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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 31 March 2008: Thank you eyes!! Have you been watching the transmogrifications of our most illustrious aunties and uncles? I think I might need some eye corrections here...... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 31 March 2008: Sounds yummy! And are there any drinks with a tiny smidge of spinach in them? You know, good for the muscles n such...... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 31 March 2008: For some reason, I feel the need for a pink elephant, Mandy, do you know the recipe for that cocktail???? ... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 31 March 2008: Mandy!!! No more coffee near computer for me!!!
I do wonder if your anatomy tutor has been busy teaching the birds and bees and seamen and whales to others???... (read in full...)
I told my mates we'd had sex, now I'm worried my gf will break up with me!
Q. ive been going out with my gf for about 5months now. and the other night we had sex and we did use protection dont worry, but now shes avoiding me a bit and im worried she'l break up with me. but i think shes annoyed by the fact that i told all my ...
A. 26 March 2008: Thanks for the follow up, I'm curious as to what exactly you told your mates, and what they are saying to your girlfriend. And one more question for you, whose feelings are most important to you, yours or your girlfriend's?
I guess that she hasn... (read in full...)
Is he genuinely trying to warn us about gossip or is he jealous in some way?
Q. Can someone explain to me what this guy's behavior means? There is someone at work that I really like and I've always felt there was "something" between us. I'd catch him looking over at me and occasionally at meetings we'd stare at each other, a...
A. 24 March 2008: He may be the office gossip, he may be the office 'weirdo', but if he's interested in you, he's certainly going about it the wrong way. I would take this as a bit of a wake up call, and try to stay professional with all the people in the office, men ... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 24 March 2008: And here I thought it was safe to drink coffee in front of the computer again! LOL Irish and Eyes and Tellulah! ... (read in full...)
Is this nausea a side effect of the plan B pill?
Q. i took the plan b pill last month after having unprotected sex. i 5 days before my period and i came out negative, and then i tested again the week of my period which was the week of march 3rd, and i came out negative. i got my period 5 or 6 days ...
A. 24 March 2008: It sounds unlikely that you're pregnant, but you should see your doctor to discuss the nausea. Here is a link for some information about plan B and other emergency contraception.
http:... (read in full...)
Could this be an allergic reaction??
Q. hey, im a 16 year old teenager and i use deodriant frequently but whenever i put on anti-persperant i seem to sweat, yet its not actually sweat or body odour its juts like damp water or similar, it just smells of damp and i dont know if i have an ...
A. 24 March 2008: Is it a roll-on or a stick antiperspirant? I once had a roommate in college who replaced the antiperspirant in my roll-on with a mixture of baby oil and milk. She popped the ball out of the applicator, emptied it and refilled it with the mixture, ... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 24 March 2008: How do you spell the country that Birdy's from?
CND.
How's that again?
CND!
What? I just don't understand?
Sigh. C, eh?, N, eh?, D, eh?
What... (read in full...)
How long am I to wait for him to make up his mind about living together? We're from different countries.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we were moving in together (he lives in a different country). Last week he send me an email telling me that he was scared and not sure about the step that we were going to take, we decided to postpone the ...
A. 24 March 2008: Sissa, I think Daniel is correct in this, and lonelygal asks a very good question, what is the rush? I have moved a lot in my life, and the upheaval is very stressful and challenging. A five-month-old relationship may not survive all the challenges ... (read in full...)
He begs me for blowjobs but never returns the pleasure...what should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months, our sex is always the same, it just consists of me giving him head then he fingers me then we have sex. The problem is im not ever having an orgasm and its getting me down, i know i orgasm when i a ...
A. 24 March 2008: You've got some very good advice from previous posters, so I just wanted to add that at this point in the relationship, he's demonstrated what he is willing or not willing to do. My experience is that people start out as they mean to go on. If you ... (read in full...)
Is a condom a psychological barrier to intimacy?
Q. My wife and I were having one of our weird philosophical discussions about sex and this question came up. Do men and/or women consider a condom a psychological barrier to intimacy? Let me try to explain this question. For the woman, is there ...
A. 23 March 2008: This is a very interesting question, and I'll try to answer as best I can. Honestly, once intercourse has begun, there's virtually no physical difference in the sensation for me between condom on or no condom. There was that little moment of ... (read in full...)
She's says she's not ready, but I found out about a one night stand in her past...what gives?
Q. I've been dating my partner for 3 month weve not yet had sex, I've ask her and she says she's not ready. Anyway I've just found out she had a one night stand with a guy in our local pub about 6 months ago. What gives? I'm confused and pissed off. ...
A. 21 March 2008: It could mean that she regrets the one-night stand so much that she's still feeling upset and hurt about it and doesn't want to make a mistake with you. He could have lied to her and deceived her about what his intentions were.
It could be that ... (read in full...)
Do my symptoms mean I'm pregnant?
Q. Okay so i think im pregnant, i had sex with my bf about a month and a half ago and the past month i have been getting morning sickness four days a week roughly, and i missed my period twice does this mean im pregnant?? please help me i dont want t...
A. 21 March 2008: We can't tell you if you're pregnant, I'm so sorry to say. You do need to get that test, and as Mandy7 said, a doctors appointment. Anyone who has been getting sick four days a week for the past month should definitely see a doctor, it is ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend prefers masturbation/porn to sex???
Q. My boyfriend and I live together and have what others consider a perfect relationship. This is going to be a bit long winded, but I feel I need to start at the beginning so that it is all properly understood. When I first moved in, I quickly re...
A. 20 March 2008: This must be terribly frustrating and heartbreaking for you to be going through, and I think you have every reason to be upset with him.
There have been some good suggestions as to what you can do by previous posters and so I'm just going to think... (read in full...)
My boyfriend prefers masturbation/porn to sex???
Q. My boyfriend and I live together and have what others consider a perfect relationship. This is going to be a bit long winded, but I feel I need to start at the beginning so that it is all properly understood. When I first moved in, I quickly re...
A. 20 March 2008: Just a thought here, the thread seems to have gotten sidetracked into a discussion of whether or not there is such a thing as a porn addiction. What we're forgetting here is there is a poster who has a serious relationship issue and could use some ... (read in full...)
I was molested by my stepdad, now with kids of my own how do I tell my mom I don't want them in their house!?
Q. Since I was about 6 years old till I was about 16 years old my step father molested and raped me, it was an every day thing. It finally got to the point were I wouldn't even fight him anymore, I would just let it happen. I finaly got the courage to ...
A. 20 March 2008: Thank you so much for posting a follow up; it really means a lot to us to know how things are going with people that we've tried to help.
That was a beautiful answer; your girls are so lucky to have you as their mother, and I am glad to know tha... (read in full...)
He won't marry me or have sex ...I don't know what to do.
Q. I am 29 and been with my boyfriend which is 37 for eight years. He says he wants to get married but he keeps giving me all kinds of excuses. Also we haven't had sexual relationship in four years. He knows it hurts my feelings. He tells me its ...
A. 20 March 2008: Eyeswideopen, baby duck, duskyrowe, and Tellulah are all right on. The no sex for four years has me thinking that maybe there's another consideration here, and that is his sexuality. Could it be that he's closeted gay and needs you as his cover? I'm ... (read in full...)
After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go?
Q. After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go. I know email is not the way to go, but I'm tending to descend into floods of tears ...
A. 20 March 2008: Just saw your follow up after I posted. Good luck to you...... (read in full...)
After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go?
Q. After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go. I know email is not the way to go, but I'm tending to descend into floods of tears ...
A. 20 March 2008: The other posters all have made good points, and I only have this suggestion. Why don't you tell him you have something you need to talk with him about, meet him somewhere private and quiet, then tell him you are having trouble telling him what's ... (read in full...)
My brother went off to uni, and now he's back and he's said that I have gotten fat...
Q. heyx My brother went off to uni, and now he's back and he's said that I have gotten fat. When he says this to me, what comeback can I give him? I don't want him to see that it hurts my feelings, so what can I do to make this less obvious. How c...
A. 20 March 2008: Just ignore him... Don't react at all and he'll be back at uni before you you know it! Any other reaction will just give him the satisfaction of knowing he's gotten to you. Good luck!... (read in full...)
I was molested by my stepdad, now with kids of my own how do I tell my mom I don't want them in their house!?
Q. Since I was about 6 years old till I was about 16 years old my step father molested and raped me, it was an every day thing. It finally got to the point were I wouldn't even fight him anymore, I would just let it happen. I finaly got the courage to ...
A. 20 March 2008: Sorry if it sounded like I was shouting at you; I overuse my capital letters and exclamation points sometimes. Could you please let us know in which order do you place the importance of mental health and physical safety for the following people: ... (read in full...)
I was molested by my stepdad, now with kids of my own how do I tell my mom I don't want them in their house!?
Q. Since I was about 6 years old till I was about 16 years old my step father molested and raped me, it was an every day thing. It finally got to the point were I wouldn't even fight him anymore, I would just let it happen. I finaly got the courage to ...
A. 20 March 2008: Get to the counsellor FIRST thing! NOW! Your mother is emotionally blackmailing you--you must realize this. You are now in the position of being responsible for your children. Don't allow her to repeat the same mistakes with another generation of ... (read in full...)
Want to have sex, but worried about how I'll look with no clothes on!
Q. hiya, well i'm 14 and i have this most amazing boyfriend, i love him to bits. The thing is we muck about talking about sex and stuff and i no he actually does want to have sex with me as he has told me and he keeps hinting it. I also think i want t...
A. 19 March 2008: Hi there, I'm sorry it took a little while to get back to you but I wanted some time to think about what I was going to tell you.
You of course noticed the link I gave you to read, and there was a really good reason why I chose that one to send ... (read in full...)
Want to have sex, but worried about how I'll look with no clothes on!
Q. hiya, well i'm 14 and i have this most amazing boyfriend, i love him to bits. The thing is we muck about talking about sex and stuff and i no he actually does want to have sex with me as he has told me and he keeps hinting it. I also think i want t...
A. 19 March 2008: The original poster just wrote: "Ok maybe to help me further you could give me some ideas on how he could prove that i am and always will be beautiful to him without sex?"
Now THAT is a great question! I'm going to think about that for a bit and ... (read in full...)
I wanted to know how other infected people deal with this, and how do they manage to get on with their lives with no sex?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles: I found out in January that my now-ex gave me HPV-genital warts. I couldn't bring myself to forgive him (he had insisted I trust him, that he didn't have anything and that if I didn't trust him then we were over. So I trusted ...
A. 19 March 2008: I am so sorry to hear that, you must be just devastated, but you are not alone. One in four women in the US between the ages of 14-59 have the virus. I don't know what the statistics are in Canada, but I would imagine they could be similar.
Your ... (read in full...)
Vampirism!
Q. My fiance and I are into a little bit of the old vampirism. Biting and that's about it. Last night however, we did something for the first time and I'm unsure of how to feel about it. He offered me his arm and told me to bite and draw blood. T...
A. 19 March 2008: Hi Valentine, this is quite a question! Personally, the sight of my own blood makes me faint. I have to be lying down when blood is drawn, or *poof* I pass out.
I do believe that people should have safe, sane, consensual, mutually satisfyi... (read in full...)
Want to have sex, but worried about how I'll look with no clothes on!
Q. hiya, well i'm 14 and i have this most amazing boyfriend, i love him to bits. The thing is we muck about talking about sex and stuff and i no he actually does want to have sex with me as he has told me and he keeps hinting it. I also think i want t...
A. 19 March 2008: While you're thinking about all the advice you got here, can I suggest you read this question? There are lots of things to consider in taking the step you're contemplating...
All the best!
http://www.de... (read in full...)
I was wondering if I should try to get a date before I leave and try to leave things on a good note.
Q. So I fell pretty hard for a girl in one of my college courses. I finally got the nerve to ask her for her number and we went for lunch befor our final exam. She told me she had a great time and I suggested we go on a real date sometime and she...
A. 19 March 2008: Good heavens, before a final exam, all I could think about was the test!
Hmm, you may have figured it out correctly, that she doesn't realize you're really interested in her as more than just a friend. She may be so busy and worried about sc... (read in full...)
I doubt anyone has ever been in such a situation with his girlfriend
Q. Before everyone begins with the "nah bro, dump her dump her" stuff, read it completely, and put yourself in my situation, and atleast TRY to understand how I feel. I'm with a girl right now, and quite frankly, she is amazing. Whether we're talking ...
A. 19 March 2008: You've had some very good answers from the aunts/uncles here and you have a lot of things to think about based on those answers, so I don't have much to add, other than to ask the question, was she drunk or high when she cheated?
Just wonderin... (read in full...)
My wife and I are considering getting her tubes tied.
Q. My wife and I are considering getting her tubes tied. What are the chances of her getting pregnant even though her tubes have been tied? And is she able to give birth to a baby if she DOES become pregnant?...
A. 18 March 2008: Good catch by maxsteel and mebee! Why didn't I think of that? It is true that vasectomy is another option for you as a couple, I'm quoting from webmd.com here: "Vasectomy is a safer, cheaper procedure that causes fewer complications than tubal ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help with my dilemma?
Q. I have a difficult dilemma. Ii got my period march 11th. It came on time, it usually comes between 27-29 days. It was normal, but i have been having pregnancy symptoms for about two months now and i don't know whats going on. i "feel" pregnant, i ...
A. 18 March 2008: Hi, we won't be able to tell you if you're pregnant or not; you need to see a doctor if you've been having symptoms like that for more than two months.
Go to webmd.com for some research, but do make the appointment with your gyn if things don't se... (read in full...)
Is there a possibility I could be pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and i had sex abbout 4 times this months unprotected. Then about a week after the last time my peroid came a week early and it was heavy and before i started i was very depressed emotion tired. my brest hurt and i had mood swings like ...
A. 18 March 2008: If you're having unprotected sex, you're obviously trying to get pregnant. Go get a pregnancy test at a drug store. If you've had a period since then, then most likely you are not pregnant. Sore breasts, mood swings are also symptoms of premenstral ... (read in full...)
My wife and I are considering getting her tubes tied.
Q. My wife and I are considering getting her tubes tied. What are the chances of her getting pregnant even though her tubes have been tied? And is she able to give birth to a baby if she DOES become pregnant?...
A. 18 March 2008: Sounds like the chances are very slim for her to get pregnant after tubal ligation. Here's a link for some medically reviewed informtion:
http://www.webmd.com/sex/birth-control/tubal-ligation-and-tubal-implants
As far as giving birth again afte... (read in full...)
I haven't had an outbreak of my genital warts for two years...could I still pass the virus onto my new girlfriend?
Q. Ok so about 4 yrs ago i got genital warts from my now ex girlfriend, i havent had an outbreak for about 2 yrs, my question is will they ever return, and can i still pass the virus onto my new girlfriend? thanks!!! ...
A. 18 March 2008: There is a new vaccine that helps protect girls against contracting some of the viruses that cause genital warts. I don't know if your girlfried is the right age to take it, but it is worth exploring.
You must be sure to disclose the fact that you... (read in full...)
I told my mates we'd had sex, now I'm worried my gf will break up with me!
Q. ive been going out with my gf for about 5months now. and the other night we had sex and we did use protection dont worry, but now shes avoiding me a bit and im worried she'l break up with me. but i think shes annoyed by the fact that i told all my ...
A. 18 March 2008: I'm going to be a very stern 'Aunt' here, sorry for that, but you did ask for some advice...
Okay, first off, you are too young to be having sex, if your age is correct! And you actually just proved it by not realizing the consequences of your act... (read in full...)
Attraction...
Q. My husband and I shop at one of how supermarkets and I've just found out that he is attracted to a girl who works there an she is to him we've had a massive row if i had not clicked on it would have gone further i just cant 4get that he was willing ...
A. 18 March 2008: Hi, you sound very upset and angry, sorry to hear that. You might need to try to relax a bit and think a little more calmly about this if you want to work things out in a constructive way.
You didn't say exactly how he was communicating with thi... (read in full...)
I've been married for three years and my wife is two months pregnent. Can we have sex during this period?
Q. I've been married for three years and my wife is two months pregnent. Can we have sex during this period?...
A. 18 March 2008: Congratulations! Here's a link which might answer some of your questions regarding sex during pregnancy.
http://www.webmd.com/baby/guide/pregnancy-sex
All the best.... (read in full...)
Can you get a STD from the liquids that are secreted from the vagina?
Q. Can you get a STD from the liquids that are secreted from the vagina? Ever since I had sex with my girlfriend one year ago my anus area has itched and burned - I used a condom and we did it cowgirl position - she does have herpes I'm to...
A. 18 March 2008: Being too shy to be tested is not a good excuse! If you're not too shy to have sex you are certainly able to take yourself to the doctors. You are putting your health and your sexual partners (present and future) at risk by being irresponsible. ... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 18 March 2008: Yes, and a little side dish of mixed nuts.... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 18 March 2008: LOVE the Tom Jones subthreads!
And I now have this image in my head of a whale shaking a submarine like a bartender preparing a martini...
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Period problems!
Q. Hi, I am 24 years old and have 3 children. The youngest is 4 months old... I got my period on February 28th and ended on the 6th of March, but now I got it again an the 14th of March and I still have it, there is enough blood that I need a tampon so ...
A. 18 March 2008: Here's a link that might help you decide what you should do.
http://women.webmd.com/tc/normal-menstrual-cycle-when-to-call-a-doctor... (read in full...)
Period problems!
Q. Hi, I am 24 years old and have 3 children. The youngest is 4 months old... I got my period on February 28th and ended on the 6th of March, but now I got it again an the 14th of March and I still have it, there is enough blood that I need a tampon so ...
A. 18 March 2008: This happened to me a couple of years ago; I was taking a course and spent a lot of time with other women & men in the class. I got a period two weeks after my last one, very puzzling as I had been regular for years. I was really concerned about it ... (read in full...)
My wife's ex boyfriends.
Q. My wife and I have been married for less than a year, and our relationship is very good. It is a second marriage for both of us. There is one thing that concerns me and makes me feel uncomfortable. I'm not sure how to deal with it. While my wife'...
A. 18 March 2008: Hmm, she sounds a bit like Bernice from 'Designing Women.' remember, the older slightly batty woman who would say whatever came to her mind, no matter how inappropriate it was. I occasionally have what I call a 'Bernice moment' myself, but I try to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to watch my brother and I masturbate each other...
Q. hey people i need adive because i told my girlfriend that i sometimes masterbate with my brother, and now she wants to see me and my brother masterbate each other, thats kinda weird to do it in front of her but she said she would give me oral sex if ...
A. 18 March 2008: Unless you don't mind that anyone could watch that tape, especially if it winds up on the internet, DO NOT allow yourself to be videotaped. Just imagine if you two split up and she decides to show the tape to your next girlfriend. How would that go ... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 16 March 2008: LJ, there were a number of responsible replies, but you have to look closely, in between all the collective insanity...or is that inanity?... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 14 March 2008: I know some people think I'm hysterical, but they usually mean it the other way....... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 14 March 2008: Isn't a pumpkin a gourd? One of my favorite gourds is the butternut gourd...
I think we are all out of our gourds here; seamen, navel orificers, Benny Phil fans, Zeke & Brandon too, BBQ specialists, colonials and all!
Andrew will be pulling ... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 14 March 2008: Tellulah! You were the one who started this on the path it went!!!!... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: Eyes, sorry, I've just learned the last batch of BPs is gone. We may have to resort to empty nasal spray bottles in the meantime.... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: Zeke and Brandon are willing to do whatever their superior orificer commands.
I only can hope that Andrew forgives us and that by tomorrow, everything will have dried out...
... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: Sorry, I meant Mandy. The keyboard is still drying out... My apologies!... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: Manny, why don't you bring candy and sweets too?... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: BRRIIINNGGGGG!!!!
"Hello?"
"Hey, Zeke, it's Bjorn here in med supply. We're having a major problem with keeping some items stocked. There was this crazy rush on them today..."
Z: "Okay, which ones do you need most urgently?"
B: "Man, i... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: There are computer screens all over the world now dripping with spat out coffee!!! Please, stop, you're killing me!!!!! The tummy muscles just can't take it anymore!!!!... (read in full...)
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