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Archived questions from: May, 2009 (see latest in Pornography category)

Pornography: Help and advice

My husband never comes to bed with me unless he wants sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

30 May 2009 (F - hi,just wanted to know if anyone could give me some advice.i am married with two children and pregnant at the moment my husband never comes to bed with me unless we are going to have sex .he has always had an interest in porn and one particular ...

Obsessed with lesbian porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

29 May 2009 (F - hey im 19 yr old girl, im engaged and pregnant but i have an obsession with lesbian porn, i watch it daily. i dont fancy women but id love to hav a woman go down on me, it gets me so horny when i watch it on videos. i love oral sex of my bf and ...

I have a massive porn addiction

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 May 2009 (M - hi, this is more confession than question but i would like some feed back so i have a pretty...well lets call it healthy, sex drive. i think sometimes it screws with me being happy with my life. i dare say i am on the boarder of being a porn add...

How will our sex life ever get better if he wont stop masturbating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

27 May 2009 (F - My question is would you stay married to a man who lies and sneaks around behind your back. We have been married for 31 years, and 2 years ago I discovered he was watching porn and masturbating, we had no sex life, no wonder, anyway he promised to ...

Addicted to porn

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

26 May 2009 (F - About a month ago my boyfriend and I talked about how much his watching porn bothered me, he said he would stop because of how much it bothered me. After several weeks of assuring me he had not watched any porn, yesterday I found out he was lying...

Can't get my boyfriend to stop watching porn, what can I do to change this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

24 May 2009 (F - Oh boy, where do I start. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, he's everything I've ever wanted in a person; faithful as hell-we basically see each other everyday or every other day and he does so much to prove how much he care for me. ...

He's addicted to porn, boring and I'm sick of it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

23 May 2009 (F - I have been married for 3 1/2 years and already feel as if I made one big mistake :-( My husband is EXTREMELY boring in every sense of the word. He does not stimulate me at all. His conversation is one and only one topic and even with that topic ...

How to get to the root of my distaste for pornography?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

22 May 2009 (F - Recommendations as to figuring out why it bothers me so much and how to get past it? I ask because it really bothers me when I am in a relationship and I know my significant other is viewing pornography. I'm realistic enough to realize that thi...

My boyfriend sneaks out of bed to watch porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

22 May 2009 (F - Well I know this kind of situation has been bought up on here before, but would feel really appreciative if i could have some answer's personal to me. See the thing is I escaped an abusive relationship with my ex husband, for example controll...

Why can't he be happy just having sex with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

22 May 2009 (F - Okay well i guess this is a really common topic but.. ive been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and ive always been pretty self concious about myself but after being with him for so long i just feel like dirt. hes been cheating on me a...

The great porn debate

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

21 May 2009 (F - p /> Please check out this post http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-could-he-hurt-me-by-watching-pornography.html I was trawling through the site the other day and found the question above. Everyone congratulated this girl jessica on ...

I feel so weird and confused...and gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

21 May 2009 (M - I am 15 years old close to sixteen and im warried about my sex life i truly don't want to be gay because i want a big family but i get attracted 2 men when i was around 5 to 7 i had alot of girlfriends and i was around many guys and i had a best ...

I want to try lesbian sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

20 May 2009 (F - I wana try lesbian sex, but i don't know who i would try it with, i don't have many friends and the ones i do have are too close to be asking that kinda stuff. girls really turn me on, i love boys though just the thought of women together gets me ...

What is love then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

20 May 2009 (F - love my bf more than any body even more than myself whatever i did till date i did it for him and never looked at any other guy or felt like looking at nude men even...my bf is the only person in my mind..since paet 8years and i have no inclinatons ...

I find myself wishing I was with someone else and having dreams about other people.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5546 days ago

20 May 2009 (F - So here is the basic. I am seventeen with a nineteen year old guy. I am pregnant with his baby. We have been living together for just over a month. I love him with all my heart but lately it feels like I am just not good enough for him anymore....

How do I get rid of this porn fetish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

19 May 2009 (M - I have a porn fertish and I want to get rid of it can anyone help?...

What porn do women like to watch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

18 May 2009 (M - My wife and I love watching porn together, but I admit porn is geared more toward men. What kind of porn is fun for women to watch?...

Help!!! How can I get my husband's attention?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - I've been married to my present husband for a year now. When we first got married, we didn't live together for almost 8 months! He finally moved in with us in January this year. 5 weeks later I found out that he loves to watch porn on the computer ...

He says he's not physically cheating...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - I have been in a relationship for 10 years. We finally planned to marry. He works out of town for weeks at a time then comes home for a week. I have caught him several times on porn sites and webcamming on adult sites. He says he's not physically ...

Porn as the aphrodiasc, then sex with me later?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

14 May 2009 (F - Found out my boyfriend doesn't have sex with me without having looked at porn first. How on earth am I supposed to react to that?...

It is normal for me to fantasize about porn while I'm having sex with my lady?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

14 May 2009 (M - okay so i have a question, and need to know if anyone else goes through this... is it normal for me to fantasize about pornography when im having sex with my girlfriend? can she sense it somehow?...

I love porn but don't like to watch it with my husband

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

13 May 2009 (F - Im married and we are in a healthy sexual relationship. Now a days I love to watch porn sights. I become bit nervous when me and my husband watch those sight together. But whenever Im alone I love to watch those sights and think of having similar ...

My boyfriend prefers to have sex with his computer rather that having sex with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

12 May 2009 (F - I have a problem. I am living with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and our sex life has decreased a lot. We are only 24 years old. We pretty much don't have sex anymore. I been dealing with this for about a year. It seems to me like if he dont feel ...

Does he want me to act like a pornstar?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

12 May 2009 (F - About a month ago my boyfriend asked me if we could have sex in a different position (just to make things a little different) i'd already been on top, so he said why not face the other way? I instantly felt uncomfortable and said no. I asked why he ...

No sex with me but looking at porn

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

12 May 2009 (F - Hi. I've never done this before, but then again...I've never had the sort of problem that I have now. I am 26, and have a bf that is 28. When things started out, they were good. My bf seemed really into me. Lately, (and we've been together a ...

Another porn problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

10 May 2009 (F - I have been dating my boyfriend for 5months now!! We have a fun and fufilling relationship and sex life, but i have a problem understanding his obsession with porn. We have watched it together, which i dont mind, but recently alot of the time i ca...

Why the gay sex pornography?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

10 May 2009 (F - I am just 22 have been marrid to my husband for almost 2years. Recently i have caught him watching gay porn and when i asked him that if he wants to tell me something or if he is a gay he denied it. After that he stopped for a week and then started...

Help! He's too tired to sleep with me but stays up all night to watch weird porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

10 May 2009 (F - *sigh* okay so here it goes i apologize for grammar since now because i am in a hurry. Okay so some inside details, I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years now, things were fine at the beginning of our relationship. and things moved ...

Boyfriend watching porn while I'm in the next room

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

8 May 2009 (F - My boyfriend and I have been living together for the past 6 months. I've been unemployed and he works from home so we've been seeing A LOT of each other! Not surprisingly our sex life at the beginning was amazing and very frequent. Now it...

My boyfriend would rather climax watching porn, than satisfiy me, what can I do about this, please help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

8 May 2009 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. He enjoys porn alot. I mean alot. At first we had sex frequently and he appeared to enjoy himself. I have always had a high sex drive myself. However, when we were first together he did not ...

Can't get my boyfriend to stop being sneaky and watching porn behind my back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

6 May 2009 (F - Hi folks, this is making me upset while i'm thinking about it but i can't get my boyfriend to stop sneakily watching porn. It's so upsetting because i lost my virginity to him but that doesn't mean we don't have amazing sex. We play lots and i ...

Husband's porn viewing has made me feel small

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

5 May 2009 (F - My husband's porn viewing has made me feel small recently. He's been looking at pictures of "hot guys", shirtless pictures of men including Gael Garcia Bernal, George Clooney, David Beckham and Russell Brand. It makes me feel like I can't compete ...

Some interesting facts on porn to share

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

4 May 2009 (F - hey everyone,this is my second article for dear cupid site..thx for the over whelming response over the first. In this article i am going to talk about PORN ADDICTION i have come across a lot of people on this site seeking help for themselves or th...

I told my parents that my little sister has been watching porn on the net. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

2 May 2009 (M - I checked the history and saw that my little sister was checking out porn, but I didn't say anything and didn't tell my parents. I just gave her a blinded/empty warning.. I wanted to see it with my own eyes before I tell..... So yesterday I caught...

What is uncensored porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

1 May 2009 (F - Hi guys! I recently found out that my partner has a uncensored website. He also sells viagrra and something called cilas. Firstly what is uncensored porn? And is it ok for him to sell viagra? I've asked but he wont discuss business. He's now ...

Porn and virginity

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

1 May 2009 (F - I know this is a stupid question but I was asked to answer it and I actually couldn't answer. If a virgin watched porn and reacted to it, can this rip her hymen?...

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