little, make them appear fuller and bigger. ...
A. 24 February 2010: Hun, your best bet would be to purchase the 'wonder-bra' they are great as you can choose just how you want to display your cleavage.
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Marriage foundation... confused!
Q. Hello, I have been chatting with a man on a dating site for a while we even discussed marriage. So he soon asked out on a date. But then he told me about a foundation that was helping people to get married and that they would be given money and ...
A. 24 February 2010: Hun, this sounds like one of those 'mail-order bride' sites.
Anyways, you dont know the guy, would probably have to marry him and who knows what type of person he would be????
Rather to be safe, dont get involved as there are lots of really s... (read in full...)
My girlfriend told me I would be a terrible person to have around during childbirth! Why does she have something against me?
Q. Just a quick one cos i am completely clueless... My gf and I were watching a delivery program tonight following various women through their labours and births. During the show she remarked that I would be a terrible person to have around and i pro...
A. 24 February 2010: Hun, in my understanding her maternity bag should be packed and ready by the door about 4 weeks before she is due to deliver... just in case....
So if the bag is packed then she should have all the stuff she needs not have to ask you to get her ... (read in full...)
Help, I don't love my wife but can see no way out.
Q. Please help me, I'm in despair. Im 35 years old and married to a woman I can not stand. We have 2 children aged 5 and 3 and have been together for 8 years. We are not compatable at all, I am sociable, she is not, I am fun, she is forever serious....
A. 24 February 2010: Hun, first of all you need to understand that you are comparing your wife [and all the things you know about her] with the gf and she has only shown you the things you want to see in her. By having a relationship while you are trying to sort out ... (read in full...)
What causes chronic cystitis?
Q. I know someone who has not had sexual intercourse for years but suffers from chronic cystistis. What causes this and is there such a thing?...
A. 23 February 2010: Hun, your friend needs to consult a Urologist - there could be all sorts of medical reasons why this is happening.
Honeygirl... (read in full...)
I broke up with him because he was ugly, now he has somebody else and I want him back
Q. I have dated this guy about four years ago and we broke up mainly because he was to attached and never gave me space. He is a very good man and all but the one thing that turned me off was his looks he was not attractive at all. But everything else ...
A. 19 February 2010: He wasnt good enough when you had him... only now that he has someone else you find him attractive??
Leave him alone, let him be happy with his new life. Time for you to find someone that suits you better.... (read in full...)
Is her water infection problems due to me somehow?
Q. My girlfriend keeps getting a water infection. I know its very common and easily treatable but i was wondering if it had anything to do with me. She first got one in december shortly after we started having regular sex. This was cleared quickly ...
A. 18 February 2010: Hun, your gf should also increase her intake of water and also after sex she should urinate. This will help to flush out any bacteria that might have made their way up her urethra.
I would also suggest she have a check up to rule out any other me... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: Sorry hun, but she's only slept with 2 guys and you have slept with 5 women..... and you think that she is a slut...
Time to look at your own behaviour.... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant or have caught an STD?
Q. If I had unprotected sex but he didn't not produce inside me, is it possible that I can get pregnant or get an std?...
A. 18 February 2010: Yes, it is still possible to get both pregnant and an STD. Go to the local free family planning clinic and see one of the nurses there. Get yourself on the pill and ask them for a supply of free condoms for your bf.
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My LDR has changes and I think he doesn't love me anymore
Q. i am extremely disappointed with my bf.we r in a comitted relationship and yeah its a ldr.its now 7.5 months.i am upset because he watches a lot of porn movies which irritates me.and if i say i don't like it he says so what,its so normal.this breaks ...
A. 18 February 2010: Hun, very sorry but I think that this guy is trying to tell you that you are no longer No. 1 in his life.
I dont believe that he loves you as much as you love him... he is more concerned with his own pleasures [porn] and his nasty comments... (read in full...)
Our parents got married, now they say we have to split!
Q. I got enganged 1 year ago to "stepbrother" - well he wasnt till 2 mounth ago. both my parents and both his parents were devorsed, and my mam and his dad have been very good friends since we got together, and 2 months ago they went on a cruise and ...
A. 18 February 2010: Hun, I dont see the need for you to split up - he isnt your blood relation. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has caught me flirting online, and now he hasn't spoke to me for over a month!
Q. question to the guys. my boyfriend of four years has caught me flirting online. its not the first time and we always broke up because of it. i never cheated i did it for a laugh when he was at work,i did text them but never met any. i denied it and ...
A. 17 February 2010: Sorry hun, he forgave you once and you have gone and done it again - he is not being stubborn he has just realised that he cannot trust you... and where is a relationship if there is no trust?... (read in full...)
Am I just fooling myself trying to believe that he is not cheating?
Q. I have been married for 5 years. Husband is from a different counrty and speaks excellent english. We have had a great relationship I thought. I have been back and forth from the US to his country and last year when i returned to his country, I ...
A. 17 February 2010: Hun, he is showing the classic signs of a cheating husband.
I know that we dont want to believe that our spouses [who declare their unconditional and undying love for us] would do such a thing, but they do!
Honeygirl... (read in full...)
I seem to get unfair treatment all the time from men
Q. can some one be a born reject.guys have always being rejecting me since i was 18 yaers old. that its is me not you routine. the rejection towards me is aggressive, they've treated me like dirt, belittled me,name called,even threatend me which is...
A. 12 February 2010: Hun, somehow abusive men seem to be able to pick out the women with low self esteem and use this to their advantage.
They also think that they can treat you as they feel because you should be 'grateful' for their attention.
You need to b... (read in full...)
I know he loves me but why would he cheat on me and get her pregnant?
Q. I've been dating him for 4 years. His cheated on me with the same person, but each time apologizes and says its over. Now I discover she's pregnant. He wants a child (I cannot have any), so I told him go make one (jokingly) but not with her. Low and ...
A. 12 February 2010: Hun, he has lied and cheated - those are not signs of your bf loving you.... he is using you and since he keeps getting forgiven for cheating, he goes out and does it again knowing that he wont get into trouble.
Once the baby is born he is going... (read in full...)
I am 16 and my voice has not broken nor has my penis grown.
Q. (Mod Note - OP's own title) Well I am 16 turning 17 on May 21st cant wait for it really but.. I am planning on going out more once I get a stable job and a car or bike most probably will be thinking more and more of having sex around that age. ...
A. 12 February 2010: Hun, Unless you had blood tests which were specifically for testing hormone levels, so no, I dont think that they would have picked anything up... you probably had things like uric acid levels done.
Honeygirl... (read in full...)
She has denied me sex until I pay for it!
Q. Have been in a relationship for four years now with a lady i do love soo much and ready to marry, she is 32 am 27, But she is so controlling, she doe's not like to be forced on doing things she has become miss independent, i lost my job recently and ...
A. 12 February 2010: Hun, this lady sees you as her personal bank - she is using you to settle her bills and pay her way.
I suggest that you forget about this lady and move on with your life.
This lady is only interested in what you can give her in terms of money, ... (read in full...)
I've got no money to buy my girlfriend a Valentines present!
Q. Valentine is three days away and i have no money at all to buy anything for my girlfriend,this is our first valentine together and my first ever. What should i do?...
A. 11 February 2010: You can still make valentines lots of fun for her - make her a valentines card or a book of redeemable vouchers - like a voucher for a back rub or a voucher for breakfast in bed etc....
It is all about showing someone how you feel about them not... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have friendly phone sex with a classmate when I have a boyfriend?
Q. well...im in a committed relationship...its been 7.5months..me and my bf really love each other..i want to ask that is it ok to have friendly phone sex with my classmate?(we actually don't mean it,its just 4 fun)i mean is it ok or whether i will be ...
A. 11 February 2010: Hun, no it is not alright unless you are doing it infront of your bf... it can be considered as a form of cheating.......
How would you feel if you found out your bf was having phone sex with another girl... yes - you would be devastated so dont ... (read in full...)
Have I got my boyfriend enough for Valentines day?
Q. For valentines day I got my boyfriend a necklace and card. I was wondering if that would be enough?...
A. 11 February 2010: Hun, that is more than enough - its the thought that counts not the value or size of the gift!
Enjoy your Valentine's Day!!
Honeygirl... (read in full...)
I am 16 and my voice has not broken nor has my penis grown.
Q. (Mod Note - OP's own title) Well I am 16 turning 17 on May 21st cant wait for it really but.. I am planning on going out more once I get a stable job and a car or bike most probably will be thinking more and more of having sex around that age. ...
A. 10 February 2010: Hun, the best thing to do is go and chat to your dr... promise.. your dr wont laugh at you and wont tell your parents either.
You need to rule out any hormonal problems [simple blood test will do that]... if there is nothing wrong, well, then you... (read in full...)
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