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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Pornography category)

Pornography: Help and advice

My partner of 3 years is no longer is interested in sex and I discover he's watching porn

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

31 May 2012 (F - hi all, i have been with my partner for 3 years we used to have sex regularly, now its once a week if i'm lucky, but i have looked through his phone and our computer and found he has been watching porn. i am a little hacked off at this because he g...

Husband's naught pictures upset me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

29 May 2012 (F - Hello Everyone: I just got married, my age is over 50, I've been married 4 times twice to the first one. I love my husband very much. I will have to say this up front, no man is going to be perfect, "ever" BUT, I have been with him for quite a ...

How do I deal with my boyfriend watching porn? I feel sick at the thought of it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

28 May 2012 (F - I recently found out my boyfriend watches porn, and I hate it! I have some real issues with myself, I have terribly low self confidence and low self esteem. We have a very active sex life, so why does he have to watch other women? What is wrong with ...

I snooped and found my boyfriend had been lying about watching porn, how do I trust him again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 May 2012 (F - How do I trust my boyfriend again after he lied and promised he didn't watch porn, but I found out he does by snooping? What should hurt more the fact he broke a promise and lied or the fact he did not come straight out to tell me he watched it? I ...

What does fantasy mean in the porn world?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 May 2012 (F - I have some difficulty understanding the whole porn and fantasy thing, when men view porn does the fantasy thing mean they just enjoy watching sexual acts being done to other attractive people? I always thought it meant they pick the videos with the ...

Does a woman have to look like one of these pornstars to get attention when she isn't there.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

26 May 2012 (F - I have a really bad problem. I have always been offended by fantasies my boyfriends have. I take them as a personal insult. I take porn use as a personal insult. It all started with my first boyfriend who was into milfs, I hated it. I always ...

Should I leave my bofriend of 3yrs for masturbating with porn?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

25 May 2012 (F - Should I leave my bofriend of 3yrs for masturbating with porn and taking viagra when Im asleep and wake up and catch him? He doesnt give it to me when i want it enless we are off work together. He said that he will continue to do it and i told him ...

I've been corresponding with a well known porn star

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

24 May 2012 (M - Hey all! I've been in touch with a rather well-known porn star as of late via email. She heard one of my latest mixes I posted on twitter, emailed my friend about how to get in touch with me, and she told me she really liked what I did so she off...

What type of porn would he like?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

23 May 2012 (F - my partner and I both enjoy watching porn but we don't do it together, I know what I like but would like to know what most men would like to watch. Due to him being a tight arse and refusing to get a new phone where he could view and download ...

How do porn actress do things with no health risks?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

23 May 2012 (F - How do porn actresses do things like a2m and rimjobs without any health risks? And how do they prep for anal to make it look so easy?...

Concerned about girlfriends jealousy and what she considers porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

23 May 2012 (M - hi all, im concerned about my girls insecurity, recently iv noticed she gets snippy when i talk to my female friends, and she gets in a bit of a strop about it sometimes, she dosent seem to think she is pushing my female friends away by making t...

Caught my boyfriend masturbating to porn 4 hours after I gave him oral. Does that mean I didn't do it right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 May 2012 (F - Okay so I went to go to sleep last night but my boyfriend stayed up. I was playing games on my phone because i couldn't quite fall asleep. I decided i would smoke a cigarette before i finally decided to sleep. I realized that I didn't have a ...

My boyfriend watches LIVE porn. How do I deal with this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

21 May 2012 (F - Hello, I have just found out that my boyfriend watches porn. I have had a look on this site and at some porn related questions, and some people say it's fine and all men do it, and some people say they should stop in a relationship. My problem i...

Why do guys have to give up their porn but girls get to keep their toys?

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

21 May 2012 (M - So I've been reading post about women upset about their boyfriends using porn and post about guys upset about their girlfriends using a vibrator. It strikes me odd at the double standard women have for vibrators and porn. Every post I read consist ...

Is it reasonable to be upset about the porn sites in his browser history?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

21 May 2012 (F - Hello:) Thankyou in advance for any advice. Right basically, I'm in a situation. At my boyfriends the other night, I discovered he watches porn. I wasn't snooping, I was typing in a 'youtube' in the search bar and a porn site came up in the h...

How bad has porn addiction got to be before you dump someone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

21 May 2012 (F - How bad has porn addiction got to be before you dump someone? I would like to hear other people's stories.... I had a bit of trouble with my boyfriend at the beginning I know he's not as bad as my first boyfriend but he masturbated everyday he ...

I can't get rid of the feeling, I'm feeling gross and ashamed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

20 May 2012 (M - i am a straight guy who is in a long distance relationshp with the prettiest girl in the world..but due to some reasn..my gf and i cant talk everyday..its been 3 weeks since i talkd to her.today on omegle..i came across a bisexual horny guy.and he ...

I feel unattractive compared to the women in porn my husband watches

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 May 2012 (F - I love sex, especially with my husband. My husband is rarely in the mood. There is an age differance of 15 years, he is 26 and I'm 41. I would have sex everyday if I could. He likes watching porn on the internet. Which makes me feel awful, because I ...

When she watches porn it makes me feel I am not satisfying her. Is this the likely truth?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

19 May 2012 (M - My wife chooses to watch a lot of porn and this upsets me, and as she knows this now she shuts screen down as soon as i come in the room. I tried to see if wants me to act like the pictures she watches,but she says no. Would her actions suggest she ...

I'm so confused and desperate and I really want to hear his voice again but it's a matter of pride , any advice ?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4448 days ago

19 May 2012 (? - I really dunno how can I explain this feeling am feeling right now , so I've been with my boyfriend since Nov. 2011. .. The first two months were magical by the meaning of the word -- he was so sweet , so romantic and passionate and he used to show...

Do women really hate porn?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

17 May 2012 (M - I have lot of porn dvds at home. My wife rarely watches it. My question is, do all women hate to watch porn or is it some?. If some women like porn what are the categories they like to watch. say, lesbian, taboo, straight, BDSM, oral.... ...

I don't have a penis, am I ever going to be enough for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

16 May 2012 (F - When my boyfriend looks at porn, it's of transvestites. i've also found emails where he's talked to transvestites. When i ask about it he gets really upset and denies everything. i'm very hurt that he won't be open with me. He's admitted to ...

Found that my husband had a membership on a tranny dating site

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

16 May 2012 (F - I have been with my husband for 12 years married for 7. In that time we have had a few problems and have split twice for short periods of time for stupid petty things, the last time being Oct 11 but i was thrilled that we got back together on new ...

Husband watches porn then lies about it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

14 May 2012 (F - What to do with husband lying about porn? Ok so..I'm married and have 2 kids. My husband has been lying to me about watching porn. Now the porn isn't really that big of a problem even though I don't care for it because it makes me feel insecure...

I get excited by dumping women and crushing them emotionally... what can I do to fix it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

14 May 2012 (M - I'm married and I have a baby. I'm also very happy in my marriage and my wife is good looking etc. Yes, I've gone to prostitutes for a few years now, but only to get a physical release to substitute porn. Though, in recent years I've for some ...

What can I do to make my husband stop watching porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

13 May 2012 (F - hi i just got marrried in feb of 2012 an i love my husband but i told many times to stop watching porn..i even cryed to him saying how much it hurts me ..i feel so derpressed now an he still dosent care..if its hurting me..an if not watching porn ...

Why do men marry women that aren't anything like what they look at in porn?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

12 May 2012 (F - Well i have been confused about this for years. My husband dose this and other guys do this and i believe other girls do this. I have put on some weight through the years after i have had my kids and even before then i wasn't skinny but i was mu...

I want my b/f to pay more attention to me than to his laptop!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

12 May 2012 (F - Dear, Cupid. Me and my significant other have been together for almost two years now. And for the past 10 months, we have been having some problems. He just doesn't seem intrested in sex with me anymore. It all first started, when he got a laptop....

What kind of porn do straight girls watch?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

9 May 2012 (M - What kind of porn do straight girls watch? And how often do they do it?...

My husband has gone from an amazing lover to not even wanting me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

8 May 2012 (F - Please help me! My husband has gone from an amazing lover to not even wanting me. He's even gone as far as going into the other room to watch porn instead of waking me up for sex at night, which I'm up for. It's killing me because he used to love ...

The women in the porns my husband watches are so different from me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

8 May 2012 (F - By chance I found quite some porn in the pc and i noticed that all the women in the video are so different from me. Also the sexual positions or whatever happens in the videos is so different from what me and my husband do. I have a normal weight, ...

Need to know what to do about boyfriend who reads porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

8 May 2012 (F - Ok and boyfriend have been together for about 3 years now. I knew he read dirty stories, he never got into the porn pics. I was ok but for the last few months It has started to annoy me. He does it mostly because 1. I will not give into him. I r...

Is it ok for a couple to be Bisexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 May 2012 (M - Hi im 29 and my girlfriend is 22 not long ago we both opened up while watching porn together and said we like same sex no matter if its 2 chicks, 2 males or 2 transvestites we just love it. We both really love each other and want to spend the rest ...

Short term relationships: What does porn and experience do to girls' perceptions of sex and penis size?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

4 May 2012 (M - I get the impression here that this site is mostly about longer term relationships, but I would like to ask something about the purely sexual side of things because I'm certain that a large percentage of girls LOVE sex and will have sex (sex buddy, ...

How can people not think of pornography as cheating?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

2 May 2012 (F - I have something bothering me i've read and discussed this and people say that a boyfriend using porn is no different than him imagining someone in his head but I strongly disagree. Masturbating to porn is alot worse it is an actual picture but ...

Thinking of leaving because he is chosing porn over sex with me, but I'm worried about hurting our daughter. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

1 May 2012 (F - Can someone help me, I've been with my fiancée for 2 years and we have a beautiful daughter together. We've been planning to get hitched next month and now I don't want to. When we first met everything was brill we had an amazing sex life. From the ...

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