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Archived questions from: January, 2009 (see latest in Pornography category)

Pornography: Help and advice

I looked at porn and feel guilty but haven't told her I did it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

31 January 2009 (M - Ok. i have a problem. I'm 17 and in a relationship. When i was 16 (about 5 months into the relationship) my girlfriend went away on vacation for 2 weeks. Idk if it was hormones or what, but i looked at porn. I did this twice and felt like the scum ...

I want justice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

30 January 2009 (F - I posted a question earlier inquiring about my husbands sex/porn addiction and I was looking for somebody that has or has had he problem and stood in his shoes to answer my question for me, but I was not clear enough on why. It has gotten so bad ...

I need an ex-porn sex addicts opinion

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

30 January 2009 (F - I am directing this question to porn / sex - ex-porn /sex addicts. My husband, although in complete denial is one. I have already going throug hell and back with him when we were dating. He cheated in lied so much and in between there was always ...

Porn crazed soon to be deployed husband wants sex tape!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

30 January 2009 (F - My husband of one year is getting deployed in a few months. We just had a son. While pregnant, he was always looking at porn. It hurt me so badly. We had several talks (he did it more than once) and he FINALLY stopped right before the baby was born. ...

My boyfriend has switched from watching amateur to mainstream porn.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

30 January 2009 (F - My boyfriend has switched from watching amateur to mainstream porn. Why is this? I know I'll get bashed, because I'm the insecure type. I know men will tell me to get over it and quit being such a controlling girlfriend, but hey, I know that and ...

My boyfriend watches porn whenever I leave the house. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

29 January 2009 (F - My boyfriend watches porn whenever I leave the house. We live together and are rarely apart. He told me he threw out all his porn, which he did, but the history on his cpu (which I use for work) says he was watching it last week, in the middle o...

I can't stop seeing prostitutes...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

27 January 2009 (M - hi agony agony aunts and uncles, I have a problem which is really getting me down. To put it bluntly in the last year I have had sex with more than 20 prostitutes. I have no problem getting women the normal way (one might even call me a player...

I look at bad pictures on the internet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

27 January 2009 (F - I need some serious help. I'm not sure how to put this so i'll just come out and say it. I look at bad pictures on the internet. I've never meant to start looking at them, it's just there's certain images, and i can't believe what i'm seeing, that i ...

Could I have developed bi tendences nearly over night???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

26 January 2009 (M - Hi, I am 21 years old and have always believed myself to be 100% heterosexual, until recently (about a week ago to be exact) I have been thinking that I see or 'notice' guys. Sometimes I just think its psychological coz its as if i have developed bi ...

Should I be worried about the "nasty", hardcore, pissing porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

23 January 2009 (F - Do you think it's a serious problem if my boyfriend of two years looks at " nasty" porn , like with women drinking piss while getting f@cked? I don't have a problem with him looking at "regular" porn, but what scares me about this is that it seems ...

Questions about kinkiness, am I a pervert?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

22 January 2009 (M - I want to ask a question about kinks. I've seen some videos that's got women doing men with strap ons. I'm not gay and have got no interest in having this done to me but watching a woman do this is really kinky and gets me going. Is this freaky? I ...

He just likes to look at porn ALL NIGHT, and jerk off..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 January 2009 (F - OKay so, I talked to him last night about the asian porn and everything he lusts after.. I told him. When I stress it's not good for the baby.. And he told me porn is fine.. And I said "every day" He was just well, there's the door if you don't like ...

Her ex has porno of her/him on the internet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

21 January 2009 (M - This one is very complicated I could use some advice on how to proceed. I found pictures on an internet site of my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years having sex with her ex and this has created a tonne of problems. First off we haven't ever really discu...

He prefers Asian porn better than having actual sex and I'm sooooo frustrated!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

20 January 2009 (F - My bf likes Asian girls and he lusts for then on the internet(porn) and it makes me uncomfortable when we have sex. He only likes me cuz, I look asian (mexican) my eyes do.. And I just don't know.. What should I do.. I'm not comfortable with this at ...

He says if I don't stop being so jealous and insecure it's not going to work, But I can't help it, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

18 January 2009 (F - I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years. We have had good times and bad. This my first relationship, well real relationship. Every other guy in my life has hurt me. I feel like I'm not good enough for him. He looks at porn a lot and it ...

Confused about me sexuality and looking at porn.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

18 January 2009 (F - My question, i guess, is sort of about porn. Okay, so i'm seventeen, and i a little sexually confused. i thought theat by looking at porn i'd get a better answer about whether i was straight, or a lesbian, or bi, or pan, or WHAT! in fact, i enjoy ...

I messed up with my girlfriend, and now she's overly sensitive and paranoid of nudity

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

17 January 2009 (M - I'm a 30 year old man. I've finally found the woman I want to spend my life with, and I think I f***ed it up. When I first met her, she made it very clear that watching porn would be a deal breaker. And I wanted her badly enough that I agreed wi...

He can't stay erect but looks at porn every day

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

16 January 2009 (F - My boyfriend and i have been together for five years. We really love each other and we want to have children. The only problem is that we can't have sex. He finds it difficult staying erect. What really hurts me though is that he will look at porn ...

I don't know if I'm gay!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

13 January 2009 (M - i am i 15 year old boy and im having problems i don't know if im gay, people think im gay at times. i like to masturbate to gay porn then after that i have no more feelings for it, i started looking at a women and i masturbated a couple of times to ...

Newly married husband looking at porn, I'm disgusted

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

12 January 2009 (F - My new husband has been looking at naked women on Craigslist and now I feel disgusted with him. It makes me feel like we are not special. It makes me feel like he thinks of other women when having sex with him and now I don't really want to have ...

Help! My boyfriend's porn habit is driving me mad!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

11 January 2009 (F - Hi, I'm not sure if this post is going to be to explicit or not (I mean, I am speaking about porn and my boyfriend's interaction with it) so I'm going to apologise now before I start typing! I just stumbled across this forum and topic whilst sea...

How do I tell b/f I watched porn and it made me horny?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

11 January 2009 (F - my boyfriend and and i were talking today and i asked him if u saw porn(we were just getting to know each other better). he told me that he he use to watch porn, but its been awhile since he has seen any. yet when he asked me idk what to say cuz i ...

Husband is emotionally abusive and visits hookers! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

10 January 2009 (F - So...allow me to vent and hopefully get some advice. I am 29, my husband 45. I am his third wife, but am the first to give him a son. (Sammy, 3 years old and beautiful) I knew from the beginning that he like sex with prostitutes (thought it was ...

Relationship confusion

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

9 January 2009 (? - I have posted here before, but now I know that I have not gotten over it. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and only recently found out he watched porn. Prior to finding out and when questioned he would tell me that the last time he...

Watch porn together? Men's opinions wanted

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

9 January 2009 (F - I am female and in a loving relationship. Me and my man both admit that we watch porn (to one and other, not our grandmother or anything). We have a very active sex life, and have lots of variety with what we do. So my question is i guess, would it ...

B/f on tranny sites

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

7 January 2009 (F - The other day I was in my boyfriends e-mail trying to see if I had signed him up for something for his business...Completely innocient. I am aware he likes or LOVES tranny porn he thinks they are beautiful. I am okay with this, but then I got ...

How do other people cope with the end of the honeymoon period, depression and/or erectile dysfunction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

5 January 2009 (F - The honeymoon period is over. He used to buy flowers every week, that stopped about three months ago. Our sex life has gone down from being sizzling hot. He always had erectile dysfunction but it was helped by the newness of the relationship and ...

Should I forgive my boyfriend for watching porn?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

4 January 2009 (F - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 years. We do not live together and we are both virgins. He recently confessed that has watched porn at least once a week for the last 3 years. I was really hurt when he told me. He seemed to feel bad ...

Do girls have female sperm

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

4 January 2009 (? - im really curious.. you no how in the porn movies,, the guys starts having sex with the girl and all of a sudden a bucnh of watery fluids squirt out of the girls vagina.. what are those fluids?? why does that happen?? and do girls hav...

Husband ignoring me masturbating to photos of Wes Scantlin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

4 January 2009 (F - I've found out that my husband has been looking at pornography online. However, it's not female porn, but pictures of Wes Scantlin (look him up on Google). I only knew about it having found a print-out with a picture of Wes and stained underpan...

Am I normal? Is any other guy experiencing the same thing as me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

3 January 2009 (M - Okay so im a virgin, and when im watching porn (not masturbating) my penis gets hard. And after a while when im not watching anymore, i found in my underwear a liquid... it's not precum, it's just liquid and it does not smell or anything... i can ...

I am pregnant and my partner masturbates to teen porn, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

3 January 2009 (F - I am pregnant and my husband has been telling me to go have sleeps coz I am so tired (which I thought was sweet) but Ive just found out he has been jacking off to teenage porn on line and just trying to get rid of me! I feel so disgusting its ...

I need your advice with my "A-hole" husband.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

2 January 2009 (F - My husband only thinks about himself. He truely believes that he is a better and a more important person than I am, because he makes more money than I do. We always have to do what he wants. All of his brothers tells me that he has always been this ...

He perves at young girls and looks at porn, am I overreacting here?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

1 January 2009 (F - I found out that my 32 year old husband looks at porn online. Mostly just pictures of naked women and women with lingerie on. This doesnt bother me too much BUT I recentely discovered he has been looking at young teens. Now I am only 30 and am g...

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