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How do I get a fair chance with a guy who just wants to keep things cool for a while?
Q. I just met a guy and we are getting along amazingly well. We jumped into the physical side of things pretty quickly which is unusual for both of us, but we are both very excited about getting to know each other better. I'm looking for a serious ...
A. 23 September 2006: To ask for a serious relationship would be a bit too quick as you have only started dating him,it only scares guys off,saying that he seems happy to have sex with you but nothing else,does he want to get to know you?...or just use you as a sex ... (read in full...)
I have high anxiety and really worry when not in contact with my boyfriend and dont know how to deal with these panic attacks!!
Q. hi everyone Right, now this is going to sound mad but I have no one else i can ask so im coming here to my virtual friends. My bf and i are getting on great. We have been together a few months now although we were 'friendly' for a while befo...
A. 21 September 2006: What you are suffering from is not that unusual as panic attacks are caused by many phobias and fears that simply just get out of hand.You say that you are not worried about him cheating on you,so do you panic because if he isn't answering his phone ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know of a sex shop nr Mill Hill ?
Q. Is there a sex toy shop, suitable for a 75 years old widow, near mill hill, london?...
A. 19 September 2006: There isn't any sex shops in Mill Hill im afraid.You would be better off looking at sex catalogues,but as you are based in north london you could always pop on the tube to the west end,there is loads there.... (read in full...)
How long should I wait for his call?
Q. I met a guy through a friend friday night. He lives in my building, and last night I saw him and gave him my number. How long should I wait for his call before i talk to him again? I've always been the askee not the asker so this is a new situation ...
A. 11 September 2006: I would give it a week max....then if he still hasn't called then go ahead and call him,if he dithers and starts making excuses then you will know your answer.... (read in full...)
I have lost interest in her because of her breasts!
Q. My gf and i have been in a relationship for over 3 months. I am begining to loose interest in her becasue she has very small breasts. This sounds really immature but I can't help but feel it. I really like her and she has the best personality and ...
A. 9 September 2006: You are a very,shallow young man and i hope one day that you dont get dumped because your girlfriend thought you had a small dick.So if your mate said to you.."Go and jump of a cliff"..you would do that because he said so? There is more to a woman ... (read in full...)
Been having an affair for the past 5 years, he says he loves me but he won't leave his wife!
Q. I am 28 and been involved with a married man for the past 5 years. I love him to bits. He won't leave his wife but he says he loves me! What should i do? ...
A. 8 September 2006: Statiscally,if a married man is having a affair and he hasn't left his wife after 6 months then chances are he probably wont.You have been his mistress for 5 years and i can bet your bottom dollar that he is having sex with his wife as well.Your his ... (read in full...)
Sex in the shower... Any tips ?
Q. I've heard making love in the shower is a very romantic thing to do. I've tried it with my boyfriend and I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but I don't find it enjoying. I don't like the idea of water in my eye and we can never get into a position ...
A. 6 September 2006: Im gonna take a cold shower before i get too lathered up with these posts.... (read in full...)
Too much air in my vagina!
Q. when my husband and have sex he complains about me having too much air in my vagina, i can feel it as well. how do i fix this dilemma? ...
A. 5 September 2006: As long as the air is not coming from the arse then i dont know wot his problem is?... (read in full...)
Im being forced to choose.................. My girl or the bike!! Help I love both!
Q. My girlfriend says that i love my bike more than her, trouble is, i think shes right!? We've been together about 2 years now, we were fine to begin with, but when i got my new bike (HARLEY-DAVIDSON DYNA GLIDE FXDCI) last year i feel that i want...
A. 5 September 2006: I would choose the bike..why?.. because it cant answer you back,it will give you a good time when you ride her and you probably wont have to spend much money on it.As for your long suffering girlfriend,i would just let her go...otherwise there is 3 ... (read in full...)
Should I trust the man who had an affair with me?
Q. After having an affair with a married man for three and a half years, am I a fool for trusting his word on anything? I have just found e-mail correspondence from him to another young woman which seems perfectly innocent, but is this man incapabale ...
A. 5 September 2006: Married men have to be very good liars because to having a mistress,they need to have a good memory otherwise their lies get found out,saying that,there is a lot of them that do get caught out.You said he spoke of undying love for you,yet he didn't ... (read in full...)
They both want to marry me, but dont know who I love!! I have to choose by the end of the year!!
Q. I'm very confused...something weird is happeneing to me. I have always been a highly ethical girl and somehow I'm rite now in a dillema about choosing one guy among two people who love me. One of them is someone i have been going out for the past 3 ...
A. 5 September 2006: From what i can make of it,your 1st boyfriend abandoned you and left you to get on with it..so you were sad and lonely which was understandable but you went on to meet your 2nd boyfriend who has made you happy and contented.Well if that was me,i ... (read in full...)
Finding it hard being friends with my Ex, dont know if its worse to be friends or not to talk anymore ?
Q. This past weekend I spent more time with my ex boyfriend. At one point I became upset and told him that I thought that we shouldn't be friends anymore and he responded with you don't mean that. He became nervous at the fact that I was thinking ...
A. 5 September 2006: Did you become upset because you really wanted to be more then friends but your ex didn't?..Who ended it 1st? I get the impression that he finished with you but said that you two could still remain friends,but you are finding it difficult?...If ... (read in full...)
My married guy and I are so in love...and I want him all to myself. But how can we do that without hurting others?
Q. I have been seeing a married guy for 10mths now I am 24 and he is 40 and its really intense we spend 2 or so hours talking on the phone every night and see one another at work everyday, we spend a few hours after work with one another and every ...
A. 2 September 2006: For a man to leave his domestic set-up, a woman has to offer much more then what he is getting at home.I dare say,he is still having sex with his wife although he wont tell you this.It might be love on your part but i think its probably lust on ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend and texts me for quickies...
Q. This guy is confusing me. He has a girlfriend but he is texin me tellin me he misses. The thing is we hav history he used to call me everyday, nothing happened we didnt even go out,he tells me that hes with this new girl and its the type he wants to ...
A. 1 September 2006: This fella is taking you for a mug...he has the cheek to txt you for quick,meaningless sex then once he has used you he will then go back to his serious girlfriend,give over! this guy is a 1st class creep.He doesn't want you at all,all he wants is a ... (read in full...)
he wants to make it work with me but keeps calling this other woman! What should I do?
Q. After seven years together, we decided to take time apart this summer- and to NOT see other people but think about US. I found out he was having sex with a 44 year old woman with two kids in July. I was sad for a few weeks, but then I started to ...
A. 30 August 2006: Loose him....he is playing around,forget about proof with bank statements,the fact that you heard his telephone conversation and voice mail proves that he is seeing another woman.Ditch him.... (read in full...)
What a mess... what do i do. Give up? (long)
Q. YES IT IS LONG BUT I SO NEED HELP FROM AS MANY AS POSSIBLE. PLEASE PLEASE YOU SMART ONES READ THINK AND HELP ME DO THE RIGHT THING i was with my gf for three and half years, lived together for a lot of it and we had a baby eight months ago. We...
A. 30 August 2006: As it occured to you that she might be suffering from post natal depression? She has just had a baby,she has been having relationship problems,she suffers from thyroid and has debts up to her eyeballs but i shake hands with you because i know it ... (read in full...)
I'm cheating on my boyfriend but don't want to throw my relationship away!
Q. i been going out with a guy for four years and im faling out of love i dont want to throw something away for nothing but i am willing to sacrifise.,im messing around with a guy from work who i do like alot.But not sure if he feels the same way about ...
A. 29 August 2006: Dont you think you should be honest with your boyfriend and finish with him,before you embark on another relationship? You say you dont love him so why are you still with him?...is it out of habit? If you really want to spread your wings then end it ... (read in full...)
She is saying that I am 'controlling her' because I want to spend more time with her. What should I do?
Q. hi there i'm really stuck on what i should do. i have been going out with this girl for a year and a half but for the last 2-3 months she only wants to see me once or twice a week and when i suggest that we should spend more time together she sta...
A. 27 August 2006: The impression im getting is she is not that into you.You have been together for over a year but the relationship hasn't progressed like you have wanted it to.You obviously have more feelings for her but she is craving distance....why? you might ... (read in full...)
My overprotectiveness is driving my wife away!
Q. Dear Cupid I have been married to my wife for 9 years and been together since high school (we are now 31)and have two young kids. 2 months ago we had a fight because she went drinking at a friends house (and didnt come home). I took off and sl...
A. 7 August 2006: You are losing your temper because you are losing control.Your wife is feeling low and you want her to prop you up but she cant because it would never be enough...you will always want that bit more.Please go to your doctor and get help now...before ... (read in full...)
My overprotectiveness is driving my wife away!
Q. Dear Cupid I have been married to my wife for 9 years and been together since high school (we are now 31)and have two young kids. 2 months ago we had a fight because she went drinking at a friends house (and didnt come home). I took off and sl...
A. 6 August 2006: It sounds to me like you are scared of losing her to another man,or that you dont really trust her when she is out on her own.Why dont you like being on your own?...is it because you would miss her or that you are bored?..I could be wrong but you ... (read in full...)
Any body got any help on erectile dysfunction without the use of drugs ?
Q. I am in a loving relationship we are both over the 65 mark and in good health. Both want full sex but I am unable to perform, Typical erectile dysfunction I think.Don't want drugs if possible. Any known cures please....
A. 4 August 2006: Lack of sexual desire with your partner can reduce your ability to maintain a erection....alse anxiety and stress will dampen your sex life as well...drugs usually are the answer for some men but if you really are against medication then perhaps sex ... (read in full...)
Do women prefer a hairy chest or shaved chest?
Q. what do women prefer, a hairy chest or a shaved chest?...
A. 3 August 2006: I love men with hairy chests...ooh! the thought of it drives me crazy with lust.... (read in full...)
I've had affairs, I've not been a great husband (but I am trying), and I've been a cross-dresser... But I can't get the image of my wife's affair in 1969 out of my head!
Q. in 1969 my wife had a relationship with a close friend it lasted only about two weeks and they had sex twice, she realised she had made a terrible mistake and finished it although my friend continued coming round to the house , often at my ...
A. 1 August 2006: By not keep harping on about the past.Life is short enough without this kind of upset.This affair happened a very long time ago,so why are you bringing it up again? From what you said,you were no angel yourself....Dont you think you should enjoy ... (read in full...)
How the devil do I get him to notice me? Should I go in guns blazing?
Q. What can I do to get a mans attention? Need sure fire ways to get the man I fancy to notice me, pretty sure he likes me too, have spoken to him on occasion but he just won't make a move, he is def single! Men - what do you like women to do? Is it ...
A. 1 August 2006: I agree with Shelleyscott,you need plenty of eye contact with him.A fella will definately know that you are interested with him if you stare at him and once he looks,you give him your lovely smile.Then if you got enough confidence you can ask him ... (read in full...)
His wandering eyes beat up my self-esteem but he denies doing it
Q. My partner has a sneaky way of ogling women. I have tried lots of approaches to get him to a) admit it and b) stop it. When he is ogling I smile knowingly looking closely at him or obviously stare where he is staring, even though I'm cringing inside ...
A. 31 July 2006: While there is nothing wrong in a man glancing or appreciating a woman's attractiveness,its down right rude and disrespectful if his tongue is trailing on the floor and practically leeching over her while you just stand there and watch with ... (read in full...)
Whats going on in here head, why did she just drop all contact ?
Q. Ok, was going out with this girl for three months and all was going great I had totally fallen for her and I actually felt that she was the one, but then two weeks ago out of the blue she didn't respond to my messages (which she had always done like ...
A. 31 July 2006: It sounds to me that she doesn't want to know.In this day and age it doesn't take a whole day or a life time to either email...text ..phone or write a letter to the person who's waiting for contact.Yes,she might be busy but come on....if she was ... (read in full...)
One minute shes flirting, then she pulls away, Im not sure what to do anymore but I really really like her!
Q. This is a pretty complicated relationship problem that has been bugging me for the past 2 years or so. There is a bunch of background details, so bear with me. I'm 17, a guy, and I just can't get over my ex. She lives in a city next to mine, and ...
A. 31 July 2006: She sounds like hard work to me.I presume she is your age so i cannot understand why her parents would still be wrapping her up in cotton wool when they allow her to go on the internet and speak to you and anybody else for that matter.Saying that if ... (read in full...)
Im in love with a married man, I know hes unhappy with his wife, but people are telling me to stay away!!
Q. I'm in love with a married man. I've had so many ppl tell me to stay away from him..that he will never leave his wife. But he is so unhappy with her. He only married her because he thought that was what was right for their child. They do NOT love ...
A. 30 July 2006: Im sorry but the excuses he is giving you have all been told before by countless married men,spinning the same old yarn to their mistresses.If married life was that intolerable,then he would leave his wife and be with you because he loves you...full ... (read in full...)
We broke up 2 months ago, he said he could never look at anyone as his gf, but hes got someone new, how can I deal with this!!!
Q. Hi Ppl. Myself and my ex bf broke up on the 9th of june which is almost two months ago now and I still have not got over him. We were together for almost a year and were engaged (he proposed. Now we have broken up and his friend introduced him to ...
A. 28 July 2006: Please dont make yourself ill over this guy,he simply isn't worth it.What you are experiencing is a kind of bereavement,its just like grief,i know your heart has been ripped open and i bet you feel that no other man will do...but in time you will ... (read in full...)
I said yes to sex, but now im not sure, should I go on the pill anyway ?
Q. This boy i know(i no another question about a guy but...)sed he really wanted to have sex with me and i really like him so i sed yes but now he ses hes going to ask this other girl out...the thing is hes a bit of a playa and i dont think it will ...
A. 26 July 2006: Hello?...you dont want him to feel pressured?...Are you sure its not the other way round?..This guy wants sex and once he has done that he will dump you like a red hot brick....i guarantee it.Now he is going to ask another poor victim out,is that ... (read in full...)
His penis was erect but not hard, does this mean he doesnt really fancy me ?
Q. I recently found out that a friend of mine wants to be with me! So i went back to his place and we talked and we ended up in bed togther but he is 40 and i am 23 and when we were going to have intercourse his penis we still very soft even though it ...
A. 26 July 2006: If he was soft then he couldn't of been that erected,saying that if he wasn't fully turned on then he wont get a sufficient erection...was the sex hurried up?...It could of being nerves but i think what you should is take your time and learn how you ... (read in full...)
Shes suddenly belittling me and saying she feels used after sex ? not sure what her moods are about ?
Q. Last night my girlfriend seemed a bit strange. She was perfectly fine when I first saw her and she seemed her normal self but looked a bit moody. As the night went on she went all tired and i could see the look on her face was a bit moody etc. She ...
A. 26 July 2006: It seems like this relationship is going down the pan,she also sounds immature and babyish when she talks about her brother's being stronger then you etc....so what!!!...If she isn't satisfied with the sex life you are offering then really its down ... (read in full...)
What should I do about the guy at work I like?
Q. I just started a new job 4 months ago,and I really like this guy from work from the moment I've seen him.I got a feeling that he likes me too,but I have two problems about this..1.there is 10years age gap between us,and maybe that will be a problem ...
A. 23 July 2006: Well is there any chance you could bump into him,when he is alone?...When you see him leave his desk or when he is about to go home?...There is ways round it if you plan this carefully.When you get the chance just chat to him and drop subtle hint ... (read in full...)
How do we end our email affair?
Q. Well I've been having an e-mail affair for a few months with a close person in my life you could say he is related to me the problem is I don't want to screw up our lives we both have familys the thing is I know we both love each other but what can ...
A. 22 July 2006: End it now before someone gets hurt...this will end in tears otherwise.If you have just done flirting by email and nothing else and i mean not sleeping with him then you have a very good chance of saving your marriage,i take it he is your brother in ... (read in full...)
What should I do about the guy at work I like?
Q. I just started a new job 4 months ago,and I really like this guy from work from the moment I've seen him.I got a feeling that he likes me too,but I have two problems about this..1.there is 10years age gap between us,and maybe that will be a problem ...
A. 22 July 2006: I wouldn't worry too much about the 10 year age gap...its not that wide,if you like him and he seems to like you then why dont you just ask him out for lunch,or go for a coffee as work friends? If he says no then its obvious he isn't interested,it ... (read in full...)
Dear Shania
Q. Dear Shania, I want ur advise, i have met through from a fantastic young lady who i have fallen deeply in love with, she is beautiful, intelligent, elegant and sophisticated. i know she is married with 2 wonderful children and she loves her fami...
A. 20 July 2006: Are you sure you are not in love with a fantasy?...You haven't met this lady so unless you were having a proper relationship it would be a bit too soon to confess your love for her.You say she is married so that makes it more complicated? and what ... (read in full...)
Hes behaving oddly about me moving in with him, and keeps changing the timeframe!!
Q. I have been in a relationship for 4years, my boyfriend moved into his own property March this year. initially the plan was for me to move in after 6 months to allow hima chance to be independant. This apparent need for independance has not occurred ...
A. 20 July 2006: If you were in this relationship for 5 mins then yes it would of being too soon to move in...but you have been with this guy for 4 years...i would say that was long enough,it does seem like he is getting cold feet and is not too keen on you moving ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: Sorry about that...my pc is playing up again.... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: It depends on what he is doing when he is around you.A guy can look at you for a long time because he finds you attractive...it wouldn't mean that he is in love with you.Saying that....action speaks louder then words so if he shows you consideration ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: It depends on what he is doing when he is around you.A guy can look at you for a long time because he finds you attractive...it wouldn't mean that he is in love with you.Saying that....action speaks louder then words so if he shows you consideration ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: It depends on what he is doing when he is around you.A guy can look at you for a long time because he finds you attractive...it wouldn't mean that he is in love with you.Saying that....action speaks louder then words so if he shows you consideration ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: It depends on what he is doing when he is around you.A guy can look at you for a long time because he finds you attractive...it wouldn't mean that he is in love with you.Saying that....action speaks louder then words so if he shows you consideration ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: It depends on what he is doing when he is around you.A guy can look at you for a long time because he finds you attractive...it wouldn't mean that he is in love with you.Saying that....action speaks louder then words so if he shows you consideration ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: It depends on what he is doing when he is around you.A guy can look at you for a long time because he finds you attractive...it wouldn't mean that he is in love with you.Saying that....action speaks louder then words so if he shows you consideration ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: It depends on what he is doing when he is around you.A guy can look at you for a long time because he finds you attractive...it wouldn't mean that he is in love with you.Saying that....action speaks louder then words so if he shows you consideration ... (read in full...)
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