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I just broke up completely with my boyfriend and I wanted to know if I did the right thing?

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Question - (30 May 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok well I just broke up completely with my boyfriend and I wanted to know if I did the right thing. we have been going on and off for about 9 months and i do love him but he does not know how to treet a girl thinking that hes all that and that he speeks to me like im his propery and i dont like that at all. i tell him not to but he does, plus he acts different around different people so i dont know who im really dating. we broke up but still kissed and stuff about a month ago and i met another guy that was his old friend but i didnt know until he told me well we talked but technically me and my ex were broken up over a month so i thought it would be fine to move on and try not to get hurt because i tried getting back with him for awile and it didnt work. he asked me out yesterday and i though it would be best since all i did was have stress and sadness when i was with him and i feel bad cause i sorda do want to be with him and he said he would change but i doubt it. he is a controlling person also. did i do the right thing bye calling everything off with him??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2007):

Todays girls are being given unnecessary lifts by our foolish society,this is going to lead to only total destruction.

Business oriented people are using girls in many ways to promote their businesss.

The girls who only knows how to do fashion, how to attract boys, how to get easy money, what they will do for their kids (they do not want to even breastfeed them for fear of lising their figure.)

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (31 May 2007):

love-him agony auntHia babe i think you did the right thing, it will take some time to get round things but you will. dont stress about anything and dont try and rush into anything and if you have any problems with future boyfriends, make sure they are the right kinda person you want to be with (dont try and wait for them to change because chances are theyt wont) hope i helped chick mail me if u wana talk x x x

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A female reader, nicola79 United Kingdom +, writes (31 May 2007):

nicola79 agony auntyes i think you did the right thing flower. you are young and want to enjoy your self. having a boyfriend is great but not when they are being like that.

just forget him and enjoy your life, boys dont always mature as fast as girls so dont worry if they all seem the same,because in a few years things change.xxxxxxxx

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (31 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntYou did the right thing. Controlling people have difficulty with change. He's saying something to get back into control of the situation. If you say yes, you're giving him control again. There is someone out there that will come to you in time.

DV1

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2007):

Don't worry you did the right thing!On and off relationships never work out so I think it's better if you guys are just friends!Just try 2 go out with different people and if u feel that u still have feelings 4 him then maybe u can think of going out with him again! You just have 2 follow your heart whatever feels right 2 YOU!If you need more advice email me my name is Selenne!I know a lot about relationships so I can help u out!!!!!!!!!!!Hope I helped

Selennexxxx:o)xxxxxx

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A female reader, lean_on_my_shoulder United Kingdom +, writes (31 May 2007):

I believe you did the right thing by breaking up with your ex and I think that deep down you know this too. When I was 13 years old I met my 1st boyfriend and we were together for two years. At the time I thought I loved him, but now realize I was too young to know what love is. I had to end the relationship for good when I finally realized - I cannot control other peoples actions but I CAN control my own. I had given him many opportunities to change his ways but he never did. So in my eyes I was left with two options: 1)Stay in an unhappy relationship with someone who dosen't deserve me and keep going round in circles or 2)DO WHAT MY GUT INSTINCT IS TELLING ME! End it.

You are very young with a life ahead of you that you can make into whatever you wish.

I made the mistake of messing up my education as I got wrapped up in young "love" and Im now paying the price by struggling to get into a college or find a job. Please don't do the same! Think about what you want out of life, what you'd like to achieve and work towards it. You have to learn to be comfortable without a partner before you can be with one. Dont rush into things babe, take your time enjoying life and never settle for someone who dosent make you happy. I hope this was of some help and that you realize what you are worth.

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