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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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caught my boyfriend of two years cruising for sex at an adult book store. Plese advise!!
Q. Last week I was coming home late from work, when I noticed my boyfriend's car parked outside an Adult Book Store- I knew immediately he was cruising for sex. I waited outside the store, and noticed him circling around the building looking for sex. ...
A. 16 June 2008: Am I the only one who noticed the gender of our question poster? He's male, as his boyfriend is....
I think that you are really better off without a man who will cruise others for random anonymous sex. It IS dangerous and it IS life-thr... (read in full...)
How do I know if I love her or just want her for sex?
Q. how i know if i love her or just i need her for sex?...
A. 16 June 2008: If you find pleasure in her company, even though you won't be having sex with her.
If her well-being is more important to you than your own.
If you're willing to sacrifice to make her happy, or keep her safe, or allow her to do what she needs t... (read in full...)
Were we disrespectful to his family getting home so late?
Q. Ok so my bf is so mad at me. Right now he's not talking to me. Ill explain why.... Him and I , our daugther, his brother and gf, their two kids and his mom live in the same house (yeah I know full house!) Anyway they (the brothers) are...
A. 16 June 2008: I'm still working out how you got from the US Virgin Islands to Michigan to Canada then back home to your boyfriend's mother's house in Michigan again at oh dark early all in one night.
But that's not your question.
You live with your boyfri... (read in full...)
I want to be able to tell him 'no' how can I do this - I don't want him back in my life!!!
Q. okay, i recently got back with my ex who i dated on and off since august...we reached a point in december when we quit talking so 6 months later he contacts me wanting to talk, I was so happy without him but somehow he suckers me into talking to him ...
A. 16 June 2008: You need to keep yourself ready for the contact, if you can't block him like hlskitten has so wisely suggested.
Have a set list of answers, and some of them can be very vague to keep him away from you.
Some ideas, off the top of my head....
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He has been violent to me will he change?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend over a year now, and we just had a child together a month ago. He the nicest guy I have ever met and treats me better than anyone I know. He is a very easy to get along with, my friends like him, and my family loves ...
A. 16 June 2008: Here's a national resource for someone in the US.
The National Domestic Violence Hotline can help you find resources in your area. This nationwide database has detailed information on domestic violence shelters, other emergency shelters, legal su... (read in full...)
He has been violent to me will he change?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend over a year now, and we just had a child together a month ago. He the nicest guy I have ever met and treats me better than anyone I know. He is a very easy to get along with, my friends like him, and my family loves ...
A. 16 June 2008: Thanks, Wizard of Waz, for reminding me of something I should have included in my answer. If our poster would let me know what state she lives in, I can help do some research for which organizations can provide help. She can do this either by ... (read in full...)
He has been violent to me will he change?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend over a year now, and we just had a child together a month ago. He the nicest guy I have ever met and treats me better than anyone I know. He is a very easy to get along with, my friends like him, and my family loves ...
A. 16 June 2008: Sounds like he does indeed have a problem with anger. I really don't like the sound of the escalation you reported.
Have a look at this article, and take a good long look at him, without any blinders on.
http://www.de... (read in full...)
AI have huge jealousy issues...is it me or the way he behaves?
Q. I am a 21 y.o woman and have been with my partner for 7 months. We were best friends years before we got together. I have a jealousy problem anytime we go out i feel like i have to watch where he is looking an if i see him look at another women i ...
A. 16 June 2008: Let's separate out your feelings and behavior and his feelings and behavior.
Starting with him; you don't say much about his feelings toward you, obviously you're his girlfriend so he has strong feelings about you. You were friends first, and I th... (read in full...)
I think my teacher likes me
Q. ok, i know how it sounds, but im in love with my teacher. it is not a crush, and people piss me off when they think they know better how im feeling then i do, just beacuse im 6 short months away from legaly being an adult. My friends see how he is ...
A. 16 June 2008: Do nothing until you are no longer in school with him as a teacher. Then you can have a conversation with him and find out if he's remotely interested in you. True love should be able to wait until the time is right. A crush is impatient and ... (read in full...)
We got back together - but did he only do it for sex?
Q. Iv got a problem! I have been with this bloke for nearly 3 years on and off. I thought we where very much in love and in the past have split up because of arguments but we both knew we still loved eachover! we split up and jsut recently we have ...
A. 16 June 2008: It might just be that he was looking for sex, but I think that the real issue is that you two have not worked out whatever it was that was causing problems in the first place. If you've had a rocky relationship, arguments and splitting up over the ... (read in full...)
Any interesting games/ideas that would fire up a mega party for 14 year-olds?
Q. i am having a end of form party for 26 people and have no idea what to do. we are 14 and i know it will start of lame and then get better. but what games shall we play??? Please help...
A. 13 June 2008: This is going to sound so lame from an old lady, but hire a karaoke machine. Get little gifts to give to the best singer/group of singers, and the ones who do the best dancing and the worst singers of them all....
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He wants to take my virginty during our outing with his parents!
Q. ok, so me and my boyfriend are going to a monster truck show and he wants to have sex during our outing (6:00 PM- about 1:00 AM) He says that he loves me and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I just feel like losing my virginity ...
A. 13 June 2008: Um, ew, I mean, do you really want to look back on one of the 'big events' in your life and have to remember that it took place at a monster truck rally near thousands of people and with a very good chance of being caught in the act by his ... (read in full...)
We have no sex life!! What should I do?
Q. I am 29 and have been with my gf 29 for almost 2 years in the first 6 months ourt sex life was brilliant and she couldn't get enough of me then almost what seemed immediately it dropped from once every other day too once a month if I was lucky and ...
A. 13 June 2008: Eek, very sticky situation for you to be in. And if she refuses to talk about it or tells you it's your problem not hers, well, that's just not how a strong relationship is built.
Smiles is right, you do need to tell her that you don't see a fu... (read in full...)
FWB/casual do people think he would commit more over time?
Q. Hey all would just like an outside view on a situation. I met this guy 2 weeks ago (total stranger) and we got on very well and have met up nearly everyday since. He is always trying to kiss/cuddle and sends sweet texts about how he misses me etc. ...
A. 13 June 2008: It's hard to tell, but I think LazyGuy might be right here. Why not take the 'benefits' out of your relationship and just stick with being 'friends' for now? If he's not happy with that, then you'll have your answer. If he is fine with it, then you ... (read in full...)
I need help getting my life back on track - can you help me?
Q. Things haven't been good for me for years. 8 years ago my mother lost her still born baby and the chemical imbalance made it so that no matter what I do I can never do anything right. Before all that happened her and I were really close, now I can't ...
A. 13 June 2008: I'm so sorry to hear about your predicament. This is truly a tough time for you and you do sound quite alone.
I think you need to seek counseling, as I don't think a few words typed here from us will get your life set back on track. That is a tou... (read in full...)
I gotta crush for my teach - for the last 3 years - and it's not going away! Help me!
Q. I have a huge thing going for a teacher at my school.... I have had a huge crush on him since the beginning of the year when I was a freshman. I'm a junior now and the feeling is still there. Now I don't think this is just a crush anymore. He wasn'...
A. 13 June 2008: Buy a journal and start writing down your feelings. You're right, you can't tell him about your feelings, so this is a good way to get them out.
There's no reason you can't say hello yourself, but do not expect anything from him.
And you do ne... (read in full...)
She might be pregnant what shall I do?
Q. There is a rumor going around school about my gf dumping me no one knows why but we think shes pregnant (we being me and my gf) I really love her and was gonna propose I already got the ring it was $1,487 which was all I could afford. I was ...
A. 13 June 2008: I think you simply need to talk to her.... (read in full...)
I don't want my 2 regular girlfriends to find out about my girls on the side, but 2 of them are now pregnant!
Q. I'm in need of some serious help. I have been in a long-term relationship with a wonderful girl for the past five years and with another equally beautiful girl for two. The first girl I met through friends, the second in a strip club. I know som...
A. 13 June 2008: Well, since we didn't get an update, here's my advice. Buy some condoms and use them.
NOT SAFE FOR WORK:
http://www.visualdxhealth.com/searchResults/adult_Male_Anogenital.htm
Check with your HMO and sign your new offspring up, as they sh... (read in full...)
I'd really like to hear female perspectives on what sex feels like for them?
Q. I've been wondering for some time now. What does sex feel like for a woman. It sounds really immature i'm sure, but I've always been curious as to what the physical sensations must be like for my significant other. I've talked to a few female ...
A. 13 June 2008: When you say 'sex' are you referring to intercourse?
Again, all women are different, so this would be my response.
It's warm, filling, fulfilling, somehow completing or filling a void, a need for as intimate a connection as you could make. It c... (read in full...)
I don't want my 2 regular girlfriends to find out about my girls on the side, but 2 of them are now pregnant!
Q. I'm in need of some serious help. I have been in a long-term relationship with a wonderful girl for the past five years and with another equally beautiful girl for two. The first girl I met through friends, the second in a strip club. I know som...
A. 13 June 2008: I have to ask, where were you raised? Just curious, so I can think a bit more on this before I answer. Thanks!... (read in full...)
Is "spoke and wheel" a sex position, and if so, can you enlighten me?
Q. I have recently heard the term "Spoke and Wheel". It is clearly a reference to a sex position but one I have never heard of previously. Can you enlighten me?...
A. 12 June 2008: Hey? Where did the manual go? There was some good info in there!!... (read in full...)
Is "spoke and wheel" a sex position, and if so, can you enlighten me?
Q. I have recently heard the term "Spoke and Wheel". It is clearly a reference to a sex position but one I have never heard of previously. Can you enlighten me?...
A. 12 June 2008: Eyes is referring to a couple of threads long ago, Uncle Sneaker. Some of us aunts were suddenly students again in the school of human sexuality...and were passing notes and making jokes just like we were back in the classroom!
And we've kinda mi... (read in full...)
My over-contemplative mind really wants to know do different men feel that different inside a girl?
Q. Hi, I have been dating a girl with a fairly colorful past for sometime now. The sex has been great up to this point. However, like many other guys I'm struggling with the idea of her past partners. It doesn't bother me as much sometimes, but I am...
A. 12 June 2008: You're probably not going to be able to believe me, and I'm sure that other women might tell you something different, but it's not so much the how he feels inside as how he makes you feel. And by that I mean some man might be 0.5 cm or 1.0 cm or 2.0 ... (read in full...)
For the guys that ever let their significant others go because of "internal" issues... what did you eventually decide and how long did it take you to realize it?
Q. For the guys that ever let their significant others go because they were "confused", had personal issues, unsure about their life, scared, afraid of feeling vulnerable, liked them "too much" or for any other similar INTERNAL reason, what did you ...
A. 12 June 2008: I think for a lot of men (and women too, don't get me wrong on this one) there is a big leap from being a boyfriend to being a husband. And I'm being a bit tongue-in-cheek, so keep that in mind too.
Boyfriends:
get to set their own schedules wi... (read in full...)
Is "spoke and wheel" a sex position, and if so, can you enlighten me?
Q. I have recently heard the term "Spoke and Wheel". It is clearly a reference to a sex position but one I have never heard of previously. Can you enlighten me?...
A. 12 June 2008: I'm still trying to work out the physics involved.
*brain working feverishly*
Nope, can't see how that could work without additional help.
Maybe there's a special harness/bed combo that would work?... (read in full...)
Does this girl want to be with two guys at once?!?
Q. So, one of my friend's girlfriends bugs me all day over and over again to tell her who I like, and I finally tell her that it's her and she flips out and says she likes me too. Then after about a week or 2 of flirting to each other behind my ...
A. 12 June 2008: Hi, thanks for the update. I've known some people who cannot deal with not having a 'back-up' boyfriend or girlfriend, as the case may be. They line someone else up when they realize that their current relationship is headed for the rocks, and then ... (read in full...)
Is this considered dating?
Q. is this consider a date? we've been talkin on the phone alot. almost everyday. we live in diffent states. im gonna be where shes at and i asked her to go to dinner and a comedy show with me.she said yes.i really like this girl but i just cant tell ...
A. 12 June 2008: One other thought I had. My now husband and I were friends for a while, and I knew he liked me more than just as a friend. But he was afraid of risking the friendship and how us being a couple might change the dynamics of the group we hung around ... (read in full...)
Is this considered dating?
Q. is this consider a date? we've been talkin on the phone alot. almost everyday. we live in diffent states. im gonna be where shes at and i asked her to go to dinner and a comedy show with me.she said yes.i really like this girl but i just cant tell ...
A. 12 June 2008: That information helps a lot, thanks for the update. Yes, if she doesn't return your feelings, it might indeed make it awkward. But I have to ask you, is she single? Is she a really really good friend? Can you talk about all kinds of things ... (read in full...)
My brother is slowly destroying our family with drugs...
Q. I feel so sorry for my mum. My brother is 26 going on 16, and is addicted to cocaine. He has gone through periods when he gets off it, but ends up back there. Our mum is adorable, but she is soft. She has spent all his life spending on him. He ...
A. 12 June 2008: Ooh, this one is soo hard to hear, sorry to learn about your family's situation. I think I understand your dilemma, so let's think about this in separate areas.
First, I have to agree with you that you shouldn't financially help your brother ... (read in full...)
I've been having an awful lot of vaginal discharge and I have no medical insurance... should I be concerned?
Q. I've been having an awful lot of vaginal disharge lately. I've always had it now and then, but lately it seems like after a day, the crotch of my panties are lined with it! It's thick and white with just the slightest yellow tint. It's also cau...
A. 12 June 2008: Hi, sorry to hear about your lack of insurance keeping you from seeing a doctor. You might be able to find a low-cost health care provider through this website.
www.plannedparenthood.org
There is a search tool where you type in your zip code... (read in full...)
Is this considered dating?
Q. is this consider a date? we've been talkin on the phone alot. almost everyday. we live in diffent states. im gonna be where shes at and i asked her to go to dinner and a comedy show with me.she said yes.i really like this girl but i just cant tell ...
A. 12 June 2008: It sounds like a date to me. You say you've been to Vegas and Hawaii with her? Are you two intimate in the bedroom, or is more a platonic, travel with a friend kind of thing?
Sorry to ask that question, but that information might help us answer y... (read in full...)
He doesn't want me at his birthday party! He thinks I was 'easy' in my past!
Q. I'm so hurt and angry! My bf of almost 2 years is having a birthday party tomorrow. Ok, it's not exactly a party, it's just that his friends and classmates have planned to take him clubbing tomorrow night. The thing is, this guy is so hung up...
A. 12 June 2008: Honey, you've given this guy way too much control over your life. You need to take it back, and reconnect with your girl friends. He's obviously not the man for you if he has issues with your past, I think. This sounds a lot like some other posts ... (read in full...)
Guys, would you date her and kiss her? She was forced to perform oral sex by a previous boyfriend.
Q. If you see a beautiful girl that you really like and she also attends college. But she tell you that she was force once in the past to perform oral sex by a guy she was dating. she said she end it with the guy immediately after that. These are my ...
A. 12 June 2008: I'd let her find another man, one who is more concerned about her than what people might think of him being with a girl who was forced to perform oral sex. It's going to bother you too much, I think, and it won't be fair on her. She's been hurt ... (read in full...)
If we get into a long distance relationship, how can we spice it up so we both stay interested?
Q. i want to know if one should go for a long distance relationship..people say it never works..is it true..we live in the same country but different cities..so even if we get into a long distance relationship..how can we spice it up..so that both ...
A. 12 June 2008: Long distance relationships are difficult to maintain, so this is a reasonable concern. Is there a chance for this to change, at all, and how long will the separation be for?
You could get a webcam so you can speak to each other face to face, em... (read in full...)
What's wrong with my boobs?
Q. i got a question about my boobs. every picture ive seen and stuff seem to make it as they're suppose to be like circles. but mine aren't... they're more like cone-ish. like its like a triangle they're not really round.. and also they seem to not be ...
A. 12 June 2008: There's nothing wrong with your boobs. They're normal. Boobs come in all shapes and sizes. If you're looking at fashion magazines, well, I hate to tell you this, but lots of the boobs there are fake ones. The ones that look like circles probably ... (read in full...)
Is he gay? Am I wasting my time by marrying him?
Q. I've been with my fiance' for 2 years now. We got engaged this past November. When we met, we lived about 3 hours apart. We did the long distance relationship for 1 year, and then I moved in with him. We got engaged a few months later. ...
A. 12 June 2008: Sending nude pictures of himself to anyone, male or female, is a big red flag in my opinion. Unless you'd discussed this already and were okay with it, it seems that he's been hiding a big part of himself from you.
I'd be very concerned too if I... (read in full...)
Does this girl want to be with two guys at once?!?
Q. So, one of my friend's girlfriends bugs me all day over and over again to tell her who I like, and I finally tell her that it's her and she flips out and says she likes me too. Then after about a week or 2 of flirting to each other behind my ...
A. 11 June 2008: Sounds like you've got a drama queen on your hands. She's not as interested in being in a relationship as she is in being desired and admired. You're going to have to figure out for yourself if you can stand the ups and downs being with a girl like ... (read in full...)
How should I deal with this very puzzling girl who has stood me up again and again? I think I'll be seeing her soon as she's on an event list for the company I work for!
Q. OK I really really need advice on how to deal with a tricky situation!!! There is a girl who knew friends of mine and saw me out, she found me on myspace and started emailing me. Apparently I have been told I look like Anjelina Jolie (supposedl...
A. 11 June 2008: Glad I made you smile and could be of help to you. Now get in there and 'sell' it! That is to say, make her believe that she was not worth a second thought by you. ;)
And let us know how it went. My guess is that she won't show up, btw. But you'... (read in full...)
I have an ectopic pregnancy and don't want to get admitted to the hospital as I am 17 and my boyfriend (35) doesn't know!
Q. hi i need help about a month ago i was told i had pid pelvic inflammatory disease, which i was given to by my boyfriend he says he didnt give it to me but i know that is a lie he did i didnt sleep with anyone eles well in say of this i got...
A. 10 June 2008: You can't wish this away, you just can't. It is time to be a big girl now and take care of yourself right NOW!!!!
Go to the hospital right now. No messing around on the internet waiting for strangers to solve this for you. We cannot. You must fac... (read in full...)
I need ideas for hand-made gifts for an ill friend!
Q. my friend is very ill. i want to make her something meaningful as a get well present or something. i'v already made her a hand made card in the past. and a tape. what other ideas could u giv me? any hand made gift ideas would be much appreci...
A. 10 June 2008: Hmm, some ideas. Can you paint or draw? Even a little bit? You could go to a pottery studio and paint glaze onto a mug or plate with her name and some flowers or something else really cheerful.
My mother paints lovely cards and pictures and give... (read in full...)
Man advice please!
Q. i,ve been seeing a guy of 43 for 14mths, i,ve never met his family tho they know of me. were quite close an he,ll spend most of his time with me, then he,ll back off an not contact me for few days.this has carried on all through the ...
A. 10 June 2008: Honestly, you sound like you have very low self-esteem and some jealousy issues, along with a dramatic family life. I think your boyfriend has given you the best advice that anyone can offer you. You need to learn to love yourself first, before you ... (read in full...)
I have an ectopic pregnancy and don't want to get admitted to the hospital as I am 17 and my boyfriend (35) doesn't know!
Q. hi i need help about a month ago i was told i had pid pelvic inflammatory disease, which i was given to by my boyfriend he says he didnt give it to me but i know that is a lie he did i didnt sleep with anyone eles well in say of this i got...
A. 10 June 2008: Have you made your call?
Seriously, an ectopic pregnancy could cause a rupture and you could bleed to death. No messing around here, this is a true medical crisis.
http://www.webmd.com/baby/guide/pregnancy-ectopic-pregnancy... (read in full...)
I have an ectopic pregnancy and don't want to get admitted to the hospital as I am 17 and my boyfriend (35) doesn't know!
Q. hi i need help about a month ago i was told i had pid pelvic inflammatory disease, which i was given to by my boyfriend he says he didnt give it to me but i know that is a lie he did i didnt sleep with anyone eles well in say of this i got...
A. 10 June 2008: Honey, this is a do not mess around, do not try anything yourself, this is a go straight to your doctor NOW and get this seen too NOW!
An ectopic pregnancy is life-threatening for the mother. Serious, hand on heart, do NOT put this off one sing... (read in full...)
How should I deal with this very puzzling girl who has stood me up again and again? I think I'll be seeing her soon as she's on an event list for the company I work for!
Q. OK I really really need advice on how to deal with a tricky situation!!! There is a girl who knew friends of mine and saw me out, she found me on myspace and started emailing me. Apparently I have been told I look like Anjelina Jolie (supposedl...
A. 10 June 2008: I think you're on the right track when you said that you didn't want to let her know that you were made vulnerable at all.
After all, you'll be on the job for your company, right? So, if I were in your shoes, I'd look vaguely at her when I saw he... (read in full...)
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