New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244966 questions, 1084314 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap
*uzzled agony aunt

*uzzled

Ireland  (Female   XML/RSS

Like what she writes?
... Add *uzzled to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *uzzled a private message

*uzzled's Ratings
Excellent67%
Average14%
Poor19%
*uzzled's profile:

im 17 frm ireland .love to hear and help other ppl wi der problems im a bad typer(spellings)as i jus type wile i have an answer in my head! any questions message me straight away im glad to help! ill get typing bk stright away! RATE ME TOO plz tanx for reading xxxxxxxx

I'm worried about him, he keeps getting sick since his accident.

Q.   Recently my boyfriend went to the hospital over an injury with his head from a canoeing trip. He went for scans to look for blood clots etc. It came out that he had none so they don't actually know what is wrong with him. But when he was in there ...

A.   19 August 2007: The thing is the doctors ran lots tests and havent a notion what is wrong with him.They said the sickness is normel but i dont believe them. Im going away monday and want to be sure he will be alright before i leave as i do not want to be worried on ... (read in full...)

He could not get it in.

Q.   ok i usually know this but um well me and my boyfriend tried having sex today see we were fine we had our clothes on but that shouldnt matter we knew where it went he was fingering me and well we just couldnt get it in? this is both our first time ...

A.   18 August 2007: well for starters it is illegal to have sex. legel age is 16 and i think its older in usa!.. this is caused usually from not been relaxed or your body jusy tellin you its not ready at this moment xxx... (read in full...)

What should a wife do when her husband is going to prostitutes?

Q.   What should a wife do when her husband is going to prostitutes?...

A.   12 August 2007: confront him straight away! its obvious he dont love you and using you. dont let men think your a walk over because you NOT! dump immediatly! and start fresh. There are plenty fish in the sea xxx... (read in full...)

Do you have to get rid of chlamydia in order to become pregnant?

Q.   i wanted to know if you have chlamydia which is an sti can you still get pregnant or do you have to get rid of it first...

A.   10 August 2007: i suggest to get rid of it as soon as possible.chlamydia the sti can be passed threw in jeqans and is likey u can pass it on to an unborn child. you can get pregnant wit chlamydia but i highly recomend u see your local gp to get rid of it, hope i ... (read in full...)

Is it safe to have sex while pregnant?

Q.   Hello everyone :) currently i am in my 2 week wait, and yes it is killing me. I have 6 more days to go to see if my period comes. My husband will be back from a business trip on friday, so we would want to have sex, would it be safe for the implated ...

A.   10 August 2007: sex is a good thing during pregnancy, doctors have said it has known to bring on the labour jus like pinapple. as u are due in 6 days i would not recomend rough sex as a good idea. hope i help and cograts all d best xxx... (read in full...)

Help, I think I might be pregnant!

Q.   I need your help whether i might be pregnant. Well i thought i might be so i took two pregnacy test and they both came up negative.Then i waited till 5 days after my missed period and that one also came up saying not pregnant. Now im not sure when ...

A.   10 August 2007: some times stress causes your period also to become late if u are worried dont hesitate to see your doc about this matter to find out for sure good luck xxx... (read in full...)

I'm getting hair extensions and I've been told that 100 pieces of pre bonded individual hair is enough for a full head? Do you think this is right?

Q.   Hey, I'm looking for some advice so I don't waste my money. I'm getting hair extensions and I've been told that 100 pieces of pre bonded individual hair is enough for a full head? Do you think this is right? Any help would be apreciated as so...

A.   10 August 2007: heya hun, hair extensions are a lovely idea, bonded ones are nice but if ye havent had them before i would not recomend them. prehaps clip in ones would be more suitable and much cheaper. and also can be used over and over. hope i helped xxx... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and I'm scared to have sex with my 17 year old boyfriend; he wants me to get pregnant!

Q.   i am a 14 year old girl and i am going out with a seventeen year old boy and i am stuck in a situation because he wants to have sex with me but im scared because i do not no what to do when having sex!!and he said that he wants to get me pregnant ...

A.   10 August 2007: its illegal for u to be having sex ! he odvouisly does not respect u for hu u r , dump him! his to old for u. your body not able for kids at ur age so defo get rid of him ! xxx... (read in full...)

She told me she was a virgin but when we had sex she didn't bleed; is it true your hymen can break in other ways?

Q.   Hi i have a question my gf told me that she was a virgin when we first did it she didnt bleed she said that it can break at anytime not only when sex she had done Karate and other sports could this be true?she also said that you can even break it ...

A.   10 August 2007: a girls heman can break many ways(tampons, horse riding, gym, athlethics, sports) many more! so trust ur gf in wat she says. not all girls bleed xxx... (read in full...)

Sex was too painful for my virgin girlfriend so we stopped; how can I help her stop feeling like she failed me?

Q.   Me and my gf decided we were gonna have sex last other night but when we started it was hurting her and she said she wanted to stop for now so we did. I told her we could stop at any point and that i wouldn't think any less of her. We have been ...

A.   10 August 2007: your first time is always awkward dont be pressured about it, no one is a failiure in dis situation. take it easy breathe and relax(relaxation helps the vagina becum nore loose and able to push the penis in easyier) slowly do it. after about your ... (read in full...)

Is it ok to be a virgin the rest of your life and not be with any body ?

Q.   Is it ok to be a virgin the rest of your life until i die and not be with any body ? i am only in my 20's and since the time i was in my teens i decided not to be with anybody . this guy i know at my job says that i am crazy and then he said what ...

A.   10 August 2007: totally up to u chicken! dont mind work mates. your family and friends dont mind b/c they respect u 4 hu u are and not if u have sex or stay single. ur yung u might change yer mind jus keep an open thight on wat u want in life. hope i help xxx... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin at 18 because i want to wait for the right person, is this a silly idea?

Q.   Hi, I'm a virgin at 18, because I'm waiting for the right person to have my first time with. Do you think this is a silly thing to do, and that I should have done it differently? I've had the opportunity to, but would rather have it with another ...

A.   10 August 2007: sensible defo not silly. thats a romantic thing witch sud hapen between two ppl who love and care for each other i think your idea of waitin for "mr right" is a GREAT idea and fair play to you doing so! xxx... (read in full...)

Is it ok for a virgin to use a sex toy?

Q.   Is it ok for me a virgin to use a sex toy or doll or do i need experience with these things ? like with a vibrator i have never put anything inside me like tampons so i am not sure if i should put a vibrator in me . the only person who put something ...

A.   10 August 2007: its perfectly natual to use sex toys before having sex vibraters are a great starter and if you want can be used any time. good luck wi your issue hun xxx... (read in full...)

36, still a virgin and have no desire for sex! Am I strange?

Q.   I am 36 years old and still a virgin! I have never had any desire to have sex with anybody! I have never seen a real life woman naked (and have no desire to do so, and I am definitely not Gay!!!) Please can you tell me why people have a deisre for ...

A.   10 August 2007: Of course yer not strange this probley how u feel at this stage in yer life. if ye feel like nothing going change your mind stay that way, sex is a pleasurable activity there is also no harm on trying just to see how u feel on the matter as ye cant ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my mum I'm not a virgin anymore?

Q.   how do i tell my mum im not a virgen anymore? she thinks i am. and keep going on about how bad it is. but i want to tell her. i tel her everything. and i dont want her hating my bf. i want her to trust me still even though i did something i ...

A.   10 August 2007: your mam only doing this b/c she cares about u. if you want talk to your mam and tell her sit her down tell her how much you love your bf and that you have made the right disision, after all its your virginity no one elses to break, your mam will ... (read in full...)

Is there any way for sex not to hurt the first time round?

Q.   how do you break yourself in for sex the first time not to hurt?...

A.   10 August 2007: you cant do much about that. some times girls are already broke in from (tampons, horseriding, swimming, atletics, sports). 16 is the legal age always keep that in mind and always use protection! for your first time take it slow and easy soon afte... (read in full...)

Am i curvy or fat?

Q.   I am a 12 year old girl and i am unsure about my weight . i am 7stone and 8 pounds and i am 4 feet 11 inches. i know i am healthy but i not sure if i look good. Am i just curvy or am i almost fat? Also i know that when u you lose weight ur breasts ...

A.   10 August 2007: you seem the perfect weight etc for your age. im sure your just been parnoid about it. if so eat more healthier foods like vegtables, fruit, salad, water. cut out on the choclate fatty burgers etc. hope i helped. xxx... (read in full...)

How can I find out if a guy likes me?

Q.   Hi, I'm a 15 year old girl and there's a guy in my sports team that I really like. I'm not sure if he likes me. I know that I should just ask him if he likes me but I'm scared he wont and our friendship will be really awkward. I just need to know if ...

A.   10 August 2007: get to no him a bit more ask him out(as mates) for walk, cienma, you home, swimming, gym etc. im sure you will know weather e likes you after all d trips as u will becum much closer. good luck hope it all works out. remember plenty fish in the sea ... (read in full...)

We're having second thoughts about the abortion...

Q.   Me and my boyfriend agreed that we didnt want an abortion but we also dont want either one of us to drop out just to take care of a baby. I'm having second thoughts about it all and im sure he is too. any advice?...

A.   10 August 2007: im totally against abortion if any tin adopt him/her. but your way to young to be thinking about kids you have the rest your life to, the world is out there to be explored. xxx... (read in full...)

My friends are being really bitchy and it's driving me mad

Q.   Im a teen and im really upset because recantly my friends are being bitches. One keeps snapping at me and saying horrible things. The other slags me off behind my back. Another makes arguments when theres no need to. IM FED UP! what should I do?...

A.   10 August 2007: i am also a teen, this is all HORMONES, all girls get to this stage, im at it now with my friends, jus talk to your mates about it and if they snap at you maybe its time to make new friends who will treat you like yer der mate. good luck xxx... (read in full...)

She has got looser, is she cheating?

Q.   i suspect that my wife is cheating on me.her vagina has become looser suddenly.it was tighter for more than one year after the birth of our one and only child.is my suspicion right?...

A.   10 August 2007: lots thing can make you much looser(tampons, horseriding,gym, sports etc)or maybe you have become impodent. there are all these reasons, if you are worried talk to her about this. dont hesitate! or see your local doc. all d best xxx... (read in full...)

He's violent when he drinks.

Q.   please help me ive just split up from my boyfriend im so gutted i love him so much we have spent alot of time together he has alot on his plate i have been with him for a year and a half he has never settled with any of his past girlfriends he gets ...

A.   10 August 2007: stay away from him or stay friends defo call it a day, DRINK IS NO EXCUSE dont care wat any one says, no matter how drunk any one is they no exactly wat they are doing! why sud you get the back end of his drink, your young free and now single , der ... (read in full...)

Dating him for just 2 weeks and already ...he wants to propose! Any advice?

Q.   Hi! I'm new on here.. I was just browsing, and found this site. Anyways, moving on... I just started dating this guy, and we are boyfriend and girlfriend. He really likes me, and I really like him... and of course we think we are in love. He's re...

A.   10 August 2007: your only 2gether over a month. honestly WAIT! you dont wanna settle down with some one so soon, your only young and have lots to see, wait a while and see how you feel, remember every relationship starts with them sparks and some end in flames, but ... (read in full...)

I want to split up, but he wont leave

Q.   with my partner 12 years drifted after 5, found out sperm no use cant get pregnant. had 1 ivf cycle and failed now gutted. im 41 his 49 alcoholic. life feels endless now . dont no what to do . want to split up, i have no love for him he wont leave. ...

A.   10 August 2007: you seem upset, dont stay with some one that makes you feel that way, look in the papres for an apartment and mov out go out find a nice man who satisfys your needs as a woman, dont hold back nor look back at the past. everyone has a right to ... (read in full...)

He's gotten obsessed with making me squirt (and it's making me sore)...

Q.   AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH My Boyfriend just figured out how to make me squirt, but now hes addicted!!!The problem is :S it doesnt even feel as amazing as people set it out to be. Hes been trying too hard lately to make me do it an...

A.   10 August 2007: it seems like he was proud of it happening, and thinks makes you feel good. sit him down talk it out im sure he will understand how you feel bout this situation. hope i helped xxxx... (read in full...)

I know that boys "cum" sperm but do girls come? What is it? Confused!

Q.   Hi i was wondering, do girls cum? I thought only boys came because well its sperm but what is girl cum ? Do they cum during sex? If they do where does it go because the guys penis is up there i dont get it. Or is it only some girls who come? or do ...

A.   10 August 2007: hey its true girls do cum and can happen during sex, this usually happens when a girl is arosed.It doesnt go any where it just comes out of the vagina, its a creamy fluid quite like male seman. short and simple anwer for you. hope i helped... (read in full...)

He called her a b#@#h.

Q.   When I broke up with my first girlfriend, my mate helped me through it; I cried to her and she listened. She has got a bf of 22, she is 18. He swore at her (the f word) and last night she told me he called her a b***h. What advice, if any, should ...

A.   10 August 2007: well you should tell her she can do much better than that. No man should treat any one in that manner bu remember its her dissision on wat she does. puzzled xxx... (read in full...)

I am 12 and I want to have sex without being caught

Q.   iam 12 and want sex i just moved dont know any body. Who can i have sex with and not get caught?...

A.   10 August 2007: hey chicken. Well Ive loved plenty times in my life and always made new friends, Im sure u can too. Your 12 u have all the time in the world to have sex. Your also underage and shouldnt even be thinking about sex. I honestly think u should wait till... (read in full...)

His ex wife is being nasty. How do I get him to do something about it?

Q.   i have been with my partner for 6 months and love him dearly, we have both been seriously hurt by past relationships, his ex wife left him for some one else after 26 years and my ex used to beat and threaten me. what is bugging me now is that his...

A.   10 August 2007: hey hun, it seems his ex wife is completly jealous of what you both have, you should sit your partner down and talk it out whats bothering you. See what he has to say, his probley thinking about his kids in the situation and worried he might lose ... (read in full...)

*uzzled's friends

These are mutual friends, so *uzzled has added them and they have added *uzzled!

hlskitten agony aunthlskitten
Ileana agony auntIleana

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0781181999991531!