As a man I just can't resist all these beautiful ladies! Which one do I choose?
Q. I started dating a co-teacher at my school 3 months ago, I seduced her the first time we went out and started making trips back to my house with her even during working hours. The thing is that I already had a girl friend working in a nearby city ...
A. 21 August 2008: You cant have what you want this time so its made you angry?
Haha ok this thread is a hoax. No one can be so dysfunctional in real life i'm sure
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I have a lot of trauma from my last abusive relationship even though I've tried my best to recover. Any suggestions?
Q. Hi, I came on here before and got some good balanced advice which was really helpful so I've come back again to ask about a problem. I feel really stuck ... in February my partner of 5 years walked out on me whilst I was unwell (it since transp...
A. 21 August 2008: Its horrible isn't it when we feel like we have lost our personality. And in a way we have. But it will be found again. I spent 2 yrs with someone i adored and when we split, and it was my choice for various reasons, i was a lost soul. I missed him ... (read in full...)
How do I confront my ex who is stealing money from me?
Q. After I broke up with my ex, I discovered on my bank statement that he used my ATM card to withdrawal cash without my permission (he knew my pin cause I lost my ID and would send him to get beer/cigarettes sometimes). There are about 3 occasions ...
A. 21 August 2008: I would let him know you know he's a theif and a liar, then have nothing more to do with him. Thats closure. You know he stole from you, he will lie til he's blue in the face, he's already done that. Thats not going to change.
Sounds like a luck... (read in full...)
Male Opinions: He worshipped me and now avoids me!
Q. I'm 35 and have been in a relationship for a year with a 39 y/o man. I believed was my soul mate. Alex also felt the same way about me. We have known each other for 2 years prior to our relationship ever beginning. We had coffee one day and out of ...
A. 21 August 2008: Sounds like whats happening is you both stroke each others ego's. He walks off, waits for you to say you miss him, he says he misses you, and then you're back to square 1 waiting for the next time you both start feeling a bit low in self asteem ... (read in full...)
As a man I just can't resist all these beautiful ladies! Which one do I choose?
Q. I started dating a co-teacher at my school 3 months ago, I seduced her the first time we went out and started making trips back to my house with her even during working hours. The thing is that I already had a girl friend working in a nearby city ...
A. 21 August 2008: You're a playa basically then. And as soon as they decide they dont want you, it turns you on so you are off chasing them again.
I feel for you, its going to take a lot to work through that personality trait.
But its a shame you haven't got the ... (read in full...)
If he didn't care, why the such strong feeling of hatred?
Q. Ok hi will someone please help..it wont be long..me and my ex broke up and 6 months after he was still tellin people he hated me etc..i see him in the pub tonite and asked him to talk..he said argh stop following me! bare in mind we havnt spoken in ...
A. 21 August 2008: Probably still bitter about the relationship ending. Just because he is with someone new, doesn't mean he was actually ready to move on. Ive noticed guys especially seem to try replaing someone to get over someone else, and it often works. The jammy ... (read in full...)
Should I just let things be and move on with my life without seeing him one last time?
Q. So I've been seeing this guy since January. We've had many ups and down in our "relationship." Basically, he's been too immature to carry on a full relationship, even though he has told me that he wants a relationship with me whenever he thought ...
A. 21 August 2008: Good luck with the move. It sounds exciting!
Whole new life starting up. Im jealous! hehe
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Am I being unreasonable by wanting to leave my house to my children rather than my husband?
Q. Hi. I have been with my husband for two years. He moved into the house that I own from proceeds of a settlement from a previous relationship that produced children.. he came with basically nothing just a good wage. Since we were married my ...
A. 21 August 2008: I think you remind me of my mum, and she is never mercenary either. She is a wonderful caring person, and she slept on her sofa for 3 yrs so she could rent all her bedrooms out to save enough to buy her council house to leave to her kids. Why would ... (read in full...)
Can a virgin have a smear test done?
Q. Hello, I am near reaching an age where the doctors start to suggest smear tests. A thought occurred to me the other day and got me wondering whether female virgins get smear tested because wouldn't it break their hymen?? Can't spell. Unless hu...
A. 20 August 2008: Another article...
Question
I am a 40-year-old woman who is still a virgin. Do I need to go for a cervical smear test or not?
Answer
If you have never had sexual intercourse, you probably do not need to have a cervical smear test.
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Can a virgin have a smear test done?
Q. Hello, I am near reaching an age where the doctors start to suggest smear tests. A thought occurred to me the other day and got me wondering whether female virgins get smear tested because wouldn't it break their hymen?? Can't spell. Unless hu...
A. 20 August 2008: I know what you're saying supersammie. But had a google and came up with this, so its not strictly an std no, but thats why i said its pretty much an std, i guess this article kinda expleins what i was getting at..
Can you get cervical cancer i... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable by wanting to leave my house to my children rather than my husband?
Q. Hi. I have been with my husband for two years. He moved into the house that I own from proceeds of a settlement from a previous relationship that produced children.. he came with basically nothing just a good wage. Since we were married my ...
A. 20 August 2008: This is very similar a situation to what my mum was in. She met a guy when she was mid 50's in age. They ended up selling their places and buying cash a place together. But she put in 2/3 he put 1/3
Now i dont know how they have done it, and we are ... (read in full...)
Can a virgin have a smear test done?
Q. Hello, I am near reaching an age where the doctors start to suggest smear tests. A thought occurred to me the other day and got me wondering whether female virgins get smear tested because wouldn't it break their hymen?? Can't spell. Unless hu...
A. 20 August 2008: I dont think virgins have smear tests no. Cervical cancer is pretty much a sexually transmitted disease i gather and someone that hasn't had sex would be very unlikely to get it as far as i know. Obviously check with your doctors though.
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When I met my ex he didn't have a job / career, and hasn't progressed much since. Should I try and work things out with him after a failed relationship with another?
Q. i have had quite a rocky two years. Two years ago i was in a relationship which my parents didnt approve of coz the man had no job and no career and wasnt making any money. I loved him tho so i made the decision to be with him and decided to give...
A. 20 August 2008: Sounds to me like you just dont want to be on your own?
None of these guys have anything good to offer.
Your ex is no good because he's not making any effort to earn a crust. My ex was like that. He had a builders business, but after 5 yrs of it be... (read in full...)
Is anyone else just as afraid to be alone?
Q. Here I am again - I thought I was making progress and I know that the boyfriend is NO GOOD for me and I deserve better so why do I still want to get attention from him? He makes me sick! Like last night he said he would call back and he didnt the...
A. 20 August 2008: Just keep telling yourself this guy isn't ready to have a mature relationship, no matter what his age. You are. And will in the future. But it wont ever happen with this guy.
What everyone else has said is good advice.
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She has made it clear that she is not interested in dating. Do I persevere anyway?
Q. i met a lady through online dating and we hit it off went out on roughly 4 dates and she indicated she was interested in me. She then rang and told me that her old boyfreind had contacted her and she was going to try again with him. this rather ...
A. 20 August 2008: Arrggg its so annoying that people tend to join dating sites as soon as they split from someone possibly in an attempt to replace the ex. But they haven't actually sorted things yet, and its all too common they get back with them. Whats the point? ... (read in full...)
Are we too young to have a baby even though I'd drop out of school to support her?
Q. Hey i am 15 and my gf is 14. The other day my girlfriend said she wanted a baby. I was shocked at this but also happy because it means she loves me enough to wants kids. We spoke about this some more ans she is serious. She also says that a ch...
A. 20 August 2008: Have you taken leave of your senses?
My brother was 15 when his daughter was born. She is 11 now and he has nothing to do with her. He was too young! But he still has to pay child support for her!
Where are your parents in all this?
Some thin... (read in full...)
My son is bullying his pregnant girlfriend!
Q. my son is bullying his pregnant girlfriend, she is always upset because of what he is doing, i dont know what to do, i was with his abusive father for 2o years and my own head is messed up. my son always said he would never be like his father but it ...
A. 20 August 2008: Get him into an anger management course pronto!
We dont have to turn out like our folks. Its a choice.
He obviously has some deep routed unaddressed issues doesn't he. You sound like a lovely mum, and i hope you get this sorted what with a grandchi... (read in full...)
How can I get over this, or even him?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and for the first few weeks he was just a bit of fun etc and he reguarly mentioned his ex gf by saying things such as 'she's so sleezy' 'i still care about her' etc and she used to ring him up when i was with ...
A. 19 August 2008: He sounds very immature and i think you're going to be lucky if you go the distance with this guy, i reakon at best you will come out of it recognising an indecisive selfish playa.
Its a toughie cuz you cant really finish with someone over some... (read in full...)
Are my brother's friends really his friends...?
Q. well i have a older bother and we were having a conversation or argument about who his freinds are i told them the meaning of having freinds well he said he has freinds who are his freinds but he does not know where they live there number and he ...
A. 19 August 2008: Sounds like the people your bro are talking about are aquaintances. Those are different from friends. And people that you hang out with in the pub aren't always real friends either if thats the only thing you do with them.
Real friends are few and ... (read in full...)
I can't talk to people and I'm a loner... how can I change that?
Q. Well it's time to be honest....I'm 21 and am a loner. I have never had any real social life up till now nor experienced any type of meaningful youth. I stay in my room night after night and my mum is right when she says I don't know how to tal...
A. 19 August 2008: Are you sure you're not suffering from something like Aspergers syndrome?
I would go to your gp if i was you and explain it. Because sometimes there is a reason for the symptoms you are explaining. And if there is a mediacal reason for it, you migh... (read in full...)
Should I just let things be and move on with my life without seeing him one last time?
Q. So I've been seeing this guy since January. We've had many ups and down in our "relationship." Basically, he's been too immature to carry on a full relationship, even though he has told me that he wants a relationship with me whenever he thought ...
A. 19 August 2008: I wouldn't say goodbye no! Whats the point? You have the job you wanted, and this guy likes to pull your strings when it suits him, one last chance to get you where he likes having you is only a foolish move on your part away!
Wise up. You have the ... (read in full...)
Can anything come from this after all these years?
Q. I am to scared to get excited. My boyfriend when I was 16 to 19 is coming to visit. We both have been married and lived and enjoyed life. However, we stayed in contact over the years. The odd phone call for a birthday or if something happened...
A. 19 August 2008: Cool!
Been in a similar situ myself last year. I got married at 18 and divorced by the time i was 22. 16 yrs later after we split, we met up again (last yr) we both had this fairytale image that we had got with other people, had children, it hadn... (read in full...)
Will the pill help stop discharge?
Q. hey i was wondering does the pill help to stop discharge? as i have a lot of discharge and was wondering if the pill would help thanks xx...
A. 19 August 2008: I dont think so no, i think at your age its just something that happens! In fact it will always be there, not a lot you can do about it. Why do you think they invented panty liners for?!
Part n parcel of being a female i'm afraid hunny.
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I suffer from depression when I'm on my period
Q. hi, i suffer from depression when i'm on my period i should be going the doctors some time next week about it but what is there to stop it? i don't want to go on anti-depressents as i only have it when i go on my period any advice? thanks ...
A. 19 August 2008: Welcome to my world hunny!
Well i am 37 and only been having this problem the last 6 or 7 yrs, so you have been unlucky. But having said that, i reakon its best you get it sorted when you are young.
Sometimes young people get put on the pill to ... (read in full...)
I want to make porn movies. How can I protect myself from diseases?
Q. i am 19 years old girl and i am interested to join a porn movie making company. i like sex so much.i want to enjoy the sex with different male parterner in different style. but i do not have so much knowledge about the physical deseases generated ...
A. 19 August 2008: Condoms. Nothing more reliable in protecting against diseases in that line of work has been invented yet.
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What does he mean by "take things as they come"?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles... After nearly 6 months apart my ex boyf asked to meet him at the w/end cos even tho we broke up we were still friends and in contact with each other but just didn't see each other. We were a couple for over 2 years and...
A. 19 August 2008: He means he's missed you, tried out some other talent, none have come up to scratch so wouldn't mind a second crack of the whip with you again. BUT he doesn't want you reading too much into it and thinking you are back to where you were over 6 ... (read in full...)
Can a UTI affect the outcome of a home pregnancy test? Can it make me miss my period? Does planned parenthood offer blood tests?
Q. I hate conflicting symptoms. My period was supposed to start almost two weeks ago. I figured I might be pregnant-though I had absolutely NO pregnancy symptoms. I have taken two first response tests 5 days apart from each other. Both came out ...
A. 19 August 2008: Not too sure. I know you can get a false negative preg test but not a false positive apparently. And the tests here in the Uk that you buy in the chemists are the same as the ones used by gp's. But whether Cystitis affects the results is a good ... (read in full...)
He chose me after a long open relationship. I don't feel I can trust him.
Q. hey i am slightly confused atm and am looking for some answers... i recently got together with a guy after a long winded journey... basically we were in a so called open relationship, something that i didnt wnt to be in but as i wnted to be with him ...
A. 19 August 2008: Well i guess this might be the old chestnut of getting with someone that has cheated on someone else, they dont even have to do anything to you, you just cant get past the fact you know they are capeable of it, for whatever reason! Not everyone has ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I might have a disease but I'm scared to go and get it checked out.
Q. hi i had sex 3 months ago it was a one night stand but stupidly he didnt use a condom as we were both drunk i took the morning after pill, so i know im not pregnant, and ive had regular periods now im worried that i may have a disease or so...
A. 19 August 2008: Might be a good idea to get checked out, as a lot of diseases dont actually present with any symptoms, although this is more true of males.
Chances are you are fine though, but i think you're very sensible to want to get checked out, and good thin... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever found love outside their relationship and dumped their current ball-and-chain for the better woman?
Q. Hello everyone, I'll do my best to make this short: Basically, guy of my dreams walks into my life three weeks ago. He's 29, lives in NYC but is freelancing in Boston for a few months. I am 22 and living/working full time in Boston. Unfortunately, ...
A. 19 August 2008: Is someone attached to someone else the guy of your dreams? I wouldn't mind betting thats not the fairy tale you was thinking of when growing up.
Just tread real careful. Other than that i dont know what to say. It all sounds really dangerous and ... (read in full...)
Are these pains the start of my period?
Q. Hi, over the last month or so, I've had really bad stomach pains under my tummy button and at the sides a bit. I asked my mum and she said it might just be a tummy bug but I know it's not, i asked my cousin who's a girl and 15, and she said it'...
A. 19 August 2008: My daughter is 11 and she has started having similar pains she's been saying. She's a skinny mini, so i dont expect her to start her periods for a couple of years yet, but i expect it is the bodies way of starting to prepare for it. Prehaps keep a ... (read in full...)
How long does an infatuation normally last?
Q. Hi, I just wanted to know how long an infatuation normally lasts. You see, I've liked this guy (by the way, he's a teacher) for four years, at first I thought it was just infatuation, but it's gone on for so long I don't know what to think anymore. ...
A. 19 August 2008: Having a crush on someone? No idea, that can last ages. But if you actually get with someone the honeymoon period is usually between 18 months and 2 yrs. So they say anyway. Think of it as like having a crush on a pop star or a doctor or something. ... (read in full...)
Made a bad decision while drunk, will she give me another chance?
Q. I met this girl at work, we got on like house on fire...After knowing her for 2 weeks i took her out and it went well,really well. The following week my cousins were going out so i invited her to come with us and she brought a freind along. Again we ...
A. 19 August 2008: I would be the same in wondering what had happened for her to not be in touch, but i also would do what your instincts are telling you to, not do anything about it til you go back to work. What a shame your off til next week! But seriously, i would ... (read in full...)
Made a bad decision while drunk, will she give me another chance?
Q. I met this girl at work, we got on like house on fire...After knowing her for 2 weeks i took her out and it went well,really well. The following week my cousins were going out so i invited her to come with us and she brought a freind along. Again we ...
A. 19 August 2008: Something doesn't sound right here. I think even though you were drunk, you knew it was rude in the least to leave you in her room for an hour while she goes and 'chats' to some other guy from work. And you did the right thing leaving in my opinion. ... (read in full...)
I feel like my choices are to settle for a man I don't love, or be alone forever. Any advice?
Q. I am a 30-year-old professional woman and I am devasted because it's been a very long time since I have had any tangible dating prospects. I'd like any advice or feedback on how to best handle this incredibly and increasingly painful situation. A...
A. 19 August 2008: Doesn't sound like theres any problem here, apart from patience.
Ask older sister is right, its not always fireworks and chemistry at first, i have found this to be true for me. Ive met guys that i didn't fancy at all at first, the more i got to k... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is still very close to his ex, and it upsets me.
Q. hi...i am a 28 yr old, and in a new relationship with this great guy i met recently. he is everything you could want in a guy. we started dating a couple of months ago and so far things were good, until one day he asked me to check his email fo...
A. 19 August 2008: Tricky one for you, but if its any consolation, i have been able to stay friends with exes and have had a couple of problems with boyfriends because of it. But the relationships ive ended i might of still had feelings for the person, but they would ... (read in full...)
Am I over-reacting? Is there more to life than text messages?
Q. Whenever my bf doesnt reply to my text messages within an hour I freak out and assume that he mustnt like me anymore or wants to break up. I dont know if this feeling is rational or not. He used to text me 24/7 and he would always reply pretty fas...
A. 19 August 2008: Then you will need to have a chat with him. It would be near on impossible for anyone on here to be able to say why your guy has slowed down on txt.
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He's in a relationship but wants to have sex with me!
Q. hey everyone. One of my friends is really attracted to me. Im attracted to him too and we like to talk to each other. We have been talking for a long time and sometimes we talk about sex and turn each other on. Well as time went on, he got a ...
A. 18 August 2008: Because he wants his cake and eat it, and is what we generally refer to as a ****
In simple terms a bad boy. He doesn't want you for girlfriend material, just a shag. Maybe his girlfriend didn't chat about sex to him when he was only a friend and ... (read in full...)
Am I over-reacting? Is there more to life than text messages?
Q. Whenever my bf doesnt reply to my text messages within an hour I freak out and assume that he mustnt like me anymore or wants to break up. I dont know if this feeling is rational or not. He used to text me 24/7 and he would always reply pretty fas...
A. 18 August 2008: This is quite over the top. I think its called post traumatic dating disorder, seriously! It was in the paper a few weeks ago. But you're on a self destruct route to wrecking the relationship, and sending yourself completely insane in the process. ... (read in full...)
He hasn't messaged me since we broke up via text on Friday!
Q. oh goodness where do i start?? well we had been seeing each other for 5 months now and exactly on the 5 month mark which was friday i felt that it needed to end. Gosh there were soo many reasons...he didnt want a relationship so then i waited fo...
A. 18 August 2008: This guy is immature and doesn't have a clue what he wants sweetheart! You have seriously had a lucky escape! I know you wont see that right now.
Everyone has to meet a bozo at some point, we all have to have our turn! Hopefully this was your only... (read in full...)
Is it really always so wrong to fall in love with someone who is in a relationship?
Q. I'm in love with a married man and he's in love with me. I told him to stay with his wife as she is devastated and wants him to stay and make things work - they have young children. Is it really always so wrong to fall in love with someone who...
A. 18 August 2008: Is it wrong? yes. But it happens doesn't it.
When i met my kids dad i got to know him over 2 yrs as we worked together. We were both married and he had 2 young sons. At that point i wouldn't of thought for a minute we would end up together! Afte... (read in full...)
Small bump + big baby = CONFUSED!
Q. heya :) well I'm 28 weeks pregnant with my first baby - a lovely little boy! :D Although everything has gone ok so far my bump is pretty small for the stage I'm at =S...alot of people have commented on how small it is in fact, some saying i will pro...
A. 18 August 2008: Could just be that you are naturally slim. If this is your first, thats more than likely. Baby could be tucked under the ribs. Scans are nutorious for being innacurate at sizeing babies, and a woman i know was told her baby was small, but he turned ... (read in full...)
Small bump + big baby = CONFUSED!
Q. heya :) well I'm 28 weeks pregnant with my first baby - a lovely little boy! :D Although everything has gone ok so far my bump is pretty small for the stage I'm at =S...alot of people have commented on how small it is in fact, some saying i will pro...
A. 18 August 2008: Could just be that you are naturally slim. If this is your first, thats more than likely. Baby could be tucked under the ribs. Scans are nutorious for being innacurate at sizeing babies, and a woman i know was told her baby was small, but he turned ... (read in full...)
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