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Pornography: Help and advice

Could my boyfriend be watching porn because he's depressed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

31 October 2012 (F - My partner watches porn and says he does it because he feels depressed. So, to the men... Is this just an excuse or could he be telling the truth? Also, how could looking at pictures of naked women help him to feel better without masturbating...

So much porn on boyfriend's computer has really grossed me out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

30 October 2012 (F - Ok so I've had issues with my boyfriend and porn from the gate im insecure and hes bot very understanding of that but whatever just some history for ya .... Anyway I went to his pad to do some work for my college courses i'm in and ( we have bee...

Am I over-reacting about porn I found on his laptop when I checked out things on his laptop?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

27 October 2012 (F - Hi. I'm a 25yr old Female. I have been with my bf for 6yrs now.both of us studied in the same uni where we met through common friends. A year later we moved in together.we have had few ups and downs but he has been an amazing bf through out. Abou...

His Porn addiction is getting worse. It's bothering me. How do I raise my concerns so he'll listen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

26 October 2012 (? - I've been dating the same fellow for a couple of years now and the last number of months has giving me grown concern and I'm not sure how to approach or even handle this situation. I've always known that he has had tendencies to watch porn and boot...

He's looking at Porn every night. Is this what men do or is this unacceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

26 October 2012 (F - Mondote: Please provide your age next time you ask a question to help people who answer your question/s. Been with C for 8years, lived together for 5years and have an 8month old baby. Always had arguments about porn with empty promises about not wa...

What's the deal with Kim Kardashian?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

21 October 2012 (? - Hi, everyone. My boyfriend has a thing for Kim Kardashian. I personally think she's an overrated, spoiled brat. He has pleasured himself to her before, while we were broken up, but just recently I had fallen asleep before him and I woke up to him in ...

My Gf's extreme sex drive is out of control. She wants excitement. Does she need therapy? Or is there any way I can help her without breaking up - the latter would make her more vulnerable, I think

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

21 October 2012 (M - Hey guys, I've resorted to reading the site here cause I've had trouble "Google-ing" my situation with any real results. So before I post the question a disclaimer here is; I don't want anyone to comment on how I shouldn't be bothered by my G's h...

The thought of an employee knowing my dark secret is making me ill!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

20 October 2012 (M - Hello, I really don’t know who or where to turn to for advice- but I am extremely upset to the point where I feel like I cannot move on. First, I will let you know that I have been questioning my sexuality for a few years- and currently I feel...

I feel betrayed by my husband. Do I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

17 October 2012 (F - Hello Everyone!! This is my first time posting due to some confussing events I witness today. Well I am a 35 yr old women married w two girls 7 and 3. I've been with my husband for 12 years and married for 2.5 years.. I as a women know that he goes ...

My girlfriend is upset our porn movie has been posted online.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

15 October 2012 (M - My girlfriend is a sweet, amazing girl but very shy 21 year old. She was in a few very bad relationships before we met and has some trust issues from being hurt in the past. I had always wanted to make a sex tape but never did because ...

There are decent guys like me who get no where. Why do some girls allow guys to treat them in disrespectful ways?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

13 October 2012 (M - My friends are always giving me a hard time calling me nasty names because they say I treat girls "too nice". At first I use to brush it off but now it is getting really old hearing them go on and on about how I better check to see if I still ah...

Need help losing post pregnancy weight

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

12 October 2012 (F - My husband and I were highschool sweethearts and have been married for 9 years. I had twins a year and half ago and have been finding it hard to lose the baby weight, I know that snce our babies were born I have let myself go but it has almost ...

Did he act up towards me and watch lots of porn in the hope that I would break up with him first? I still love him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

11 October 2012 (F - I need help with this. I almost broke up with my bf. because i know that there is something fishy about him, although when he says he will do something he sees to it that he will be able to keep his words. He's into porn, i've proven his li...

Has watching porn warped my responses and reactions to sex? He told me I was 'theatrical' when I hooked up with him recently.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

11 October 2012 (F - I have only been in one relationship. It was fun but i was young, naive and a part of me felt like i was acting in it just to be like my friends ( i was 21) a part of me still really liked him. I dont know if i liked the 'idea' of having a boyf...

Boyfriend has pics of hot girls at his job. Why? I feel bad and unsexy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

10 October 2012 (F - Guys, please fill me in on this subject? I pulled up at my boyfriend's job yesterday ( I needed service on my car ) He is a mechanic. On his toolbox, I noticed a couple of posters of hot girls with barely any clothes on and a swimsuit calende...

My boyfriend has a thing for pregnant women, so does this mean he has a thing for my pregnant 19 year old daughter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

10 October 2012 (F - Agony Aunts I need help please!!!! I just recently found porn on my boyfriends phone. I was looking for a pic I had emailed him of a rare protected snake so it coulr be forward to the DNR. The porn was in the downloads with the picture he downl...

I fantasise about ugly old men! Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

10 October 2012 (F - I'm a 31 year old female in a relationship with a man a couple of years younger than me. But, by far one of my most potent sexual fantasies involves far older men, usually 60+, having sex with me or other women in their 20s or 30s. Usually the ...

Abusive past and can't tolerate any porn. How can me and my partner move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

10 October 2012 (F - I have been in an on and off relationship with the father of my youngest son for 7 years. Things have been tumultuous from the beginning, us both being insecure and having other issues, mine being from an extremely abusive upbringing. My step father ...

Has he lost the hots for me? How can I bring back that spark?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

9 October 2012 (F - My fiance and I have been together for a couple years. We used to have sex once or twice a day, but over the last month, he's wanted to have sex a couple times a week, tops. He's not nearly as affectionate with me either. Otherwise, our relationship ...

He likes big butts and he can not lie... why does he look if he's got me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

9 October 2012 (F - my bf is 10 yrs older and we have a good relationship. BUT he has a habit of looking at big butts of colored/teen women on the internet. So if hes happy why is he doing this? is it because im old and white? i feel as if im not good enough. ...

How can I overcome my addiction to pornography?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

8 October 2012 (? - I plan on quitting pornography after using it twice a day since I was 15. Now, 4 years later, I feel like it is holding me back. I've only had one girlfriend and felt guilty using it and tried to quit it, but wasn't successful after relapsing too ...

My fiancé wants us to watch "barely legal" porn while having sex. He says we can learn something from it. Does this sound right to you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

5 October 2012 (F - My fiance told me that we may "learn something" from watching porn together in bed before and during sex. The porn he has always watches though is Barely Legal porn tapes of very young women and men just out of high school. To me that is not "lea...

I stripped down to my boxers on a webcam. Now I'm afraid I'm on a porn site!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

3 October 2012 (M - Hello, Please help me, I can't get this out of my mind. I guess I did something very stupid. About a year ago I went to a chatbox and chatted with a girl. We continued on msn-messenger and then she asked me if I wanted to use the webcam. I agreed...

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