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Pornography: Help and advice

My husband watches porn, but won't have sex with me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

31 August 2008 (F - My husband is not interested in sex with me, no matter what I do, and, believe me, I have tried everything. He prefers unusual porn sites (women trampling men, women smothering men) and I have offered to do these things to him but he says he does ...

Confused about pornography. Is it cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 August 2008 (? - I'm 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He's my first boyfriend and we plan to get married after college. I have never watched porn videos, but as a young girl (9-13 years old) I looked at a lot of pictures of naked women. ...

I don't disagree to porn watching, what disturbs me is that when he watches it, he stops making love to me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

29 August 2008 (F - Am I not as good as porn? My Boyfried doesn't realise that I know that he stays up late so that he can look at porn - he don't have an addition to it, but when he watches it, he stops making love to me. We've just had a fantastic fortnight where ...

Is it normal for a man who has a healthy sex life to watch porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

29 August 2008 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We love each other very much and have a healthy sex life. I found out today that he watches porn sometimes. He told me without hesitation and I did not ask. We some how got on the topic of porn. H...

I cheated and don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

28 August 2008 (F - i cheated on my bf of 3 years , after months of his addiction to internet porn, Live web cam teen age girls , not just actors and sctresses. Not sure what to do because I really do care about him....

My current boyfriend is addicted to porn and that caused me to have a fling with my ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

28 August 2008 (F - i have been with my bf for about 2.5 years, recently I have caught on to his obsession with internet porn.Porn really doesnt bother me , we have even watched it together before, but he's sneaking around looking at this all the time(well he thinks ...

I'm hiding the fact that I like male-on-male porn from my girlfriend and I'm feeling disgusted by myself. How do I solve this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

28 August 2008 (M - I'm 25 years old and live with my girlfriend who's 23. In the past few months I've started becoming addicted to pornography, and have much self-hatred because of it. I've bought a lot of male-on-male porno and had to hide it somewhere in our hous...

Breaking up with him seems extreme, but I can't stop obsessing over his porn watching!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

28 August 2008 (F - Well this isn't a very original problem, except for now its happening to me and although a lot of questions I have been reading hit close to home, I have to ask anyway... My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 5 years and living together ...

He has secretly been looking at porn! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

28 August 2008 (F - Here's my story. I have been with my bf for about 3years, living with him for about two. I'm 30 he's 25.The thing is I truly adore him, but we are not on the same level obviously due to age difference.I just don't feel he's ready for an adult ...

I am addicted to looking at perfect men, and can't stop fantasizing! It's upsetting my boyfriend, how do I stop?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

27 August 2008 (F - I have a problem.. I cant seem to stop checking out other men... whenever a handsome man enters my field of vision I am transfixed. I love the look of a strong toned torso, muscular arms, a nice butt, and a handsome face... I am like a drug addict ...

His porn watching is affecting our relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 August 2008 (F - my boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years, and for at least 7 or 8 months he has been sneaking watching free internet porn. some real raunchy stuff. I realized it when i would walk inthe room and he would always shut the screen down. When ...

We're a sexually adventurous couple - could we make money from this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

26 August 2008 (F - Me and my boyfriend have been making some sexual discoverys together. We've tried anal together and sorry to put it so lewdly but I have to go into detail. He likes being fisted and we both like - if you would call it anal oral. We want to try more ...

I can't have an orgasm after I found my husband looking at porn sites! I'm also pregnant...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

24 August 2008 (F - In the past my husband has had no problem making me achieve multiple orgasms. last month I found porn sites on his computer and I am four months pregnant. I cant seem to have an orgasm since, I even had to fake it for the first time in our ...

Should I masurbate or will it affect my health?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

24 August 2008 (M - HI all, i want ask that can i masturbate ? i'm 22. i masturbate every week after watching some porn. i never had sex with any girl. will this effect my health or not. some time i'm curious. i'm 22 170cm and my weight is 65 KG ? please guide m...

I am afraid that I am gay, I like to watch porn movies, could I be gay or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 August 2008 (M - hi im 14(male} am i worried that im gay i get erections both sides mainly the women but that still doesent convince me because when i watch porn i like a certain type of porn(blowjob) i know you dont want to hear this but im scared.. and i cant ...

I can't trust my fiance because he lied to me about his porn habit and masturbation.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

24 August 2008 (F - I had what I thought was a happy relationship and a satifying one, until I found a porn magazine in the bathroom. Then my Fiance' lied about it and said a friend gave it to him when he really bought it, then I found out that he was looking at dirty ...

Jenna Jameson has stolen my man and I want him back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

22 August 2008 (F - Jenna Jameson has stolen my man and I want him back! I have been with my boyfriend 4 years and at first we had sex a lot (as you do), we were adventurous, watched porn together, discussed fantasies and had a bloody good time. After a few mont...

My boyfriend likes watching S&M but not doing it. Where's the thrill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

21 August 2008 (F - My question is bout my boyfriend. We are both the same age. On the surface he looks just like any other guy, has a job and generally gets on with things. Very outgoing and great with people. Grew up in a normal family that likes each other and still ...

I let him enjoy porn--why does he have a problem when I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 August 2008 (F - Why is that when my boyfriend watches porn, im supposed to be ok with it, but when I want to have my own me-time its totally wrong? I've never had a problem with a little porn for him, ever since we moved in together he'll watch it when im on my...

My boyfriend prefers porn to sex with me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

20 August 2008 (F - My boyfriend (24) and I (22) have been together for almost 2 years. I have never liked the fact that he looks at porn and he has cut back for me. Which I really appreciate. But lately I have been begging for sex and he's constantly turning me ...

I want to make porn movies. How can I protect myself from diseases?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

19 August 2008 (F - i am 19 years old girl and i am interested to join a porn movie making company. i like sex so much.i want to enjoy the sex with different male parterner in different style. but i do not have so much knowledge about the physical deseases generated ...

My boyfriend looks a gay porn! Does that mean he's bisexual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

17 August 2008 (F - Hi there, I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, we are very much in love and talking about marrage and children etc. My problem is i recently found out that he's been looking up gay porn on the internet. When i confronted him a...

All bets are off now here in suburbia. His porn habit has me contemplating an affair, as I feel worthless and failed as a woman.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

15 August 2008 (F - We are a middle class family, living in suburbia. My husband of 5 years watches porn Friday evenings from midnight to about 2-3am. Didnt do it in the beginning but now he says he needs it. From 5pm I see him getting ready for it. Comes home with ...

I recently discovered my husband has been going to adult websites. How do men really feel about sex with their mate? Is it meaningless?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

13 August 2008 (F - My hubby and I have been married almost 7 years. I recently discovered that he has been going to adult websites. Sharing myself with him means a lot to me and I almost feel betrayed. Plus, he's never told me he loves me while having sex with me. ...

Are porn watchers just peeping toms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

13 August 2008 (M - Are porn watchers no more than peeping toms. Watch couples copulate whilst masterbating? What do you think?...

She puts on porn when I'm around--what is she saying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

11 August 2008 (M - when i hangout with this girl she always puts on porn or naked pics. and i just laugh about it. is she trying to tell me something?...

An already hot & heavy relationship, yet still a kinky twist!?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

11 August 2008 (M - Alright, this is mainly a question for the ladies but the men are more than welcome to answer as well. My girlfriend and I have pretty good little thing going, ...especially when it comes to the sex. I'll just put it this way, ITS HOT!!! We're ...

How could he hurt me by watching pornography?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

11 August 2008 (? - I honestly believed that my boyfriend was not in the faintest interested in pornography. I have come to know otherwise. I moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago and about a month ago, found him doing the unthinkable. Prior to this and when...

I'm scared about sex - I just feel so exposed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 August 2008 (F - Hi there. I'm a virgin and am in a relationship with my boyfriend of 6 months, who isn't (and who's pretty experienced). I've watched a fair amount of pornography and read a lot about sex, so I'm pretty clued-up about it. But.. I'm really nervo...

My boyfriend has a porn addiction. He does't seem to find me sexually attractive.

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

9 August 2008 (F - I have a problem and I really don't even know what to think of it anymore. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. He's kind, intelligent, gentle, loving, and generally amazing to me. The only problem is that he has a porn addiction. He's ...

My boyfriend has threatened to upload videos of me on porn sites if I ever leave him...Please help!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

9 August 2008 (F - What do i do? My boyfriend has videos of me doing things, and he says if i leave him or don't take naughty pics for him - he's going to upload them to porn sites. If my family ever found out they'd be so mad :( I don't know what to do :( I'm onl...

My fiancee prefers porn over me - I don't feel loved anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

8 August 2008 (F - My fiance and i Have beentogether for 5 years andwhen we first started dating i had no problem with his porn because it wasent a lot of it.then he went nuts with it and he had a gig of it and it hurt so bad because i felt like i wasent hot enough ...

What should I do about my sister watching lesbian porn?!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1755 days ago

8 August 2008 (M - Many times i have caught my sister watching porn and kind of grinding to a stack of pillows (the way a man would to a woman). anyway, it was lesbian porn and shes 12 years old. i didnt tell her i knew in case of embarrassment. but i dont know if its ...

Porn does not sexually arouse me - is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 August 2008 (M - hi. im a guy and im turning 17 years old next month. my friends always go on about how porn is great etc etc, so i thought id try it. but it doesnt get me excited pretty much at all. ive tried, lesbian, gay, threesomes, groups, man and woman, anal, ...

I've advertised myself on a porn site - I feel dirty!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

7 August 2008 (F - i have posted myself on a porn website and now i feel dirty and dont know what to do?...

My girlfriend has been away for a month and a half, I want to masturbate and look at porn. Is that cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

7 August 2008 (M - My girlfriend has gone away and i miss her loads. We have a very active sex life and she will be away for a month and a half. I have thought about masturbating but i'm not sure if its okay to or not. Also, if i do and i use porn to help, is that ...

Married 13 years and I've just discovered my husband's porn sites, he's been looking for women and men!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 August 2008 (F - Okay so here it is: I knew something was up with my husband for a while just not exactly what. But I went on vacation and came home to find deleted pictures on the computer labeled cock 1, 2 ,3. He said he was going to text them to me, but why on t...

I know she loves me, but the lack of intimacy is eating at me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

6 August 2008 (M - My story is way too long so I will do all I can to exercise brevity as much as possible. My wife and I where married for 24 years before she decided that life for her was horrible and always has been, she just didn't know it until a counselo...

Would "naughty" pictures be on a reconditioned laptop??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

6 August 2008 (F - i have recently just found out my bf was using adult friend finder, i am naturally angry. our relationship is destroyed over it. i also searched the hard-drive for pictures.. the usual pics came up of friends and then there were naked pics in jpeg ...

Is he still attracted to me even though he and I have different views on porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

5 August 2008 (F - I share a computer with my bf. He left the computer on one day, and when I got home decided I would go on and check my email... I looked in the search bar and saw he was looking up porn. (He forgot to delete the search bar.) I felt insecure like ...

We're about to get married but he does not kiss me or hold me, he says it's became habbit and he's been getting his kicks from porn! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

3 August 2008 (F - i have been with my bf for 4years now sex was never really a big part of our relationship but things are now so bad he dosnt even kiss me or hold me he says its became habbit and he's been getting his kicks from porn i'm a very good looking gal ...

Why would he rather wack off than have sex with the girl that's right there?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

2 August 2008 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for one year. I like to have sex regularly but I'm not a fiend or anything. He's a normal red blooded male, I know he looks at porn although it's not something we discuss, and I know he pleasures himself when ...

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