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Should I go there or would it be unwise?

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Question - (10 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 April 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *imisoph3 writes:

there is this guy i might be into he is 8 years older then me please help

theres this guy i've known because he is my sisters husbands friend he always gets me into this night club that you have to be 18 to get in..and he is super nice one night my friend and her other friend asked me to take a picture with him because he hosted that night and he seems so uncomfortable on the picture he has a fake smile his arms look sniff but later on as the night went on i asked to take a picture with him and his like of course my camera had problmes in the beginning then i got it to turn on so we took the picture and his like this is definitly going on the internet(dont want to share the website name) and smiled then got on the stage and started getting wild and got everyone hipped i check the picture out and he looked relaxed real smile and didnt hold back.

the downside is his the biggest flirt in this town..his parents are divorced and his not really a relationship type he danced with this one girl that night but i know he was trying to get my friend to get the idea he wasnt interested

he hooked up and still is hooking up with numorus number of girls

so should i just forget about this guy or what? oh i also asked if he would buy me a drink but he didnt want to because i was driving so does he care or is he not trying to couze trouble with my sisters

please help :)

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A female reader, sweetspicy United States +, writes (10 April 2010):

sweetspicy agony auntLeave him be!

You are worried about his age wich could get him into trouble with you being so young.

He has been with alot of girls, maybe even girls from these clubs. To me that screams "DISEASES".

You menchioned his parents being divorced so I'm getting the idea that you want commitment but are afraid that his family morals aren't there.

You also know that he isn't looking for just one girl.

Isn't that enough of your own reasoning to tell you something?

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (10 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntYou are somebody he knows and he has some respects for who you are. He cannot touched you without feeling any repercussions from your BIL.He has to be careful not to mess around with you .

It would be better to find someone who comes from a loving family background than from a dysfunctional one unless you do not have a choice.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2010):

Realistically, you're fancying a bad boy who will probably end up using you, like he has those other girls. The last thing you need is to be used for sex and that's it. It will hurt you. I think this is a guy you don't need to have anything to do with.

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