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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Pornography category)

Pornography: Help and advice

How do I overcome this stupid feeling of hurt knowing that he watches porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

29 November 2008 (F - So some may think im over thinking and some may feel what i feel... but its just something that always seems to bug me here and there thought i'd see if i can get any advice or see what others think... my husband of 2 yrs watches occasional porn ...

Porn and texting girls while I'm pregnant... please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

26 November 2008 (F - I have just recently found out that my boyfriend of 2 n a half yrs with 2 kids has been downloading porn videos n texting girl 78888 etc numbers. I was pregnant at the time. Its constantly on my mind n upsets me. what shall i do? Please help.x...

Why do so many men have double standards?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 November 2008 (F - Why do so many men have double standards? My b/f is always clicking on sexy videos of hot females in his free time, a habit which greatly annoys me. So I decided one day to simply set up my own account and start watching sexy videos of hot men. He ...

Could the amount I watch porn be affecting how I get turned on with my boyfriend??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

25 November 2008 (F - Hi. I have been with my boyfrined for afew years now. Atfirst our sexlife was great but it has slowly gone downhill. Before we got togther I had watched porn with ex boyfreinds and loved it. However when we got together and tried to watch it I felt ...

My boyfriend's libido has decreased...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

25 November 2008 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. We are very much in love with one another. When we were first getting to know each other and the topic of porn came up, I let him know that I was not fond of it as I believe it is degrading to ...

My fiance of 6 years lies about porn problem, then blames it on me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

24 November 2008 (F - Hello everyone. My fiance and I have been together for 6 years. We have a beautiful 13-month-old daughter together. Just yesterday he admitted to me that he was using my computer to look up internet porn. This is after months and months of lying to ...

Transexual porn.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

24 November 2008 (F - Dear Cupid, I have a situation which has left me unable to think, feel, react to much at all. I'm a very happy person and let a lot roll off my back but over the period of 4 years I keep having same problem. My husband is a Marine and has been in ...

Since we broke up, porn is doing nothing for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 November 2008 (M - OK, this is a bit of a strange question. Whenever I'm not in a relationship, I masturbate/watch porn with a normal frequency (say something slightly less than daily). When I'm in a relationship that drops significantly (maybe weekly or even more ...

I'm not attracted to men themselves, but their body. I still like girls too, am I gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

22 November 2008 (M - hey, im 16 okay so here goes, i like girls, well at least i thought i did, and i think i'm starting to fancy men. so i've had a rough time, 12 months since my last relationship and not really close since, i've only managed to kiss a girl twice, an...

Hurting from Porn

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

22 November 2008 (F - I am in a 6 year relationship, we live together, and I just found out that my boyfriend frequents a couple of porn sites. I came across this by accident on my own computer. I came across this website by trying to understand why this is happening and ...

I look at porn and enjoy it then feel digusted, am I normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 November 2008 (F - im 15 years old and look at porn. i masturbate of it and everything but i feel really disgusted after. AM I NORMAL? my boyfriend thinks its hot, so is it just me that thinks its kinda freaky and disgusting..? helppp!...

My husband is married to porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

21 November 2008 (F - Hi! My husband doesn't have a big sex drive to start. I will catch him sneaking around, watching nasty porn while I am at work and he is babysitting our daughter(she could be sleeping)=( I call it sneaking, because he will erase the history and ...

Should I marry him if this is how he acts with porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

20 November 2008 (F - my fiance watches porn. It has been two encounters where I have been sleep, wake up to find him in the other room butt naked looking at a porno movie, and butt naked sitting in front of the computer. I guess he was going to masterbate to it until I ...

What do you do with a hubby who creates dating profiles and views porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

20 November 2008 (F - My fiance and I have been together on and off since middle school. He was logged in to my computer and forgot to log out so I glanced at the first page of his email (being nosey) and seen that he had registered with a dating website. I then clicked ...

Porn no longer scares me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

20 November 2008 (F - I have had a breakthrough re porn and I thought it might interest you. My main worry was not understanding what is fantasy and what my partner would like in real life. I found it really hard to talk to him and I was very scared therefore hopeless ...

How to be porn free

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

20 November 2008 (M - Hello I have a porn addiction and last year for the first half of the year I was able to abstain from porn and I was able to focus more think clearer. However, I have ventured back into the porn now because I'm in the offseason and have more time. I ...

My hubby is swapping nude pictures with his friend... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 November 2008 (F - I was checking our email the other day and was surprised to receive this message: "Thank you for the nude pictures. I was glad you enjoyed my nude pictures, I'll send you some more emails of them next week. You'll cum over these. You are HOT!! ...

Please help, I am worried over the porn I looked at.!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

18 November 2008 (F - I am a 15 year old girl, I have a boyfriend of almost a year and yesterday we got close and when we were kissing and things I told him what I would do with other girls partly to excite him but mostly because at that moment I would have and I wanted ...

I decided not to break up but then I discovered he watches porn, am I not good enough for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

17 November 2008 (F - Okay so here is my story. A few nights ago I told my boyfriend I think I needed a break to think things through then after I talked to him a bit about things (the biggest thing was that I wanted to have sex with one of my friends) and I r...

Since he's given up porn he's given up giving me orgasms!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

16 November 2008 (F - the last few times i've had sex with my boyfriend (i have initiated it) i have felt objectified. one of those times we were engaged in mutual oral sex. when he came, i was close, but he stopped cunnilingus and penetrated me (even though he was ...

My husband has always had porn in his life and I'm aggravated and tired.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 November 2008 (F - i'm tired and confused and need help. i've been married for 15 years, my husband has always had porn in his life since i've been with him, everytime i find it i cry i get furious and he says he'll stop and does for maybe a week or 2 till i find ...

Why doesn't my girlfriend believe that I don't watch porn?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

13 November 2008 (M - Hi, I am in a relationship with a great girl, we have been together for 3 years. One problem we have is that she doesn't believe me when I tell her that I don't watch porn at all. I don't watch porn, at all, but she thinks I am lying. Why does ...

How common is it for guys to pay to see "live nude webcam" girls online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

13 November 2008 (F - How common is it for guys to pay with their credit card to see "live nude webcam" girls online? I ask because I just found out my boyfriend is/was doing this and I find it highly perverted and always had the opinion of a guy who did this to be a sex ...

I know he masterbates to porn then denies it. No sex for me !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

11 November 2008 (F - hello every one, i have just written lately about my husband,the one that i have just got married to and he is little cold with me even before he was dieing to marry me,and i found out that he look at porn and play with his self. every one told...

He lied about watching porn for 3 years. Should I dump him??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

11 November 2008 (F - My boyfriend have been together for nearly three years. The topic of porn is something that has come up in our conversations before and he knows it is something I really do not approve of. I found out back in June that he has been watching porn ...

His porn habit is making me feel bad about myself.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

10 November 2008 (F - Ok. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. We just had a baby. About 10months ago i found out he was role playing with other woman on the internet and was constantly beating off to porn when i was not around. He promised he would quit but he ...

He likes looking at pornographic pictures of women with VERY large breasts. I have small breasts. Do I put up with this or move on ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

8 November 2008 (F - Hi everyone. I'm writing in because my boyfriend has a porn addiction. He's been trying to break the addiction for almost 6 months but he hasn't done well. He's trying, but keeps slipping back into the habit. I'm trying to be supportive of his ...

He's showing me videos of his wife and I'm not sure how to react.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

6 November 2008 (M - Hi. I am a man in my 30's, single and have had little sexual experience. My main form of relief is masturbation over pornography which, at times, can be a little dull and lonely. On the odd occasion I watch pornography with a close male frien...

I try to spice up our sex life, but the hubby isn't into it... or me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

6 November 2008 (F - I am a young female 26 and my boyfriend (soon to be husband) is 42 we have been together for 5 yers. I am in love with him but sometimes I don't know if he feels the same way. We have kids together and i think he think i'm not sexy anymore. He looks ...

I showed him porn sites, but has he taken it too far? Confused and hurt...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

5 November 2008 (F - I am going to make it clear to everyone that I have nothing against porn.. Heck, I even showed my boyfriend a bunch of different web-sites so that we could watch them together! But now, of course I think I might be regretting that decision. I am...

Is it normal for him to have naked women on his phone?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

3 November 2008 (F - My husband thinks it's normal for him to post naked women on his phone. I disagree. Help please. ...

My penis is aroused every morning, is that normal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

2 November 2008 (M - Hi. I am 22 year old guy. Every morning when i wake up my penis is erected and really hard. I am a virgin and i masturbate quite often. (daily or once every two days). I masturbate to pornography. I think i dream too much about the pornography,...

Porn in relationships? Healthy or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

2 November 2008 (F - I just wanna get your feedback on how you feel about Porn in relationships. tell me as much as you can please! answers from both sexs is appreciated!i feel as if him watching porn is affecting my sex drive with him and im not wanting to have as much ...

My boyfriend, porn habit, no sex, being told I'm manipulative

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

1 November 2008 (F - Okay..my boyfriend of about a year has always used porn as an outlet. He's upfront and honest about it, how he spends hours browsing and downloading it. He's even shared some of it with me, etc. I DO enjoy some of it. Although deep down I feel ...

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