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Does this guy want me back or not?

Q.   PLease can anyone give me their advice on my dilemma... Me and my ex have now been split up for 2 months. Th reason we split was because we drifted apart and were having arguments, and then to top it off he found messages on my phone from someo...

A.   6 August 2007: Time will tell and thats the hard part. waiting. maybe he was distant bc he was going away. he likes you but it sounds like u need to show u are trustworthy again.... (read in full...)

I'm 24 and married... how do I become friends with this guy I like without either of us thinking the other wants more?

Q.   hi i am 24 and have been married for just under 1 year i love my husband to bits and cant imagine being with out him. but there is a guy i would like to be friends with he works round the corner from our house and he always smiles and says hi. i ...

A.   6 August 2007: why did nt u tell him u are married? I think this has danger written allover it! Only talk to him if your husband is around (other than a quick hello) and tell ur husband theres a nice neighbour and maybe invite him over for a drink IF your husband ... (read in full...)

Feel self conscious about my 30aa chest! Would going on the pill help?

Q.   me and my boyfriend lost our viginity to each other recently and have only had sex twice together and he said to me you dont like me touching your front do you and its because ive never taken my top off in front of him due to having 30aa bra size ...

A.   6 August 2007: The pill can increase appetite and then ull be bigger all over. if ur talking about birth control. Or do you mean those pills that help ur boobs grow? I heard that THEY really do work but that its water retention, so wen u stop taking them itll go ... (read in full...)

I feel so down lately. I feel really bad about myself, and feel I am rubbish at everything...

Q.   hey people, I really need your help. I feel so down lately. I feel really bad about myself, and feel I am rubbish at everything. There is not a lot I am good at at all plus I hate being around people - even family because it makes me feel ...

A.   5 August 2007: Sounds like depression. You could have just mild depression, or more check it out at the doc if it bothers you. No one should think feeling this way all the time is OK. ... (read in full...)

I don't know what's going on inside my craaazy head!! Think I might have some kind of personality disorder?

Q.   hello peeps. Need a bit of advice. I don't know what's going on inside my craaazy head!! Think I might have some kind of personality disorder? One minute I am so so happy and think I'm the luckiest girl alive, next minute I'm the most depressed ...

A.   5 August 2007: hmm could be just a hormone thing. But it could be something like an anxiety disorder or bipolar. You dont say much so its hartd to judge like that. But the mood shifts are one symptom of a mental disorder...that DOESNT MEAN U HAVE ONE THO!! you ... (read in full...)

Why do I keep thinking about them when their unobtainable now?

Q.   I went out with this guy for about 3 months last May. He then moved to America and that was the last I heard. I became besotted and a bit obsessed and still look at his myspace every day which makes me feel like poo. Then I met another guy in ...

A.   5 August 2007: OMG we have the same problem EXACTLY!!! lol...i dont know how to help u but id like to chat with u!! :)... (read in full...)

I really like this boy, but there is a problem. He is 4 years older then me. Is 4 years age difference too long?

Q.   I really like this boy, but there is a problem. He is 4 years older then me. Is 4 years age difference too long?...

A.   5 August 2007: I dated a guy that was 3 years older than me. I was 17, he was 20. when youre older it is less of a problem bc u have gone past most hurdles in life and things start to even out, but even at that age, and i see u are a lot younger...it is too much ... (read in full...)

How old should I be before I get a boyfriend?

Q.   I'm going into middle school. How old should I be to have a boyfreind? Not to kiss or anything, but just to talk to and hold hands....

A.   3 August 2007: I was 13. But i think there's no harm in any age around there. If you are 10 or 11 it is a little too early, even if your friends are doing it. But just to say you have a bf thats special to you and u hang out with and talk about with your friends ... (read in full...)

My ex is giving me majorly mixed signals, please help me figure him out!

Q.   Mixed Signals!! DECODE!!! My ex boyfriend whom i still talk with everyday (its a long distance thing) says things that confuse me. Can you tell me what you think this all means: " You're hot. youre better looking than that girl. why would i care...

A.   3 August 2007: Yes ex...but the only reason he is an ex is because he had to move with his family. They all moved there. We werent dating long enough for him to stay just for me. So that is why i feel we still have a chance if he comes back. But i agree with the ... (read in full...)

My ex is giving me majorly mixed signals, please help me figure him out!

Q.   Mixed Signals!! DECODE!!! My ex boyfriend whom i still talk with everyday (its a long distance thing) says things that confuse me. Can you tell me what you think this all means: " You're hot. youre better looking than that girl. why would i care...

A.   2 August 2007: Yes he has said that he doesnt want me to wait and i have been acting a bit impatient and um almost desperate for him to come back...which also may turn him off so i think you may be right...hlskitten. Also may i add that he isnt the type to say i ... (read in full...)

I keep having sexual thoughts about my ex boyfriend, what should I do about it?

Q.   hey i am 22,please help me with this.... recently i broke up with my bf,but i am kind of suffering from sexual thoughts that keeps popping and i get wet.Though we just shared some kind of physical intimacy and never had sex. I just cannot get myself ...

A.   2 August 2007: Masterbate first and see if that helps. There is nothing wrong with getting turned on! And getting wet is what your body does when youre horny!! If you are both single and you want to have sex with him to get it over with i say go for it! Than maybe ... (read in full...)

I am trying to be ok with his porn viewing, but am having a hard time with it

Q.   I can't stand it when my boyfriend looks at porn on the internet. He says he does it because they do things that I dont really do, like deep throat. I know that he is a guy and most guys masturbate to porn but then again, I wanna be a cool ...

A.   2 August 2007: You dont have to worry about being cool. I know how you feel. Hes pressuring you. For him to say that he likes to watch it because its not what you do is just a tactless way of asking you to do those things. Even if you did those things the porn ... (read in full...)

He doesn't even eat them!

Q.   what should i do if all my boyfriend ever talks about is fruit and vegetables?...

A.   1 August 2007: I need more info..hahaa...why does this bother you? I have no idea why he would talk about this... what does he say about them? What do you eat? What are your eating habits?... (read in full...)

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