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writes:Well im nearly 14 but everyone says im so mature for my age. At the moment, all the boys in my year seem like idiots and i wouldn't be seen dead with any of them... all the girls seem really prettier than me and get all the boys attention. But then when i look at the girls talking, i listen and i think how immature??! I really want to attract boys, older boys.. i havent really had a boyfriend.. well a serious one anyway... but I KNOW i am so ready for a relationship. There was this one boy, I fancied for 2 years.. but im fed up of chasing him around now. I really want to find a boy, I really want to be popular..please help me... i need tips on how to act around boys, how to be popular, how to stand out and how to attract boys.. even down to the things i write on social networking sites? please help?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): Same sort of thing happened to me, now most boys are chasing me lol :) I was a smart sporty girl and wasnt really interested in boys i thought they were sooo sTupid!! Lol. How i did it was i guess i got in with a differnt croud of friends, the ones dat boys chase after the fashionable ones.. I found out what my fashion was and went ahead with it.. having a school with no uniform does help :) I am still the brightest in the class and smart (not trying to be up myself.) But remeber!! You dont need a boy yet they do tangle up your life. Also do not think, im one of those blonde girls i dont no anything still keep being as smart/clever as you can although it is fun to be a blondie every now and then :). There wIlL be a boy out there who loves the current you, he just might not have the corage to say it. aLso he might not be the type of boy you want. I am still the me i was before just more people like me. :)
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reader, Nougatxxx +, writes (11 April 2010):
 Hiyaa am 14 i was in a simalar situation i was really unhappy not being popular then i joined a drama group it really boosted my confidence and i did find that confidence attracts boys, i mean a lot of boys do act like idiots so if you join a group like dancing singing acting etc. there are bound too be fit guys there who would be intrested in you. and as for girls who get all the lads. i mean honestly you will be the one who will get them all when your older it just takes time if your patient :) hope my advice helps take care hun :) xx
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reader, Starmonster888 +, writes (10 April 2010):
 Men are visual creatures! WELL THAT'S JUST true.
Looking attractive to guys seems harder than it actually is...not that I've tried. Whilst I agree with marieclaire's self confessed cliche but true "be yourself" comment, Laura1318's make over advice is right too. What I mean by that is is you need to be your self, and be able to adapted that uniqueness to the people you're are surrounded by.
It's hard to give you an example of what I mean by that in terms of your personality and environment because I know nothing about you, but the general rule in achieving this be your self and change thing, is to understand the different way people see things, respect it and still keep perspective centered.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 Men are visual creatures. Break out from your usual mould and have a complete makeover.
This would guarantee that you will get the looks and interests directed your way.
Be confident about your looks and abilities , smile and think positive always.
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reader, advice angel +, writes (10 April 2010):
 i am in your boots hun so im gonna watch this question but chances are your prettier than those giirls, outside and in x
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