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writes:i'm a chinese non religious man and i'm in love with this muslim pakistani girl. shes also one of my best friends, i've told her that i liked her and she said lets be friends at the moment and i said okay, although i know she likes me too. the problem is i want to start a relationship with her but i know it would never work because we both from diverse cultures which would almost never mix. i want to know if there is any chance of a future between me and her because i don't want to end up hurting her ever and i would rather be alone than do that. I know for me to have a future with her i will need to convert but i believe that would be hypocritical because i'm only converting for her
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 There are only two options, either you convert to Islam or she leaves her religion.
Leaving her religion can be a big problem as she would be ostracized by her parents and her society.
It would be much easier for you to convert to Islam. You may not be religious but no one cares as long as you are labeled as a Muslim. That is all that matters.
Maybe when you are in , you may turn religious .
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): While I do think there is a possibility the two of you have a chance, you will just have to consider the other chances that she maybe respectful to her religion as well, so she can only marry to another Muslim.
My friend is in a similar situation but the girl he likes will only see him as a friend, as she is strict about her religion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): I don't think you would be considered as a hypocrite if you convert. You love her and you have to respect her religion as well. You said that you are not a religious person so I guess you would't be hurt if you convert to Islam. I am telling, that's the only way you can get to be with her. Don't think that converting to Islam because of her is a hypocritical action because it absolutely is not.Good luck!!
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (9 April 2010):
This is 2010 young man cultures are and actions are changing every day and it is up to you to make things happen.
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