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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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Long distance ends with a low blow but we can't cut off...
Q. Apologies as this is a bit long but I thought readers would need some good detail. My relationship with my Ex (call her M) had been a year and a half. Being long distance with her main home in Australia we had met up in England and she spent mo...
A. 11 April 2008: Sometimes questions here make me want to shout, 'Cover your heart, Indy, cover your heart!' (Remember the scene from the Indiana Jones movie?) This is one of them for me.
M may indeed be on the rebound, still recovering from her past relation... (read in full...)
What are the rules of public decency in Egypt?
Q. Hello this is not strickly a question about relationship but all the same I need advice for the great advisors of dear cupid, I'm going on holiday later this year (already booked) to egypt and just doing some reading up on the country before I...
A. 10 April 2008: Here are some links which might help you as you research the trip!
http://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowTopic-g21-i870-k193548-o10-Is_Egypt_Safe_to_Visit-Middle_East.html
http://news.b... (read in full...)
What are the rules of public decency in Egypt?
Q. Hello this is not strickly a question about relationship but all the same I need advice for the great advisors of dear cupid, I'm going on holiday later this year (already booked) to egypt and just doing some reading up on the country before I...
A. 10 April 2008: Hi, Egypt is a very interesting country to visit and explore. My advice comes from my experience there well over 20 years ago, so bear that in mind.
In public, you'll see women dressing from completely veiled to what you would think of as ordinary... (read in full...)
He wants me to cut my hair? I won't have a chance with him if I don't...so is he worth it?
Q. i need some advice, i've got this guy i really like him and we are going ot meet soon but he says i ain't got a chance unless i cut my hair i really like my long hair and dont wanna cut it but i dont wanna miss out on being with him do u think i...
A. 10 April 2008: Hi lboy! Why not meet up with him first? It sounds very pushy of him to make a demand like that, I don't like the idea that he's already setting conditions on you.
Have you two met in person? I'd hold off on shearing off your hair until you get ... (read in full...)
He said that 'Vizen' eye-drops would cure it and I would not get pregnant?
Q. Well the other day me and my boyfriend had sex and he was drunk, so when he ask me where i wanted him to cum, i told him my stomach, but he ask me if he could inside of me, and i said that i wasn't ready for a baby just yet. He agreed with me but i ...
A. 10 April 2008: Have your boyfriend keep the condoms. There are birth control methods that don't involve a pill packet. There's depo provera shots which you get every 12 weeks. There are also implants and IUDs which wouldn't show.
I agree with Namitjira on the i... (read in full...)
He said that 'Vizen' eye-drops would cure it and I would not get pregnant?
Q. Well the other day me and my boyfriend had sex and he was drunk, so when he ask me where i wanted him to cum, i told him my stomach, but he ask me if he could inside of me, and i said that i wasn't ready for a baby just yet. He agreed with me but i ...
A. 10 April 2008: I'm happy to hear you're aware of all risks, but I'm a bit confused that you say you don't have access to condoms or the emergency contraceptives.
Condoms are sold in every drug store.
Your doctor should be able to prescribe what you need; y... (read in full...)
Could you help me find a good way to tell my parents of my homosexuality?
Q. i am gay, but my parents do not know this. i want to tell them the truth.. but i do not know how! can you help me to find a good way to talk with my parents?...
A. 10 April 2008: Here's the specific link to your question on the website I mentioned earlier.
http://gaylife.about.com/od/howtocomeout/How_To_Come_Out.htm
All the best.... (read in full...)
Could you help me find a good way to tell my parents of my homosexuality?
Q. i am gay, but my parents do not know this. i want to tell them the truth.. but i do not know how! can you help me to find a good way to talk with my parents?...
A. 10 April 2008: If you have a good relationship with your parents, they will love you just the same. It may be a bit of a shock for them, so make sure you allow them time to absorb the news.
As for exactly how to tell them, I don't really know what to tell you... (read in full...)
Is first time sex painful?
Q. hi i did not do sex even one time but now i have a lot of need to sex but i can't tell any body so any body tell me if i have not any man with me ' some of my friends told me the first sex is so pain ful so what i can do can i put my finger in my ...
A. 10 April 2008: It might hurt the first time, but if you are older, physically active and have explored your anatomy with fingers and lubrication, it will only be for a little while.
To anon, I personally find DoubleM's advice to be thorough, honest and frank. W... (read in full...)
What can I do to impress the girl of my dreams when I take her to Prom?
Q. So i am going to prom with the girl of my dreams. What can I do to impress her besides the obvious?...
A. 9 April 2008: Bring a bouquet of flowers for her mother when you go pick her up. Look her parents in the eye and say that you'll take good care of her, then shake both their hands as you leave with her.
Give her a card with a lovely sweet note written by you s... (read in full...)
How do I apologise to my teacher for causing problems?
Q. This is another of those teacher/pupil situations... Please don't lecture me, because the damage is already done! Basically I've been obsessively crushing on a teacher for over a year now, I got very depressed last year - I even considered givin...
A. 9 April 2008: The teacher needs you to stay away from him, this should be very clear to you by now.
If you really feel the need to apologize to him formally, write a very brief note, and give it to your parents to give to the head to pass on to the teacher.... (read in full...)
Videos of Wham, Rick Astley and wait for it YMCA I felt like the whole world was screaming at me 'He's gay!' Is he??
Q. Is My Boyfriend Gay? I just read another reader's description of the same situation and wanted to pose the same question because I'm driving myself mad. I met a fabulous man three months ago. After three and a half years single it was a relief to ...
A. 9 April 2008: Wow, what a great answer, Daniel! I can't add anything else here, other than to say you can be great friends with a gay man, but you can't be a true romantic partner. That is unless you're also a man...
Your instincts are all telling you somethin... (read in full...)
He said that 'Vizen' eye-drops would cure it and I would not get pregnant?
Q. Well the other day me and my boyfriend had sex and he was drunk, so when he ask me where i wanted him to cum, i told him my stomach, but he ask me if he could inside of me, and i said that i wasn't ready for a baby just yet. He agreed with me but i ...
A. 9 April 2008: Eye drops are for eyes. If they were effective protection against pregnancy, they'd be marketed as such. Do not believe your boyfriend on this one, this is just a myth.
You need to listen to Namatjira and Danielepew, and do some planning if you w... (read in full...)
My ex came out as being gay, but says he loves me. Is he having second thoughts about his sexuality
Q. I dated a man for about 5 years many years ago. I was in love with him, then and always have been. After seperating I went on to have a 7 year relationship with someone else, and 3 children and also found out that my ex had come out as gay. I was ...
A. 9 April 2008: It sounds to me like he is emotionally connected with you and wants to keep you as a friend. If he is gay, though, he is not sexually attracted to women and is not a likely romantic prospect for you.
The tricky bit is that you are still attracte... (read in full...)
I'm keen on this job after an interview, but something just doesn't seem right. Can you help please?
Q. Question about a job interview. A few unsure feelings: I am currently on a gap year working after finishing college a year ago. I am looking into an apprenticeship within construction and noticed a trainee draughtsperson position locally ...
A. 9 April 2008: Your gut is telling you something is off with this company, and is probably worth listening to.
My suggestion would be to specifically request that you spend time with past trainees who are now full employees during your day on the job visit. I... (read in full...)
The 17 yr old daughter of one of my friends is coming on to me quite strong..it's tempting but I need advce...please!
Q. Hey, I'm having real trouble getting my head around this one. I'm a 45 year old divorcee with 2 children of 22 and 19. They both live with me after my wife ran off with another man. I'm lucky that I have a close circle of friends around me with m...
A. 9 April 2008: You know the answer to this one already, don't you?
Enjoy the fact that she seems to find you attractive, but hands off otherwise! Put that shoe on the other foot, and consider how you would feel if one of your male friends started up a flirtati... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and going out with a 17 year old virgin.
Q. Hi, first off, I'm going out with a 17 year old boy and I think he's really wanting sex badly. What should I do? Would I get in trouble if we did anything?...
A. 8 April 2008: Gosh, this sounds just like another question posted here today...
What's the rush?
If he has sex with you, he could get into bigggg trouble. And you could too... There are lots of girls your age who ask the big question here "Could I be preg... (read in full...)
Was he just goofing around or is he genuinely interested?
Q. there is a man i work with and i don't know what to make of his behavior. i want to know if he is just goofing off, relieving some boredom making our day a little interesting, or if he is really interested. he has been looking down my shirt and i ...
A. 8 April 2008: Somewhere in the office, somebody has just paid off a bet. Hope there's no security cameras around for your sake.... (read in full...)
Health problem-does anyone know what may be wrong with me?
Q. does anyone know what may be wrong with me. i darent tell my mum as she will take me to the doctors and i dont want a fuss made, id jus like to know if it is something major wrong.? well for about 3 weeks now i have not wanted to eat. i can, so i kn...
A. 8 April 2008: LonelyTwo is right, we are not in any position to help you diagnose this problem. It's really better for you to tell your parents! It might be nothing to worry about, but it's best to be safe.
Tell them today, I'm sure they will be happy that you... (read in full...)
What's a 'mars bar' party?
Q. Whats a mars bar party, someone mentioned it the the other day but I'm not sure what it is? ...
A. 8 April 2008: Rhythm, the party here is NEVER over! It just keeps getting nuttier... Snickers!... (read in full...)
I cant say no to being with the love of my life
Q. So me an my boyfriend of almost 6 months just broke up, an I dont know what to do honestly, he came over friday night and we hung out for a little while then he broke up with me, i was heart broken so we talked for like 2 hours then we got ...
A. 8 April 2008: Wow, Birdy and Daniel have pretty much summed it up here. Birdy is correct. You do need your friends to help you deal with this, so don't be afraid to ask them for help. You may need to apologize if you parted company with them in an angry way, but ... (read in full...)
The Celebration of the life of Hayley
Q. HAYLEY Your smile brightened up my day, It took away my tears and pain made the sun come out again. Your laugh warmed my heart and kept it still. You never could understand how beautiful you were, God knew it was pla...
A. 7 April 2008: Here's some hugs for you and your Hayley...
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I didn't mind getting into swinging clubs etc but I seriously object to getting it on with other women just to please him!
Q. OMG, my situation is so difficult until I'm really ashamed of my immoral behavior. I've been in a relationship for almost two years. I would have let him go a long time ago, but he possess so many good characteristics I feel that I would really ...
A. 3 April 2008: I think you know what you need to do. A man can be really good at making creme brulee and understand the difference between sweating the onions and caramelizing them, but at the end of the day, you both get into the same bed. And then what?
He ca... (read in full...)
Love, Trust, Affairs, Ill Health and Breaks up's..it's all happening!!
Q. Ten years ago this very day, my wife and I started our relationship. She was married and had only been so for roughly six months when we met. She was having problems and did not know what to do. I was just coming out of a bad relationship and we ...
A. 3 April 2008: Wow, this is really tough to help with. You seem to have a handle on your bipolar disorder and have made sure that you're on the right meds and are getting counselling. Those are all good signs.
The thing that sticks in my mind is the cheating... (read in full...)
Harmless fun on internet and my girlfriend suddenly doesn't love me. Please help.
Q. Ok, i've been with a girl for half a year now, I love her so much. I was on msn buzzin and talking to some girl. When the topic of having sex with her came up I said maybe thinking nothing of it. My girlfriend found out and yeah, I didn't mean ...
A. 3 April 2008: Sorry, the last sentence should have read, "you're going to have to discuss what happened, in the ACTIVE (not passive) tense FACE TO FACE (not online)."... (read in full...)
Harmless fun on internet and my girlfriend suddenly doesn't love me. Please help.
Q. Ok, i've been with a girl for half a year now, I love her so much. I was on msn buzzin and talking to some girl. When the topic of having sex with her came up I said maybe thinking nothing of it. My girlfriend found out and yeah, I didn't mean ...
A. 3 April 2008: Right, buzzing with some girl on msn. I kind of like the way you phrased the sentence "When the topic of having sex with her came up I said maybe thinking nothing of it."
The start of it is in the passive tense, which doesn't tell us who brought ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to close a 27 yr old wound she rec'd from her ex-husband!!
Q. My wife of 10 years has informed me that four days ago she made contact with her first husband. They were married for 12 days when they went to sleep in the same bed as his best friend. Sometime during the night she woke up and thought she was kiss...
A. 3 April 2008: This is to both Carol and Mark,
I know that discussing this in a forum like dearcupid seems to be crazy, but honestly, most of the 'agony aunts and uncles' are here not to make fun of people or parade some kind of superior knowledge of life, bu... (read in full...)
My BF wants me to have sex to his friends to make them jealous, I'm tempted to cede... should I do so?
Q. My bf wants me to have sex with his friends. he says I am so good he wants to make then jealous. I'm half tempted to do it because a few of then are really cute and I want to keep him happy. Most of them have seen me topless and almost naked at ...
A. 3 April 2008: I have to wonder how much they are going to pay him for this...
And how many friends?
This all sounds like a really bad idea to me, but if you think you want to go through with it, then you'll need to set some ground rules for this.
First, ... (read in full...)
I want to give him something when I leave just to say thanks for everything he's done but I don't know how he'll react.
Q. Hi, I leave school in May. I get on really well with a teacher and he calls me a mate. In the past I've given him a leaving present when I left in Year 11 and I gave him a birthday present once. I was going to give him a birthday present in December...
A. 3 April 2008: "Dear Mr. Teacher,
"I just want to say thank you for being such a good teacher and role model for all of us. You will be missed, and I will always have fond memories of your class.
"I hope that you can be proud of me as a student and that... (read in full...)
He is married and said to be a player, we've been intimate already and I feel... addicted to him! How to stop the affair?
Q. I am 17 years old and have a male friend who is 35, i really like him but we can't be together because i am not yet 18 and plus we live in a very small town of about a 750 pop. and there would be problems, he is known to be a player, he is ...
A. 3 April 2008: Well, 750 people is indeed a small town. I guess he's running out of options for finding new girls, so he's reaching down into the teenaged set.
Players are so charming and handsome and witty and good in bed, that's how they can keep finding ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to close a 27 yr old wound she rec'd from her ex-husband!!
Q. My wife of 10 years has informed me that four days ago she made contact with her first husband. They were married for 12 days when they went to sleep in the same bed as his best friend. Sometime during the night she woke up and thought she was kiss...
A. 3 April 2008: There clearly is much much more to this story than either of you can share here. I don't know what your marriage is like, or what you may have been going through, together or as individuals.
To the husband, I am sorry for this pain you're going th... (read in full...)
How can I make my GF climax without clit stimulation, just penetration?
Q. Is there any way that i can make my girlfried come without clit stimulation and just penitration?...
A. 2 April 2008: Hi, I hope this helps you a little bit. I think the number of women who climax through intercourse alone is about one in three, so two-thirds of women need more than just straight intercourse for orgasm.
Think of her clitoris as a kind of little p... (read in full...)
Sex before marriage?
Q. Sex before marrige? ...
A. 2 April 2008: Commitment before sex? ... (read in full...)
I'm looking for kinky sex ideas!
Q. I'm going out with a wonderful open minded guy. We have a great sex life which is quite varied and experimental but there's always more things to try which is why I'm posting here. Does anyone have any recommendations for kinky things to do toget...
A. 2 April 2008: Crisco parties, are they related in any way to nasal sex????... (read in full...)
My wife wants to close a 27 yr old wound she rec'd from her ex-husband!!
Q. My wife of 10 years has informed me that four days ago she made contact with her first husband. They were married for 12 days when they went to sleep in the same bed as his best friend. Sometime during the night she woke up and thought she was kiss...
A. 2 April 2008: Citris and Collaroy have given you such good advice, I don't have much to offer beyond that.
I can't imagine what she's doing dredging up old hurts and feelings and actually travelling to see this guy. This is confounding!
So most of us have ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants sex but I'm only 12!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for three months but his sister says he says he wants sex. The problem is i'm only 12! I just turned 12 this month and he's turning 13 in April we love each other so much that i don't know what to do, so i ...
A. 2 April 2008: Hi, I'm glad that you're looking for some help with this question, I think that you've already had some good advice from some of the aunties here. I'd like to suggest that you read some of the previous questions and answers posted by people who were ... (read in full...)
How do I pursue a real relationship with a background like this?
Q. My problem is I have been meeting the wrong dudes since the 9th grade and all they wanted was sex. I was young and naive and just wanted to see what sex felt like so I ended up opening up my legs to a bunch of ugly horndogs. Then the whole school ...
A. 1 April 2008: Hi kassie, you seem to have a good handle on your situation, and I think actually that you will be just fine. You're going to have to realize that changing your image is going to take some time, but if you stay consistent and don't react to the ... (read in full...)
Please help! I deperately love my Husband, but I have a secret, what can I do?
Q. Wow... All I can say is that I never needed advice more in my life than at this point. I am 24 years old. I met my fiance exactly a year ago and we were friends at first. I was just getting over a relationship where the man broke up with me after me ...
A. 1 April 2008: This is quite a dilemma, isn't it? My guess is that you'll get advice either to tell him or to keep it a secret forever. If you don't think you can keep it a secret forever, then you're going to have to tell him, and it's better to do it now rather ... (read in full...)
I get what I wanted, and now I'm not sure. Is this normal?
Q. I am almost 30 (yikes!) and recently single for the first time in my adult life. I was in a terrible marriage for nine years, which I have three little girls from, and then in another fairly serious relationship for two years right after my ex ...
A. 1 April 2008: Hey, the best part of a new relationship is the getting to know each other phase. It sounds like you're back on track with looking for a suitable, sane guy and I think if you just take it gently and slowly, you'll do just fine.
I recommen... (read in full...)
Stuck in a relationship with an alcoholic, is my reason to stay a valid one?
Q. I hate my boyfriend more and more each day. I dont know why I am with him. maybe its because I dont want to be a mom who has men in and out of my daughters life. but then again he isnt her father and it isnt really fair to subject her to him. I ...
A. 1 April 2008: Here's the link, it should help you find a meeting, hopefully tonight, and I think you can take your daughter if you don't have childcare handy. I'm not sure about that, but why wait?
http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/
Good luck, and stay strong.... (read in full...)
Stuck in a relationship with an alcoholic, is my reason to stay a valid one?
Q. I hate my boyfriend more and more each day. I dont know why I am with him. maybe its because I dont want to be a mom who has men in and out of my daughters life. but then again he isnt her father and it isnt really fair to subject her to him. I ...
A. 1 April 2008: I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Get yourself to an Al-Anon meeting right away. There should be one near you, and they are probably in the phone book. I'll look up the link for you and post it in just a few minutes.
It is an organiza... (read in full...)
What's a 'mars bar' party?
Q. Whats a mars bar party, someone mentioned it the the other day but I'm not sure what it is? ...
A. 27 March 2008: You know, the original name of the Mars Bar was Uranus Bar, but for some reason, only a handful were sold. They had a bit more luck with Jupiter and Venus Bars, but finally realized that the best bet was Mars.
This is from Wikipedia:
Other p... (read in full...)
What's a 'mars bar' party?
Q. Whats a mars bar party, someone mentioned it the the other day but I'm not sure what it is? ...
A. 26 March 2008: Okay, so who's in charge of the dearcupid sex manual? This needs to be included right away.... ... (read in full...)
What's a 'mars bar' party?
Q. Whats a mars bar party, someone mentioned it the the other day but I'm not sure what it is? ...
A. 26 March 2008: To our poster, we are not making fun of you, by the way. I had no idea what a mars bar party was either, and I'm in my 40s!
Back to the banana issue, aren't we taught that unless we know where it's been, it's better to keep a wrapper on it? No g... (read in full...)
What's a 'mars bar' party?
Q. Whats a mars bar party, someone mentioned it the the other day but I'm not sure what it is? ...
A. 26 March 2008: Wait eyes! Why not use the mars as a BP? And Irish, if the wrapper is still on, do you think that would be okay?... (read in full...)
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