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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Pornography category)

Pornography: Help and advice

So why did he do this? Why was he involved in these sex sites, and connecting to women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

29 November 2009 (F - I have been in a relationship for three and a half years now. My man was a very moody person, but I, being passive, could usually take it. Like every other couple, we had our ups and downs. A year ago as I went to use his computer, I saw that he ...

Porn and masturbation addiction... Desperately need help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

27 November 2009 (M - I desperately need help. I would say I am addicted to watching porn and masturbating. I am a relationship for 2 years and we do have sex, sometimes amazing and sometimes dull. She makes love the way I want but not always and not everything that I ...

For the men out there: Why would my husband be looking at naked pictures of women but not masturbating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

25 November 2009 (F - Hi...I need a guy's point of view on this...and obviously if a lady would like to add, then all help would be appreciated. It's to do with porn! (like thousands of other questions on here!!) why does it seem to be such a problem? My h...

My husband doesn't listen to me and I think there is more to his 'friendship' with an older woman

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

25 November 2009 (F - HI i just got married this year in may and me and my husband are having a difficult time. i am currently pregnant this is the second baby our first i miscarried and i have a hard time believing that he still loves me. i accuse him of cheating...

Is it possible for someone to have accessed porn because my router has no password? Or is my boyfriend lying to me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

24 November 2009 (F - Hi there, I am looking for a little bit of advise. I have a very strong view on porn n I total hate it. Personal reasons of course. Do not want to offend anyone who enjoys it. Anyway, my boyfriend of 4 years knows my view on this but I went for a...

For the men out there: Does seeing images of half naked men make you feel insecure? How does it affect your self-esteem?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

23 November 2009 (F - For the guys only: A lot of women write on this site that thier significant other views porn and it makes them feel insecure as the porn stars are well endowed with fake boobs. In addition, the women write they are inundated by the media with i...

Now I feel like my body is ugly, how do I deal with his comments about my body?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

22 November 2009 (F - Last night my boyfriend and I were watching TV. There was this movie where a guy was watching porn, and they showed the porn star a lot, with her huge boobs all over the place. I kind of got upset, but said nothing, yet my boyfriend picked up on it ...

He asked me why I was so quiet and I told him... did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

21 November 2009 (F - My boyfriend sent me a message two days ago asking why i had been so quiet with him recently and he knows i find it difficult to express my feelings face to face so he said to tell him in a message. So i did. I told him that i feel like i cant...

How do I tackle this problem of watching too much porn?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

20 November 2009 (M - hi cupid, am a young guy of 22. i have a serious issue that disturbed my life sometimes and trying to stop this but it's just like pouring water on the stone. I have sexual feelings whenever I see a woman naked or watch a porn movie not only that, ...

He just wont touch, kiss or hold me...and we've only been married 46 days!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

20 November 2009 (F - Hi. I've been married for just under 2 months, been with him 5 years. We're both 25. Lived together for 3 years. In the past 2 years, our sex life has diminished drastically. Mind you, in the past two years, he's been in University doing a ...

I love her dearly but really don't know if the feeling is mutual anymore

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

18 November 2009 (M - I am a 47 year old male, my partner is 32 we have been together for about 12 years now and have a lovely six year old daughter. I tell her i love her everyday,she only says this if i have said it first. if i go to cuddle her its as though i am in he...

My husband's addiction to porn is destroying our lives!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

17 November 2009 (F - i have been with my husband for 6 years, and during this time he has lied about watching and using pornography. he has an addition to it, he has even watched porn at his work and lost his job and lost a lot of respect from friends and family. beca...

He watches porn all the time and it's doing my head in!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

17 November 2009 (F - My fella watches porn an I've explained to him how it makes me feel, it makes me feel like I'm no good in bed, and I'm wondering is he thinking of those women when we are having sex? I also explained to him that its getting me down. I dont feel the ...

I feel so betrayed... he's addicted to porn.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

16 November 2009 (F - Hi I was in a very abusive marriage for 12 years and had 3 children when i got divorced i never thought i'd find anyone who would meet up to my standards but i did, we decided to move in together after 3 years of dating and shortly after found out ...

Am I wasting my time in this relationship, will I ever be what he wants or does this not exsist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

15 November 2009 (F - hi, where do i start? i am currently in a relationship that is not going too well in the bedroom department. We have been together for just over 3 years now, not a great 3 years if im honest, i think this all comes down to him, at first our sex life ...

I need help to stop masturbating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

15 November 2009 (F - i am a 21 year old gal and i masturbate a lot. i know its wrong and i wish to stop. however i keep succumbing to temptation. i have a loving boyfriend and we have a decent sex life. i wish to limit myself only to him. and stop all with watching or ...

He would rather sit and watch porn than have sex with me any more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5357 days ago

14 November 2009 (F - hi there, Can anyone give me any advice? Is there something seriously wrong if my partner of 20 years doesnt want to have sex with me any more but would rather watch porn?...

Caught my husband chatting porn site..please I need your advice?

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14 November 2009 (F - Im a pregnant wife im 22,just having problem wtih my husband porn,even b4 i knew it but its ok i ignore but now i think its to much....now my husband is in georgia while me here in mississippi he'll be in gergia till dec 4 ,one time i open his ...

Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

12 November 2009 (F - Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online? My friends commented that it is disgusting for girls to do so but I have to confess that I always watch them and masturbate after that. Is it normal or am i a weirdo?...

Why does he prefer masturbation over a beautiful loving wife he says he loves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

12 November 2009 (F - I need some good professional or exact advice from a professioal or from someone that has gone through what I am going through! I have a no sex marriage, when I no sex I mean no sex, in any way, touch or any form at all whats so ever. My husband ...

My husband masturbated to porn while my 15 month old watched tv!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

11 November 2009 (F - I’m at a bit of a loss. I posted earlier about my husband’s obsessive use of porn as well as masturbating to pictures of his ex. Since that post he’s been caught two more times looking at porn. I haven’t seen anything more on his ex…but I could just ...

Hubby watches women live on their web cams and chats with them - is this cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

9 November 2009 (F - Hi everyone, I was hoping for a bit of advice on the subject of the boundries between porn, and cheating. I would especially appreciate a male perspective, although all answers are welcome. The problem is this. My husband, as like a lot o...

Whats wrong if a man can only reach orgasm through masturbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

8 November 2009 (F - Hello Aunts I have a question for a friend. She recently revealed to me that she is having sex problems with her husband. They have sex for hours but he won't cum. She thinks there is something wrong with her because he can masturbate while watching ...

Is porn to blame?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

8 November 2009 (F - hi im 22 and iv been married for 4 years and i love my husband and i do everything i do my hair, makeup and ect. you name it i do it. but in the end i dont feel that hes intrested in me he sais that hes tired and he only wants it once a week, and i ...

Should I leave my wife? She held my viewing of porn against me for years... now I find it on her laptop!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 November 2009 (M - Let me start from the beginning. I love my wife and in the beginning of our relationship everything was perfect until she found some porn in my computer the same day that we have had sex. I explained to her that it was nothing to worry about and ...

My husband checks out girls and watches porn online... I'm a little overweight could that be a factor?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

7 November 2009 (F - I think i have a huge problem, and i need some advice, i dont know if its me or my husband but it seems like i catch him every other day looking at internet porography, well it will be in the history, he says he loves me but i dont know we have been ...

I can't trust that my boyfriend doesn't fantasise about other girls, how do I stop worrying?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

6 November 2009 (F - Ok i need advice and help - especially from the males. I can't afford therapy! I've had a boyfriend for over a year now, and no matter HOW much i read, or WHAT i tell myself, i CANNOT get my head around the issue of porn and fantasizing abou...

How can I stop my addiction and stop these fantasies running through my mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

6 November 2009 (F - Hi everybody. I'm 16 year old and I have a pretty big problem. I never thought that I'd go through this but it has gone to this extent that I have to get external help. I am and have been addicted to pornography for about 5 months now. Ever since I ...

I hate that my boyfriend watches porn!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

6 November 2009 (F - I hate that my boyfriend watches porn. I gave him many pictures of me, and he himself has taken several pictures of us doing stuff. But he doesn't use them at all, he just uses regular big tit porn. I have small boobs, and I'm not as perfect as ...

I found a letter to a student and barely 18 porn in my fiance's closet!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

4 November 2009 (F - I have moved in and become engaged to a man who is a high school teacher at a small high school. Recently I was cleaning out a closet for my stuff and found a briefcase. I looked in a briefcase and found various porn and some paperwork. In the ...

Wife chooses porn over me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

4 November 2009 (M - Im 30 and my wife is 24. I found lots of porn in my wife's computer, this doesn't bother me or make mad. The problem is that I don't feel sexually satisfied at all. We have sex once a month with luck. Everytime I want have sex with her she is tired, ...

Raped by two men and troubled by porn

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

4 November 2009 (F - [Moderator note: some spelling errors corrected, paragraphs added for easier reading] So to start off my question I'd like to say that I was drugged and raped by two guys a couple of years back. But My question is that the last thing I remember...

What is so wrong about me and my body?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

3 November 2009 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years, we live together and he tells me we are going to be together, we've talked about marriage and tells me I'm beautiful, although I don't feel that way! I just found out that he has been lying ...

Why is porn regarded as such a bad thing in couples?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

2 November 2009 (F - i just have to ask peoples opinions on this, why is porn such a no-no when it comes to couples? my partner and i enjoy naughty weekends where we explore our kinkier side and watch and make our own porn (to be viewed by only us i stress!!) but i hea...

My husband lied to me about porn use.I am afraid this is the beginning of the end.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

2 November 2009 (F - I was out oftown for a couple of days and my husband found a porn magazine tha hadnt gotten shredded when we aed that it was t going to be a part of married life that we were embarking on year ago. I knew I should've shredded it when I found it a ...

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