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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Pornography category)

Pornography: Help and advice

Does this make me a lesbian?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

31 October 2008 (F - This is gonna be one long winded question, so yeah! Anyway, I'm currently seventeen. I've been dating my current boyfriend for 3 years. When I was young (about 9-10) I used to have the biggest crushes on boys, and it's been that way forever. ...

Porn distresses me!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

30 October 2008 (F - Hey, I have a question, mainly for the ladies, but anyone who can help me is welcome to answer. In short, I have a huge problem with porn. It distresses me, I constantly allow it to make me feel insecure, inadequate, ugly, unsexy, you na...

He keeps lying about his porn viewing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

29 October 2008 (F - an interesting question aimed to the menfolk out there: My best friend's bf was watching porn almost quite frequently. she was finding out his habits by checking the history on the pc and thus confronted him numerous times over the last couple y...

My brother has so much porn on his PC I was shocked!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

28 October 2008 (F - Hello, so I've just had the shock of my life, this is how it starts I'm 14 and my computer for some reason today started playing up saying stuff about antivirus and doing weird stuff, so i knew it needed to be fixed, i'm really good with compute...

Are we just great friends with the passion gone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

28 October 2008 (F - Hi all, My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years, although we only live together part time due to his work at the moment. I always knew he liked porn and we were very active in the bedroom initially, although this was short lived after the ...

My husband beats me every time I nag him about watching porn.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

28 October 2008 (F - My husband beats me every time I nag him about watching porn, his mother has treated me very badly in the past. We are living separately now. When I yelled at him today for his mother treating me badly he said am eating his head. He watches porn ...

Should I make my own porn video for my husband and give it to him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

28 October 2008 (F - been with my hubby for 25 years, we were high school sweethearts. Recently I've been thinking about sleeping with my friend, who is a female, and is married herself for about the same time. I've allways wondered what it would be like to sleep wi...

What is happening to me, why am I getting so stressed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

27 October 2008 (F - Right, so I'm sixteen. I used to be boys 24/7, and when I was fourteen, I watched lesbian porn with my boyfriend. I know, you'll say "underage" and stuff, but just don't. But, the lesbian porn REALLY turned me on. I used to get off to thinking abou...

Why does my husband not want me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

25 October 2008 (F - My husband and I have been married for less than a year. We have sex only 2 or 3 times a month. Is this normal? I realize there is no 'normal' but come on! When we first got married I would find porn on his computer a lot. I tried to talk to ...

I thought that we had a great sex life, I found out he watches porn. He promised to stop, but hasn't. My heart is breaking.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

25 October 2008 (F - I am 35 Years old,Married for 4 years . i my self and my husband still we do not have children in order to have fun in our life .i was very happy with him he's wonderful ,i thought that we had a great sex life together .after a while from our ...

My boyfriend's porn is 75% big girls ( I'm a small girl.) Is he even attracted to me at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

25 October 2008 (F - Help guys! My boyfriends porn is 75% big girls I'm 105lbs, A cup, attractive, and have decent confidence, but I'm starting to get worried about what he's attracted to. He says he only looks at big girls 10% of the time because he feels like the...

What is the point of watching porn during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

24 October 2008 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for four years. Everytime a conversation came up about porn he would say he that he wasnt into it at all, and thay they are all sluts, blah blah blah. Well we are living together now, and sometimes he wants to watc...

His porn watching is affecting our sex life in a detrimental way.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

23 October 2008 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I love him very much and I know he loves me too but our sex life has always been dysfunctional and at times non existent. I am 21 and he is 43, he has some trouble maintaining an erection and ...

A couple unrelated questions here, about porn and moving out on my own.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

22 October 2008 (? - Just out of my mind... Whats so fasinating about pornography? Now i want to know this.... Would i be able to move out of my parents house at 17 years of age? Even if i had a well paid job, and money to support myself? I would really like to k...

We're meeting in 2 months time but I don't know if I'm ready for sex yet.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

21 October 2008 (M - HI, I'm in a relationship and I use to look at a lot of porn. Now that I'm with her I don't, I told her I use to look at porn all the time she didn't. A little bit maybe 2-3 days into the relationship I did look at porn but it did not seem so good ...

Partner looks at freaky and/or gay porn. What gives?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

20 October 2008 (F - I've been dating a great guy since the beginning of May. We get along very well and are currently living together. I have known from the start that he likes porn. I made an assumption that since he had been single for a while he looked at it to ...

Do men really prefer the bodies of their girlfriends/wives over the perfect model type in most porn?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3548 days ago

18 October 2008 (F - Do men really prefer the bodies of their girlfriends/wives over the model perfect type in most porn. I mean do they really prefer a mommy body with scars and sags (not overweight)as they say, over the scarless pre baby bodies on playboy and ...

I want to make my wife listen to me, without her knowing that it is me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

17 October 2008 (F - my wife wants to leave me because i have been looking at sites with women who have big butts. I would like to send her messages without her knowing it is me. I want to save my marriage and i know i can do it, if i can send her messages without her ...

What to make of increase porn use and behavior changes

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

17 October 2008 (F - I'm feeling a little "uneasy" and was looking for some feedback. My fiance over the past few weeks has been coming home and propping himself up in the living room where I cannot see the computer screen (which takes effort on his part) and lookin...

Can heterosexual guys get turned on by watching other men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

17 October 2008 (F - I have two questions I would like to ask the Aunts for help with. 1. Do hetrosexual men ever find sexual enjoyment watching two other men have sex with each other?...Or perhaps I should word my question like this: What is your impression of a man...

She had an abortion the first time but now she's pregnant again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

16 October 2008 (M - Me and my girlfriend had sex not too long ago and we've realised she is pregnant, the first time this happened she got an abortion. I'm not ready to have a kid right now and she is and I don't want to break her heart again - what do I do?...

His porn viewing makes me feel like nothing!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

15 October 2008 (? - hey my boyfriend looks at porn and lies about it and it makes me feel like nothing and not good enough and insecure and upset and it was going on for way to long so i broke up with him. if it is making me this upset is it right for him to continue ...

When I go to church my new hubby watches porn. Makes me feel unworthy and small and picture him doing it.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

13 October 2008 (F - I don't know what to do. My relatively new husband is surfing porn. It makes me feel unworthy and small, unattractive and all the rest. He tries to tell me that he isn't fantasizing about other women but I feel it is the first step he is takin...

Do I ask him about this supposed porn collection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

13 October 2008 (F - I was friends with my current boyfriend for two years before we started dating. Back when we were just friends, he told me all about the porn he'd make with his girlfriend. Now that we're dating, I find myself wondering whether he still has all ...

My boyfriend wakes up at 4 AM to look at videos on youtube!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

11 October 2008 (F - My b/f is always looking at videos on youtube. Most of the time he's watching how some guy does hot guitar licks. Sometimes he researches peddle effects and other equipment. But his youtube habit is becoming more and more frequent, sometimes he ...

Question about porn and live webcams

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

11 October 2008 (F - Hi, this is my first time posting. But this has been on my mind as of late. Is Porn on the web any different than live webcam shows?? I just found out my BF looks at live webcam shows on the net. The porn doesn't really bother me much, I look at ...

He won't go to counseling and I'm in debt because of the wedding! What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

10 October 2008 (F - i have booked my wedding for next yr am in debt with my half of the deposits, we have 2 kids have been with each other for 4years lived together for 18mths he was abused as a child by a man,at the start it was great lots of love attention and ...

I cannot seem to stop watchin porn! Please help

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

10 October 2008 (M - I have been watching porn sine 6 years and when i am trying to come out of it i am not able to do so. Every time i think of not watching it , but again i watch it. really i terribly feel bad.Need your help badly....

He asked me to get breast implants, I refused, but now I can't let go of the worry this has caused me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

7 October 2008 (F - My boyfriend asked me to get breast implants early in our relationship, and it tore me apart because I thought he already liked the way I looked. Why get together with someone if you're going to ask them to change? All of my boyfriends in the past...

Is it just porn or is it something worse?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

6 October 2008 (F - Why would a guy I date/live for 10+ years go to such huge lengths to cover-up looking at tame Internet porno? He has a whole separate browser on our computer and it is set-up to basically not leave any "tracks". He says it's just because he's ...

I get orgasms from porn but not from my boyfriend. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

5 October 2008 (F - I don't get turned on at all nor do I climax during sex. I usually get wet at the beginning but after a short while I dry up and I lose interest and things start to get mechanical. I just can't seem to be in the mood for sex. I'm not sure if it has ...

I like straight and gay porn. Am I bisexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

5 October 2008 (F - Im a 19yr female. I think Im bi curious, but Im confused. I masturbate and get off to both straight and gay(guy/guy and girl/girl) porn, i dont know what this means? Is this normal?...

He can't even get it up with me but after, he'll go watch porn and have no problem with erections!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

4 October 2008 (F - Why does my husband like porn more than me? He can't even get it up with me any more. He is not able to finish with me any more either. Is the real thing not better any more? How do I get him to want me instead of it. Every time I tell him he has a ...

Am I gay, or is this just my hormones at the age of 17?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

3 October 2008 (M - Ok, I am 17. I dont have anything against being gay but i definitely dont want to be gay. I can masturbate to both gay porn and straight porn. It is easier for me to orgasm with gay, but i still get erections looking at straight porn videos. Am i g...

I love my husband to death but he doesn't feel the same, never touches me or holds me, goes on dating sites, knowing I adore him and would turn the other cheek!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

2 October 2008 (F - Dear Cupid, Gosh where do I begin. Well I have been with my husband for 5 years. Only been married a little over a year. I love my husband to death but I know he doesn't feel the same for me. Well he says he loves me but he never shows it, ...

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