How do I handle this guy?
Q. i met a guy... we lived in same apartment... first... he acted very very nice to me...i have never been treated that nice before... we became friends... he talked to me everyday... it was fun. but things went out of control... he started making me ...
A. 24 April 2009: Sweetie, this guy is a user and abuser. Stay away from him, dont contact him and ignore him when he tries to contact you. You dont need his nonsense in your life!... (read in full...)
Concerned about partner's nephew's feelings towards me...
Q. Ok here's the thing a couple of days ago I spoke about my concerns over my partners nephew, well I have noticed that in the last 3 months he has visited our town 7 times when ordinarilly he normally visit once every so many years. I do try to av...
A. 24 April 2009: Sweetie, as I read it, you are no longer in love with your partner but find your new man more exciting. Why dont you take the plunge and get divorced? If your partner finds out that you are having an affair it is going to be very hurtful. Why ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my abusive and demanding man? He says he'll leave me as soon as the sex stops anyway.
Q. "I have been living with a man that I am very much in love with for almost 4 years now. We are both nurses and he is 52 and I am 39. I have had some problems with drug addiction but have gotten help and continue to go to meetings and have a sponso...
A. 24 April 2009: Sweetie, this man is no good for you! He is using you and by the things he says, has no respect or feelings for you whatsoever. It does sounds like he has a sex problem and expects you to be the solution. You have pulled yourself out of a drug ... (read in full...)
In love with my boyfriend but so lonely in love!
Q. I met my boyfriend almost a year ago. We worked at he same company but not necessarily on the same "team" or "job". We never crossed paths until a group of co-workers all went out to a new bar opening and we finally met. I am 32. He is 52. He ...
A. 24 April 2009: It sounds like he used you as his crutch while he was going through problems in his marriage and his divorce. I wonder if he hadnt already considered divorce from his wife before he met you. At some point he must have had feelings for you, but now ... (read in full...)
Met a guy online, he said he was 21 but he's really 17!
Q. Hi im 19 and from the UK, and i met this guy from Canada on a game. to play the game you have to be 18 and he said he was 21. we've spent every night tongether for the past 4 month talking for a minimum of 5 hours per night and over this time ...
A. 24 April 2009: No, I dont see the age gap as a problem. You both seem to have a lot in common so enjoy the relationship. However I would caution you, not everything you get told is true, sometimes people will misrepresent themselves with the whole idea of ... (read in full...)
My son is breaking my heart!
Q. My son just turned 21, and simply has no time for me. Or should I say it is a real effort for him to go anywhere with me. This saddens me so deeply. I did the stupid thing and gave him everything not only money but so much love. His friends ...
A. 23 April 2009: Honey, you have to let your son grow up - he is 21 and needs to spread his wings. Yes, his friends are more important to him as he is now making a life for himself. I wonder if he is lying to you because you are too clingy and dependant on him? ... (read in full...)
Infatuated with my married boss when I have a boyfriend too!
Q. I am 19 years old and I have a boyfriend of three years now. I just did something I am not proud of at all, but at the same time I can not stoping thinking about it... I committed into someone's affair! He is my manager-38 years old--3 children.. ...
A. 23 April 2009: Okay, what you need to do is find yourself other employment. You are in lust, and that is okay if the other party is not married. I am sure you are not his first fling and you wont be his last! How would you feel if you found out your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
How can I encourage my wife to enjoy sex more?
Q. How can i get my wife to have a craving for sex with me? I realy love her but she doesnt want to give me anything. The sex is great when she eventualy gives me sex. She also never start the foreplay. What can i do?...
A. 23 April 2009: Sweetie, you need to sit down with her and tell her how much you love her and desire her and need her. Do you make her feel special, do you help around the house at the end of the day, or do little things for her. Sex doesnt start the moment you ... (read in full...)
My ex has threatened to beat me up!
Q. I have a massive problem!! My ex-boyfriend Jack has threatened to beat me up just because I added his present girlfriend on Facebook. But I also know that he is cheating on this girl. This girl, let's call her Shelby, has told Jack that I've said ...
A. 23 April 2009: First, delete her off your facebook! If he lays a hand on you for whatever reason, you go to the police and lay a charge of assault against him. His current girlfriend sounds like a nasty piece of work, the two of them deserve each other.... (read in full...)
Confused and heart broken
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for two and a half years and he told me yesterday he needs a break from our relationship. We've been fighting alot lately, mainly about money. We both have good jobs but he wastes his money on stupid things then ...
A. 23 April 2009: Sweetie, sounds like you know where you are going in life and he is happy to wander aimlessly along while he depends on you!! Does he think that he can behave like this when he is married??? He also sounds like hes having 2nd thoughts about ... (read in full...)
Worried I have cancer!
Q. I realize that most people on this site are not doctors and I should get this checked out, but I am so scared. Maybe I'm getting upset over nothing, but I'm freaking out at the possibility that I might have cancer. What does it mean if your...
A. 23 April 2009: Hey, doesnt sound like cancer to me!! Sounds like you have either mastitis or serious pms! You do need to go to a doctor to find out what is going on. Nobody can tell you your chances of getting breast cancer - however if you have family members, ... (read in full...)
Is it time to end this marriage?
Q. Long marriage story...should we split and if so how can we make it on our own?? I've been married almost ten years we met the summer I graduated highschool we have 3 beautiful children. I'm miserable he is miserable but we love each other have fun ...
A. 23 April 2009: You are miserable, he is miserable.... dont feel that you are responsible for him not being able to do things cos he cant drive. You are responsible for making yourself and your kids happy. Move on with your life. If you are going to keep finding ... (read in full...)
Betrayed by my co-worker over my flirtation with my boss!
Q. I was flirting with my boss leaving him hello notes and little candies now and then even jst stop by his office for innocent chit chat because I am attracted to him but I knw its wrong anyways my guy friend told me my boss told him about the notes ...
A. 23 April 2009: Sounds like your boss sees your attention as amusing. If he really fancied you he would make a move not discuss it with other co-workers. It also sounds like this boss does not take other's feelings into consideration so I would be very wary of ... (read in full...)
Ex g/f still wants phone sex
Q. my seventeen year old ex girlfriend says that though we have broken up we can still have phone sex chats and masturbate and she said it will be only for personal pleasure ... is it ok to do it ? ...
A. 23 April 2009: Mmmm... this one depends on you entirely. I think this is her way of hanging onto you, a way of controlling you...! There are lots of guys out there who would do phone sex with her... but she wants you, so that you dont forget about her. Your ... (read in full...)
Does he like me back? Or are we just friends?
Q. I like one guy who is also my friend.. I even told him that I like him. He put me in confusion saying that "I can't discuss this thing right now.." and at that time he was confused too.. but still he didn't give any answer. Does that means he...
A. 23 April 2009: Sounds like he has committment issues. He wants you but he doesnt want you...... ... (read in full...)
Effectiveness on Implanon contraceptive?
Q. Hey aunts and uncles I'm on the implanon contraceptive (rod in my arm) when i went on to this type of birth control the doctor told me it was completely effective and the risk of getting pregnant was something like 0.05% however im getting worri...
A. 23 April 2009: Sweetie, I am not sure about the contaceptive you are using, but I do have a question, after the rod was inserted in your arm did you wait for any period of time before having sex or did you have sex right after it was inserted? Why I am asking is ... (read in full...)
What were his intentions of contacting me?
Q. I broke up with an ex a month ago. I got hurt as i really liked him and he was cheating and he wasn't the lovely guy i thought he was. We agreed on no contact as i never wanted to speak to him again after he had so little respet for me. Today i g...
A. 23 April 2009: Hes a cheat and maybe is bored with his current girlfriend and is looking to cheat on her... with you?? Ignore him he is not worth knowing!... (read in full...)
Is my boss coming on to me?
Q. my boss and i spend alot of time together and have come very close, we tell each other almost everything and we even talk about sex,but recently he has been very flirty with me and rings me alot, he askes me personal questions that relate too sex, ...
A. 23 April 2009: STOP!! You are being drawn into an affair with a liar and a cheater. Men will use all sorts of excuses to get a woman into bed. By discussing sex and sexual matters with your boss you have already allowed yourself to step over the line. He is ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't love me but wants to do right by the children
Q. Hi I am the mother of 7 children ranging from the ages of 30 to 8 years old. About 14 years ago I met my husband. I was a devout christian woman with 4 children then. I abstained from a relationship for about 10 years. Then I found myself going in...
A. 23 April 2009: Give him the option of leaving, if he doesnt want to leave 'because of the children' then he must amend his behaviour so that it will not affect the rest of the family. ... (read in full...)
I'm losing interested in phone sex
Q. I feel like i'm loosing interest in having 'phone' sex with my honey; that is long distance at this time. He'll be with me in September and on though... But until then...I don't understand why i don't want to really have 'phone sex' with him. I love ...
A. 23 April 2009: Yes, phone sex can get boring, it is definitely more stimulating for men! Its okay to feel this way.... (read in full...)
Husband wears women's clothes
Q. Hi i wish not to say who i am at this stage i have this major problem i have been with my husband for nearly to years now and i am embrassed to say but he likes wearing womens clothing not in public i don't like what he is doing and i don't know how ...
A. 23 April 2009: Some men like wearing womens underwear and clothing, and the fact that he does it in front of you shows you that he loves and trusts you enough to show you what turns him on. If this is going to cause problems in your marriage, I suggest that you go ... (read in full...)
Feel like I'm being forced into sex stuff
Q. I am 13 years old and so far I haven't lost my virginity. I want to be one of the few teens who actually save it but like 2 boys wantsz me 2 lost it to them and I keep saying no and they ask me non stop and some other boys want me to suck their ( ...
A. 23 April 2009: Keep on saying NO! You dont have to do anything you dont want to do and dont let them force you by being nasty or rude to you. The are immature and irresponsible. I admire you for wanting to keep your virginity until you are married!... (read in full...)
I overheard my b/f tell his ex he misses her! Should we break up?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend, Dante, for 6 months now. When we first started seeing eachother he told me that he still technically "talked" to his ex girlfriend (they dated for 4 years) who lives about 500 miles away. When I found out I pretty much ...
A. 23 April 2009: I suggest you wait and see what happens. As she is 500 miles away I think that you can relax. If he is not hiding anything from you regarding the ex, then no need to panic.... (read in full...)
Why wont my b/f call when he says he will?
Q. I have been dating this guy for almost 4 months now... we have liked eachother since i was twelve... he was 4 years older than me so we never persued it. Im 20 now, so we made it official. we expressed that we love eachother and he told me what was ...
A. 23 April 2009: You need to ask him what is going on with him - why he expects you to phone him and also expects you to wait by the phone for him to return your calls.
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Does he love me enough to stand up to his mother?
Q. Hi everyone, I need some serious advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost five years. During the third year of our relationship we had some problems and both of us were to blame. We broke up for about six months at the most and have ...
A. 23 April 2009: Wow! This guy is still tied to his mothers apron strings, and by the sounds of it, is quite happy! Sorry but the way he denies your relationship makes me wonder just how serious he is about you. You dont sound controlling, you sound like you are ... (read in full...)
I'm dying inside
Q. Help! I am dieing inside. My marriage of 13 years has come to an end. I never seen it coming, we were the perfect couple (almost). Things just slowly declined to the point of no return. The pain is so bad I can't eat, I cry all the time I just don't ...
A. 21 April 2009: Sweetie, you need to tell us more, there must be something in your marriage or you life that has caused this. Have you seen your doctor, perhaps you are suffering from depression?... (read in full...)
What are some basic but definite ways to turn a guy on during foreplay?
Q. What are some basic but definite ways to turn a guy on during foreplay? My boyfriend and I are both virgins, and we're going slow. But we recently started messing around, and I really wanna turn him on! We're both inexperienced (and he knows th...
A. 21 April 2009: Sweetie, just the whole idea of being touched and desired is probably enough for your boyfriend to cum! As you are both new at this, you should explore each other slowly but communicate as to what is nice and what is not! And if things get out of ... (read in full...)
He's not attracted to me anymore??
Q. My man is 23 we have three kids and we are trying to find advice on a problem. Sometimes during sex he won't get off or he goes limp. I am starting to think he may not be attracted to me anymore although he says different. I may just be way too ...
A. 21 April 2009: Sounds like your hubby is stressed out - does he have worries at work? The only way is to talk to him, but dont make a big thing of him not being able to have an erection. It is a huge issue for a man not to be able to perform, so he will need ... (read in full...)
I can't make my g/f cum
Q. Im a lesbian, and i have pleasured many women in the past and made them all come..but recently i have a new girlfriend, and she has never managed to come with guys before because she fancied women, but now she is with me.. i still cannot make her ...
A. 21 April 2009: Sounds like your girlfriend is nervous, probably cos you are more experienced than her. Just give it time and dont put pressure on her to orgasm, rather enjoy each other and as she gets more confident in her relationship with you, things will come ... (read in full...)
He wants to be FWB
Q. I am a teen girl and this guy I had a crush on wanted to be friends with benefits. We had never really spoken before and I was confused. I said yes at first, but then I changed my mind before we actually did anything. He was nice about it and ...
A. 21 April 2009: Personally, I see a FWB as a way of getting free sex! Be thankful that you didnt do anything with him and carry on with your life as if nothing has happened.... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I have herpes?
Q. I have been dating a man a very short time and I want to tell him I am HSV2 (herpes) positive. I just do not know how. Please help....
A. 21 April 2009: Sweetie, you must he honest with him about your condition before you become intimate. If he likes you enough he will be there for you, however if he drops you then you know that he wasnt the right one for you.
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How do I resolve this situation with my boyfriend of 9 months?
Q. I am madly in love with my boyfriend of 9 months. For half of the relationship he was nothing but an asshole because he was depressed. I've been under some stress lately and I have been acting pretty stupid, bitching at him all the time, flipping ...
A. 21 April 2009: Sweetie, I think that you need to really think carefully about moving on with your life. Your boyfriend is using emotional abuse to keep you where he wants you. Have you considered taking a pregnancy test? Email me if you would rather c... (read in full...)
I can't live with my husband but I can't live without him either.
Q. Hey everyone, I'm not sure if I'm "RIGHT or WRONG" I'm a married women and have a child 4 years old. My problem is my husband thinks that he is the boss in our marriage, whatever he says he thinks it should go, ok like when it was his birthday, I ...
A. 21 April 2009: You need to drag him off to relationship counselling! You both need to find out where you are going wrong, he is too controlling and you are too accepting. It sounds like little things happening in your marriage are being turned into reasons for ... (read in full...)
How do I resolve this situation with my boyfriend of 9 months?
Q. I am madly in love with my boyfriend of 9 months. For half of the relationship he was nothing but an asshole because he was depressed. I've been under some stress lately and I have been acting pretty stupid, bitching at him all the time, flipping ...
A. 21 April 2009: Unfortunately, if your boyfriend already has the idea that if you are not pregnant that hes leaving you, shows that he will only stay with because you are expecting his child. I suspect that even if he does stay, there are going to be more problems ... (read in full...)
Sex drive has flatlined wedding coming up
Q. I’m getting married in a few months, and my sex drive has flat-lined. I always thought I had a very high sex drive, but now I’m starting to worry. I’ve been with my girl for about a year and a half now. Things have been going great, we used t...
A. 20 April 2009: You need to talk to your fiancee, she needs to know how you are feeling. If you dont talk to her she is going to think that she is no longer desirable and things might start going downhill from there. Communication is very important and since you ... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter using a vibrator.
Q. im a dad and i cauht my dauther using a vibrater in her room shes 12 and what should i do...
A. 17 April 2009: Ooohhh.... think is an awkward situation to handle. Perhaps mention to your daughter the once you got caught by mother/father/brother/friend whilst masturbating so you understand just how embarrassing it is, and that you promise you will never ... (read in full...)
Is This a Casual or not so Casual relationship?
Q. I have been sing this man for 5 months and he has been wonderful to me and we are very sexually active with each other. He wants to stay casual, but I know he really cares about me because I have been going through personal issures such as a divo...
A. 17 April 2009: Mmmmm.... sounds like this guys is just saying all the right things to keep you available for sex! He doesnt want any of the baggage that comes with a relationship and is happy to have things 'casual' which to me means that he is having sex with ... (read in full...)
Is my man just using me for sex?
Q. i am dating a guy much older then me for 7 months now, but it s not a normal relationship, he lets me see him once maybe twice a month...and it s mostly sex, he is divorced, lives alone, and i believe doesn t want anything serious, but i feel he ...
A. 17 April 2009: Stop being available for sex for him, you will then see just how much he cares for you. It certainly sounds like you do all the work in the relationship! ... (read in full...)
Ideas for pregnancies for a web page please
Q. after seeing the amount of questions coming into dc regarding pregnancy, abortion, adoption etc i have decided to make a web page showing info about all the above. Im also going to put stories from women that have been in any of those situations so ...
A. 16 April 2009: Sounds like a wonderful idea, perhaps incorporate some sex education as well - as it is scarey to read some of the questions asked "can I get pregnant from swallowing his cum?". I really feel that the youth of today are so busy with their raging ... (read in full...)
I am really baffled by this!
Q. My husband and I have been married a year together for two.. When we got together his oldest daughters were moved out and it was just his son.. Well his oldest daughter was living with her boyfriend and his parents. Neither one of them had a jo...
A. 16 April 2009: No I dont think you are being unreasonable... you have had your turn to raise your children and now it is his daughters turn to raise hers!! Considering she wanted to have a baby when she was unemployed shows that she has not considered the ... (read in full...)
Self conscious about bikini & men on the beach
Q. i going on holiday i feel very strange wearing a g-string bikini. i am feeling very self conscience but some girls arent .i saw in swim suit competition on foreign tv and she was a g-string bikini there was group of young guys were watching and the ...
A. 14 April 2009: Sweetie, dont be pressurised into wearing a g-string! Wear a bikini or full costuum that you feel comfortable in. To be honest, unless you have a perfect figure and dont mind all your 'bits' being on show, then by all means.. wear a g-string. But ... (read in full...)
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