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Pornography: Help and advice

Checked out a porn link in my b/f's history

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

31 August 2010 (F - I have a huge problem with my boyfriend's porn watching habbit. We've talked about it, and despite saying he'd never watch again, he still watches it every time I'm not home like I knew he would. But that's not EXACTLY why I'm upset. I feel super ...

I don't want to depend on porn to keep me horny

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

30 August 2010 (? - I am having a problem with maintaining the right thoughts during sex. Sometimes, I get so preoccupied with other thoughts, I actually lose my erection or dont orgasm. I look at porn online often, and find that it stimulates me mentally and helps ...

Surely its up to me if I watch porn! Isn't it?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

29 August 2010 (M - Men are visual when it comes to sex! Its a fact..so if your girlfriend will not do sertin things in bed then is it really that rong to watch porn? Insted of tryin to make her do sertin things that she don't wanna do I think she should be fine with ...

How can I stop going into a panic over every little thiing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

27 August 2010 (F - I have lots of panic attacks about the littlest things. I really am not pleased with how I look and sometimes my boyfriend is kinda stuid and makes comments about my body or other girls body. I panic and shut down . Also, my boyfriend watches porn ...

Why do all the men in my life turn to porn?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

27 August 2010 (? - LONG story short: My boyfriend is great and I love him dearly. But (there's always a but, right?) I found porn on my computer and now I'm having trust issues. I confronted him and he has stopped (for 8 months now). I just can't quit thinking ab...

Porn is controlling my life! How do I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

26 August 2010 (M - i don't know where should i start, anyway it happened about 5 months ago, before that i didn't care about porn or pornographic. by the way I'm still virgin, and right now I'm Wasting about 10 hours each day on this shit and I'm deadly need ever...

I'm fine with him watching porn but he lies about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

25 August 2010 (F - Ok, so its my first time writing on anything like this, but I've talked (complained...whatever) to what seems like a hundred people and I feel like I need some sort of advice as to what on earth to do! Here goes. I have been with my boyfriend f...

He locks up his PORN!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

25 August 2010 (F - My lover lives abroad but we see each other as often as possible. However there is something that bothers me about him, he keeps his porn actually locked in a drawer and wont let me see it (although he did once ask if I wanted to watch a porn film ...

I was really offended. Am I being silly?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

25 August 2010 (F - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. He is really great and we get on so well. Just the other night we where lying in bed as usual watching tele and he said to me “if you gave me a blow job for everytime I've watched porn you have a ...

If a man views porn, is that sufficient reason for a woman to break off the engagment?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

23 August 2010 (M - Here is my situtation. I am 60 yrs old, of Italian heritage, and my now ex-fiancee is 54 and of Korean heritage. I am a widower; she has been divorced for 6+ years. I say this to put things into perspective. I am retired and a very succ...

I want to do PORN!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

23 August 2010 (F - I want to do porn, but i come from a religious family and i dont want to disgrace them but its something that ive really tooken an interest to, i have the confidence and body to do it, and i have this really bad sex addiction which seems quite ...

Is porn just mental cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

23 August 2010 (F - I understand that porn isn't technically cheating. But I feel like my boyfriend may have a slight obsession with it. He looks at it every day of the week, maybe only 5 or 6 days some weeks, but for the most part, he does it every day. We are in a ...

My daughter does PORN!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

23 August 2010 (F - i have found out in the last year that my daughter is a pornstar and before that worked as a escort, i am finding this hard to deal with as she does not care whom it affects in her life, i have just lost my relationship over what she does, my ...

I feel like I have a teenage son not a husband! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

23 August 2010 (F - I am at a loss of what to do Ive been with my husband for almost 11 years and married for 6. He has been smoking cannabis about 3 joints a day everyday for the last about 4 months.I have found porn on the computer related to anal sex and latex. ...

Jealousy complex: please help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

23 August 2010 (F - hello everyone, I'm using my cell phone for this and this is my first time using this site..im looking forward to your help. I think I have a complete jealousy complex. but the thing is, do I have one for a reason? f.t.b.: me and my guy have been ...

Wife watching porn instead of having sex

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

23 August 2010 (M - Hi, Im having a problem with my wife. About a year ago she started watching porn just every now and then to spice things up. After a few months it came to having to watch it every time we had sex so she would be in the mood. then just a few mont...

Porn makes me physically sick, how can I tell my b/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

23 August 2010 (F - Hey well iv never watched porn before but my boyfriend wanted me to try it cause he thinks i would like it. When i watched it it made me throw up i was grossed out by it. Should i tell him i watched and it made me throw up? Is that normal to have ...

Lying about watching porn...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

22 August 2010 (M - I've been lying to my girlfriend for years about my porn use. She caught me lying to her a few times in the beginning of our relationship (about other things as well as porn use) and has never really trusted me again properly since then. However I ...

Is it normal for men to masturbate to other woman in relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

22 August 2010 (F - Is it normal for men to masturbate to girls that they know and are attracted to while in a relationship? Do women also fantasize about other men that they know while they are in a relationship?...

My boyfriend was trying to get me to leave the room to masterbate!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

21 August 2010 (F - Ok, so if you've ever seen those things on the internet where the girl or guy is asking for help because they walked in on their partner masterbating, well here's another one. Now you see, i don't have a problem with the guy masterbating, bu...

I simply cannot come to terms with my man watching porn

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

20 August 2010 (F - I am one of those dreaded women that simply cannot come to terms with my man watching pron. I have struggled with this since the day I started dating guys. I have literally done everything I can think and everything people have suggested to make ...

Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?

This question has 199 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

19 August 2010 (F - ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...

I have a sexual problem and it's killing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

18 August 2010 (F - I have a sexual problem which is killing me! When I was a teenager, I was horny as hell. Always horny, fantasizing and masturbating (although I couldn't orgasm back then). Then I started dating a guy at 18. The first months, I was horny all the ti...

Is it normal for a girl to think about sex all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

18 August 2010 (? - iam a girl and i always think about sex, even though my boyfriend satisfy me all the time and i am happy with him. when i am not with him i always watch porn to satisfy myself. is it normal for a girl to think about sex all the time?...

My husband is into BESTIALITY PORN!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

17 August 2010 (F - Help!! I have just discovered that my husband of 30 years is into bestiality-porn!! I dont have a problem with him watching porn, which he has not lied to be about, but I have recently noticed that he has been downloading tons of disgusting images ...

Women, what kind of porn do you like?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

17 August 2010 (F - straight women, what kind of porn do u like?...

My father's porn addiction is tearing my family apart :( How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

16 August 2010 (F - I'm finding it very difficult to cope with my family atmosphere at home at the moment. I live with my parents and a teenage sibling, and a few times in the past I have stumbled across my father's pornographic materials, like books, videos and ...

Watching porn and mastrubating since break-up, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

16 August 2010 (F - My ex-boyfreind is in a fade lower than me n I'm 14 n he btmroke up with me over a text, I don't know how to get over him what should I do... Oh n since we broke up I've been masterbating alot n watching porn 2 is this odd ...

Child pornography on boyfriend's computer

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

15 August 2010 (F - ok my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 yrs. he likes to watch porn hes nearly 25 and a couple of months ago i confronted him on how much porn he was looking at only to find disgusting child pornogrphy on our laptop. he swore it wasnt his and ...

I can't last long when I masturbate to porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

15 August 2010 (M - okay so i'm 19 and i've always suffered from premature ejaculation right back when i started having sex at 16 I recently bought a Stamina Training Fleshlight that says it can improve your sexual stamina The thing is, without and pictures o...

Live in partner has been looking at porn!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

12 August 2010 (F - The other day I was going into my history because I was searching for a holiday and forgot the website I found one on. My partner and I share the laptop and while I was in the history I was shocked and disgusted to see a free pornographic website ...

Should I tell my b/f I watch porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

12 August 2010 (F - I watch porn and i just want to know is it okay?? My boyfriend dosnt know. should i tell him. I have been masterbating for ages and is it wrong still my bf dosnt know about this. Should i wait a bit longer to tell him any of this stuff let him grow...

Porn for women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

11 August 2010 (F - [OP original title] Hi there. With all these porn questions flying around... I just had to ask: where can I find the porn for women? Guys have their places for porn, and it is quite easy to come by. But as we women know, they don't really work fo...

Is this a common fetish and should I be worried?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

11 August 2010 (F - I am a 23 year old wife and mother of 3 and my husband has just told me that he has a fetish for shemale's. We have been together for six years and married for 5 and since the begining of our relationship I have always known that my husband was ...

I didn't realize how much time he spent on pornography until just recently

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

10 August 2010 (F - My boyfriend and I have a healthy relationship of almost 4 years. I have never been the type of girl to complain about pornography, I in fact enjoy watching it myself and have encouraged the openness and sharing of it in our relationship. He has ...

I don't like him watching porn alone! Should I just watch it with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

8 August 2010 (F - I don't like my boyfriend watching porn. It makes me feel like I am not good enough for him. Just the thought of him watching other naked girls and doing the nasty with himself makes me sick. Should I just watch it with him? Would he stop watching ...

Porn after sex

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

7 August 2010 (F - Hi there, My problem is this: My husband has always been addicted to porn. Ever since we first got married, it's been a constant thorn in my side. I have sex with him so I know that's not the problem. I've told him how it hurts my feelings, but ever...

He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

6 August 2010 (F - [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...

Porn versus love

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

4 August 2010 (F - Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...

Conflicted feelings of love and bitterness towards my boyfriend....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

4 August 2010 (F - Recently I've been having conflicting feelings of love and bitterness towards my boyfriend of a year and a half. I love him, he's kind and caring and makes me laugh, and a lot of the time everything seems fine, like it always has been: we'll go ...

Is this website my fiance is using just a porn site or is it a chat site?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

4 August 2010 (F - Hi, I'm marrying my man on August 30th this year.... I've noticed in his internet history (recent) that he uses 'Stream Mate' which is live porn, and wondered if anyone can tell me if this is a chat place, or can it be used solely to watch? I'm n...

I'm not in a very good place at the moment and need your help guys...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

3 August 2010 (F - Dear Agony Aunt Please can you help. I am 54 years of age as is my husband. Recently I have noticed that he has been visiting porn sites on the internet most mornings and evenings. Is this normal for a man of his age? Our sex life hasn't ...

Fiance seems to love porn more than me. Any other guys out there who do that?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

3 August 2010 (F - Help! I honestly don't know what to do. I am engaged to a 28 yr old man that i have been with for almost 2 years now. When we first got together we had sex alot. But now i ask him to make love to me and he says he's too tired or something else. ...

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