My partner with whom I've been living for 15 yrs has asked me to leave his house (but I will not.) Does he truly love the other woman? What to do?
Q. I have been with my partner for 15 years and have lived with him for all this time. My partner has had several affairs over the last 12 years, these have always happened at time when we have been under severe pressure from other areas whether it...
A. 5 December 2007: what you haven't said do you have children together,then we can answer your question in more detail,but as you have been with him,acting as man and wife you DO NOT HAVE TO LEAVE YOUR HOME,DO NOT LEAVE ON ANY ACCOUNT AND GET YOURSELF A GOOD LAWYER... (read in full...)
What is it that he wants?
Q. Dear sexually active men, I need your help! My husband, first slowly, then suddenly, lost interest in sex. Then he went through the period of "great quiet". He would not say a thing or comment, or explain himself. I was almost convinced that h...
A. 22 October 2007: my answer would be too long for this page,i am a very active man,and i could give you a few tips for you both,if you like you can e-mail direct,and i will answer your questions,marcbhill-69@hotmail.co.uk... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to masterbate in front of him.
Q. Just a quick question. Before having sex once, my boyfriend was fingering me and he slowly guided my hand down and basically told me to sort of rub myself. I've never done that in front of anyone before so I was kinda uncomfortable and didn't. He ...
A. 17 October 2007: a lot of guys love seeing a women do this,it is a great turn on,dont be shy,2nd have your thought by watching you do,and how you like,is showing him how he can do it right for you next time,(he could be shy too)a lot of guys brag they can do it ... (read in full...)
Beads
Q. When pleasuring your partner use a necklace of beads around(a mans parts) or inside (a woman) this feels good and is very pleasurable for each other....
A. 15 October 2007: what is nicer is to get your partner to gently tie the beads around his shaft,and slowly make love to you,the responce is great for both of you... (read in full...)
My bf wants a threesome, should I do it?
Q. my bf says he wants a threesome !! is this something i should do or not ? ...
A. 15 October 2007: just wondering how things got on,is he still pressing you for a 3some,i think some of his thoughts are silly,so what if you had more parnters then,he is with you now,if he can not get his head around it,dump him,get some one to love and respect you,... (read in full...)
I'm having problems finding a partner who suits me in the bedroom because of my size!
Q. i know you might have heard this so many times,but this is true,i am very big downstairs,i have had a lot of problems trying to find a gal who can take me,or give me a good blow job,i do enjoy lots of foreplay and oral so i have no problem getting ...
A. 12 October 2007: hi phiatiger,i have done stripping too,as 1 of my many jobs,and yes that is me... (read in full...)
Legal in England for a 17 yr old girl to live with her bf, aged 21?
Q. HIYA, IS IT LEGAL IN ENGLAND FOR A 17 YEAR OLD GIRL TO LIVE WITH HER 21 YEAR OLD BOYFRIEND WITHOUT HER PARENTAL permission? [Note: caps off pls]...
A. 12 October 2007: you can leave home legally at 16,law changed 1975,but you need your parents permission to marry under 18,what you could do is invite your to meet you bf and talk,it is best to try and keep your parents happy,remember they brought you in to their ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend to shave off his pubes?
Q. GUYS! do you shave your pubes? whenever i give my boyfriend a bj i get a lot of hairs in my mouth. i said he should shave but i was kidding. should i tell him to for real? i just want to know if he is just extra hairy or what?...
A. 11 October 2007: a lot of the time i do shave it all off,i have had done in the past,let the women shave it for me,she found it a huge turn on,perhaps you should let him shave you too,you both enjoy it,it is cleaner for you both,lets us know how you get on,... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend to shave off his pubes?
Q. GUYS! do you shave your pubes? whenever i give my boyfriend a bj i get a lot of hairs in my mouth. i said he should shave but i was kidding. should i tell him to for real? i just want to know if he is just extra hairy or what?...
A. 11 October 2007: a lot of the time i do shave it all off,i have had done in the past,let the women shave it for me,she found it a huge turn on,perhaps you should let him shave you too,you both enjoy it,it is cleaner for you both,lets us know how you get on,... (read in full...)
He didn't climax during the bj! Am I crap?
Q. When I gave my boyfriend a blow job, he didn't ejaculate. Am i crap?...
A. 11 October 2007: no you are not,just try a different way,there are many ways to do a blow job,try gripping it at the base,sliding yours hands upwards slowly,placing your mouth over the helmet,and licking all the way to the base,slowly and back upwardshe has a little ... (read in full...)
Bought my boyfriend an xbox for his b-day, now he never comes off it! Should I leave him?
Q. Should I stay with my boyfriend or should i leave? I bought my bf the xbox 360 for his birthday and now he is never off the thing. We have been together now for 3 years and live together. it may sound stupid but we never go out any more and whe...
A. 11 October 2007: the answer to this very simple,1 take the x box away and hide it,2 when he is on it the next time,say nothing,go to your bedroom,dress up in your stockings,suspenders,tiny mini skirt,and ask him would you like a drink dear,or would you like to come ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to not be able to orgasm with penetration only?
Q. I have been married a month but have known my husband for 2 years. I cant orgasm with penetration on when he fingers me, is this normal? I have always assumed it is but then he gets upset with me and says its because all i want him to do is finger ...
A. 11 October 2007: a lot of women dont come through penetration,what you and your partner could try is bring you to a orgasm either using his fingers,oral or toys(thats if you like using them,once you have come,get him to start again to bring you to another one,when ... (read in full...)
Body confidence issues
Q. im 16 and yesterday i went to buy a nice bra and i was so self conscious, i thought people were giving me looks as i have no . how do i get my to grow?...
A. 11 October 2007: you are still young,all gals bodies are different,some grow faster,but you are you,and that is what is special,a lot of men enjoy small busted gals,so dont worry about it,wait and see what happens,take care... (read in full...)
My husband and stepson have physically abused me. I want to leave, but fear hurting the children we have together. And where would I stand financially?
Q. I have been married for 17rs and have suffered some physical abuse from my husband and from my stepson, whom my husband stuck up for. We no longer have any common interests and i need the courage to leave but am frightened to lose everything. We ...
A. 11 October 2007: welll,what you should is firstly see a solictor,you we get legal aid,he we get you a court order,to remove both your husband and stepson from the house,also get the police involed,press charges,DONT NOT BACK DOWN BY DROPPING THEM LATER,YOU HAVE 2 ... (read in full...)
WHY do people masturbate?
Q. Hi this may sound really stupid but its always been something i'd like to know the answer to. Why do people, both men and women masturbate? Are there any particular reason why they do it? I have before and i've never known why mainly just because i ...
A. 10 October 2007: many people masturbate,at all ages too,it relaxes them,takes pressure away,and makes you feel bloody great,many women like to see men masturbate in font of them,thinking of seeing them is a great turn,i love to see a women do it,it is nice turn for ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know the legal age?
Q. ive got a question... if you've read my other page about me and my lover's age difference you will know that I love a man who is 34 and i'm 15 I live in Ontario Canada and I'm just wondering what the age is that I have to wait until to have a sexual ...
A. 9 October 2007: well the answer to your question,is 18 in canada.i take it you bf knows your 15,which if he does anything,it is classed a rape,can you not find anybody your own age,... (read in full...)
I'm having problems finding a partner who suits me in the bedroom because of my size!
Q. i know you might have heard this so many times,but this is true,i am very big downstairs,i have had a lot of problems trying to find a gal who can take me,or give me a good blow job,i do enjoy lots of foreplay and oral so i have no problem getting ...
A. 8 October 2007: thanks phiatiger.i will take your reply,and your if only,lol... (read in full...)
My daughter said my partner of 7 yrs tried to take a photo of her in the shower. He says he "walked in" texting me not realising someone else was there. I want to believe both!
Q. I have been with my partner for 7 years and thought evrything was great after being in a bad marriage. Tonight my 19year old daughter sent me a txt saying he tried to take a photo of her in the shower . When i challenged him about it he said he was ...
A. 5 October 2007: does your daughter get on well with him,if so why would your daughter lie,i have to tell you he is lying to you,dont trust him,trust you daughter,... (read in full...)
My bf wants a threesome, should I do it?
Q. my bf says he wants a threesome !! is this something i should do or not ? ...
A. 5 October 2007: when a bf wants a 3some,it will mean only 1 thing,him and 2 gals,it you say to him you and 2 guys,99 times out of 100 he will say no way,ask him why,he would be scared,in case the other guy,is bigger,better,you might enjoy the other guy more,so i ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time with a suspicious man?
Q. my man whom i love very clearly is always looking for some kind of evidence that i have or i am cheating,its now becoming a problem.i can honestly say ive never physicaly or mentaly had an affair with no one since we got together,but he seems to ...
A. 5 October 2007: any man,i believe me has 2 phones and wont tell you anything,is cheating on you,he is judging you by his standards,dump him,you can and will do better,you are answerable to no one who treats you like that,trust me,... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me (other than being a pig for treating my wife this way)?
Q. Feels like I've fallen in Love for the first time in my life...but i've been married for over twenty years... It all started about five years ago (im 41 years old now)...my wife and I had been becoming too distant...it was more than the two of us ...
A. 28 September 2007: you must talk to your wife,tell her how you feel,but if you are still unhappy,sounds like you are,but what you should do is dont jump into a another womens arm,leave your wife,be single for a while,you have got to sort yourself out,mentally.... (read in full...)
She's 21 now, but when she was 15 she had sex with her teacher! What should I do?
Q. I'm stuck for what to do. I've been with my girlfriend a few years now, and a few months ago we told each other's deepest secret (Here I was thinking it would be an interesting game to play, but really didn't expect anything like she told me). ...
A. 28 September 2007: firstly this has happen before you met her,enjoy who she is now,we all have a past,good and bad,but you must trust her.if she needs to talk about,listen,do not bad mouth her,she is with you,if the teacher still tries to get in touch,what i would do ... (read in full...)
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