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writes:I have been watching porn sine 6 years and when i am trying to come out of it i am not able to do so. Every time i think of not watching it , but again i watch it. really i terribly feel bad.Need your help badly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): Nope babes, not obsessive, but my mother taught me manners. Since you are talking to me, it would be very rude not to respond.. Yes anyone can make up a name, anyone can get themselves registered. What's your problem, is the registration process at Dear Cupid to hard for you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): What you moaning about BULLY GIRLS. Anybody can make up a name. 'Mediumladyboy' that's my name.
Porn is bad for relationships because it treats women as less than human.
Diovan Lestat you answer a question 6 times because you have to respond to everyone that opposes your answer.
It's laughable because it shows you are clearly obsessive when it comes to porn. Not healthy
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reader, BigSis  +, writes (23 October 2008):
 EXACTLY! Well 'said' Mamma.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): We all have our own preferences. Some enjoy porn others don't. Those who are addicted, if you want to quit and can't do it on your own...get help.
Insulting each other on a site like this is bad taste and to the male anonymous writer, maybe you shoud prevent from "clogging up the airwaves" in future, "to behave with dignity is nothing more than to allow others freely to be themselves".(qouted from Sol Chaneles).
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reader, BigSis +, writes (23 October 2008):
Is it illegal? Is it a sin? Is it giving you pleasure or pain?
I'm not addicted, I'm also not afraid, nor ashamed to openly admit that I like watching it too.
So there, does that make me one of 'the minority' too? So what's all the hoo-ha here? What's the real problem? Nobody died did they?
Too many do-gooders around - me thinks!
BigSis
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ps... D'Lestat is100% woman...
....I can vouch for that, Mr He-She-it Anon, who is too afraid to reveal who they really are!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): No point babes, we are two peas in a pod...
Dear Mr question asker, I really wish you would come back and answer the questions I posed. More information is needed, as I suggested, cause as "Fabian" has said, inspiration may be needed for you give up and find something more useful to do with your time. Please update your post real soon...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): Thank you fade for your kind words, I know that you have no love for pornography and find the whole industry very exploitative. But with you, I can have a conversation, and yes, you are causing me to think again, about some things you have said. Discussion and conversation always works best, as I have said before. I just want a fair compromise on this whole subject, and I feel that with people like you, together on DC we might just achieve something like that....
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): "How do we know you're not a man Diovan Lestat?"..
why don't your register instead of going anonymous? Who has more to hide, you or me? People know who I am, but who in the hell are you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): "Why not answer the question instead of posting numerous long missives" Male anonymous reader, 22nd October 2008
Mr anonymous, I've got a private mail box, where you can insult me at your leisure. If you could read, you would have noticed that unlike you, I can't give any information to this young guy, until he gives me more details about his own personal situation. No missives have been included at all....lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): How do we know you're not a man Diovan Lestat, you certainly have male tendancies.
We all know porn is bad and folks like you are in a minority. Yes you stick together and it makes you look like the majority, and perhaps you are on this website.
Why not answer the question instead of posting numerous long missives, that clog up the air waves and smack of desperation.
Dear poster
You need get professional help it's as simple as that, you have developed an addiction.
Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): Hi Ms anonymous, 13th October
I've found you again, so sorry that your anti-porn website closed down and now you have to hang out here with us. Actually this guy can't listen to me, cause I haven't told him anything. I've actually just asked him a couple of questions. Now I know you definitely have an agenda and a standard answer to each and every question, your begin to repeat yourself a little too often for me. Please note this is a relationship and advice website, it is not a place for people like you to find new recruits for your anti-pornography cause....
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (14 October 2008):
as for the abused girls comment from someone, you do realise that most of those girls and guys do it because it pays them aload of money. anyway if a guy wants to watch porn then why shouldn't he? men are visual unlike us ladies, they need to see something for them to get off to. it's not hurting anyone if they are doing it in the privacy of their own home. as long as it does not take over their lives.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (13 October 2008):
i don't see that as a problem. but if it is over taking your life then you need to maybe find another interest. take up a hobby or something. or when u feel abit horny do something else to take your mind off it. watching porn in moderation won't hurt you, if you like it then there is no problem. just make sure you're not spending all your time watching it though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008): its understandable that you would want to stop this disrespectful (to women and yourself) behaviour.....well done....dont listen to people like uncle phil and diovan, its a wonder they havenet got shares in the porn industry , helping to scout out abused girls for filming, the way they promote it......
My advise to you is find a counselor, one who has a good understanding of sexual addictions, the destructiveness of porn and how to treat ourselves and others with respect...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): Why do you terribly feel bad? Personally, I don't think there's anything to feel bad about. It's just entertainment, a pastime, like other hobbies.
Women read romantic novels where their imagination is used, men are less imaginitive and need it spelled out for them and porn does that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): Why do you want to stop. Are you watching too much porn? Are you neglecting other hobbies and interests? Would you rather watch porn than go out with friends? How much porn do you watch? Do you spend money on porn? Is watching porn against your religion? Has somebody suggested you give up porn? Do you find yourself have strange thoughts and disrespectful attitudes towards women? To help you stop, I would like to know why you want to stop first, and why you think it harms your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): hey i know its hard i been there but there are lot of ways to stop watching porn. you should find a girlfriend that when you get the real thing you wont want wath porn or find a hobby like working out or basketball etc keep ur mind occupied
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reader, fabian_rap_more  +, writes (10 October 2008):
Porn is an addiction like smoking. You need an inspiration to quit but if you don't have one then:
* Install parental filters in your browser
* Delete your porn collection
* Don't think of anything sexy during the day
* Don't allow yourself to watch porn. I know its hard but once the first few days are over it becomes easier.
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