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writes: My boyfriend told his friends that I stuff my bra when I said to not. He does feel pretty bad and told me right away. But I'm still mad at him. Does he have any respect for me? My friends think I should break up with him. Any ideas
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reader, JoannaTV  +, writes (3 October 2008):
Hi Maggi,
just because your boyfriend told his mates that you stuff your bra does not necessarily mean that he has no respect for you. It could evn mean the complete opposite. Embarrassing as it could be to sit down and talk to him calmly and try to understand why he did, I would strongly urge you to talk to him and try to understand his reasoning before you decide to dump him, it could in a strange sort of way be his way of respecting you...?
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 You asked: Does he have any respect for me?
Before he can have respect for you, you need to have respect for yourself, and stuffing your own bra is not the way to self respect. If you don't respect yourself, others will be unable to do it either.
Next, he should not have violated your rep the way he did, and that was wrong of him. But if you are going to do things that you would not want others to know about, perhaps you need to consider not doing those things first.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, Angle79  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 Sweetie, please go through the questions, he has posted 2 questions there. I know he feels very regret. I know this is too bad that he broke his promise with you. That show no respect to you, but sweetie sometime people do think without knowing that it is wrong until they see the consequence later and they wished they did not do that.
Just go through his posts. Best wishes!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 August 2008):
He asked 2 questions on here about it.... I'm wondering if this is a string of bra-stuffer fetishist's questions now.
Read through the previous questions to see his reasons. He claims he wanted advice from his friends on your strange bra stuffing ways.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 Ouch, Sweetie dump this guy, sounds like he has no respect for you at all. If he really liked you he wouldnt go around telling his friends personal things about you.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (11 August 2008):
I agree with your friends. That's something very personal, and if he's going to be a blabbermouth, who knows what else he would tell people? Obviously you cannot trust him to keep private things to himself and would rather have fun disrespecting you and humiliating you to his friends. He's a jerk, honey. Tell him to get lost.
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