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Feelings for ex teacher

Q.   I don’t know where to start :s I guess I’m just curious if anyone else has/is going through the same thing, I’ll try and keep it simple… When I started college I was 16 years old, I was at the same college until I was 21 and graduated. I had...

A.   5 September 2024: I have found so much comfort that someone else put a situation similar to mine into words. I had a geography teacher who meant the world to me. I loved his ambition, his outlook on life. He lit up any room. I was like you - a very shy teenager... (read in full...)

Not enjoying being a mum - how do I snap out of this?

Q.   I'm going to be brutally honest - I'm struggling with mum life, in fact life I'm general! Back story - I never wanted kids, nor did I particularly warm to them (I'm more of an animal person than a people person!). When my husband and I married th...

A.   29 July 2023: Hello lovely, First of all, I’m so sorry that you are struggling. Sending you all the love in the world. I can completely empathise with you. I was in the same boat, also had PCOS and wasn’t fussed either way if I did or didn’t have kids. ... (read in full...)

Not enjoying being a mum - how do I snap out of this?

Q.   I'm going to be brutally honest - I'm struggling with mum life, in fact life I'm general! Back story - I never wanted kids, nor did I particularly warm to them (I'm more of an animal person than a people person!). When my husband and I married th...

A.   28 July 2023: Hello lovely, First of all, I’m so sorry that you are struggling. Sending you all the love in the world. I can completely empathise with you. I was in the same boat, also had PCOS and wasn’t fussed either way if I did or didn’t have kids. ... (read in full...)

Not enjoying being a mum - how do I snap out of this?

Q.   I'm going to be brutally honest - I'm struggling with mum life, in fact life I'm general! Back story - I never wanted kids, nor did I particularly warm to them (I'm more of an animal person than a people person!). When my husband and I married th...

A.   28 July 2023: Hello lovely, First of all, I’m so sorry that you are struggling. Sending you all the love in the world. I can completely empathise with you. I was in the same boat, also had PCOS and wasn’t fussed either way if I did or didn’t have kids. ... (read in full...)

I'm sick of him screaming at me night and day. Should I leave? What if I don't find anyone else?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend since I was 18, I'm now 26 and we've lived together for 3 years. In truth I feel like he is my 'comfort blanket' - I feel safe around him, he makes good decisions etc. And looks after me, I feel safe having him there, And ...

A.   1 January 2019: NEVER settle for less than you deserve. I was in a very similar situation where i had a very 'comfortable' life with my ex and if i'd had stayed I probably would have had a comfortable future. He used to shout, roll his eyes and generally se... (read in full...)

If I meet up with my male friend (who I have no feelings for), will my boyfriend think it is ok to start meeting up with his ex's again?

Q.   Basically. My boyfriend ruined my trust at the 1 year barrier as he had coffee with an ex without telling me, after about of month of telling me he didn't want to see her again, and me crying because he'd be texting her ALL the time. We had a big ...

A.   4 November 2010: heyy, well,from what i can see in this situation that when your trust was broken with that one cup of coffee,it was broken yet again by the texts,then yet AGAIN by the pictures.Thats three times your boyfriends has broken your trust,I think its comp... (read in full...)

Will I ever love again?

Q.   I dated a guy for six years. He was my first real relationship, I guess you could say my first love. We got engaged and had plans to get marriied. After we got engaged we started having a lot of problems. I loved him and he loved me though he wasnt...

A.   4 November 2010: heyy :) Well,from what i can see,you've been with this guy for six years? thats a long time! Don't give up meeting new people,it will definatly help you,you just need more time to realise who you are,you dont have to rush into things all at once... (read in full...)

Friends with benefits?

Q.   Alfredo has been one of my very good friends for a long time. But as you know female-male friendships are a lil hard keep. Eventually it happened, we had a lil too much to drink and we had sex... then it happened again.. and again.. We became s...

A.   4 November 2010: heyyy,I think that,if you like this man and think that it could go somewhere you should talk to him about it.It seems that he cares who your with and get's jelous and whats the harm in asking if he wants anything more? If you do decide to say ... (read in full...)

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