Small bump + big baby = CONFUSED!
Q. heya :) well I'm 28 weeks pregnant with my first baby - a lovely little boy! :D Although everything has gone ok so far my bump is pretty small for the stage I'm at =S...alot of people have commented on how small it is in fact, some saying i will pro...
A. 18 August 2008: Could just be that you are naturally slim. If this is your first, thats more than likely. Baby could be tucked under the ribs. Scans are nutorious for being innacurate at sizeing babies, and a woman i know was told her baby was small, but he turned ... (read in full...)
Small bump + big baby = CONFUSED!
Q. heya :) well I'm 28 weeks pregnant with my first baby - a lovely little boy! :D Although everything has gone ok so far my bump is pretty small for the stage I'm at =S...alot of people have commented on how small it is in fact, some saying i will pro...
A. 18 August 2008: Could just be that you are naturally slim. If this is your first, thats more than likely. Baby could be tucked under the ribs. Scans are nutorious for being innacurate at sizeing babies, and a woman i know was told her baby was small, but he turned ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to show my ex I still like him without making a fool of myself...
Q. My boyfriend and I recently split up and I want him back.He like's someone else but still likes me a bit.I really dont know how to show i like him without making a fool of myself.Does anyone know any good tips on getting your ex boyfriend back. T...
A. 18 August 2008: If he is chasing after someone else then i would let it go and move on.
I agree with Kinkyboots about remembering the bad times and why you split. We all tend to see our ex through rose tinted glasses. The mind plays cruel tricks. Ive got back with... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't do anything, and I'm the one providing for him - do I drop him or ride it out?
Q. ok this might be a hard one for anyone to answer.i went out with someone from h a (hells angels) and i was due my tattoo.in the mean time i met some1 else and took my time to dump my h a partner cuz the fort is only down the road where i live. m...
A. 18 August 2008: Heres an idea, why not be on your own for a while?
I dont get why people either have to be with one guy or the other. Its ok to be single!
No i wouldn't be supporting a guy. If he isn't living with you, then make sure until he can support himself,... (read in full...)
My future boyfriend's close girlfriend makes me uncomfortable! Will he cheat again?
Q. my boyfriend cheated on me, and a couple years later we are thinking of getting back together again. we never were able to stop caring about each other completely though we had other relationships. i trust him. when girls flirt, i dont get upset, ...
A. 17 August 2008: I would not get back with him if it was me personally. Sounds like he's still immature and likes a lot of female attention maybe? what with all the pet names n that. All sounds quite immature, and lets face it, it is, you're all only teens.
You woul... (read in full...)
Is this doctor "slumming"?
Q. Help not sure if he is slumming!!. I met a man that I like very much.One problem , he is a doctor who is very busy with work. I am a single mom of 3 .He lives in a gorgeous huge house!!..I live in a 2 family .We have a great time when we are toge...
A. 17 August 2008: Hey dont put yourself down! This guy probably really likes you because you are down to earth and a family person! No matter what job someone has got, its not always about money and status!
I will tell you a story which is completely true and biza... (read in full...)
I can't get deep enough into his life to see where I stand! How can I get some real answers here?
Q. Ok, I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years and all of a sudden i feel insecure about our relationship. It's all because it's hard to know what he is doing on a day to day basis-not 24.7. but anything. We live together and he never tells me ...
A. 17 August 2008: He's a person that likes to always keep something back. He's not an upfront and honest person is he, so its setting you on edge? Its very hard to trust these kinds of guys, and i'm taking my hat off to you for managing it for 5 yrs!
They never quit... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I want to have a relationship and risk scaring him off? I want to know where I stand!
Q. I am casually seeing a man who I have developed strong feelings for. Because we began as friends, rather than officially dating, I'm confused as to where I stand with him. He has been over to my house a few times, and we've flirted, kissed and ...
A. 17 August 2008: I would ask him. Chances are he is just going with the flow at the moment and seeing where it heads to. My mate has just started seeing a girl and they are in the same situation as you 2. I asked him the other day whats happening, he said they are ... (read in full...)
I'm a very insecure man and I lied to her about really stupid stuff. Do I have a chance with her?
Q. I have worked with this woman for two years. We finally met in April and immediatly started to date. I am a very, very insecure man and I lied about some really stupid stuff. She found out one by one (there were three) and each time I told here ...
A. 17 August 2008: You haven't said why you lied in the first place and what about. Was it because you was scared it would spoil things between you two? But the trouble with people that have an ability to lie is it has you thinking if their first instinct is to lie, ... (read in full...)
What makes a player fall for a girl and stop playing the game? And do they ever feel guilty or even have a heart?
Q. What makes a player fall for a girl and stop playing the game? I recently ran into a guy I thought was sweet..then red flags came up to show that he was playing games with me. I started liking him, but because of his behavior (it's not consiste...
A. 16 August 2008: They are nutorious for not doing what they say. The saying actions speak louder than words was invented with playas in mind i'm convinced of it.
You were at a vulnerable time and thats another good radar system they have finely tuned i'm afra... (read in full...)
My heart is broken, at the very lest I thought we would be friends. Now I don't know what to do???
Q. Long story short, I worked with a a young woman for about two years. During that time we fell in love, or maybe just I did. During the time we worked together we would talk online at nights, text each other throughout the day and even a few times ...
A. 16 August 2008: If you work together, can you not speak to her there if she refuses to answer your txt or calls?
You do deserve to be told the truth. But if she has decided to give the marriage another go, then why would she want to stay friends? Thats not givi... (read in full...)
My husband is a wonderful man but I think of him as a best friend or a brother, should I give up on my marriage?
Q. I have been married for a year and a half. My husband is a wonderful man and would do anything for me. The problem is, I think of him more as a best friend/brother than my husband. We share everything but I have to admit that I have no physical ...
A. 16 August 2008: I feel for you because ive been in the exact same situation myself. And i didn't want to cheat either.
I ended up going to counselling in the end because he was such a lovely guy, that i WANTED to love him like i used to again. But alas, the coun... (read in full...)
How can I make him realize I love him? I think we should get back together!
Q. Basically. My guy split with me, and I am still desperately in love with him. But he keeps avoiding me and I need to speak to himm. He needs to realise how desperately in love with him I am! I actually need himmm more than anythingg. Anyway I need ...
A. 16 August 2008: Why would he? Did he not know before then? and if not how come?
Alarm bells are ringing a bit here, maybe he found you a bit full on, intense for him?
If he is avoiding you, it definately comes across that way.
Chill a bit. If its meant to be,... (read in full...)
I plan to relocate to be near him even though he just wants a sexual relationship for now. What do you think?
Q. I am getting a divorce because it was aweful marrage. I also reunited with a old flame from 12 years ago. he has had 3 really bad marriage and wants to take it slow with me and make sure that our kids get along his family loves me and has known me...
A. 16 August 2008: How does a sexual relationship work if you are so far from each other? In other words he probably wants attention full stop.
I dont think i would relocate for sex no! Awful marriage or not. That isn't really relivant is it? This guys been marr... (read in full...)
What makes a player fall for a girl and stop playing the game? And do they ever feel guilty or even have a heart?
Q. What makes a player fall for a girl and stop playing the game? I recently ran into a guy I thought was sweet..then red flags came up to show that he was playing games with me. I started liking him, but because of his behavior (it's not consiste...
A. 16 August 2008: Hi
No i dont think hearts come into it with playas, although i'm surprised he let you walk away. A common symptom with a playa is they like the chase, and usually lose interest when they have got the woman. I have a mate thats a playa. He admi... (read in full...)
I love him and I want to trust him, but he's making it extremely difficult?!...
Q. I trust my husband and I don't doubt him normally, but over the past few weeks he's been making it really hard. He's a truck driver and drives a lot at night so he sees hookers and they approach him. That doesn't bother me, but when I ask him what ...
A. 16 August 2008: Theres obviously a bit in him that likes to keep a little something back, not very open maybe? And thats the bit you dont trust about him. I could be wrong, just what i'm picking up on.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I love him and I want to trust him, but he's making it extremely difficult?!...
Q. I trust my husband and I don't doubt him normally, but over the past few weeks he's been making it really hard. He's a truck driver and drives a lot at night so he sees hookers and they approach him. That doesn't bother me, but when I ask him what ...
A. 14 August 2008: Sounds like he's a bit of a wind up merchant! Apart from that it doesn't seem like you have any reason to worry that he's up to anything, apart from the fact that in his job, if he wants to be, he can be!
Must be tough having a hubby that driv... (read in full...)
The guy I'm seeing tells me that hes not happy with his wife and the marriage is only on paper to him and she is just a roommate?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. He is married and i knew that the day i met him. Ive known him longer than ive been seeing him. I am in love with him and i know for sure he is my future. He was the one to say I love you first and ...
A. 14 August 2008: Hi
What fun, a wife and a girlfriend, what a charmer!
He told you he loved you first... oh wait..slaps palm on forehead.
Im willing to bet a huuuuuuuge sum of money on him never actually telling his wife about you at all. Otherwise there would ... (read in full...)
My 11 year old is ill and I'm supposed to be in court... she says she will be fine but...?
Q. Today could only get slightly worse, but not much. I have been up since 3am with my 11 yr old daughter. She has been sick twice. Some sort of tummy bug. At 2pm i'm suppose to be in court at a hearing to put £1000 charge order on my exes house th...
A. 14 August 2008: There must be someone up there testing me but looking out for me it seems hehe
Panic over, she hasn't been sick for about 3 hours now, and she says she feels fine now and is back to her jolly self so i dont know what that was all about! Prob... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in a mess after he took someone's car.
Q. what must i do my boyfriend is in a big mess,he took someone's car just to please a fling woman to take her home,i found out about this after it happened and he told me the whole truth and i did forgave him but after punishing him. my problem is ...
A. 14 August 2008: Had he been drinking at the time? What would posess someone to steal someone elses car to give some floozie a lift home. I assume she knew it was nicked too? In which case get her to pony up some doe!
Cant really see that you are being selfish. I th... (read in full...)
Is it wise to be thinking of having a relationship with a man that is divorced twice?
Q. is it wise to be thinking of having a relationship with a man that is divorced twice?...
A. 14 August 2008: Hi
I wouldn't be too concerned if it was me. But then i got married at 18, split at 21, then spent 9 yrs with someone else. I could of married the next guy, and divorced him too. But i would like to think i'm not a bad gamble to date! hehe. Mayb... (read in full...)
I've never been a needy person, so I'm not expecting him to spend every minute with me...
Q. Hello I need some help here, I have been dating this guy for almost 6 months, we are exclusive to eachother and we have strong feelings for each other. we live one hour and a half appart in train so that's why we will see eachother normally 2 times ...
A. 14 August 2008: Hi
I bet he will want to see more of you when you move nearer no doubt about that. You have both had to get used to the way it is at the moment, but thats going to change.
Will be fun!
C xxxx... (read in full...)
I've discovered my friend isn't my friend, but she owes me money.
Q. I have a friend. Well she is no longer my friend now. But anyway, when we were friends just a few days ago, she had a go at me for no reason and when i reproached her for it the next day, she pretended it hadnt happened, and when i told her exactly ...
A. 13 August 2008: My mum has a friend like you have, and she is just as sarcastic. And is a very bad ear if my mum ever has problems which is very rare. I think its jealousy myself. Ive got a lovely mum of 59 with her looks still in tact, doesn't smoke or drink, a ... (read in full...)
His ex split us up - how do I get him back?
Q. im a 33 year old female who's ex is 46. his ex always text and calls him even though he has told her to stop, she does for about 2 months and starts again he responds and is really mean to me, always starting a fight to have a reason to dumped me ...
A. 13 August 2008: Just read kinkyboots, and it sounds similar to my ex. The annoying calls and txt at 3am. Only my ex had 'good' excuses to not tell her where to go, one of them being she could stitch him up with the tax man etc etc. Needless to say when we split a ... (read in full...)
I want a baby but I'm concerned about giving it a good life. I'm thinking maybe we should live off state benefits. Am I being naive?
Q. Hello, I am 22, and happily married. Been married for a year, We both work full time, rent a lovely house and love each other very much. My problem is that at the moment, i can't stop thinking about having a baby! At the moment, we could afford a...
A. 13 August 2008: If you wait til you can afford to have a baby, you will never have 1. Thats what i was always told anyway. Its thousands and thousands of pounds we spend on children in the first 18 yrs of their lives. Who can honestly say they can ever afford ... (read in full...)
His ex split us up - how do I get him back?
Q. im a 33 year old female who's ex is 46. his ex always text and calls him even though he has told her to stop, she does for about 2 months and starts again he responds and is really mean to me, always starting a fight to have a reason to dumped me ...
A. 13 August 2008: Why do you want him back? He wanted the best of both worlds and manipulated you for over 2 yrs.
What a bozo, surely she is welcome to him?
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Should I worry? Or am I just being too critical?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for 9 months. But the other day I found out that she has slept with another man after we were together. It was about a month into our relationship. And it was when I was out of town and some guy she had had ...
A. 13 August 2008: I can see your dillema here for sure. And i can see what she is saying too.
I had met a guy yrs ago, swapped numbers, txt a couple of times, then slept with someone i had been chatting to for some months, then met up with the other guy again a coup... (read in full...)
She was gving me the wrong signals. How do you fall out of love with someone?
Q. I'm crazy about this young lady, I told her how I feel, but she told me that she only wants to be friends. I really thought she had feelings for me as well, but it turns out that she was giving me wrong signals. I'm now left feeling very sad...
A. 13 August 2008: That sucks ey. Well, if she didn't jump into bed with you and didn't say anything about wanting to give a relationship a go, then you have picked up the wrong signals, rather than her giving them off.
Its difficult to ask someone outright if they... (read in full...)
Not knowing what to do is tearing me apart!!
Q. Hi. I love my ex-girlfriend so much and we're still friends and still sleep together occasionally. I know we probably shouldnt, but hey im a man and struggle to say no. I'm constantly thinking about her and yet ive had other girlfriends since i ...
A. 13 August 2008: You're never going to move on with the way things are. Either of you. And how unfair is sleeping with the ex on other women you are meeting up with?
Stop the sex, and if you feel you need to for now, just stay mates and dont have it so intense! Othe... (read in full...)
She just broke up with a long term boyfriend but still talks to him on the phone and stuff. Should I make my move?
Q. So, I'm 15 and have never had a girlfriend or been kissed or even held a girls hand. I dont think im that bad looking, and i have plenty of good friends who are girls. Theres this one girl that i really like and we get on fine, but she just broke up ...
A. 13 August 2008: I would stay friends and see what happens about the ex. Exes can be a nightmare, believe me, even at my age ive still had to put up with persistant exes when dating a guy, and i would personally steer clear of anyone thats just split from a partner ... (read in full...)
Ex-girlfriend pushing me away, is she right?
Q. hey, It's been a month and a half since my gf and I broke up after 9 months. We were friends before we dated. We're still in contact but it feels like she's pushing me away. Whenever i text her i'll get short, vague replies if she replies. ...
A. 13 August 2008: She's moving on. You're not an item anymore, so you cant expect the essay txt us women tend to send to our partners quite soon after we receive one. Everyone else friends wise, gets one line answers when we have a spare 5 mins. You have split now, ... (read in full...)
My husband left me and moved in with another woman straight away. He can't seem to make up his mind. Help!
Q. Hi, My husband left me and moved in with another women straight away that he had known for about 10 weeks. We have 2 children 7 and 8 years. He said at first he needed time to think, but now they have moved into another house together with her 5 ...
A. 13 August 2008: The guys having a second wind! Mid life crisis. Hasn't known this woman 5 minutes and moved in with her already? What kind of mature adult does that unless they have taken leave of their senses. Is it certain he hasn't long known her?
I would put ... (read in full...)
Says he's too busy to meet... so sad
Q. Hi.. I have a text/phone call/IM relationship going on with a guy who says he has feelings for me. Trouble, he says he works 7 days a week and long hours and don't have the time to meet. I asked him once if he could just meet me for 10 mins.. and at ...
A. 13 August 2008: Its possible that he just doesn't want a full on normal relationship that he will have to give time to. Its easier txting and chatting on msn isn't it. I would move on. If you are looking for a 'proper' adult relationship, this doesn't sound like ya ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him even though he still wants to be with me?
Q. I still have feelings for my ex boyfriend who I was with for 6 1/2 years and we just broke up 2 months ago. I told me current boyfriend this and he still wants to be with me?!?!But I don't feel right staying with him when I have feelings for som...
A. 12 August 2008: Um why did you get with him in the first place? 6 yr relationship ending, surely its obvious a person needs time to recover from that, especially if you know you still have feelings for the ex. I never understand how people get into new ... (read in full...)
Is he taking advantage of me?!
Q. Is this taking advantage? I have lent someone money, they are my best friend and he needed help, and the deal was to pay back once a month but this month he couldn't afford it so I said it was ok to miss this month and he was very grateful but now...
A. 11 August 2008: No you weren't! Hopefully he will learn to treat people with a bit more respect. Depending on what sort of person he is. No one has the right to be out on the piss when they owe someone money. End of. And you need to ask yourself how his mate owes ... (read in full...)
He keeps breaking my heart, but I cant seem to let him go. please help..
Q. im still seeing my ex man. He had a girlfriend, but they broke up, but he recently moved back in with her for personal reasons, but i think they are still together, i saw them together 3 different occasions, so i told him i dont want to see him ...
A. 10 August 2008: You're addicted. Stop being a fool and never speak to him again. Its as simple or as complex as you want to make it.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Did I fall in love with a slut without knowing it?
Q. Alright, My girlfriend and I sort of met one night while we were both out drinking, we ended up having sex that night, either of us knew anything about each other really more than our names. Yes, a one night stand. We both were extremely dr...
A. 10 August 2008: Hey dont sweat about it. I am 37 and have partied like there's no tomorrow in the last 7 yrs. It doesnt mean i am not ready now to settle down and put all that meaningless crap behind me and want to find Mr Right. I cant think of anything worse now ... (read in full...)
Need Birth Control Solutions--Please help!
Q. My boyfriend finds it hard to use condoms because most of the time he loses his erection just after he puts one on. Because of this we tried me going the pill. However, four months ago while on the pill, I became pregnant and had a miscarriage at...
A. 9 August 2008: Have the coil fitted! I cant take hormonal contraceptives, ive had treatment for abnormal cells of the cervix so had to stop the pill. Ive tried the injection, Implanon implant in the arm, mini pill, ive tried them all. But anything with hormones in ... (read in full...)
Why do I hate sex?
Q. I am so ashamed of this issue I have with sex that it ruins every relationship i have. I love being with the person doing things with him but i hate sex it makes me feel sick and i always want to cry. I love the idea of having sex then when we start ...
A. 9 August 2008: Hi Katy
Are you sure its not just because you haven't met anyone that you have sexual chemistry with yet? I mean, i have to admit, its been about 7 yrs since ive had sexual chemistry with someone, and i have had sex with a few in the last 7 yrs!... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is disrespecting me--he says I'm being unreasonable. Help?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year. He cheated on me last winter with his ex girlfriend which i have never fully got over. He still wants to meet up with her(just to chat as friends) and often talks to girls in an ...
A. 9 August 2008: Er no! This is not normal, and alarm bells are ringing because you know damn well its not normal! You're letting this guy take the piss, and so is his ex. And wheres her female solidarity??!! My ex had some woman cook him lobster at hers last ... (read in full...)
Has anyone stayed friends with an ex?
Q. Hi I would like to know of any success stories of keeping friends with an ex. Me and my ex wouldn't work and split a while ago. Its about as civilised as needs to be now i think, and we are both pretty much sorted as singletons and moving onto gett...
A. 9 August 2008: Hmmm well i think we fall somewhere in the middle of what you have said. I think we have some kind of connection still, but its very limited and are both aware that we just wouldnt work. We have been through the rough times after, slagging each oter ... (read in full...)
Is he taking advantage of me?!
Q. Is this taking advantage? I have lent someone money, they are my best friend and he needed help, and the deal was to pay back once a month but this month he couldn't afford it so I said it was ok to miss this month and he was very grateful but now...
A. 8 August 2008: How much money are we talking here?
There is such a thing as small claims court, for amounts under 5k, and you dont have to have the loan in writing. You both go along and the judge decides if he owes you money based on the facts. If he doesn't go, ... (read in full...)
Did I fall in love with a slut without knowing it?
Q. Alright, My girlfriend and I sort of met one night while we were both out drinking, we ended up having sex that night, either of us knew anything about each other really more than our names. Yes, a one night stand. We both were extremely dr...
A. 6 August 2008: Thats why people say its better to get to know someone before getting into a relationship. Although i dont think how many previous partners she had makes any odds.
Past is past. Shame to ruin something you say is so good over something like this... (read in full...)
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