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Archived questions from: December, 2009 (see latest in Pornography category)

Pornography: Help and advice

I'm almost 20 and I'm bored of porn. Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

31 December 2009 (M - I'm 19 years old- nearly 20- and I'm already bored of porn. It does not arouse me at all any more. It often bores me or disturbs me. At best it amuses me, but it is never arousing to me. I find myself turning to my imagination, or remembering past ...

Husband shows me no emotion

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

31 December 2009 (F - Hi, a very common question. I am wondering if it is justified to leave my husband. We don't have kids yet. My husband never shows me any kind of emotions. He has a problem with porn, which is something told him from the beginning that am not ...

B/f says he doesn't know why he does the things he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

30 December 2009 (F - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years and I love him a lot, but some things he do. leave me thinking is he the one for me. I know that he watch porn when im in school, cuz I go to school out of state. I don't have no problem with him watching ...

Is it normal for him to view porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 December 2009 (M - my boyfriend looks at porn and he dose not know i know he dose but it realy bothers me bc it makes me feel like he dont want me anymore. is this normal for him to look at it or am i just over reacting about it...

I'm too obsessed with the desire to have sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 December 2009 (F - I'm 16 and I have a pretty big problem. The thing is, I've been way too obsessed with the desire to have sex that it's really frustrating me lately. I come from a very conservative family but I've been hooked on pornography for about half a year ...

How do I accept my bf looking at naked pictures?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

28 December 2009 (F - Hi there, need some help! I have low self esteem and I have just found out my boyfriend has been looking at half naked girls on the internet through his phone. I am totally annoyed at this n feel abit angry. Is this wrong? I don't want to say anyt...

Am I being used and should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

28 December 2009 (F - I’m a 43 yo female living with my boyfriend going on 3 years. I want to be married and have told him this. He told me he wants to marry as well but wants to make sure first. I wonder if he wants to marry at all now because I came upon some missing ...

If porn is no big deal, it shouldn't be hard for him to choose, right?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

28 December 2009 (F - Is there something wrong with me? At the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend of years) i told him i hate porn. If he watched it, he's gone. End of story. Reasons being, the girls are someones duaghters, yet they allow themselves to have ...

Porn - how is it fair to the mother of your children

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

27 December 2009 (F - So often I seem to see questions posted by women hurt by their partners use if porn. So many men seem to feel justified in using it even when in committed relationshis. The question I have is how it can possibly be fair to women? So often a couple ...

Can anyone make me feel better about this? I think porn has changed the way people perceive women.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

24 December 2009 (F - Hi. I had a boyfriend a few years back and we'd both never done anything with anyone. when i trusted him, i took my clothes of for the first time in front of him and the first thing he said was "Urgh, youre not like the girls off porn" I was very ...

I watched porn the other day, is that okay and normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

23 December 2009 (F - Okay so I'm 14, and a couple days ago I watched porn with one of my best friends. I liked it a lot and everything, but I was afraid her parents would catch us. Anyways, is it okay and normal for me to do that? ...

My husband says he watches porn because I don't look the same after having kids. Should I leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

23 December 2009 (F - I am thinking of leaving my husband, is this too extreme? When we met I made it very clear to him that I'm not intereted in being with someone who uses porn. I find it insulting and disrespectful. At the time he said this is fine as he is not inte...

13 and addicted to porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

23 December 2009 (M - Hello I am 13 years old, but I'm addicted to porn. It sounds bad and my family knows I am, but I can't help but keep going back!!! I have tried everything, but it doesn't work! I have been in trouble with the family because of this. I need help but ...

When men watch porn is it the sexual acts or the actors who arouse them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

23 December 2009 (F - I have read on here many times men saying women are insecure and overeacting to porn . They claim the man is not comparing his wife or girlfriend to the porn star and he is not getting aroused over another women but that he is aroused by the sight ...

I found porn on his computer, why does he need it??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 December 2009 (F - hi should i be worried , i stayed round my boyfriend house and was on his computer when i noticed a porn website that he vists should i say something to him , or keep quiet about it and why does he look at this when he has me as his girlfrie...

How to have sex life with porn star boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 December 2009 (F - There is a man I have been seeing for the past 5 months we are now boyfriend and girlfriend. I found out he was a porn actor on our third date. He has mention introduced everybody even people he has worked with and caught him in the act on the job ...

Why is he lying about porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 December 2009 (F - Ok, so I've been w/ my fiance for 3 years now, 2 of which we have lived together. He works construction and got rained out early one day, and instead of coming home, went to the adult store. I didn't mind, it was nothing we had done together before, ...

How can guys think its ok to look at porn when they know it bothers their partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

20 December 2009 (F - Just out of curiosity, how can guys think it's alright to lie about porn and continue to look at it when it really bothers their partner? I've never had problems with this (and am not currently), and honestly I don't have problems with porn in ...

Boyfriend has porn videos on his phone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

20 December 2009 (F - MOD NOTE: This is 2 posts that were incorporated into one. Hey wel im 20 n my bf of 2yrz is 23. We used to be so close,but i dnt kno wot hapend. Anyway my bf had been acting realy sus 4 a wile n afta proving to a friend that i wasnt paranoid...

I get very worked up watching lesbian porn, does that mean I am a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

15 December 2009 (F - Hello, I am quite young. Like in my early teens. And I just Started Watching Porn. I watched a man and women having sex and it didnt work me up. But I watched Lesbian Porn and I got Very excited with it. It made me wet and very horny. So now i wa...

This pervy man has threatened me, posted pictures of me on the internet and I just don't know what to do!,

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

15 December 2009 (F - This might seem like a strange question to ask help for, but I don't know who to turn to for advice. When I was 16 I was friends with an older man who told me he was a photographer. I was happy at first because I was studying photography at c...

My husband doesn't show me any attention... he prefers porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

14 December 2009 (F - Well I've been married for 1 year and a couple months ago my husband has started watching porn on his i phone and he was so caught up with it that he wouldn't even go to bed up until 4 am in the morning. He wouldn't even pay attention to me even ...

My partner appeared in an adult movie to get money to support her and our baby!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

12 December 2009 (M - Hi, I have come across that my current girlfriend was recently in an adult film. we weren't together at the time, but we have a child together, i am 22, we had our daughter when we were 20 we were together for 1 year prior to the baby's birth. We...

He doesn't care for sex...could it be the porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

11 December 2009 (F - I am 21 and so is my fiance'. We have been together on and off for the past 3 years. In the beginning we were very intimate with each other. Now we have a 3 month old little girl and I have a 6 year old son from a previous relationship. I know I was ...

I found pictures of nude women on my b/f's computer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

10 December 2009 (F - I found a bunch of pictures of naked women on my boyfriend's cd and a small sex video. Is there something I should be worried about? I feel that he has a problem? Or also feeling that he's not getting enough sex in our relationship which leads me to ...

I found a picture of an ex in one of his girlie mags!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 December 2009 (F - I inadvertently stumbled across a picture of a girl that I thought my boy had stopped seeing in one of his girlie mags. (Not that I read these, but it happened.) Do you think it means anything? Should I dismiss it? She was clothed, but the...

I've kicked him out after years of emotional abuse, his sleeping all day and watching porn all night. Now he wants to come back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

7 December 2009 (F - my husband and i were married for 5 years. he never got his ged or drivers lic. i was injured and out of work for 6 years. since then i've returned to work and began college. he sleeps all day and watches porn all night. i kicked him out after ...

My boyfriend masturbates and leaves the evidence in unusual places

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

7 December 2009 (F - Okay soo my boyfriend of almost 3 years tends to look up porn online alot not everysday but when im not around....this really bothers mee...i know its normal but it makes me sick when he maturbates into out trash can in the bedroom or stuff like ...

I cannot masturbate without watching porn. Help please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 December 2009 (M - I'm a 25 year old male. I've never had a girl in life. I've released my sexual satisfaction by masturbating watching porn. I believe watching porn is bad but I'm addicted to it. I cannot masturbate without watching porn. Help please ...

How do I block porn sites on my computer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

6 December 2009 (F - Hello, I have been trying to block porn websites from my computer and I followed it tells me to do : open Internet explorer tools Internet options click on security tab restricted site sites add the porn site which you want to block...

I really dislike porn! How can I get over this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

6 December 2009 (F - I know this may sound really bad etc But I really dislike porn. I don't know why etc but I just do. Thing is, i've asked my boyfriend not to watch it, because it upsets me and I get jealous. In case he finds the girls in it more attractive than me,...

Discovered my husband strutting in my stilletoes on camera!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

6 December 2009 (F - while searching files on my husbands computer.I found a small pornographic video. This however is not particuarily out of the ordinary as we've filmed ourselves several times. I've not yet experienced any unusual sexualilty with him to this date. ...

BIG problems in our marriage re porn.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

4 December 2009 (F - Hello Cupid Friends.. I been married to my husband since May of this year we have and are having our first year dramas which all newlyweds have.. The first one was his porn collection he loves porn use to watch it every day on dvd on his iphone at ...

Need advice on dating women. I'm starting a bit late at 25!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

3 December 2009 (M - I'm a 25 yr old from India and work as a software engineer. I'll be moving to the US for grad school (Computer Science) soon (by Jan 2010 or Jun 2010). I've had a pretty interesting and different childhood. I've got an extremely strong i...

My boyfriend watches porn and masturbates, why am I not enough for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

2 December 2009 (F - Since my last writing, I was a bad girl and figured out how to hack onto my boyfriends computer. Looking at the history on his computer it said he was looking at gay porn,BIG women porn, and old woman porn. He said that that is just what comes up ...

Cheating men and pornography..what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

2 December 2009 (F - I was wondering what do I do? My dad has had issues with watching porn in the past. It was never really a big concern of mine because I thought it was just something guys do. Then just recently my dad has found another woman online (my dad i...

Is there another side to my boyfriend that I'm unaware of???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

2 December 2009 (F - Hi there, I'm looking for some advice about my partner. I've been with my partner for 4 years now and we don't live together but do see each other 3 times a week, either he stays at mine or i stay at his. The problem is that I have always known he ...

Boyfriend's past trouble me..am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

1 December 2009 (F - Hi there, I'm looking for some advice about my partner. I've been with my partner for 4 years now and we don't live together but do see each other 3 times a week, either he stays at mine or i stay at his. The problem is that I have always known ...

I would rather be single than be cheated on...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

1 December 2009 (F - I have been married for 10 years and we have 4 kids and one on the way. My husband for the most part is a wonderful man and a wonderful father. My problem is that he has a great fascination with online porn and I keep finding he's putting his ...

My live in rarely wants sex..is it me or our situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

1 December 2009 (F - My live-in boyfriend and father of two of my children never wants sex. We are intimate maybe once every two or so months. Our two yo does sleep in the bed with us, but when he or I really really want it we move to another room or move our child in...

Watching lesbian porn turns me on! Normal or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

1 December 2009 (F - right, this might sound wierd but i enjoy watching lesbian porn, in turns me on. but im not a lesbian, is this really strange? does it make me a lesbian, because i really like men and i wud defo say im staight but then i dont know why i get turned...

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