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Pornography: Help and advice

How do I know if I'm bisexual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

31 July 2008 (F - Hey I'm a bit confused about my sexuality i mean I'm getting married in 5wks to the most fantastic bloke I could wish for but I fantasize about having sex with women when I watch porn it has to involve at least 2 women I've had 3 somes with women ...

I really need to understand what his fascination to 'let loose' all over me is all about!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

31 July 2008 (F - What is with the male fascination with porn and cumshots? I guess I don't understand the appeal of it. Maybe some of the guys can explain it. I can always tell when my b/f has been looking at porn because he will pull out during sex and let loos...

My girlfriend likes porn a lot. Is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

30 July 2008 (M - At first, I thought male are more likely get addicted in watching porn. The case now is my gf likes it a lot. She even asked me to watch with her. At first, I thought that is a way she tell me how she likes it. The more she get into porn, the m...

My boyfriend's watching of porn is beginning to annoy me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

30 July 2008 (F - iv been with my bf for 2 years nearly now, and from beginning he was watching porn, i didnt mind cos we were just starting, now its annoying and makes me feel he enjoys the pron more than me, iv tried talking to him but he just says im not getting ...

He loves pornography, if I start behaving in bed like a porn star, will he stop watching the pornography?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

29 July 2008 (F - I know my boyfriend loves me, but if I start acting like a porn star in bed and doing all the acts he enjoys watching in porn, will he begin to lose interest in porn and stop watching it altogether? I've lost weight and now I'm thin like the girls ...

Does he want to look at naked women and feels that I'm not allowing him to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

27 July 2008 (F - Does he want to look at naked women and feels that I'm not allowing him to? I've never told him he can't look at naked women, however, he knows I have body image issues and knows it makes me uncomfortable to see how many images of perfection are d...

I'll wake up and find out he's secretly looking at porn and masturbating, when earlier he refused to have sex with me, claiming he was tired!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

27 July 2008 (F - My boyfriend would rather jack off than have sex with me. We very rarely have sex! seriously it sucks. I will ask him to have sex and he will say hes too "tired", or ill even get on top of him and try to get things going and it wont work! then ill ...

My husband is addicted to porn and I'm fed up

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

27 July 2008 (F - My husband of 25 years has been using pornograpy off and on since we've been married and has always had problems keeping erections. Doctors have never found any physical problems. We've been to counseling and he says that he loves me but he just ...

If I watch other guys getting "pegged", am I gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

25 July 2008 (M - Pegging describes a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man's anus with a strap-on dildo. http://en.wikipedia.org /wiki/Pegging_(sexual_practice) Does enjoying pegging porn make me gay?I know practicing it doesn't really mean I'm ...

What's wrong with using porn for other reasons other than pleasure alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

24 July 2008 (M - What's wrong with using porn for as a solution for desensitizing the penis in order to practice for sex (especially for problems with PE)? Can it be used as a simulation for sex so that men can learn to handle certain situations better? If someone ...

I found out that my girlfriend likes lesbian porn. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

24 July 2008 (M - hi,i found that my girlfriend like lesbian porn.me too!well i asked her if she ever masturbated alone and watched lesbian porn?she said yes.but is shy about it.the other night i thought id treat her and told her to watch some lesbian porn.she likes ...

I fear confrontation about my boyfriend still liking guys will backfire! He does seem more normal though....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

23 July 2008 (F - My boyfriend was 4 years my junior,I'm 25 this year and we've dated for 3 and half years till now. Back then i already know he's a bi-sexual before we date but i just wanna try it out so we ended up till now. He was never a romantic guy and seldom ...

He broke his promise when he looked up swinging parties and porn again, how can I trust him in our future marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

22 July 2008 (F - Just over a year ago i found text messages on my fiance's phone. There were about 20 texts. The texts indicated arranging a meeting with another woman. The last of the texts sent said 'I wont tell, if you don't.' My fiance had never mentione...

I get turned on by porn. Am I normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

22 July 2008 (F - I get turned on by watching porn and reading kinky stories. I live with my boyfriend and we ahve a healthy sex life but I almost always have to fantasize about someone else or just being in a different environment to get turned on. At work, I go ...

If I watch gay porn and heterosexual porn, am I gay? How can I stop thinking about boys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

22 July 2008 (M - hi am i gay if i watch both kinds of porn or does it happen to any person and how can i stop im confused and is there anything ican do to stop thinking of boys thank you...

What is so appealing about the women in porn? And how can I feel better about myself?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

22 July 2008 (F - I know this is probably asked around a lot, but I just can't help but feel awful. I've checked out porn, and while yeah, some porn starts have downright UGLY faces, make squirrel like sounds (how can you guys get off to that pitch?) and most...

I'm attracted to lots of guys but I fantasize about women, am I bisexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

22 July 2008 (M - How can i tell if I'm bi? I'm not attracted to many girls but those who i am i have fantasies about and i look at female porn. I'm attracted to lots of guys but i don't have fantasies about men and i don't look at gay porn....

Is it me or the porn that keeps him going longer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

21 July 2008 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. We just graduated high school and I have lived with him for almost a year now. I spend every other weekend at my aunt's house and when I come home I find that he has spent most of the time ...

He cheated on me, and he pays for online sex shows. How can I trust my husband ever again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

21 July 2008 (F - I have trust issues with my husband, we've been together since 2003. Since we've been together i know his cheated on me at least once maybe twice. Also about a year ago i found out that he'd been going online and paying to chat to women while they ...

My boyfriend is great, but what do I do about his HUGE porn collection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

21 July 2008 (F - I am in need of some advice. I feel as if I'm running around aimlessly, within my own head, in search of an answer... My boyfriend of 10 years has (what I believe to be) a serious porn problem. Currently, his collection consists of a couple hundred ...

Should I be worried about his internet activity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5750 days ago

20 July 2008 (F - I've never been bothered by my boyfriend reading "lads mags", in fact I got him a subscription as a gift. These magazines are tame though, some topless pics but mostly about sport and cars. However, I have noticed a number of pics and videos on hi...

My husband seems to be addicted to Asian men in porn - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

18 July 2008 (F - I'm 28, and my husband's 32. In the past few weeks his lack of sex drive is killing our relationship. He'd also been spending excessive time on the computer. I only found out why after he'd left the computer screen on - he'd been looking at Asian...

Why are women expected to degrade themselves for men's pleasure, but not vice versa?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

18 July 2008 (F - I do not understand why it is almost expected of women to degrade themselves to please men when men won't do the same for us. Men's minds are so poisoned by the porn industry that they think it is NORMAL for women to take it in the ass and so on. I ...

Does he want me to regain the weight I lost, because he likes larger women, or what, he lost, and he looks good, he also watches skinny girls in porn, what goes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

17 July 2008 (F - I have lost weight and still in the process of losing. I'm feeling sexier and more confident and finally fitting back into my skinny jeans. I was telling me boyfriend the other night how much I have lost. He told me he'd rather that I gain some ...

Do women like watching porn? Can they get addicted?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

17 July 2008 (M - Do women be addicted to porn and how do they fill when watching all the dirty action?please I prefer answers from female readers only....

I uploaded sexy videos of my girlfriend's to the Internet, where do I stand legally now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

16 July 2008 (M - my girlfriend made some sexy vids for me and sent them 2 my email while i was working away , months later we split after i found out she was cheating and in the heat of the moment uploaded them to internet . she found out and has said she is going ...

Pornography Addiction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

16 July 2008 (F - A porn/masturbation question My bf and I have been together for a year now. I had no issues with porn until now. That's pretty much all he'll watch. If he's watching a show or movie and a commercial comes on he'll switch to the porn channel. He...

My husband doesn't want sex, but does watch porn!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

16 July 2008 (F - Well me and my husband have almost been married a year and I'm having problems with our sex life... There was a problem with porn before we got married and I made him promise that he wouldn't watch it after we got married, and of course he promised. ...

New to christianity..so is it wrong to masturbate to porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

14 July 2008 (M - Hi everyone, I have a simple question to ask. I'm new to Christianity and was wondering if it is wrong to masturbate or to watch porn? I want to know because I do both of these regularly and it has been eating me up inside and I don't have ...

I started to watch porn on the internet. I haven't been caught yet but I'm afraid I will.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

13 July 2008 (F - I am 13 and have recently began to have sexual feelings...i started to watch porn on the internet. I haven't been caught yet but i am afraid i will... How can i relive my sexual urge without being caught doing something embarrassing? I have tri...

Would he love me more if I was in a porn film?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

13 July 2008 (F - If your boyfriend watches Internet porn should you film an internet porn film of yourself? My boyfriend watches porn, even though he thinks I don't know it. He goes on the internet, and he consistently lies about going on the porn sites, even thou...

I've lost weight and dress sexier for him, yet he keeps watching porn. Was I right in scratching his collection so he can't see it??

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

12 July 2008 (F - My boyfriend and I had a disagreement a few months ago. It was about porn. I've tried to keep an open mind about it, but it torments the life out of me. I've tried to say "that's how men are, i shouldnt be so selfish" but it doesn't help. He ...

He looks at incest porn! What does it mean?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2711 days ago

12 July 2008 (F - I have recently discovered that my boyfriend of three years has been looking up incest porn, specifically the mother/son type. Needless to say I was quite freaked out by this and have confronted him about it. He said that it isn't what turns hi...

I'm worried about what my fiancee will think of me once I have a 'baby body'.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

10 July 2008 (F - I was reading a post that got me thinking...My fiance uses porn and at the moment Im ok with it....but when we get married and have kids I think my feelings may change...I mean Im ok with him watching porn because I now my body looks pretty much ...

I really enjoy gay porn but also have feelings for girls...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

9 July 2008 (M - i watch gay porn. i really enjoy it but feel bad about it and scared. but i also feel feelings for girls and feeling them! what do i do? am i really gay? or bi ?...

What can I do about my husband's porn habit? It's getting excessive..

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

7 July 2008 (F - Every time I come into the office, my husband is frantically closing windows on the computer. I was wondering about this because he accidentally left a bunch of porn site passwords on the screen one day. I asked him about it and he got somewhat ...

He's addicted to porn but he's perfect in every other way. I don't know what to do.

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

6 July 2008 (F - I'm pretty depressed right now. I've been with my 42 year old boyfriend for 3.5 years. I am 40. At the start of our relationship he was upfront about his porno tapes. About 6 months later when feelings started developing I became insecure with ...

Can watching pornography, while masturbating, affect your sex life in a negative way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

6 July 2008 (M - Ok so Im 15, and ive been watching porn and masturbating since the 5th grade, and was a virgin until this day. I finally found a girl who really likes me, so we go to an area and fool around. I was hard while during the foreplay, but when she began ...

My partner of 9 years has been secretive and dishonest!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

1 July 2008 (F - I have just found out that my partner of 9 years has been lying to me. He has been looking at porn on his mobile and getting off on it. Now that isn't the problem its the lying and the secrecy and the fact it has escalated to him using text ...

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