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Archived questions from: March, 2012 (see latest in Pornography category)

Pornography: Help and advice

Between porn and his fantasies it seems clear I don't do it for him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

31 March 2012 (F - Hi I have a problem that is eating me up. I have been with my partner for over 7 years. He has used porn since the start whcih is something I had never even seen. Anyway I went along with it to please him!!!! pretended I liked it whcih I know was ...

I'm addicted to paying for pornography

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

30 March 2012 (M - First a little about me. I'm a male, 23 years old, about three friends, never had a girlfriend or sex, not even kissing. I am addicted to pornography. However, what's even more self-destructive is that I am addicted to PAYING for pornograp...

Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection when they have a girlfriend?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

30 March 2012 (F - Can somebody help me? Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection even when they say their girlfriend is enough and is beautiful? Everybody says something like everyone has fantasies what does that mean? They are looking at the ...

Is it normal for guys to view porn together?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

29 March 2012 (F - Hey, I need some perspectives (esp. from guys) on whether guys viewing porn with their guy buddies is a normal thing or not! My bf is open about the fact he occasionally looks at porn sites, and I know he has downloaded videos in the past. He once ...

Why is my ex from 10 years ago sending me porn links?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

26 March 2012 (F - Hmmm, I need some help to understand why my ex bf has started sending me emails with links to porn videos?? We were together when we were 17-20, like nearly 10 years ago! I split up with him because I felt we'd grown apart. Haven't seen each ...

Boyfriend said he doesn't feel guilty about cheating or lying to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

24 March 2012 (F - My bf of 2 years told me he cheated on me with his ex in October. He told me right after it happened and asked me to pleas forgive him please lets try to make this work. I called her and she tells me jhow this is the only time she crossed the line ...

Porn related questions

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

24 March 2012 (F - A few questions.... Are there any lucky women here whose partner does not watch/use porn? Did you have to tell them to stop? Did they lose interest naturally, how long did it take? Why is it so vital to men that they get to masturbate over...

Should I leave him for lying about porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

23 March 2012 (F - Is porn a good reason to leave after 5 years? I've been with a guy for five years and everything was fine until I got pregnant the first time. He used porn everyday although we had sex almost every night the entire pregnancy... 3 years later he h...

My boyfriend is choosing to masturbate to porn over having sex me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

23 March 2012 (F - hi i am 21 and my partner is 23. we been together 6 months but known each other 8 yrs. i am a mum to a 4 yr old. me and my partner used to have sex all the time.....about 4/5 times a week, now everytime i go to touch him or blow him he pushes me ...

Caught my husband looking at she-male porn, and he has had unusual sexual preferences in the past...what does this all mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

22 March 2012 (F - I just caught my husband of three years looking at she-male porn. When I walked into the room, he closed down the page quickly and deleted the cookies, but I still saw what he was doing. It's not the first time he has done it - he's done it several ...

Is my boyfriend gay because he watches porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

22 March 2012 (F - My boyfriend watches porn, is he gay? I confronted him about it and he denies his not. am I being in denial?...

How can women watch porn with their partners?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

21 March 2012 (F - One thing that bugs me is how can women watch porn with their boyfriends/husbands? Aren't you bothered he's getting turned on by another woman, who he possibly thinks is hotter? The thought is horrible....

Do men stop using porn when they have a girlfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

21 March 2012 (F - Hi everyone, us women need hope is there any men here who stop using porn/looking at it when they have a girlfriend? ...

Dumping a guy over pornography use?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

20 March 2012 (F - Has anyone here ever dumped anyone over pornography use? How bad was it? I want to find a man who doesn't use it so I can feel special for once....

I'm more offended by my boyfriend using heterosexual porn than lesbian porn!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4500 days ago

20 March 2012 (F - Am I the only one that is more offended by my boyfriend using heterosexual porn than lesbian. With lesbian he's obviously looking at the actions and that's something he won't get to see. I HATE the idea of straight sex videos, why is he watching we ...

Is it normal for an attached man to pay for lapdances?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

20 March 2012 (F - Hi- I'm interested in guys' opinion on this one. Do ou think it's normal for a guy who has a gf to still go to strip clubs on the weekend with his guy friends and to pay for lap dances? I could understand the bachelor party thing and for single guys ...

How can people compare porn to a romance novel?

This question has 49 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

19 March 2012 (F - How can people compare porn to a romance novel? A romance novel is harmless words on a page, porn is a picture of a real person with no clothes on who exists who can easily be compared. Same with a vibrator it's a piece of plastic....

How to get over his porn use?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

19 March 2012 (F - Does anybody have any tips on how to get over your boyfriend's porn use? I know some women aren't bothered or used to be and aren't now, I want to be one of these women to move on....

What the heck is wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

18 March 2012 (F - Sooo, I know not everyone believes in exclusivity. I do though. Can some one tell me why this is driving me so crazy??? I had a boyfriend, my first kiss and all, when I was 17. Fine. So we were 17, it would be unrealistic to expect anything serious ...

Men, would you cheat on your partner if you knew you wouldn't get caught?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

18 March 2012 (F - This is a question for the men that have been married for quite some time or are in a long term relationship. Are you truely happy/satisfied with your wife sexually? I was reading an article the other day about "spicing" your relationship up....

What are men really getting off on when they watch porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

16 March 2012 (F - Hi a few questions, when men watch porn what are they actually getting off on? Is it the sight of a woman being dirty, are they pretending they are the man in the porno? My boyfriend says it's just the sight and pretending he is having sex with them ...

Is he getting his satisfaction from porn or just not into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

15 March 2012 (F - Hello All, My bf and I have been together for 1.5 years, and we have lived together for a few months. We generally have great sex and frequently. My one big concern is that sometimes he can't hold and erection or reach orgasm. We'll keep tryin...

My boyfriend looks at porn a lot. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

14 March 2012 (F - Hello, quick question here. i've been cheeky and stalked my boyfriend's internet history. i'm happy that i found normal porn, but the amount he looks at is quite a lot. in the 24 hours that he didn't see me, he looked at it twice. he pretty much loo...

Not turned on by straight porn when I'm in a relationship and I only seem to be turned on by gay porn! Does anyone else experience this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

14 March 2012 (F - Hi im a female and i was wondering is there any other women out there who aren't turned on by straight porn enough to masturbate over it? I like watching it to remind me of sex when I'm single and imagining me and my boyfriend. I used to get turned ...

Am I over reacting? He's chatting to other women and telling them he loves them!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

11 March 2012 (F - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 1/2 yrs and I recently discovered he is chatting with women from the Phillippines via webcam again. This is something we got into several arguments about 4 years ago (and he promised to stop) and now I've discovered ...

Porn and erectile dysfunction?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

10 March 2012 (F - I have a question about porn and ed. I have come to discover stories of men who have trouble getting erect over a real woman when they have used porn alot. Is that because those porn women are hotter? Would they still have that problem if a woman ...

How can I trust my husband that he isn't lying about pornography?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

10 March 2012 (F - I have a couple questions... My husband has been addicted to porn for many years, even before we met, and he has lied to me about it. I have caught him several times both in the act and in a lie. He has lied to me so many times about it and I have ...

I kept pictures of my ex that still turn me on! Should I tell my husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

7 March 2012 (F - I know what I did was wrong, but don't know what to do now. I have some pictures of an ex-boyfriend. Some of them are not very appropriate, like he's naked in some, and even a close-up of his 'thing'. My husband knows about the pictures, and as...

I'm having a difficult time with my husband's cross-dressing and she-male porn fascination

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

6 March 2012 (F - Hello everyone ive been having trouble accepting my boyfriends addiction to ahemale porn and crossdressing fetishes. Its caused him to lie to me hide things from me. I know ive not made it very easy to.express to me but all ive asked if him is to ...

My friends girlfriend wants to end their relationship because he used to watch porn

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

6 March 2012 (M - So I have this friend (yes folks, it actually is a friend) who's going through something that neither of us can seem to really get our heads around. His girlfriend of over a year sent him a random text yesterday, immediately stating that she ...

I can't stop looking at porn and engaging in conversation online with women on sex sites daily.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

6 March 2012 (M - Even when I am in a loving relationship, I can't stop looking at porn and engaging in conversation online with women on sex sites daily. I also masturbate daily. My first wife left me (18 years ago) for this reason, and my second wife is divorcing ...

Why does it seem that less and less people use personal restraint in relationships today?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

6 March 2012 (F - How come less and less people have self restraint these days? There are so many instances about people cheating on their bf/gf, students sleeping with teachers and most recently an acquaintance of mine who slept with her sister's husband. Why does ...

Lots of sex, but he's still into porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

4 March 2012 (F - Hello all, My bf and I have been together for a bit over a year, we live together, and are generally very happy. My one concern with him is that he watches porn. Not a whole lot, but sometimes. We have sex most days and we do our best to live out...

Men - if you have a really attractive girlfriend, do you still use porn? Do you feel guilty for using it?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

2 March 2012 (F - Hi are there any men who have really attractive girlfriends as in lots of other people find them attract aswell and they are amazing in bed that still use porn? If so why don't you feel guilty for getting off on others? Also women who don't mind ...

Is my boyfriend a pedophile for watching cartoon toddler porn?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 March 2012 (F - Is my boyfriend a pedophile for looking at cartoon porn depicting very young children? We've been going out for 6 months and since we've moved in together I've been secretly snooping on his laptop and have found many things that have disturbed me. ...

Boyfriend watching porn. Does he care about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

1 March 2012 (F - i recently discovered my bf watches porn behind my back i found this out when i was pregnant so i confronted him about it and of course he denied it so i gave him the benefit of the dought but then whist i was in hospital in slow labour he did it ...

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